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• Healing, Identity & the Questions I'm Asking Myself Now 03.06.2026 24мин

  Last week, Kelley shared that she had entered a season of thawing—a period of finally feeling safe enough to stop bracing for impact. This week, she returns with an unexpected discovery: healing hasn't brought certainty. Instead, it has brought questions.Drawing inspiration from Zora Neale Hurston's reminder that "there are years that ask questions and years that answer," Kelley reflects on the deeper inquiries emerging in this season of her life. From reconsidering what she truly needs to thrive to redefining what she wants to be proud of, she explores the difference between performing healing and integrating it. Through personal stories, field notes, and honest observations, this episode offers a glimpse into what happens when you stop chasing answers and start listening to yourself.KEY TAKEAWAYSHealing isn't always about finding answers—it can be about learning to ask better questions.Thriving requires honoring what you actually need, not what you've been taught should make you happy or successful.Integration matters more than performance. Becoming whole is different from appearing healed.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS & TIMESTAMPS04:56 – The Paris Question That Changed EverythingKelley shares the moment she realized that authenticity, creativity, and passion mattered more to her than the dream she had spent years pursuing.12:42 – What Do You Want to Be Proud Of?A reflection on moving beyond external achievement and redefining success based on the quality of your life, not just what you produce.20:31 – What People Think of Me Is None of My BusinessKelley unpacks one of her most important field notes from this season and explores the freedom that comes from releasing the burden of others' opinions.31:47 – Becoming Reachable to Yourself AgainA powerful closing reflection on thawing, healing, and the realization that growth may not be about becoming someone new—but returning to yourself.A GENTLE INVITATIONThis week, choose one question instead of searching for one answer.Ask yourself: What do I actually need to thrive right now?Resist the urge to solve everything at once. Write down whatever comes up, even if it's incomplete. Sometimes healing isn't found in certainty. Sometimes it's found in creating enough space to hear yourself tell the truth.If this episode resonated with you, consider sharing it with someone who may be navigating their own season of questions. You don't have to have everything figured out to keep moving forward. Sometimes curiosity is enough.SUPPORT THE SHOWLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.STAY IN TOUCHJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($8/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.OUR SPONSORSSuper.com: Visit Super.com for more details.Sista Afya Community Care: www.sistaafya.comAdvertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• You Don’t Have to Wait for the Crash-Out: Community Care & Black Women’s Mental Health 29.05.2026 28мин

  In this Mental Health Month bonus episode, Kelley sits down with Ashlee Edwards, founder and CEO of MindRight, to discuss community-centered mental health support for Black women. Together, they explore why healing shouldn’t begin only in crisis, how community care helps protect our capacity for joy, and what it looks like to build more human-centered systems of support through technology, intention, and connection.Key TakeawaysMental health support should begin before burnout or crisis, not only after things fall apart.Community care is a powerful tool for healing, resilience, and protecting Black women from systems that demand overextension.Technology can support emotional wellness when it is used to deepen human connection rather than replace it.Episode Highlights & Timestamps00:01 – Why Black women deserve support before the “crash-out”Kelley and Ashlee discuss shifting mental health care from crisis intervention to everyday support and community care.05:20 – Protecting our capacity for joyAshlee shares why conversations about mental health must include intergenerational wisdom, joy, and abundance—not just trauma.11:17 – Can technology support healing without replacing humanity?A nuanced conversation about AI, trust, emotional support, and why MindRight prioritizes real humans on the other side of the screen.23:00 – What joy looks like in practiceAshlee reflects on spirituality, nature, intentional living, and the decisions she makes to actively protect her wellbeing.Gentle InvitationThis week, consider one small way you can support your emotional wellbeing before you reach exhaustion. Maybe that looks like asking for support, spending time near something that grounds you, or letting yourself receive care instead of always being the one giving it. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s consistency and remembering that staying human is the work.Connect with Ashlee EdwardsInstagram: @IYA_AshleeMindRight Website: MindRightText MindRight for support: Text 886-886Learn more about MindRight’s community-centered emotional support platform for Black communities and Black women.Support the ShowLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($8/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.Our SponsorsSuper.com: Visit Super.com for more details.Savvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• You Cannot Optimize Your Way Out of Grief 27.05.2026 26мин

  Sometimes grief doesn’t look like falling apart — sometimes it looks like becoming incredibly productive. In this episode, Kelley reflects on the realization that she had been producing healing instead of actually experiencing it, and how years of survival mode, caregiving, medical trauma, and loss shaped her relationship to grief. Through personal storytelling and thoughtful reflection, she explores how Black women are often culturally rewarded for over-functioning while quietly disconnecting from themselves emotionally.This conversation is an invitation to recognize the difference between narrating healing and truly inhabiting it. Kelley also introduces the idea of “the thaw” — the slow process of returning to yourself after prolonged survival mode — and shares why softness, embodiment, and emotional honesty matter now more than ever.KEY TAKEAWAYSGrief doesn’t always look emotional — sometimes it looks like productivity, over-functioning, and survival mode.Many Black women are taught to intellectualize pain and keep moving instead of fully feeling and processing loss.Healing may begin not with becoming “better,” but with becoming reachable to yourself again.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS & TIMESTAMPS00:01:00 — When Productivity Becomes a Mask for GriefKelley explores the realization that she had been “producing healing” instead of fully experiencing it and reflects on the pressure to turn pain into purpose too quickly.00:05:00 — The Three Books That Cracked Everything OpenA conversation about art, grief, emotional release, and the moment Kelley realized how long it had been since she truly allowed herself to feel.00:11:20 — Survival Mode, Trauma, and the Black Woman Freeze ResponseKelley shares the cascade of events from the last several years — illness, caregiving, business instability, and loss — and how prolonged survival mode can disconnect us from ourselves emotionally.00:19:00 — What “The Thaw” Looks LikeKelley introduces the beginning of her thawing process: slowing down, reconnecting to her body, and learning how to return to herself gently after years of bracing for impact.A GENTLE INVITATIONTake a moment this week to ask yourself:Where have I been over-functioning instead of truly feeling?Maybe your nervous system has been protecting you. Maybe the numbness isn’t failure — maybe it’s survival. Give yourself permission to slow down long enough to notice what your body, heart, or spirit might be trying to say.And if this episode resonated with you, share it with another Black woman who may need the reminder that healing doesn’t have to be optimized to be real.SUPPORT THE SHOWLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.STAY IN TOUCHJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($8/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.OUR SPONSORSSuper.com: Visit Super.com for more details.Savvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• The Life You Worked For Might Be Exhausting You W/ Zerlina Maxwell 20.05.2026 49мин

  In this episode, Kelley is joined by political analyst, writer, and speaker Zerlina Maxwell for a powerful conversation about visibility, truth-telling, and navigating the pressure of being a Black woman in public spaces. Together, they explore the emotional toll of constantly having to prove yourself, the importance of boundaries, and what it means to remain grounded while living and working in highly demanding environments.Zerlina shares reflections on ambition, identity, and protecting your peace while still pursuing meaningful work. This conversation is an honest reminder that you do not have to abandon yourself in order to be impactful, successful, or seen.Key TakeawaysVisibility comes with emotional weight. Being seen and heard—especially as a Black woman—often carries pressure, scrutiny, and exhaustion that require intentional care.Boundaries protect your humanity. Rest, limits, and stepping back are necessary practices for sustainability, not signs of weakness.You can pursue impact without self-abandonment. Success and meaningful work do not have to come at the expense of your well-being.Episode Highlights03:08 – Navigating Public Life as a Black WomanZerlina reflects on the challenges of visibility, criticism, and existing authentically in high-pressure spaces.07:42 – The Pressure to Constantly Prove YourselfA deeper discussion about overperformance, perfectionism, and the emotional labor many Black women carry in professional environments.14:19 – Protecting Your Peace With BoundariesKelley and Zerlina explore the importance of rest, emotional boundaries, and creating sustainable rhythms while doing impactful work.21:37 – Redefining Success Beyond ExhaustionA closing reflection on choosing fulfillment, alignment, and self-preservation over constant striving and burnout.A Gentle InvitationIf this episode resonated, take a moment to reflect on where you may be overextending yourself in order to feel worthy, successful, or accepted. Consider one boundary or act of self-preservation that could support you this week.Listen to the full episode, share it with someone navigating pressure or visibility fatigue, and leave a review if this conversation supported you. Choosing yourself alongside your ambitions is part of building a life rooted in sustainability, care, and truth.Connect with ZerlinaRadio Show: Mornings with Zerlina MaxwellInstagram: @ZerlinaMaxwellSubstack: Inner Work Dispatch (available wherever books are sold)Support the ShowLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($8/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.Our SponsorsSavvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Breath, Mindfulness, and Black Joy with Oneika Mays 12.05.2026 49мин

  In this grounding conversation, Kelley and Onieka Mays explore how breathwork, mindfulness, and intentional pauses can help Black women reconnect with themselves and reclaim joy. This episode is a gentle reminder that rest, presence, and softness are not luxuries—they are necessary practices for healing and sustainable well-being. Our Sponsors: * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• You’re Not Stuck, You’re Missing the Right Rooms 06.05.2026 23мин

  Feeling stuck might not be about you—it might be about where you are. In this episode, Kelley explores how your environment, community, and proximity shape your growth—and how getting in the right rooms can unlock new possibilities with more ease and alignment. Our Sponsors: * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• You’re Not Bad With Money—You’re Carrying Old Stories 04.05.2026 38мин

  In this episode, Kelley sits down with Ruchi Pinniger to unpack the emotional roots of financial avoidance. Together, they explore how childhood beliefs, shame, and subconscious patterns shape our relationship with money—and why high-achieving women often feel stuck despite earning well. Ruchi introduces practical tools like the RIR Method™(Recognize, Interrupt, Reframe™) method and a prosperity framework that centers on wellbeing, spirituality, and aligned relationships. This conversation invites you to move out of financial fog and into clarity, choice, and ease—without burnout.Key TakeawaysMoney isn’t just math—it’s memory, emotion, and inherited belief systems.Financial avoidance is often rooted in shame, not lack of intelligence or capability.Small, consistent actions (like 15-minute money check-ins) can dissolve financial fog.True prosperity includes wellbeing, relationships, and mindset—not just income.Episode Highlights & Timestamps00:02:00 — Ruchi’s turning point: learning how money feels vs. how it works00:04:00 — How childhood beliefs shape financial avoidance and burnout patterns00:12:00 — The “financial fog” explained—and how clarity begins00:25:00 — The RIR Method: a simple tool to shift your money mindset in real timeIf This Resonates…If you’ve been avoiding your numbers or feeling overwhelmed by your finances, start small.Set aside just 15 minutes this week to gently look at your bank account—no judgment, just awareness.Ask yourself:What story have I been carrying about money—and is it still serving me?You don’t have to fix everything today. You just have to begin.Connect with RuchiWebsite: https://watchherprosper.com/Workshop: Redefining Prosperity (90-minute live experience) 5/14/26Discount Code: BGB for $100 offInstagram: @watchherprosperRuchi also offers financial mentorship, bookkeeping support, and prosperity coaching through her company, Watch Her Prosper.Support the ShowLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($8/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use code BGB: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• The Middle Way: Staying Soft While You Succeed 29.04.2026 23мин

  You’ve likely been taught that success requires hardness—pushing through, tightening up, and leaving softness behind. In this episode, Kelley explores a different path: the middle way, where you can pursue success without abandoning your softness, your boundaries, or your humanity.This conversation challenges the belief that you must choose between ease and achievement. Instead, it offers a grounded perspective on how to move through life with both intention and gentleness, allowing success to coexist with rest, clarity, and self-trust.Key TakeawaysSoftness is not a weakness. You can be grounded, clear, and successful without hardening yourself or overriding your needs.Burnout is not the price of success. The belief that you must struggle to achieve keeps you stuck in cycles of depletion.The middle way is sustainable. Balancing ambition with care for your nervous system allows you to build a life that actually feels good to live.Episode Highlights01:42 – The Lie That You Have to Harden to SucceedKelley unpacks the belief that success requires toughness and emotional shutdown, and how that narrative leads to burnout.05:19 – What Softness Actually Looks Like in PracticeA grounded look at how boundaries, rest, and self-trust are expressions of strength—not weakness.09:27 – Finding the Middle Way Between Hustle and WithdrawalKelley explores how to stay engaged with your goals without slipping into overwork or complete disengagement.13:58 – Redefining Success on Your Own TermsA closing reflection on choosing a version of success that includes ease, alignment, and emotional well-being.Your Invitation This WeekIf this episode resonated, consider one place in your life where you’ve been equating hardness with success. What would it look like to approach that area with a little more softness this week—whether that’s setting a boundary, slowing your pace, or honoring your capacity?Listen to the full episode, share it with someone who may be feeling the pressure to push through, and leave a review if this conversation supported you. Each small choice toward softness creates a more sustainable way to succeed—one that honors both your ambition and your well-being.Support the ShowLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($8/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use code BGB: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Stop Waiting for Joy, Build It: How to Build A Soft Life With Real Systems 22.04.2026 21мин

  In this episode, Kelley challenges the idea that joy should be spontaneous and effortless, introducing a powerful reframe: joy needs structure. She shares how good intentions alone often fall short without systems that make joy repeatable and accessible. Through personal examples and practical strategies, she walks listeners through how to schedule, automate, and protect joy in everyday life.Kelley also addresses the real-life barriers many Black women face—time, money, caregiving—and offers simple, flexible ways to begin, no matter your circumstances. This episode is a grounded, compassionate invitation to stop waiting for joy and start building it into your life in small, sustainable ways.Key TakeawaysJoy doesn’t happen by accident—it requires intention and infrastructure. Without systems, even the best intentions fade.Scheduling joy makes it real. Putting joy on your calendar transforms it from a wish into a commitment.Small systems create big shifts. Subscriptions, routines, and rituals remove decision fatigue and make joy easier to access.Protecting your joy matters just as much as creating it. Boundaries around time, energy, and habits are essential.Episode Highlights & Timestamps[00:02:00] — The realization: intentions aren’t enough: Kelley reflects on how years of valuing joy still left gaps—because there was no system to support it.[00:05:45] — “Put joy on your calendar” (practical application): A tangible walkthrough of how scheduling joy—appointments, connection, rest—changes everything.[00:11:33] — Identifying and blocking the enemies of joy: From social media to poor sleep habits, Kelley shares how protecting your energy is part of the system.[00:15:11] — How to start when life feels full, and resources are limited: A compassionate, realistic entry point: one small act, one calendar block, one moment that belongs to you.Your Invitation This WeekTake 15–20 minutes and choose one small way to give your joy structure.Put it on your calendar.Text the friend.Block the time.Not perfectly. Not forever. Just once.Then notice what shifts when joy isn’t something you hope for—but something you made space for.Support the ShowLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($8/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use code BGB: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• I Will No Longer Break My Own Heart 15.04.2026 23мин

  In this deeply reflective episode, Kelley introduces a life-changing mantra: “I will no longer break my own heart.” She explores how self-abandonment, internalized beliefs about suffering, and delayed joy have shaped her past—and how choosing softness and intentional joy became her path to healing. Through personal stories, including her time living in Europe and the creation of her “joy jar,” Kelley offers listeners a grounded, practical way to stop equating pain with worth and start building a life rooted in ease and self-respect.Key TakeawaysYou were likely taught that suffering makes you worthy—but that belief is a lie you can release.Joy is not something you earn later; it’s the practice that improves your life right now.You don’t need permission or a special occasion to choose yourself—you already are the occasion.Episode Highlights & Timestamps00:00 — The mantra: “I will no longer break my own heart” and what it really means02:00 — The UTI story: how self-neglect became a belief system about worth07:00 — Living in Europe: learning to hold joy and pain at the same time12:30 — The Joy Jar: a simple, tangible way to practice choosing joyA Gentle InvitationThis week, choose one small way to stop breaking your own heart.It doesn’t have to be dramatic. It might look like resting when you’re tired, buying something that brings you comfort, or creating your own version of a joy jar.Let it be simple. Let it be yours.Because the shift isn’t perfection—it’s direction.Support the ShowLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($8/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use code BGB: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Good Grief: Making Space for Joy After Loss ft. Angela Nissel 10.04.2026 41мин

  In this deeply honest and unexpectedly joyful conversation, Kelley sits down with author and television writer Angela Nissel to explore the layered reality of grief, caregiving, and rebuilding a life after loss. Together, they unpack the quiet, everyday griefs that linger long after the funeral, the guilt and self-blame many Black women carry, and the emotional toll of being “the strong one.”Angela shares how losing her mother forced her to reimagine her relationship with work, success, and joy—leading her to choose freedom, presence, and connection over burnout and external validation. This episode is both a permission slip and a gentle guide for anyone navigating grief while trying to stay human in a world that asks them not to.Key TakeawaysGrief isn’t just about loss—it’s also about the stories we tell ourselves, including guilt and responsibility that were never ours to carry.Caregiving teaches presence in a way productivity never can—and those quiet moments often become the most meaningful memories.Loss can create clarity, helping you reevaluate relationships, work, and what truly matters.Episode Highlights & Timestamps00:03:30 – The Unexpected Weight of Grief: Angela shares how self-blame and guilt showed up after her mother’s passing—and why so many Black women internalize responsibility for loss.00:10:30 – When Grief Forces You to Feel: A powerful reflection on how grief disrupts emotional avoidance and reveals what no longer aligns in your life.00:14:00 – Redefining Work, Success, and Freedom: Angela opens up about leaving behind hustle culture and choosing a life centered on time, relationships, and joy.00:31:00 – Caregiving, Presence, and What Actually Matters: A moving conversation on caregiving, being present, and why small moments of connection become the memories that last.For You, ListeningIf you’re holding grief right now—big or small—try this: Take five minutes today to pause instead of pushing through. Reach out to someone you love, not to perform strength, but to be real. Or ask someone in your life a question about their story—something you’ve never asked before.Let yourself choose presence, even in small ways. That’s where the healing begins.Connect with AngelaWebsite: Angela Nissel Instagram: @angelanissel Pre-order the book: Good Grief, Pass the Bread, My Mom Is Dead, (available wherever books are sold)Support the ShowLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($5/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use code BGB: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Joy Is Resistance: Why You Can’t Wait for the World to Feel Good 08.04.2026 22мин

  In this episode, Kelley explores the idea that joy is not something we wait for, but something we actively practice, especially in difficult times. Drawing from personal reflection, cultural history, and evidence-informed healing, she unpacks how constant exposure to outrage and hardship can disconnect us from our humanity.She reframes joy as both a survival tool and a form of resistance, rooted deeply in Black cultural traditions and ancestral wisdom. Through storytelling and practical insight, she invites listeners to build intentional “structures of joy” that are accessible, sustainable, and grounding.This conversation is a reminder that staying human in a harsh world requires choice, practice, and softness without losing awareness.Key TakeawaysJoy is not something you earn after things get better. It is something you practice to survive what is happening now.Constant outrage may feel productive, but it often disconnects you from your ability to rest, create, and love.Building simple, repeatable practices of joy makes it easier to access when you need it most.Episode Highlights & Timestamps00:00 – The mantra: “I’m not waiting for the world to be good to feel good”03:00 – The weight of current realities and how it impacts joy09:30 – Why outrage is not the same as action and how it changes you15:00 – Joy as resistance and how to begin building a practice of itA Gentle InvitationWhat would it look like to stop postponing your joy?This week, choose one small, repeatable practice that brings you back to yourself. It could be music, movement, rest, or laughter. Let it be simple, accessible, and yours.You are not waiting for the world to soften before you do. You are practicing staying human, right here, right now.Support the ShowLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($8/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use code BGB: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Honesty and Hope Are Enough: A Conversation with Marisa Renee Lee 01.04.2026 50мин

  Marissa Renee Lee has been through it. Harvard. Wall Street. The White House. And also: her mother's MS diagnosis at 13, stage four breast cancer, a pregnancy loss, and now two years of long COVID. What she's learned isn't that grief has a silver lining. It's that grief has a through line, and if you're honest enough to follow it, it leads somewhere real.In this episode, Kelley sits down with Marissa, bestselling author of Grief Is Love and her newest book Waiting for Dawn, for a conversation that gets honest about what it actually costs to be the strong one. They talk about what happens to your identity when the thing you've always counted on, your strength, your body, your plan, disappears without asking permission. And what you reach for when it does.What you'll hear:Why grief isn't a detour from your life story, it is your life story, and what high-achieving Black women lose when they don't name itThe "Flake Permission Structure" — and why saying "I want to but I can't commit" is one of the most honest and loving things you can doWhat Marissa calls "good love" and why saying no to someone you love is sometimes the most caring thing you can offerThe two tools she swears by when the uncertainty isn't going anywhere: radical honesty about where you are, and practical hope for where you're goingEpisode Highlights & Timestamps00:04:22 — Achievement as armor: Marissa traces how her drive for success started as a survival strategy at 13, when her mom got sick and she decided the only thing she could control was how hard she worked00:22:11 — "Not everything can be fixed. Some things must be endured." Kelley and Marissa get honest about what it means to hold yourself together when the world isn't cooperating, and why shrinking your to-do list down to just two things is actually enough00:28:09 — The Flake Permission Structure: why saying "I want to but I can't commit" upfront is kinder, more honest, and way less anxiety-inducing than the last-minute text we've all sent00:34:00 — Good love and the hardest no: Marissa reframes saying no to someone you love not as a failure of care but as the fullest expression of it, and why learning to feed yourself first is how you actually show up for othersGentle InvitationSomewhere in your life right now, there's something you can't fix. You can only endure it.What would it look like to be honest about that, not performatively, just to yourself? And what's the smallest, most stubborn piece of hope you can hold alongside it?Start there. Build from there.Connect with MarissaGrab a copy of Waiting for Dawn wherever you buy your books — Marissa especially recommends your local indie bookstore.Find her on Substack at Holding Both and everywhere else on the internet as @MarissaRenee.Support the ShowLike, follow, and subscribe across all platforms. Find us @blackgirlburnout.Subscribe to our newsletter at blackgirlburnout.com. Watch on YouTube. Drop a review — your words make a real difference, and they warm Kelley's whole heart every single time.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid subscriber ($5/month) for exclusive resources and monthly workshops.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use code BGB: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCircle | Privacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• How to Come Back to Yourself Again and Again 25.03.2026 22мин

  There are moments when you realize you’ve drifted—away from your needs, your pace, your sense of self. In this episode, Kelley explores what it means to come back to yourself after seasons of burnout, overextension, or disconnection. She gently unpacks how easy it is to lose touch with your inner voice when you’ve been prioritizing expectations, survival, or the needs of others.This conversation offers a grounded path back to yourself—one rooted in small choices, honest reflection, and the willingness to move at a pace that honors your capacity. Coming back to yourself isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about returning to what has always been there.Key TakeawaysDisconnection can happen quietly. Burnout and overextension often pull you away from your needs without you realizing it.Reconnection starts with awareness. Noticing what feels off is the first step toward returning to yourself with honesty and care.Small, consistent choices rebuild trust. You don’t need a full reset—tiny, intentional shifts help you come back to yourself over time.Episode Highlights01:57 – How You Know You’ve Drifted From YourselfKelley names the subtle signs of disconnection, including exhaustion, irritability, and feeling out of alignment with your own life.05:21 – The Cost of Constant OverextensionA reflection on how prioritizing others, productivity, or expectations can slowly erode your connection to your own needs.09:18 – Relearning Your Own VoiceKelley explores the practice of tuning back into your preferences, boundaries, and internal cues after periods of disconnection.13:46 – Returning to Yourself in Small WaysA gentle reminder that coming back to yourself happens through small, sustainable choices—not pressure or perfection.A Gentle InvitationIf this episode resonated, choose one small way to come back to yourself this week. It might be resting when you’re tired, saying no without overexplaining, or simply pausing to ask, What do I need right now?Listen to the full episode, share it with someone who may be feeling disconnected, and leave a review if this conversation supported you. Each step you take toward yourself creates more space for ease, clarity, and a life that feels like your own.Support the ShowLike, share, and subscribe on all platforms, and find us on social media@blackgirlburnoutSubscribe to our newsletter: blackgirlburnout.comWatch the episode on YouTubeDrop a review—help us spread the word that rest is not weakness.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid Substack subscriber ($5/month—the cost of a latte!) for exclusive resources to support your burnout-free life.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use my code BGB for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.comCheck out Greater Than: https://www.drinkgt.comSavvy Ladies: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCirclePrivacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Opt Into Creating Safety in an Unsafe World: Tools to Break the Cycle 18.03.2026 26мин

  It’s easy to believe you know what you want—more success, more money, more recognition, more stability. But sometimes those goals are inherited from pressure, expectation, or survival patterns rather than your true desires. In this episode, Kelley explores the practice of reverse engineering what you actually want by slowing down and examining the life you’re building.This conversation invites you to move beyond autopilot ambition and reconnect with what genuinely brings you ease, alignment, and fulfillment. When you take the time to question the “why” behind your goals, you create space to pursue a life that reflects your values instead of external expectations.Key TakeawaysNot every goal is truly yours. Some ambitions are shaped by family expectations, cultural pressure, or survival patterns rather than your authentic desires.Clarity comes from reflection. When you pause and examine what your goals are meant to give you—peace, freedom, rest—you can make more aligned decisions.Reverse engineering creates intentional living. Starting with the feeling or life you want can help you design goals that actually support your wellbeing.Episode Highlights02:11 – Questioning the Goals You’ve Been ChasingKelley introduces the idea that many of the goals we pursue are inherited from societal expectations rather than personal alignment.05:48 – The Real Reason Behind Most AmbitionsA deeper look at how many goals are actually attempts to access deeper needs like safety, peace, or freedom.09:36 – Reverse Engineering the Life You WantKelley walks through the practice of starting with the feeling you want to experience and working backward to design your choices.14:22 – Giving Yourself Permission to Choose DifferentlyA closing reflection on releasing pressure and allowing your goals to evolve as your values and capacity change.A Gentle InvitationIf this episode resonated, take a few quiet minutes this week to reflect on one goal you’re currently pursuing. Ask yourself: What do I believe this goal will give me? Then consider whether there may be a simpler or more sustainable path to that feeling.Listen to the full episode, share it with someone who may be navigating the same pressure, and leave a review if this conversation supported you. Each share helps grow a community where choosing ease, clarity, and sustainable ambition becomes possible.Support the ShowLike, share, and subscribe on all platforms, and find us on social media@blackgirlburnoutSubscribe to our newsletter: blackgirlburnout.comWatch the episode on YouTubeDrop a review—help us spread the word that rest is not weakness.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid Substack subscriber ($5/month—the cost of a latte!) for exclusive resources to support your burnout-free life.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use my code BGB for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.comCheck out Greater Than: https://www.drinkgt.comSavvy Ladies: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCirclePrivacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• When Wanting Becomes a Trauma Response 11.03.2026 22мин

  Sometimes the things you want most—success, love, recognition, stability—can start to feel urgent. Not just important, but necessary for your survival. In this episode, Kelley explores how wanting more can quietly shift into something deeper: a trauma response shaped by pressure, scarcity, and the belief that you must constantly strive to be safe, valued, or enough.This conversation gently invites you to slow down and examine the difference between healthy desire and survival-driven striving. When you understand the roots of urgency, you can begin to choose a pace that honors your nervous system, your boundaries, and your capacity for joy.Key TakeawaysWanting can become a survival strategy. When your nervous system believes safety depends on achievement or validation, desire can shift into urgency and pressure.Scarcity thinking fuels burnout. The belief that you must constantly chase the next opportunity, relationship, or milestone keeps your body in a state of striving.Slowing down creates clarity. When you give yourself space to pause, you can begin to separate genuine desires from patterns rooted in fear or past wounds.Episode Highlights01:48 – When Wanting Stops Feeling Like a ChoiceKelley explores how desire can move from a healthy aspiration into something that feels urgent and survival-driven.05:32 – The Scarcity Mindset Behind Constant StrivingA deeper look at how past experiences and cultural pressures can create the belief that opportunities, love, or success are always about to disappear.09:47 – How Trauma Shapes the Way You Chase GoalsKelley discusses how unresolved wounds can influence ambition, relationships, and the pace at which you push yourself.14:21 – Choosing Desire From a Place of SafetyA reflection on how slowing down and honoring your nervous system can help you pursue what you want without exhaustion or pressure.A Gentle InvitationIf this episode resonated, take a quiet moment this week to notice where urgency might be guiding your decisions. Ask yourself: Is this something I truly want, or something I feel I must chase to feel safe?Listen to the full episode, share it with someone who may be navigating the same pressure, and leave a review if this conversation supported you. Each share helps grow a community where choosing ease, clarity, and sustainable ambition becomes possible.Support the ShowLike, share, and subscribe on all platforms, and find us on social media@blackgirlburnoutSubscribe to our newsletter: blackgirlburnout.comWatch the episode on YouTubeDrop a review—help us spread the word that rest is not weakness.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid Substack subscriber ($5/month—the cost of a latte!) for exclusive resources to support your burnout-free life.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use my code BGB for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.comCheck out Greater Than: https://www.drinkgt.comSavvy Ladies: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCirclePrivacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Safety Isn’t a Number: Why You’re Chasing Bags, Beauty & Busyness 04.03.2026 31мин

  Safety isn’t a number. It’s a nervous system state.In this episode, Kelley explores why so many of us feel an urgent need to optimize — our bodies, our bank accounts, our productivity — and what’s really underneath that impulse. In a world that feels economically, politically, and emotionally unstable, it’s easy to believe that if we just earn more, look better, or stay busy enough, we’ll finally feel secure. But what if those behaviors aren’t ambition… they’re armor?This conversation reframes the current obsession with leveling up, luxury, glow-ups, and side hustles as a nervous system response to instability. Kelley gently challenges the idea that safety can be bought, earned, or displayed — and offers a softer, more sustainable path: creating safety from the inside out.Key TakeawaysSafety is not a financial number, aesthetic achievement, or productivity milestone — it’s a nervous system state.There’s a difference between aspiration and avoidance. Aspiration asks “why?” Armor just keeps you moving.If what you’re chasing gives proof to others but not peace to you, it may be a defense mechanism — not a desire.Episode Timestamps & Takeaways00:00 – The Real Question Beneath the HustleKelley opens with a powerful reframe: the question “How do I secure my life?” isn’t a planning question — it’s a safety question. This sets the foundation for the entire episode.08:30 – The Rise of Symbolic SafetyFrom luxury TikTok to aesthetic optimization to side hustles, Kelley explores how we chase visible markers of success when structural safety feels unstable — and why those symbols can’t regulate our bodies.16:00 – Aspiration vs. ArmorA defining moment in the episode: the difference between expansive desire and avoidance. Aspiration is curious and grounded. Armor is urgent and never satisfied.27:00 – What Does Enough Feel Like?Near the close, Kelley invites listeners to imagine what “enough” would feel like in their bodies — not in numbers, titles, or weight, but in breath, shoulders, and nervous system calm.Your Soft InventoryThis week, pause before you chase the next thing — the new routine, the side hustle, the aesthetic upgrade, the financial goal — and ask:What do I think this will give me that I don’t have right now?Is this giving me peace… or proof?Will this create relief, ease, time, choice, or rest?You don’t have to fix anything.You don’t need another plan.Just notice.Because staying human is the work — and your nervous system deserves safety that doesn’t require performance.Support the ShowLike, share, and subscribe on all platforms, and find us on social media@blackgirlburnoutSubscribe to our newsletter: blackgirlburnout.comWatch the episode on YouTubeDrop a review—help us spread the word that rest is not weakness.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid Substack subscriber ($5/month—the cost of a latte!) for exclusive resources to support your burnout-free life.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use my code BGB for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.comCheck out Greater Than: https://www.drinkgt.comSavvy Ladies: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCirclePrivacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Softness Needs Structure: Tools to Interrupt Burnout Before You Collapse 25.02.2026 34мин

  Softness isn’t sustained by intention alone — it requires structure. In this episode, Kelley moves beyond philosophy and shares the practical tools she personally uses when she feels burnout creeping in. From recognizing early warning signs like doom scrolling and “tweak loops,” to using nervous system regulation, phone blockers, routines, therapy, and healthy escapism, this conversation is about building support before collapse happens. Staying human is the work — and support is how we keep doing it.Key TakeawaysBurnout shows up in habits first. Pay attention to early signs like poor sleep, urgency without clarity, excessive revising, or physical symptoms.Nervous system regulation is a daily practice, not an emergency fix. Pausing, breathing, moving your body, and centering physical comfort interrupt spirals early.Structure protects softness. Phone blockers, routines, therapy, coaching apps, and healthy escapism create guardrails so you don’t rely on willpower alone.Episode Highlights & Timestamps00:02:19 – Burnout doesn’t always look dramatic: how habits become early warning signs00:06:21 – The power of the pause: using “Let me get back to you” as nervous system regulation00:16:16 – Why willpower fails under stress — and how external structure (like phone blockers and routines) protects softness00:24:24 – Healthy escapism vs. numbing: how to tell the difference and why joy is protectiveGentle InvitationThis week, instead of waiting for collapse, notice your early signs.What habit shows up when you’re overwhelmed? What good habit disappears?Choose one small guardrail — maybe a 24-hour pause before saying yes, putting your phone in time-out for an hour, or anchoring your morning with one repeatable ritual. Not ten changes. Just one.Build support around your softness.Let that be enough for now.Support the ShowLike, share, and subscribe on all platforms, and find us on social media@blackgirlburnoutSubscribe to our newsletter: blackgirlburnout.comWatch the episode on YouTubeDrop a review—help us spread the word that rest is not weakness.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid Substack subscriber ($5/month—the cost of a latte!) for exclusive resources to support your burnout-free life.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use my code BGB for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCirclePrivacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Opt Into Caring without Carrying 18.02.2026 27мин

  Continuing the How to Soften Without Falling Apart series, this episode focuses on the boundaries required to protect your humanity in overwhelming times. Kelley explores why Black women are often conditioned to absorb pain, urgency, and responsibility—and how that leads to exhaustion and burnout. Through nervous-system-informed tools and practical language, she offers a new way forward: learning to respond without absorbing, care without carrying, and stay connected without overextending yourself.Key TakeawaysCompassion does not require absorption—you can care deeply without carrying what isn’t yours.Boundaries are not disconnection; they are how relationships, nervous systems, and softness stay sustainable.Responding with intention is more powerful—and healthier—than reacting with urgency.Episode Highlights & Timestamps[01:13–02:30] “You Can Care Without Carrying” Kelley introduces the core reframe of the episode and names how global grief, personal responsibility, and constant exposure overwhelm the nervous system.[02:54–05:35] Absorbing vs. Responding A clear distinction between emotional absorption and intentional response—and why Black women are often socialized to confuse the two.[09:00–10:32] Nervous System Signals & Regulation How to recognize when you’re absorbing too much and simple, accessible ways to regulate before burnout sets in.[19:29–22:03] Media, Work, and Choosing Limits Why constant exposure to trauma isn’t care—and how limiting media and redefining urgency restores clarity, compassion, and capacity. A Gentle Invitation: Care Without CarryingThis week, notice one place where you may be absorbing more than you need to—whether it’s conversations, media, work urgency, or emotional labor. Choose one small boundary to practice: pausing before responding, limiting exposure, or naming a time limit with love. Boundaries aren’t about becoming cold—they’re how you stay human, compassionate, and connected for the long haul.Support the ShowLike, share, and subscribe on all platforms, and find us on social media@blackgirlburnoutSubscribe to our newsletter: blackgirlburnout.comWatch the episode on YouTubeDrop a review—help us spread the word that rest is not weakness.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid Substack subscriber ($5/month—the cost of a latte!) for exclusive resources to support your burnout-free life.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use my code BGB for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCirclePrivacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
• Opt into Staying Soft When Life Is Still Hard 11.02.2026 20мин

  In this episode of Black Girl Burnout, Kelley names what many of us are living through: the world is still loud, uncertain, and heavy—and there is no clean “after” yet. Instead of focusing on who we’ll become once things settle, this conversation centers on who we are while things are still on fire. Kelley explores how survival mode can quietly become an identity, what we lose when that happens, and why softness isn’t a luxury reserved for easier times. This episode offers a grounded, realistic path toward staying human, gentle, and connected to yourself—even in the middle of crisis.Key TakeawaysSurvival mode is a strategy, not your personality—and staying in it too long can cost you parts of yourself that matter.Softness doesn’t require perfect conditions; it can help you pace yourself, care for your body, and choose what you carry.Protecting your identity in hard times is often quiet, personal work—but it’s essential for long-term sustainability.Episode Highlights & Timestamps[00:00–01:40] Living While Things Are Still HardKelley reframes the conversation away from “after the crisis” and toward how to remain human, soft, and connected to yourself while the world is still unsettled.[02:08–05:43] When Survival Mode Becomes an IdentityA clear breakdown of how survival mode works, why it’s protective, and what happens when it starts shaping behavior—and eventually, identity.[06:09–08:48] Softness Without DelusionKelley explains how softness can coexist with awareness, regulation, and discernment—offering a version of gentleness that doesn’t deny reality.[15:30–17:29] Building a Life QuietlyA powerful reflection on resisting urgency, hustle, and constant reinvention—and why choosing softness and stability leads to a more sustainable life.A Gentle Invitation: Choosing Yourself, Even NowTake a few quiet moments this week to reflect on three things:What values matter to you no matter how hard things get?What parts of yourself do you refuse to harden or lose?What small, realistic activities help you feel like you, even briefly?Write them down. Choose one act of softness—music, rest, beauty, laughter, gentleness—and take it seriously. You don’t need permission to care for yourself while things are still messy. Staying human is not something you wait for—it’s something you practice.Support the ShowLike, share, and subscribe on all platforms, and find us on social media@blackgirlburnoutSubscribe to our newsletter: blackgirlburnout.comWatch the episode on YouTubeDrop a review—help us spread the word that rest is not weakness.Stay in TouchJoin our Substack family for weekly reflections, tools, and behind-the-scenes notes from Kelley.Become a paid Substack subscriber ($5/month—the cost of a latte!) for exclusive resources to support your burnout-free life.Our SponsorsCheck out PharmaNutra and use my code BGB for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.comSavvy Ladies: https://www.savvyladies.org/Advertising Inquiries: RedCirclePrivacy & Opt-Out: RedCircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy