So Shameless

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  The Last Homie Court - Daj Leaves The Pod 15.09.2026 1h 15min

  After 8 long years Dajahbelle records her last episode with Tahoe, Traum and Yesterday...and of course they start it off with one last homie court. Enjoy.
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  Can Women Hate Patriarchy And Still Want Men To Provide? Modern Dating & Double Standards 11.09.2026 1h 23min

  Welcome Back To Part Two Feat Tasia, Rell and Alexa Leighton.We get even more shameless as Alexa Leighton, Rell Easy and Tasia stay on the couch for a conversation about patriarchy, gender roles, double standards, motherhood, fatherhood and what men and women REALLY expect from each other.First, why have some women started using “gay” as an insult toward straight men they disagree with or aren’t attracted to? Then we get into the story of Daejon Love, the alleged football scammer, and debate a controversial question: when the red flags are right in front of you, do the people who get fooled deserve any of the blame? And if we’re calling that deception, Rell asks another dangerous question: are makeup, wigs and fake hair women’s version of a scam — or is that comparison completely ridiculous?Tahoe admits that he holds women to a higher standard than he holds men, and Alexa and Tasia aren’t letting him get away with that one easily.The conversation gets much more serious as we discuss the lack of resources helping fathers understand the hormonal, emotional and physical changes women can experience during pregnancy and postpartum. Could better education and support for BOTH parents help couples navigate that period and keep more families together?We also discuss the Lindsay Clancy case, why some women have expressed sympathy for her, and why some Black women have strongly criticized the support and compassion she has received.Finally, Alexa breaks down her perspective on patriarchy, leading to one of the biggest debates of the episode: if the traditional expectation that a man should provide comes from a patriarchal system, can we reject patriarchy while still expecting men to be providers? And would women truly be comfortable with a man who rejects traditional gender roles and allows his woman to financially provide for him?Alexa Leighton, Rell Easy and Tasia join us for Part Two — and nobody is leaving this couch without being challenged.Socials:Alexa@AlexaLeighton on InstagramTasia@TasiaJanine on InstagramRell@ConversationsWithRellEasy@RellEasy
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  Why Does The Black Community Still Glorify The Streets??? Lil Durk, Keefe D and Why Women Love Simps 08.09.2026 1h 16min

  This week on So Shameless, the crew gets into money, masculinity, street culture and everything the internet thinks a man is supposed to be. Tahoe explains why he has absolutely NO interest in spending his money at the strip club when he’s there with his woman and her friends — but does that make him cheap, smart…or a simp? That leads us into the internet’s favorite insult: what actually makes a man a simp, and why are people calling Tahoe one? We also debate Zoe Saldaña vs. Halle Berry and where Zoe belongs in the conversation among Hollywood’s top Black actresses. Then things get more serious as we discuss Keefe D and the Tupac Shakur murder case, the conversation surrounding Lil Durk, and whether saying “Free Durk” is another example of our culture glorifying street life even when we repeatedly see where that lifestyle can lead. And somehow, we have to explain how Mo3’s killer and a pair of blue underwear ended up in the same conversation. Finally, we get into masculinity and male friendships: Is there anything wrong with men being homosocial? Why are close relationships between men sometimes viewed suspiciously? And we tackle the provocative question: are Black men actually more gay than straight — or does that entire conversation reveal something bigger about how we view Black masculinity, sexuality and male friendship? It’s another uncomfortable, hilarious and completely shameless conversation. Press play and tell us where you stand.Socials:Alexa@AlexaLeighton on InstagramTasia@TasiaJanine on InstagramRell @ConversationsWithRellEasy@RellEasy
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  Are Women Doing Too Much In Dating? Gender Roles, Male Friends and Relationship Boundaries 31.08.2026 1h 23min

  In part Two of this weeks episode of So Shameless, the crew gets into dating, gender roles, friendship boundaries and what actually counts as disrespect when you’re in a relationship. Should men be expected to handle the traditionally masculine things while women handle the feminine things in a relationship—or are those expectations outdated? We also debate whether men ruin friendships with women by eventually wanting sex, and whether a woman planning AND paying for the third date is showing healthy interest or doing way too much, way too soon. Plus, do men take women who are constantly dating different people seriously when it comes time to choose a relationship? Paris opens up about her history of dating the “fun guys”—men who are into clubs, bars, cars, clothes and the lifestyle—and whether choosing excitement over stability may have been working against her. Then we get into social media relationship boundaries: Is a man liking other women’s pictures on Instagram harmless, or is it disrespectful to his relationship? Finally, the crew reacts to Funky Dineva’s controversial comments about parents bringing autistic children into public spaces where people have a “reasonable expectation of peace,” including restaurants and airplanes—and whether expecting that kind of “peace” in a shared public space is reasonable in the first place. Dating expectations. Gender roles. Friendship. Social media. Relationship boundaries. And another conversation where the cast of So Shameless and their guests probably aren’t going to agree on anything. Enjoy!
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  The Provider Role Is Changing..So Why Haven't The Expectations? 26.08.2026 1h 21min

  This week on So Shameless, Tahoe is joined by Paris Danielle, Lola The Divine and Yesssterday for a conversation that goes from hilarious relationship misunderstandings to some much heavier questions about race, safety and what Black Americans should be paying attention to. Paris opens up about realizing bartending simply wasn’t for her, before the crew asks why women are so quick to hit their man with “WRONG B*TCH!” when he remembers something she doesn’t. Why is the first assumption that he must be confusing her with another woman? Then things get serious. The crew discusses the blackout in Gary, Indiana and questions surrounding the length of the power restoration, reports and concerns involving Black people being found hanging from trees in the South, and what Black communities should realistically be prepared for if racial tensions in America continue to escalate. We also get into a disturbing Google search observation: why does searching “I’m alone with a white man” trigger language asking whether you’re scared or in danger, while similar searches involving other races or genders appear to produce different results? Finally, we tackle one of the biggest debates in modern relationships: If men historically became providers partly because women had limited legal and economic opportunities, why are men still expected to financially provide now that women can earn, own, lead and—in many cases—out-earn men? Have the opportunities changed while the relationship expectations stayed the same? Featuring: @ParisDanielleco @lolatheedivine @yesssterday @tahoe_tv Subscribe to our Patreon to hear the full episode (part one and two) AD FREESo Shameless — where the conversations everybody is having privately get said out loud.
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  Are Women Being Taught How To Be Wives Anymore? Double Standards, Colorism and Dating For Marriage 21.08.2026 1h 18min

  Part Two with celebrity chef Chef Cream gets even more controversial as we dive into dating, marriage, masculinity, race, colorism, and the double standards between men and women. We start with a woman who says she’s only interested in men who are intentionally dating for marriage—but are men and women actually being prepared to become good husbands and wives? We debate fathers who teach their daughters to stay single, distrust men, and “be a boss” versus also teaching them what it takes to build a healthy relationship with a man. Then things get uncomfortable: Should a husband feel disrespected if another man is overly complimenting his wife? Why do some men completely lose their composure around beautiful women? And is it ever okay to say the N-word around white people, even if you’re not talking to them? We also react to Blueface calling a woman a “good darkskin” and debate whether the comment was a compliment, colorist, or just poorly worded. Plus, we get into the sexual double standard: Why are men celebrated for having multiple sexual partners while women are judged for doing the same thing—and should either one be judged at all? Finally, things take a wild turn when a surrogate mother changes her mind and disappears with the baby. Dating for marriage, husbands and wives, male and female double standards, colorism, relationships, sex, race, respect, and much more—nothing is off limits on Part Two with Chef Cream.
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  Are All White People Racist? InvestFest Backlash and What it Means To Not Have A High Racial IQ 19.08.2026 1h 20min

  This week on So Shameless, celebrity chef @Chef.Cream joins us on the couch for a conversation that goes from entrepreneurship and community to race, culture, and some of the biggest debates happening in Black America. We kick things off talking about Traum’s successful block party, the work that went into curating the event, and Tahoe’s new icee cart—which leads to a conversation about his hustler mentality and why he’s always looking for the next opportunity. Then we address the backlash from last week’s episode before getting into a much bigger question: Are all white people racist? And what do we make of white influencers who build platforms around being “pro-Black”? Are they genuine allies, profiting from Black culture, or can both things be true? We also discuss Tuskegee University’s new dress code, including the controversy surrounding restrictions on bonnets and durags, and the debate over respectability, professionalism, and cultural expression. Then we get into the criticism surrounding Earn Your Leisure and Invest Fest, including Rashad Bilal’s comments about creating a festival specifically for Black people and why the event has become such a polarizing topic online. Finally, we discuss disturbing reports involving Black people being found hanging from trees in the South and the fear, anger, and questions those cases have raised—including what Black communities should demand from authorities when circumstances surrounding a death are unclear. It’s another uncomfortable, complicated, and very So Shameless conversation. Tap in and let us know where you stand.Socials [email protected] on Instagram and TikTok
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  Why Do Black People Hold On To The Pain Of Racism So Tightly??? 14.08.2026 1h 8min

  Tahoe and Norense go head to head in a conversation about racism, christianity, masculinity, black pride and we revisit the covid discussion. This was alot. Enjoy.Socials:Norense@KingNo_
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  When Do Black Men Become MEN?? Feat Norense Odiase 11.08.2026 1h 9min

  Welcome Back To another episode of So Shameless!This week we welcome motivation and wellness influencer Norense Odiase to talk the difference in how black men view life at 30 vs how they view life at 50, dealing with a friend that has thoughts of ending it all, defining what a perfect life is, how trauma changes us at our core, affecting the people around us positively and what that does for you, being a dark skin Nigerian American and the difference between how Norense was treated when he was young vs how he is treated now that he is successful and older, Norense's first experiences with women and how that shaped how he feels about interracial relationships, and how Norense feels about the backlash he may get from the black community based off of his dating choices. Very interesting episode!!!Tune in to Patreon to hear part two!Socials:Norense@KingNo_ on instagram
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  Marriage Is For Broke Women? Dating Up, Millionaire Mindsets & Remy Ma said what? 07.08.2026 1h 18min

  This week on So Shameless, we’re back with Emanny of The Joe Budden Podcast and friend of the show Tasia Janine for Part Two of a conversation about money, relationships, and modern dating expectations. We discuss Mandi, of Decision, Decisions, controversial claim that marriage is for broke women, whether men and women experience dating someone with more money differently, and if dating up versus dating down changes relationship dynamics. We also react to a woman who says she’ll only date a man with the mindset of a millionaire, debate Remy Ma’s reasons for calling herself the perfect wife, and somehow… YesJulz finds herself at the center of another internet conversation. Listen, subscribe, and join the conversation.SocialsTasia @TasiaJanine on InstagramEmanny@EmannyMusic on InstagramPatreon.com/alleyesone
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  The Side Chick Had Access To His Girls Security Camera??? 04.08.2026 1h 23min

  This week on So Shameless, we’re joined by Emanny from the Joe Budden Podcast and friend of the show Tasia Janine for a conversation about the fine line between comfort and losing the plot in relationships. We debate whether women get too comfortable passing gas around their partners, react to Usher getting curved by a fan during his concert, discuss what it’s like loving someone whose behavior constantly embarrasses you, and ask if you can ever truly move forward with someone who’s still emotionally attached to their ex. We also unpack the story of a man who gave his side chick access to the security cameras in the home he shares with his child’s mother, talk about becoming the kind of parent your children can come to when life gets real, and explore why some women lose interest in ambitious men who are still building and need support.ENJOY!!!ListenSocialsTasia@TasiaJanine on InstagramEmanny@EmannyMusic on Instagram Patreon.com/alleyesone
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  How Did I Get A Life Sentence For Something My Son Did??? 31.07.2026 1h 21min

  Welcome Back to part two of this weeks episode!!Melanie of the "I'm Not A Lawyer But.." page walks the team through a few cases for us to determine who we found liable in the crime presented vs what the court decided. From a mother who unalived her children, to a grandfather who is doing life for simply gave his car keys to a teenager...this episode was GOOD! ENJOY!!!Socials:Melanie@ImNotALawyerBut on Instagram, Youtube and Tiktok
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  Im Not A Lawyer But... (Part One) 27.07.2026 1h 7min

  Welcome Back to So Shameless!!!This week Tahoe is super excited about his guest Melanie of the popular web page "I'm Not A Lawyer But.." to talk Tahoe's beef with Vanessa and Jojo Simmons, the Memphis Bleek interview where he is grilled about the Jayz backlash and whether Jay deserves the backlash he gets from the black community about his roles in the Barneys, NFL and Target protests. ENJOY!!Get Tickets to the "You Be The Judge" show at DadsGarage.comSocials:Melanie@ImNotALawyerBut on Instagram, Youtube and Tiktok
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  Yes We Snuck Into The Concert SO WHAT?? Feat YP and Diamond (Part Two) 21.07.2026 1h 11min

  Welcome back to part two!We continue talking the Jay-Z concerts, what we liked about them and the missed opportunities, being acknowledged by ppl in the public and Tahoe flirting with his fans, a lady shoots her shot at a taken man, what ppl would think if they saw us out in public with somebody, a young lady says she does not cook for men and she wont be doing it, and a woman says she does not know if a guy likes her if he does not buy her things... ENJOY!!!Socials:Young Prince@YoungPrince on Twitter and InstagramDiamond@DiamyTV on instagram@Diamy_TV on Twitter
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  Yes We Snuck Into The Concert So What?? Feat Diamond and YP 16.07.2026 1h 11min

  Welcome Back To So Shameless!This week our problem child Diamond joins us with renown host extraordinaire Young Prince to talk why Brooklyn and Bronx guys dont see eye to eye, how Tahoe and Diamond got into the Jay Z concert without tickets, and how we all felt about our experience at the historic Three day Jay-Z Yankee stadium weekend. Young Princes rise to fame and how to tell ppl that your rate is your rate.. ENJOY!!Socials:Young Prince@YoungPrince on Twitter and InstagramDiamond@DiamyTV on instagram@Diamy_TV on Twitter
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  There's Gotta Be A Better Way pt2 Feat @Mel.Vybz 13.07.2026 1h 22min

  Welcome Back To Part two and sorry for the wait!!! We open the convo speaking about Jack n Jill of america and the children that are involved in this community, the backlash Yung Miami has gotten about her hit song "Spend That", and terrible lyrics from the past and why they get backlash today. ENJOY!!Socials:[email protected] on Instagram
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  There's Gotta Be A Better Way Feat. @Mel.Vybz 09.07.2026 1h 26min

  Welcome Back To So Shameless!This week we welcome comedian and content creator @Mel.Vybz to the couch as Tahoe asks why black people celebrate Independence Day, why our influencers dont influence our communities to do more positive things, inviting white people to the "BBQ", Black men needing to step up and provide community for their children and neighborhood children, Tahoe recounts what made him want to be a better father and his disappointment in recent events in his peronal life, Mel speaking on what inspired him to be present in his childrens lives, and Daj speaks on what black men need to do to effect change in the black community. Heavy, heavy episode yall...enjoy. Stay tuned for part two releasing next monday.Socials:[email protected] on Instagram
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  Im Not Rude Im Just Direct! Feat @TheFlyGirlCoach 06.07.2026 1h 19min

  Welcome Back to So Shameless!!!We get back into the conversation with Amy (@TheFlyGirlCoach) as we ask is there such a thing as being too direct, code switching and what it does to your personality, men pulling up to girls night and paying for everybody, are women okay with their man paying for his lady friends when they go out, and the men who still wont snitch no matter what happens to them. Great episode yall.. ENJOY!!!Socials:Amy@TheFlyGirlCoach on Instagram
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  So I'm Slow If I Had An IAP?? Feat. @TheFlyGirlCoach (ep 1) 01.07.2026 1h 7min

  Welcome back to So Shameless as we invite Amy (@TheFlyGirlCoach) to sit with us and chile.. Tahoe is in rare form today (and not in a good way). We start off explaining his neuro- divergence and how it affects his charcater when Daj suggests that he probably had an IAP in school which he gets insulted by. The team explains why it isnt an insult to have an IAP but of course he is not trying to hear that. (exhausting). Parents needing to go to therapy more than the child needing to go to therapy and why the older generation refuses to do so, a listener letter where a mom asks if NYC is safe for her 19 to come live from another state, and theres a bill to get rid of the words mother and father?? Tune in to part two later this week as this episode actually gets messier.. ENJOY!!Social:Amy@TheFlyGirlCoach on Instagram
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  Why Are Black Americans So Lazy? Feat @TheLifeOverLikesPodcast 26.06.2026 1h

  Welcome back to part two of thus weeks episode featuring Lucky and Dave of the Life over likes podcast.We get back into the conversation as Tahoe asks how Lucky and Dave know the guy who walked out on the bill thinks he is better than them, Dave explains how he feels being from Africa but living in America, Lucky asks why Black ppl love Mamdani, why Africans and black ppl from other countries dont like the Black American mindset. Enjoy!SocialsLife Over Likes Podcast@TheLifeOverLikesPodcast on InstagramWatch the show on Youtube at The Life Over Likes pageDave@Mr_MonsterDeal365 on InstagramLuckie@LuckyLucianoNYC on Instagram