Polycurious
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Non-monogamy is not for everyone, but you might be curious about it. Could it be right for you? How do non-monogamous couples deal with jealousy? I was curious myself, and the more I asked, the more I became surprised by this unexplored topic. In Polycurious I have casual and intimate conversations with non-monogamous couples, sex and relationship experts, friends, and even people who tried polyamory and realized it wasn’t for them. This podcast is for the polycurious, whether you have explored non-monogamy or not.
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Bonus ep.79 Exploring Bisexuality as a Man 26.05.2026 19minIn this episode, Sam opens up about discovering his attraction to men later in life, what it was like having his first boyfriend, exploring sexual compatibility for the first time, and working through internalized shame around bisexuality.Listen to Sam's episode:https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hy7CGmqLikpnSJNfQPOPO?si=AMPvFjE1RAeuSYiI0Z9S_QSam's website: https://www.samcharlescoaching.com/Sam's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/sexcoachsam/Book a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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79. The Problem with NRE (New Relationship Energy) with Sam Charles 26.05.2026 1h 10minSex and relationship coach Sam Charles joins me to explore the shadow side of New Relationship Energy: the nervous system rollercoaster. We also talk about the reasons he is no longer over-compromising in romantic relationships, and he shares great tips for navigating the challenges that can emerge in non-monogamy when people are unclear about their agreements, intentions, or capacity.Resources mentioned:Sam's Bonus Polycurious episode:https://open.spotify.com/episode/4BWfzyptQrpHiAmfd9CgJK?si=RaTk0JFsQ-2bDdZqLyJR-wSam's website:https://www.samcharlescoaching.com/Sam's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/sexcoachsam/More on NRE:How to Deal with NREhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/58QeAd7h1yCBOlAbKDUEAUAll About New Relationship Energy:https://www.patreon.com/posts/in-case-you-it-131384186/Book a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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77. Kink, Power Dynamics & Knowing When to Walk Away with Vee from Girls Gone Deep 28.04.2026 1h 8minToday, Vee from Girls Gone Deep shares her journey into kink, what makes a great dom, and what people can actually gain from exploring BDSM dynamics. We also dive into what it feels like to want a level of commitment your partner can’t offer, and how to know when it’s time to walk awayResources mentioned:Girls Gone Deep Podcast:https://www.girlsgonedeep.com/episodesBonus ep.77 Can You Deescalate Without Breaking Up?:On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3UDJ7xPvTfSkYfF8w60M7T?si=j8_tVDw5QpmT2f2Ak21LtQOn Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/can-you-de-of-up-156628493Patreon Meet-up on Breakups:https://www.patreon.com/posts/next-wed-and-156707476?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_linkWhat To Do When Your Partner is On a Date Episode (RAIN):https://www.patreon.com/posts/112573033/Njoy Wand:https://www.njoytoys.com/product/purewand/Amber Grubenmann Dating Coachhttps://www.instagram.com/ambergrubenmann/Amber's episode on GGD:https://open.spotify.com/episode/00bB5cIFH7SHl3GJ3inBikGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upJoin My Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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76. I Said Yes to ENM But My Body Panics with Bella & Patrick 14.04.2026 1h 6minWhat if your head is on board with non-monogamy, but your body freaks out when your partner dates someone else?Today, Bella and Patrick, who started their relationship long-distance and non-monogamous, share how they learned to navigate multiple partners, set clear agreements, and regulate their emotions. Resources mentioned:Bella’s Websitehttps://www.bella-paints.com/coachingBella’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/bellashepaints/Bella’s Relationship Agreement Guidehttps://www.bella-paints.com/shop/p/the-relationship-agreement-guideBook Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamyhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/1944934987/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_apa_gl_i_SRXAD2SK285NG0F99Y0Z?linkCode=ml1&tag=jessicafern-20Sacred Sons Men’s Grouphttps://www.sacredsons.com/Patreon episode: What To Do When Your Partner is On a Date (where I talk about the RAIN method)https://www.patreon.com/posts/112573033/
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75. Can You Learn Compersion? ft. Evolving Love Project 31.03.2026 1h 10minAbbey and Liam from the Evolving Love Project return to share more about their journey opening up their relationship. They unpack why fairness doesn’t always mean doing the same things, reflecting on Abbey dating solo for two years before Liam did. They also explore whether compersion—the feeling of joy or happiness for your partner’s experiences with others—is something you can learn, and how it differs from simply feeling turned on by that idea.Join my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousResources mentioned:Abbey's Substack: https://substack.com/@evolvingloveproject?utm_source=global-searchEvolving Love Podcast: When Abbey Vetoed Fer:https://open.spotify.com/episode/47hASJGbb3UfcaWQTxinxCEp.42 Can Non-monogamy Make You a Better Parent? with Abbey and Liam:https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep42Evolving Love Project website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Get my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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74. Do This Before Opening Up with Nancy & Jonny 17.03.2026 1h 8minNancy and Jonny spent months focusing on education, workshops, community, and strengthening their communication before taking their first steps into non-monogamy.In this episode, they share what that intentional process looked like, the challenges they encountered, and how moving slowly helped them build a deeper sense of safety and trust in their relationship.They also share practical communication tools that helped them navigate difficult emotions, including one simple but powerful question partners can ask each other: Do you need to be helped, hugged, or heard?Resources mentioned:Queering Existentialism (Unlearning Mononormativity workshop and others):https://www.queeringexistentialism.com/Jonny’s Self-Love playlist:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1JszNHS2Bw95szUQtDaTG8?si=iModwn0YSR6lbcNv8dVouA&pi=K4mgv1OrTY2g1House Of Scorpio Lip Service Partyhttps://www.houseofscorpio.com/index.htmlBook: All Fours By Miranda Julyhttps://mirandajuly.com/all-fours/New York Jacks (Masturbation Party):https://nyjacks.com/Sucia Eventshttps://linktr.ee/suciasundaysMy Episode with Evolving Love Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/episode/47hASJGbb3UfcaWQTxinxCEp.52 How to Find Safety with Leo and Luna:https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep52My Break Up Story and Tips for Going Through a Breakup Part 2:https://www.patreon.com/posts/my-break-up-and-143818808Join my Patreon (for the Meetups) here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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73. I Wanted Sex with One Partner But Not The Other with Libby Sinback 03.03.2026 1h 9minWhat happens when you stop wanting sex with your long-term partner(s)… but not with someone new?In this episode, I’m joined by relationship coach and host of Making Polyamory Work, Libby Sinback. Libby shares openly about a four-year period in her marriage when she and her husband didn’t have sex and what it took to find their way back to intimacy.Resources mentioned:Learn more about Libby here: https://www.libbysinback.com/Morgan Burch’s post about sex not being a physical need here:https://www.instagram.com/goodmorgantherapy/p/DU01M50AD6s/?img_index=3Emily Nagoski’s books here: https://www.emilynagoski.com/booksMaking Polyamory Work episode with Drew here: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/makingpolywork/episodes/Leaning-In-e3c7lgc/a-acbv8i2Poly Parents Miniseries here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFX44KoR8S4&list=PLuhHN8kw_43UM2tkDWg8xwIZbOQBE__EeJoin my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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72. I Questioned Monogamy and Heteronormativity and Couldn’t Go Back 17.02.2026 1h 6minIn this episode, JJ shares how he went from being in a monogamous relationship to fully embracing his queer and non-monogamous identity. He opens up about working through shame and what it’s been like navigating queerness and non-monogamy as a man in a heteronormative culture.Resources mentioned:JJ's Bonus Patreon Content: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-72-nre-150958971?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_linkNon-escalator relationship menu: https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/pwkdxp/v3_relationship_components_menu_last_update_for/Join my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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71. Can BDSM Be Therapeutic? with Nicolle Hodges 03.02.2026 1h 15minIn this episode, Nicolle Hodges shares how she discovered the world of kink, became a lifestyle dominatrix, and realized BDSM can be profoundly therapeutic (the subject of her upcoming book!). She also reflects on her experience in a polyamorous relationship, including navigating a throuple, and explains why she ultimately decided to step away from non-monogamy.Follow Nicolle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicolledoublel/Nicolle's Substack Both Sides of The Slash:https://nicolledoublel.substack.com/Watch the podcast on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcastJoin my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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70. Jealousy is Information with Kayla + Carl (Part 2) 20.01.2026 41minIn part two of my conversation with Kayla and Carl, we explore how jealousy can be a powerful source of information, helping us understand what we want more of and how we can grow. We also talk about a major milestone in their non monogamy journey: Carl’s first experience stepping outside his marriage, which was also his first sexual connection with someone other than Kayla.Resources Mentioned:Kayla's Essay: https://medium.com/@kaylamerz/truth-sex-and-non-monogamy-8f1e42c8fde4?postPublishedType=initialJoin my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycuriousWatch the podcast on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast
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69. Non-monogamy Saved Our Marriage with Kayla + Carl (Part 1) 13.01.2026 59minKayla and Carl, a married couple with young kids, share how non monogamy helped them move out of a decline in sexual connection and communication. While Carl was initially not interested in exploring outside the relationship himself, his support of Kayla’s exploration became a major turning point. Kayla, who is seven years older and had often felt more in charge in the relationship, began to see Carl differently: more confident, grounded, and secure. That shift had a powerful impact on their intimacy. This episode explores how non monogamy can introduce new sexual energy into a relationship and help long-term couples who feel stagnant find their way out of a rut.Resources Mentioned:Listen to Part 2 of our conversation on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousWatch Parents Mini Series on YouTube (ep.42 - ep. 46)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFX44KoR8S4&list=PLuhHN8kw_43UM2tkDWg8xwIZbOQBE__EeListen to Poly Parents Mini Series:https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep42Kayla's Essay: https://medium.com/@kaylamerz/truth-sex-and-non-monogamy-8f1e42c8fde4?postPublishedType=initialJoin my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycuriousWatch the podcast on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast
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68. Having Three DADT Partners with Alex & Skyler 16.12.2025 1h 3minIn this episode, we explore what it looks like to navigate three Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell relationships in which all partners want escalation, while Skyler is not ready to step onto the relationship escalator with any of them. This tension is especially present for Alex, who is in her mid-thirties and thinking seriously about partnership, stability, and having children. Skyler shares how he moved from a long-term monogamous marriage into non-hierarchy and unexpectedly found himself in three relationships, while Alex reflects on meeting Skyler shortly before her divorce and falling in love while still grieving. Together, we unpack when Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell dynamics can feel protective versus when they can become harmful and how non-hierarchy can create tension when people’s futures are uncertain.Join my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycuriousWatch the podcast on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast
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67. What Two Terrible Breakups Taught Me with Jesse 04.12.2025 1h 9minToday, Jesse opens up about two challenging breakups that unfolded in the context of non-monogamy, how those endings impacted his reputation within his community, and how they shaped the way he saw himself. He also shares how later, healthier relationships helped him rewrite those old narratives. We talk about why we’re often drawn to people who aren’t actually a good fit for partnership, why even “bad” relationships can be valuable for the growth they spark, and how those experiences ultimately help us get clearer about what we want and lead us toward more grounded, nourishing connections.Bonus Patreon Content with Jesse:Being a Male Unicorn:https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-67-male-145030257Breaking Up for The Right Reasons:https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-67-up-145030787Get my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycuriousWatch Polycurious on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast
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66. All Roads Lead To Poly with Fer (Your Host) 18.11.2025 59minIn this episode, I finally sit on the other side of the mic. I’m interviewed by my friend A (who you might remember from the episode with her husband J).We talk about my upbringing, what I learned about my sexuality (including discovering masturbation much later in life), my journey with Seth as my primary partner and eventually finding a second partner, what it was like to navigate conflict with two partners, and why I’ve become such a big believer in not future-tripping and instead listening to your intuition in the moment.Join my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousBreakup episodes 1 + 2:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFer + Seth’s episode 12:https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep12Fer + Seth episode 48:https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep48John Part 1 (Patreon):https://www.patreon.com/posts/meet-my-partner-138151166John Part 2:https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep61Get my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycuriousWatch the podcast on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast
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65. Making Peace with Your Insecurities with A & J (Part 2) 04.11.2025 54minIn the second part of my conversation with A and J, we talk about how J learned to face and work through his insecurities instead of letting them dictate how A connects with others. We also explore how differently they’ve each approached non-monogamy, with A actively dating while J has taken things more slowly as he continues to unpack his religious upbringing and lifelong monogamous conditioning.Join our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycuriousWatch the podcast on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast
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64. Should You Have Rules When Opening Up? with A & J (Part 1) 21.10.2025 1h 3minA and J opened up their relationship after nearly three decades together, when menopause sparked a surge in A’s libido.In this episode, we talk about their process of untangling enmeshment, how they moved from a rule-heavy dynamic — with J, who was initially hesitant about non-monogamy, setting most of the boundaries — to having no rules at all. We also explore how those early rules revealed insecurities that J eventually chose to face and work through, rather than letting them control how A connects with others.Join our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycuriousWatch the podcast on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast
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63. Handling Big Emotions in Polyamory, Triads and Breakups with Evita Sawyers 07.10.2025 1h 7minToday, Evita Sawyers ((@Lavitaloca34) shares how she went from letting jealousy and anger take over to becoming more grounded and less reactive. We talk about her experience being in a triad and how opening her marriage revealed gaps in her relationship with her husband, ultimately leading to their breakup.This episode explores how non-monogamy can uncover powerful truths about yourself, serve as a path for personal growth, and highlight both the strengths and limitations within your relationships.Resourced mentioned:Patreon Bonus Content: Evita Sawyers on Leaving Religion, Dating Out of Jealousy and Finding Commitment in Non-MonogamyFollow Evita on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lavitaloca34?igsh=a2RqOHU5ZTdoMmRiFollow Evita on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/share/1Evne8bz9V/?mibextid=wwXIfrPatreon Bonus Content from This Conversation:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousPoly Love Documentary:https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B088G1RM9C/ref=atv_sr_fle_c_Tn74RA_1_1_1?sr=1-1&pageTypeIdSource=ASIN&pageTypeId=B088G3DKRG&qid=1759100808642The Untethered Soul Michael A Singer https://untetheredsoul.com/untethered-soulThe Power of Now by Eckhart Tollehttps://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruizhttps://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319No Mud, No Lotus by Thich Nhat Hanhhttps://www.parallax.org/product/no-mud-no-lotus/Loving What Is By Byron Katie https://thework.com/loving-what-is-revised-edition/More Than Two:https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706The Ethical Slut:https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664Nonviolent Communication:https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships/dp/189200528XThe Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown:https://brenebrown.com/book/the-gifts-of-imperfection/Get my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community here:https://www.polycurious.com/communityJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycuriousWatch the podcast on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast
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62. When Your Partner Chooses A Nesting Partner with Roshi & Frankie 23.09.2025 56minRoshi and Frankie have been navigating a long-distance polyamorous relationship for over three years, where they both have other partners. Today, we talk about:How to balance multiple relationships without losing a shared visionTheir experience building a long distance partnershipFinding security even when your partner has a nesting partnerWhy non-monogamy is also an inner journey that can help you gain clarity on who you are, your needs and integrate different parts of yourselfResources mentioned:Bonus content from this episode on Patreon (on Roshi's search for a nesting partner and Frankie's experience asking for what's important to her): https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-62-when-139590497Ep.6 Facing Insecurities Head On with Frankie:https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep6Where is Frankie Now? (Patreon):https://www.patreon.com/posts/120772218/Ep. 55 Aryn & Josh From Couples Therapy:https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep55Get my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://www.polycurious.com/communityJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokYouTubeFacebookThreads
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61. Meet My Secondary Partner Part 2 with John 09.09.2025 49minIn my conversation with John, my secondary partner, we get into how our relationship grew from friends-with-benefits into partnership. We revisit an early incident that brought up his fear of disappointing partners and my own struggles with trust and safety, and how that shaped our early days. I share what it’s been like to face my fears around partnership and learn to find safety within myself, while John opens up about practicing vulnerability, accountability, and breaking old patterns of people-pleasing.Listen to part 1 on my Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/posts/138151166/Listen to How I Went From Polycurious to Poly Part 1 here:https://www.patreon.com/posts/127305023/Listen to How I Went From Polycurious to Poly Part 2 here:https://www.patreon.com/posts/127307117/Get my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://www.polycurious.com/communityJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokYouTubeFacebookThreads
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60. Two Families, One Polycule with Catherine and Brian 01.07.2025 1h 3minCatherine and Brian went on Feeld looking for a threesome but things took a turn when Catherine fell for a woman who’s also married with a daughter. Now the two couples (and their kids) have formed a loving polycule built on honesty and care.In today’s episode, we talk about how Brian stays sensually connected to the dynamic by being submissive, even though he’s not sexually involved with Catherine’s girlfriend. We get into how they’ve navigated Catherine having threesomes with her girlfriend and her girlfriend’s husband. We also explore the importance of staying open to evolving dynamics, and why asking thoughtful questions can go further than quick reassurance when your partner is struggling in non-monogamy.Resources mentioned:Bonus content: Accepting myself as a submissive man with Brian:https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-60-as-154020880?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_linkBonus content: Raising a child in a polycule:https://www.patreon.com/posts/133008939/Ep.46 More Than A Mother with Molly Roden WinterMore Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (book)Sex with Emily podcastJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up here:https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me here:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community herehttps://www.polycurious.com/communityJoin our Patreon here:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousFollow Polycurious onInstagramTik TokYouTubeFacebookThreads
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