How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

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  Ep. 576 What Alpha Really Means Today 15.09.2026 57min

  We are throwing it back to a classic conversation about what it really means to be an alpha man today. Our guest Kevin Aillaud breaks down the qualities that make a man grounded, confident, and in charge of his own life. Kevin lives what he teaches, and you can hear that in every moment of this episode. A true must listen. >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 575 How YOU Can Date Younger Women 08.09.2026 55min

  David Shade joins us to discuss HOW to date younger women.  David is in his mid 70's and has a girlfriend in her 20's.  Impossible you say?  Listen to find out how he attracts younger women :) >>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 574 Let’s Talk About the Penis: Performance, ED, and What Women Really Think 01.09.2026 39min

  This week, Marni is joined by the one and only Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, for a no-holds-barred conversation all about the penis. From performance anxiety to erectile dysfunction, we’re breaking down the most common issues men face in the bedroom—and why it’s not just “in your head.” Susan shares expert insights on what actually causes ED, how to regain confidence and sensitivity, and why the porn you’re watching might be sabotaging your sex life. Plus, we get into what women really want when it comes to intimacy—and spoiler: it’s not about being a porn star. If you've ever felt insecure about getting or staying hard—or just want to up your bedroom game—this is the episode you didn’t know you needed. Susan's resources: PumpingGuide.com PumpsWork.com BetterLover.com >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 573 Crush Approach Anxiety with the Power of Precise Language 28.08.2026 46min

  What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic self. Spencer breaks down how unconscious language patterns fuel anxiety and resistance—and then flips the script with a live, on-air language coaching demo with Marni. Watch (okay, listen!) as he rewires her inner dialogue in real time to eliminate approach anxiety using easy, practical shifts you can apply today. This isn't just theory—it's transformation you can hear. If you've ever struggled with self-talk that kills your vibe before you even say hello, you need this episode in your ears. 🔥 Tune in to learn: The secret power of precise language How to eliminate approach anxiety through word choice Real-time mindset rewiring in action This one’s a game changer. >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 572 Dating by Blaine & Approaching Women 18.08.2026 29min

  Blaine is one of the best dating coaches out there and she's here to talk about how to approach women, and the BEST places to approach. She's also going to give us her tips on how to keep the conversation going after you've made the approach and so much more. >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 571 What Erotic Fiction Teaches You About Women 28.07.2026 38min

  Want to know what women fantasize about? This is a rerun episode but the insights are still incredibly valuable. In this episode, I'm joined by Jess from Bloomstories.com to explore what erotic fiction reveals about female desire, attraction, and intimacy. If you've ever wanted a better understanding of what turns women on emotionally and physically, this conversation will give you a completely different perspective. >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 570 How To Stay Masculine In A Long Term Relationship 21.07.2026 57min

  One of the biggest mistakes men make is thinking attraction takes care of itself once you're in a relationship. It doesn't. This is a rerun episode but every man in a long term relationship needs to hear it. I'm joined by Keith Yackey and Jesse Marquez from The Married Game to talk about how to maintain your masculine energy, keep attraction alive, and continue showing up as the man she fell for. >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 569 Read Her Better In The Bedroom 14.07.2026 40min

  Want to know what she's enjoying without having to guess? This is a rerun episode but the advice is timeless. In this episode, I'm joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method, to talk about how to become more tuned in to your partner during intimacy. You'll learn how to read her responses, communicate with confidence, and create deeper connection without overthinking every move. >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 568 How To Be More Masculine 07.07.2026 45min

  What does it really mean to be masculine? And more importantly... how do you maintain that masculine energy in a relationship? This is a rerun episode but the lessons are just as relevant today. In this episode, I sit down with Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com to talk about what healthy masculinity actually looks like and how to make it a consistent part of your life and your relationships If you've ever wondered how to stay attractive long after the honeymoon phase, this episode is for you. >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 567 Two Magical Tools To Eliminate Anxiety With Women (Rerun) 02.06.2026 31min

  Want approach anxiety GONE? Want the fear of rejection GONE? This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless. This week, one of my Wing Girls, Traci Bermingham, is here to talk about the two powerful mindset tools that help you stop spiraling in your head every time you approach a woman. Because most men are running on old mental programming that keeps them anxious, hesitant, and stuck in fear. And until you change that internal software, nothing changes externally. In this episode, Traci breaks down how to identify your triggering points, stop sabotaging yourself, and finally create new patterns that help you feel calm, grounded, and confident around women. So instead of getting trapped in your head… You can actually connect with her. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 566 Guide To Getting A Girlfriend (What To Do After The 1st Date) 26.05.2026 54min

  A lot of men can get the first date… But then they have absolutely no idea what to do next. This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless. Because what happens after the first date is usually where men either build attraction… or completely lose it. In this episode, I sit down with Jim Wolf, author of The Attract Her and Keep Her System, to talk about how men can better understand women and recognize when a woman is actually interested in them. We break down what women are looking for after the first date, the mistakes men make that push women away, and how to build momentum instead of losing it. If you have ever wondered why things seem great on the first date… and then suddenly fade out after… This episode is for you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 565 HOOK HER With Your Style 23.04.2026 41min

  Some men resist leveling up their style. But here is the truth. You are hurting your chances with women if you ignore how you show up. This is a rerun episode and it is one you should not skip. Because style is not about being flashy or fake. It is about presenting yourself in a way that makes you feel confident and makes women take notice. In this episode, I bring on my Wing Girl stylist Carol to break this down for you. We talk about why your clothing matters more than you think and how the right style choices can completely change how women respond to you. And more importantly, we get into exactly what to wear so you can look and feel your best. If you have ever wondered whether style really makes a difference… This episode will answer that for you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 564 How to be Masculine 10.04.2026 47min

  Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share what it really means to be masculine. This is a rerun episode but it is one you need to hear. Because being masculine is not something you just turn on once and you are done. It is something you have to carry through your life and your relationships. In this conversation, Shawn breaks down how to build that masculine foundation and how to keep it consistent so women feel it when they are around you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  (Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money) 09.03.2026 46min

  🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  The Biggest Female TURN ON of ALL Time? (Over 10,000 Women Surveyed) 26.02.2026 17min

  Become A Man Women Want NOW (Go Here): https://becomeamanwomenwant.com/ Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game. Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of. Once you know this secret, you will be able to attract more women than ever before. You will instantly multiply your dating options and have women craving to be with you. And that’s a guarantee. In this episode, Marni reveals the biggest female turn on of all time — and how you can use that to attract the women you desire. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnKiL462Dng Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect 23.02.2026 11min

  Learn to do AFTER the attraction phase to keep the girl here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/beyond_attraction_skills In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so you can be an amazing in the bedroom with women ;) MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAA104g1ZVA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women 23.02.2026 27min

  🔥 Download the FREE DISC Chart Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/downdisc 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://winggirlmethod.com/bookcall Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another? It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach. In this episode, Wing Girl Nadia breaks down our DISC chart that categorizes women into 4 personality types. You'll learn how to quickly identify which category a woman falls into, and exactly how to approach, flirt, and connect with her based on her type. Once you understand this framework, you'll never waste time using the wrong tactic on the wrong woman again. You'll know within minutes of meeting her exactly how to create attraction. If you've ever wondered why "being yourself" works sometimes but not others—this episode explains everything. 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/G4cXVFxabO4 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod 👋 Youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect 19.02.2026 17min

  Want to flirt like a pro with women? Get the F Formula NOW: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-flirty-now Did you know that it's possible to attract women WITHOUT saying a single word? It's true and it's doable by ANY man... YES even you ;). In this episode, Marni reveals exactly how to attract women without saying a word using the NATURAL effects of your body language. Body Language is the quickest and easiest thing you can alter to actually change how women see you. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QdXCidXhNSw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Private Message From Marni 17.02.2026 6min

  The Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift.  Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week.Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and become the men they’ve always want to be.Marni will be your host, your best female friend and your own personal Wing Girl.  She’s heard it all before and will deliver the best of the best insider information to help you turn women on.New episodes every Monday and Thursday.Help us by leaving a review and sharing our podcast!It’s time to turn women on! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Ep. 563 Misconceptions Of What Women Want 03.02.2026 1h 17min

  What women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion about dating attraction and the stories men tell themselves about women. They break down the biggest misconceptions that keep men confused frustrated and stuck including why common advice misses the mark how mixed signals get misread and what women actually respond to versus what men think they do. This episode is part debate part reality check and packed with insights that will challenge how you see dating and attraction. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices