Brittnee Bond

why men feel like ATMs (and women feel unloved) 09.05.2026 58min

She expects it, he resents it and nobody talks about it. My friend Emilio chat about this weird reality we live in with dating today and the best way to handle it...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ ❣️Book a coaching session with me:https://www.houseofpleasure.life/Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

What is a pleasure school retreat? 24.04.2026 23min

Apply here to join one of our Pleasure School Retreats:May 16-17th: https://luma.com/pleasure16If you’re ready to reclaim your sensual power, heal from past trauma, and learn how to give and receive pleasure with clarity and consent — this retreat is for you.THE PROBLEM MOST PEOPLE IGNOREWe’re taught to compartmentalize touch, pleasure, and intimacy. So many of us show up functioning in life — career, relationships, family — yet feel muted, guarded, or disconnected from our bodies and desires.This disconnection shows up as:uncertainty naming or communicating boundaries and desires fear of authentic connection or of being truly seen stuck nervous-system responses to touch and intimacy shame around pleasure or confusion about what feels safe and nourishingPlatonic (caring) touch Sensual touch Consensual s3xual exploration (optional, safely held space)somatic breathwork and nervous-system tools guided attunement, eye-gazing, and energetic practices communication training for boundaries and desire non-invasive experiential practices to map sensory and erotic intelligence community containers that teach how to be held and hold others2 days of guided, embodied practice Soft, yet firmly held container prioritizing consent, safety, and clear agreements Day 1: Platonic / Caring touch — safety, attunement, shadow work, emotional release, breathwork, cuddle practice, tribe-building Day 2: Sensual activation — sensory play, boundary & desire practice, erotic movement, shibari intro, role-play and consent games 50% off next Vanilla Play Party (consensual, non-coercive space to explore the option of s3xual touch) Private chef made meals, cacao opening ceremony, snacks, and restorative community integrationAnyone ready to reclaim sensual agency and heal embodied shame People seeking tools to articulate boundaries and desires with confidence Singles and couples (apply individually) who want authentic heart-centered community and safe practice spacesThis is not a failing. It’s a missed curriculum.We go to school for everything else, but why isn’t there a school for learning these essential tools?THIS IS AN INITIATION — NOT A RETREATPleasure School is a curated, safety-first initiation into three essential kinds of pleasure:We restore the missing education: how to embody pleasure, hold boundaries, and connect from the heart.THE METHODEmbodiment + somatic practice + relational skill-building.LOCATION & VIBELuxury villa • Jacuzzi • Private chefIntimate, curated group — limited spots to preserve depth and trust.

what actually makes her wet 15.04.2026 32min

men, you've been lied to on what actually turns a woman on. Here's the secret...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos🩵 DM me on instagram @brittneebond to chat about coaching and if you're a good fit to work with me. 🩵 here's the application for our Pleasure School Retreat May 16-17th in San Francisco:https://partiful.com/e/anIYdrePlDnlnLama5PG?c=4fUssQxu🩵 Here's the application for our vanilla play party june 20th in San Francisco: https://partiful.com/e/jYKEFBVSYpgnmuOm3YD6?c=1Z9NUFeF❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

why women betray each other over men 27.12.2025 29min

it’s going to keep happening unless we stop doing this thing…➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs 🦋 Want a human design session? 🦋I offer human design readings together with astrology mixed in as an empowerment session for souls who feel the calling. 😊✨It’s pure channeling what your higher self wants you to know right now. 🌼✨It’s 1 hour for $333Here’s the link to book that includes all the next steps: https://calendly.com/brittnee_bond/60min

this wasn't supposed to happen at a Vanilla play party 22.12.2025 35min

the most terrifying play party i've ever hosted➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs 🦋 Want a human design session? 🦋I offer human design readings together with astrology mixed in as an empowerment session for souls who feel the calling. 😊✨It’s pure channeling what your higher self wants you to know right now. 🌼✨It’s 1 hour for $333Here’s the link to book that includes all the next steps: https://calendly.com/brittnee_bond/60min

why women want to be dominated by men 20.11.2025 50min

Secrets revealed: why us women secretly love the bad boys 💅🏽➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

why you're lonely (how to fix it) 17.11.2025 36min

want deep connection and don't understand why it's not happening?Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?

how to deal with spiritual f*ck boys 23.10.2025 52min

we go deep on this one and give real tips on how to handle these boys so listen up. I'm excited to introduce my dear friend Calea to the show because she's dropping some fire truth bombs that will make you laugh and wake you up...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Calea:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovecalea/Website: thisiscalea.comFollow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

women should love money 02.10.2025 43min

This might be controversial, but someone has to say it...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

how to let a man support you 01.10.2025 1h

I used to believe I needed to do everything for myself (I still believe it's important to build stable wealth for yourself), and yet what happens in a healthy co-creation of masculine and feminine energies- can we become more than we were individually?...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

Monogamy is welcome here 23.09.2025 48min

does choosing monogamy mean you're less spiritually evolved? do you have to be open sxually (like polyamorous) to be accepted into a spiritual community? i hosted a cuddle event last week at my friend's house in san franciso and a good friend of mine was worried whether she'd be welcome to come because she's in a very monogamas relationship and it got me fired up to make this podcast...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

i survived burning man 2025 22.09.2025 46min

it was a wild ride this year for me and the main lesson I learned was surrendering and allowing the universe to show up with so much abundance and magical sidequests. here's all the juicy details...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos

just had the best date of my life 13.08.2025 41min

It’s getting real spicy up here in La…➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

my LA meltdown 10.08.2025 43min

my first week living here in los Angeles is not going as planned and ended with me crying in the street overwhelmed by life. here's the fully story...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

women find you sexy when you do this 04.08.2025 31min

Ever have a woman you love ask you how you feel and you didn't know? We don't have many positive male models in the world of men in general and even less of embodied men who can access their feelings and communicate them in a healthy and grounded way. This is so sexy to us women 😱🥰 and this episode shares practical tips to help you get started...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Connect with Noah:https://www.facebook.com/share/1E4mDBt9xZ/Kaleidoscopic Community FB for his events and community offerings-https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Fy6wd5aau/Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

why all men have trauma 01.08.2025 55min

Ever worried whether you're a "safe" man or a "good" man? This is something so many men worry about because we live in a culture where you can get outcast very quickly if deemed unsafe. There is a collective trauma all men are experiencing right now, whether they are consciously aware of it or not. Bringing this to the light and talking about it is so healing. I'd love to know what you think about this...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

i was sxually assaulted 25.07.2025 34min

I wanted to share a very raw and real story that happened to me because I shared it with my girlfriends and it brought up a lot of healing conversations. this might be triggering so be careful with this one. ...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

i had my first threesome with 2 men 21.07.2025 40min

I'm not sure if this is even legal to share on the internet, but here we go...➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs 🦋 Want a human design session?

if you want a sign this is it 18.07.2025 37min

need a sign everything is going to work out? want to hear what I've just learned about manifesting?➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs

i wanted to burn it all to the ground 15.07.2025 46min

I almost drowned in my emotions and here's how I made my way out. If you're a highly sensitive & emotional creature like me, you will relate to this one... ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Follow Brittnee:https://www.instagram.com/brittneebondhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0a99XmamAUvifv5eBo8kdV?si=672a8b64afe34f49https://www.youtube.com/@BrittneeBond/videos❣️What is the Vanilla Play Party?https://youtu.be/2PnweHdRYKs