No One Dies from Divorce

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  How to Win a High Conflict Divorce 16.09.2026 39min

  Some divorces are disagreements. Others are wars. When fear takes over and kids get pulled into the middle, a high-conflict divorce becomes one of the most exhausting things a person can go through. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with CoilLaw attorney Steve Oliphant, who's spent years handling our hardest, highest-conflict cases, to talk about what actually works when the other side won't stop fighting. We get into the word everybody throws around, narcissist, and why...
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  Inside the Judge’s Mind: What Family Court Actually Cares About 09.09.2026 48min

  Most people walk into family court convinced that the judge or commissioner will instantly see through their ex’s lies, validate their emotional pain, and hand down sweet justice. But here is the brutal reality: family court is not Perry Mason, and the bench is not there to heal your emotional wounds. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with my partner in crime, TR Morgan. TR brings an irreplaceable insider perspective to our team: prior to joining Coil Law as an attorney...
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  Why You Should NEVER Take Your Divorce to Trial (Unless You Have To) 02.09.2026 48min

  Are you holding out for a judge to finally validate your pain and punish your ex? Let me tell you right now: the courtroom will not heal your heart. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with my longest-standing attorney at CoilLaw, Luke Shaw, to give you the harsh reality about taking your divorce to trial. One of the absolute hardest parts of going through a divorce is knowing when to keep fighting and when continuing the fight is actually destroying you financially ...
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  What Judges ACTUALLY Care About in Custody Battles 26.08.2026 29min

  The biggest mistake parents make in a custody battle? Thinking they can "win" their case with one dramatic, explosive moment in the courtroom. In reality, judges decide custody based on the behavioral patterns they’ve seen long before you ever walk through the courthouse doors. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with attorney Austin Dominguez to deliver a massive reality check about the family court system. If you are heading into a custody dispute, you need to understan...
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  Why ChatGPT Is Wrecking Divorce Cases 19.08.2026 36min

  Most people don't lose their divorce in the courtroom. They lose it long before they ever get there, through emotional decisions that feel good in the moment and wreck the case later. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with CoilLaw attorney Samantha Frazier to break down the biggest mistakes we watch people make over and over, and how to avoid them. The angry text that gets read out loud in court. The "private" social media post your ex will absolutely find. Taking legal ...
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  Cheating Won't Destroy Your Divorce. Your Reaction Will. 12.08.2026 31min

  Finding out your spouse had an affair is one of the most devastating things a person can go through. After almost 20 years in family law, here's the hard truth I have to sit down and tell those clients: the affair itself probably won't change your divorce. But how you react to it can change everything. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I'm joined by CoilLaw attorney Savannah Lawrence to talk about affairs, betrayal, and what actually happens when infidelity meets family court. This...
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  Why "Keeping the Peace" Can Destroy Your Divorce 05.08.2026 37min

  Are you so emotionally exhausted by your divorce that you’re willing to sign anything just to make the fighting stop? Wanting peace is completely understandable, but settling too fast out of temporary fatigue can lead to legal and financial regret that lasts for years. In this episode of No One Dies From Divorce, I sit down with Coil Law attorney Chelsea Hoffman to unpack the hidden dangers of "peace at any price." We dive into the crucial difference between a healthy legal compromise and an ...
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  The Truth About Protective Orders in Divorce 29.07.2026 34min

  A protective order is the closest thing family law has to a nuclear bomb. In the right hands it saves a life. Used as a weapon, the fallout can level a family that was never in real danger to begin with. After almost 20 years in family law, I've watched both happen, and that's exactly why I wanted to do this episode. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with one of my senior CoilLaw attorneys, Alex Maynez, who's spent more than 25 years in family law, to talk honestly about...
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  Will I Ever Be Happy Again? Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce 22.07.2026 23min

  When you're in the middle of a divorce, it can feel like a bomb went off and the smoke is so thick you can't see an inch in front of your face. You can't picture life on the other side, and you're terrified it's going to hurt like this forever. After almost 20 years in family law, here's what I know that you can't see yet: it doesn't. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with my CoilLaw colleague Chariden to talk about the part nobody can imagine while they're still in it: ...
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  What Nobody Tells You About Money and Divorce 15.07.2026 32min

  Do you actually know where your family's money is going? After almost 20 years in family law, I can tell you the partners who don't are the ones who end up most vulnerable in a divorce. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with my CoilLaw colleague Crystal Anderson to talk about the part of divorce nobody warns you about: money and power. We get into why completely separate finances are the single biggest thread I see running through divorces, the way financial dependency q...
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  The Real Reason Nobody "Wins" in Divorce 08.07.2026 27min

  Think family court is about finding justice and punishing your ex? Think again. In this eye-opening episode of No One Dies From Divorce, I sit down with my partner in crime and senior managing attorney, Gabi Jones, to reveal the harsh legal realities that often shatter our clients' expectations. As experienced advocates in family law, Gabi and I explain why seeking revenge or "fairness" during a divorce usually leads to emotional burnout and financial strain. We unpack the profound psychologi...
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  Take The High Road in Divorce 22.05.2023 43min

  Do you feel stressed out, bewildered, emotionally compromised, or overwhelmed with navigating your divorce? Today we are talking with author Andy Heller about how to deal with high-conflict divorces and co-parent effectively. Through his own divorce and life experience, Andy has outlined a pathway for how to manage emotional, logistical, and financial issues that occur during and after a divorce. His goal is to help people choose compassion over fear, heal hearts, prepare for a future, and pr...
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  The Ugly Truth About Co-Parenting with Samantha Boss 15.05.2023 52min

  Samantha Boss spent years in and out of court, fighting to modify a poorly crafted divorce decree. This experience inspired Samantha to begin coaching others through the divorce process in order to help more parents avoid the pitfalls of parenting plans. Join us on this episode as we talk about the need for a solid, perfectly tailored parenting plan that covers your family's specific needs, or as Samantha calls it, ”the playbook for life with your kids.”
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  Dear Parents: Notes from a Child of Divorce 08.05.2023 41min

  Divorce is hard on everyone. Between Mediation, decrees, lawyer fees, court dates, parent-time, and more, the divorce process can create a lot of chaos. Often the children of divorce get lost in the conflict, and their voices are not heard. Today we are talking with Grace Casper, a young woman who was a child of divorce. Grace is sharing her perspective as her parents divorced while she was still a child. In her book that's coming out in June, Grace shares what she wishes her parents knew dur...
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  How to Move Forward after Loss, Divorce, & Grief 01.05.2023 43min

  Shelly Anderson is passionate about life's journey and the stages we grow through. At times that includes loss, divorce, and death. Join us as we discuss how grief isn't just a single stage, and that trauma becomes a part of who we are. Time does not heal all wounds; time allows the body to absorb the wounds and create space so we can mourn the life we thought we’d live, and press forward in the life we have.
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  The Cost of Blended Families with Naja Hall 24.04.2023 45min

  If you're divorced and dating or dating a divorcee, then this episode is for you! Listen in as Naja Hall tells it like it is. Blended families are difficult under the best of circumstances, but marrying someone with a High-Conflict divorce comes at a cost. It will test you mentally, emotionally, and financially, and test your relationship with your new spouse as well as any children involved. All blended families come with chaos and friction, so take Naja's advice and make sure your expectati...
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  Should I stay or Should I go? with Kate Anthony 17.04.2023 42min

  Regardless of where you're at in your marriage or divorce process, there are a few key things to consider before choosing to stay or go. Divorce coach Kate Anthony talks about the importance of doing the emotional work which can guide you to finding joy and/or exit with grace. She says, Happiness is an inside job and it begins with making the choice. You deserve to be happy!
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  Why Not Ask? Getting what you want and need after divorce. 10.04.2023 48min

  The question we should all be asking ourselves Why not ask is relevant in all facets of life. From high-conflict divorces to negotiations in the workplace, we can all benefit from the art of having Crucial Conversations that apply to all our relationships. Join us as we talk with Negotiation expert, Christine McKay, about how Negotiation isn't about winning, it's a conversation about relationships and you can't “win” a relationship.
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  Divorce and the Unspoken Childhood Trauma with Tara Seals 03.04.2023 45min

  Make your passion your purpose and it becomes your profession, something Tara Seals, The Bossy Educator has definitely accomplished. As a child of divorce, an educator, and a bonus mom herself, Tara knows all about what divorce means for children. In this episode, Jill and Tara dive into the unspoken trauma and confusion that impacts children when parents divorce. Gather your village, get clear on communication, and put your child's needs first. They see it, feel it, and need you ...
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  Let Him See That Child with Attorney Boyd 27.03.2023 48min

  For Jill and Joanna, family law was a calling. A call to represent the underdog and even the playing field for fathers. Both women have set the bar high in establishing firms that advocate for equal rights, parent time, and a voice is doing what's best for the child. Too often children are weaponized and used as leverage for money and control. Listen in as they share their journey through law and proclaim the battle cry, “Let him see that child.”