A Little Birdie Told You

the love you gave was never wasted 29.05.2026 19min

Never regret the amount of love you gave to others. Maybe you’re reflecting on a connection, regretting the amount of times you put effort into them, showed up when you probably shouldn’t have, and gave love to someone who didn’t deserve it. But the thing is, you truly felt something in that moment, you cared, you were genuine. And maybe that’s the closure, that you genuinely cared. In this episode, Kristen comforts you with the peace in knowing that the love you give defines you, not them. The way others handled your heart says more about them than you. And the truth is, the love you gave wasn’t wasted, it will return to you. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

when the anxious attachment becomes avoidant. 22.05.2026 20min

Sometimes the pain of constantly chasing, waiting, and seeking love triggers a protective mechanism that leads an anxious attachment into an avoidant state. Whether it’s always being the one waiting for that reply, making excuses, giving until there’s nothing left, maybe the anxious finally gave up and became protective of their heart. Because at one point, the person who craved closeness is now afraid of it. In this episode, Kristen expresses the shift that sometimes occurs in an anxious attachment into the avoidant, learning to heal, and navigating relationships in a healthy way. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

the last meeting theory 15.05.2026 19min

There’s a theory that claims when you’ve learned the lesson a connection was meant to teach you, you and that person will never cross paths again. No matter the distance, shared friends, or mutual places, you never bump into them again. Well, in this episode, Kristen shares the truth about this theory. Discussing her perspective, explaining the overall meaning, the purpose of never seeing this person again, and how you can be tested by encountering this person before entering a new chapter. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

your self respect must be stronger than your emotions 08.05.2026 31min

Sometimes our emotions can make us impulsively make decisions, but the truth is, emotions are temporary, they are constantly changing. The thing is, self-respect is different. Self-respect sets the standard for what type of treatment you accept. In this episode, Kristen discusses the commitment of choosing yourself, refusing to settle, developing a sense of self-respect, recognizing the importance of your boundaries, and learning to allow your self-respect to be louder than your emotions. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

stop being afraid of losing them, be afraid of losing yourself trying to keep them. 01.05.2026 23min

Many of us are afraid to let go of someone, so we cling to them, attempting to convince them why they should stay, leaving behind our standards and settling for treatment we don’t deserve. But, we don’t realize while we’re so focused on fixing the relationship, we’re slowly losing ourselves in the process. In this episode, Kristen emphasizes the importance of maintaining a relationship with yourself, refusing to betray your standards or abandon who you are, whether it's understanding the red flags, learning to let go, becoming grounded within yourself, or being aligned with your worth. It’s time to prioritize the relationship with yourself. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

how to stop thinking about them 24.04.2026 24min

Maybe you’re finding yourself thinking about that specific person, reminiscing on old memories, pondering on what could’ve been, or checking their social media. But, for every moment you think about them, is every moment you give them energy they may not deserve. In this episode, Kristen discusses how to actually prevent yourself from repeating the loop of constantly thinking about someone, especially those who didn’t value your presence when they had access to it. Whether it’s learning to redirect your energy back to yourself, breaking the pattern, or shifting your mindset, this episode teaches you how to finally stop thinking about them. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

you’re single. now what? 17.04.2026 27min

Perhaps you’ve entered your single season, whether you’re fresh out of heartbreak, struggling with loneliness, or attempting to become content with this period of romantic solitude, the key question remains: What do you do now that you’re single? In this episode, Kristen dives into the gift of being single, highlighting the importance of taking advantage of your singleness, as this is the time to find who you truly are, grow a relationship with yourself, and understand what you truly desire in yourself and partners. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

your detailed guide to detachment 10.04.2026 30min

You've most likely heard the familiar phrases of the art of detachment, letting go, and allowing yourself to release all tendencies to attach to outcomes. But, where does detachment begin? How can you actually become detached? Well, in this episode, Kristen guides you through the internal steps to build detachment within yourself to become unbothered and controlled when it comes to your emotions. Whether it’s learning to view situations as a simple experience, understanding what you can control, gaining a sense of independence, or figuring out what’s aligned with your path through detachment, this episode guides you to mastering the mindset of finally letting go. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

nobody is coming to save you, save yourself 03.04.2026 17min

This episode is the reality check you've needed. In this episode, Kristen gives you the hard truth: nobody is coming to save you. Many of us, whether you choose to admit it or not, are waiting for a perfect moment, person, or circumstance before we move forward or allow ourselves to be content. We wait, we hope, but it's time to become, to become the version of yourself that chooses yourself, gives yourself the love you desire, and understands that you can finally save yourself. Because the truth is, nobody is coming to save you, it's time to save yourself. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

how to stop romanticizing their potential 28.03.2026 18min

Many of us see the potential in the patterns of reality when it comes to a person. We create this idealized version of them in our minds, hoping that maybe if we stay a little longer, give a little more, or explain with more detail, that maybe they will change. Yet, the truth is, you cannot force change on someone who is unwilling to grow. In this episode, Kristen and Kelli discuss why it’s important to focus on the reality over the potential of a person, as their potential isn’t a promise. Whether it's learning how to let go, focusing on the present, or accepting reality, this episode gives you the relief in stopping yourself from romanticizing potential. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

the avoidant returned..now what? 20.03.2026 22min

An avoidant usually always makes a return, but should you let them? You may be asking yourself, why are they coming back? Why would the person who couldn’t commit come back? Is it curiosity, closure, or control? Well, in this episode, Kristen discusses what to do when the very person who left you decides to return, how to avoid repeating the cycle, the psychology behind the pattern, energetically detaching from the dynamic, and why rejecting an avoidant may be the best case scenario. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

mistakes aren’t punishment, they’re preparation 13.03.2026 20min

Mistakes are a necessary part of growth. Many of us believe mistakes are proof of failure, as if we’re falling behind. but the truth is, every mistake carries information that allows you to become equipped with knowledge to stop repeating the pattern. Every failed relationship, every wrong door opened, every setback, every disappointment, allows you to learn what you will refuse to tolerate ever again. Making mistakes gives you access to refine the person you’re becoming, to choose differently, to keep moving forward with clarity. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

why do I keep attracting the same type of relationships? 06.03.2026 27min

It seems we often attract the same type of partnerships. It almost seems as if it’s the same person in a different body, resulting in the same ending, betrayal, pain, and heartache. Realistically, are we attracting the same type of dynamics, or are we accepting? In this episode, Kristen discusses how to recognize the relationships you’re accepting. We learn how to break the pattern, decipher between safety and chaos in a relationship, set standards, and implement boundaries to prevent the cycle from repeating. Overall, you’re not attracting the same dynamics, you’re accepting them. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

learn to love being alone. 27.02.2026 22min

Learn to love your own company, not solely in a romanticizing sense, but actually loving the process of being alone. When you spend time with yourself, you uncover who you are without the outside noise, without external projections, you sit with your own emotions and triggers, revealing your true identity. In this episode, Kristen discusses how establishing your relationship with yourself not only sets the standards for everything that follows but also aligns with who you desire to become and understanding who you are at the core. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

trust that closed doors are protection, not punishment. 20.02.2026 19min

When a door shuts, we initially ask ourselves, “What went wrong?”We question ourselves and wonder what could have been done differently to keep the door open. However, you should be grateful that the door closed. If that door hadn't closed, you may have settled for less than you deserve and tolerated behavior that doesn’t align with who you’re meant to become. What seemed like punishment was actually protection in disguise. It didn't close to punish you, it closed to prevent you from staying in a space that didn't understand your value. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

not every apology deserves access to you 13.02.2026 20min

Sometimes those who disrespected, betrayed, or hurt us finally decide to resurface after a duration of time and provide us with an apology for their actions. But the real question is, is their apology sincere? In this episode, we dissect the psychology behind apologies, revealing the three key reasons people feel the need to apologize, whether it’s due to guilt, ego conflict, or an attempt to see if they still have access to your energy. Why do they feel the need to apologize now? Does their apology deserve access to your energy? Well, in this episode, we give you all the necessary information to decide. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

finding yourself begins with unlearning who you were taught to become 06.02.2026 26min

When we are attempting to find our true identity, we first have to unlearn who we were taught to become. Many people in our environments will project limitations onto us, creating the need to feel validated and achieve certain expectations ingrained in our minds. But what’s life if you’re not truly living for yourself? In this episode, Kristen discusses why it’s crucial to unlearn the patterns and projections you were taught. Whether it’s recognizing these habits, choosing yourself, embracing authenticity, giving yourself permission, and practicing boundaries, let’s learn how to unlearn who we were taught to become. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

learning to finally let go. 30.01.2026 16min

Letting go of someone, something, or a situation can be a difficult process. Truthfully, letting go happens in layers. In this episode, Kristen and Kelli express why you should let go, breaking the cycle of attachment and choosing detachment, refusing to repeat patterns, understanding your emotions through the process of letting go, finding closure internally, and why clinging onto what’s not meant for you is preventing you from creating space for what is. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

date with discernment, not desperation. 23.01.2026 26min

In this episode, we dive into the dating realm, giving you our honest truths when it comes to pursuing romantic relationships. Whether it's learning to choose yourself, deciphering between love and loneliness, consistency over intensity, pursuing love through discernment over desperation, establishing a relationship with yourself, understanding the value you carry into relationships, refusing to see potential over reality, listening to your intuition, setting standards, finding the love you deserve, or no longer waiting to be chosen, we discuss it all. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

trust your intuition 16.01.2026 19min

Choosing to trust your intuitive nudge can be crucial in navigating your life. Whether it’s distancing yourself from certain situations, a calling to pursue something, understanding the distinction between intuition and anxiety, navigating what’s meant for you, shifting from the perspective of what you desire to see to reality, and clarity versus confusion in this episode, we cover why you should heavily develop confidence in your intuition. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.