Charisma on Command

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  This Scene Will Change How You Handle Conflict 26.09.2026 12min

  Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-MikeThere are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference.0:00 - Intro2:05 - Be Explicit3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why3:56 - Don't Take Full ResponsibilitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Edited by Akash RajpurohitWritten by Charlie HoupertDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation 26.09.2026 5min

  Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meethttps://goo.gl/XTcjzHDaily Tip: Charismatic Body Language EvaluationSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  3 Body Language Habits That Make People Dislike You 26.09.2026 7min

  Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds:https://goo.gl/D6dy72Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About YouSee how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks. The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated. When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident. And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking.So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Build Unwavering Confidence 26.09.2026 18min

  How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence BreakdownGet INSANE Confidence, Instantly! https://bit.ly/2N3xkCCConor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time. He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty. That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac."Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon. In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident. Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown 26.09.2026 10min

  How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma BreakdownHow to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters.When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Influence People With Your Word Choice 26.09.2026 12min

  Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2simGTtHow To Influence People (And What Not to Do)Want to know how to influence people? Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do. This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden. You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say.Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Make Someone Realize They Can't Control You 26.09.2026 11min

  The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-DraperThis Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself.This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl80:00 - Intro0:14 - The situation1:00 - Where Don shines2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution6:36 - The best way I know to work on thisSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by CharlieEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  When Someone Intimidates You, Do This... 26.09.2026 19min

  Build the confidence to stay calm, present, and charismatic in any social setting:👉 https://bit.ly/017-26-VonTysonWhy did Mike Tyson go into an interview expecting to dislike Theo Von, then end up telling him, “I love you”? In this video, we break down what Theo did differently with Tyson compared to his infamous interview with Bill Burr, and why one conversation created connection while the other fell apart.You’ll learn how to stop getting trapped in your own head, listen without slipping into performance mode, ask deeper questions without making things awkward, and handle tense moments without becoming defensive. Most importantly, you’ll see how staying physically calm can make all of these skills much easier when you’re nervous or desperate to make a good impression.0:00 The Art of Navigating Intimidating Conversations0:58 How to Handle Someone Who Intimidates You2:43 The Power of Pausing and Reflective Listening5:35 Building Intimacy Through Incremental Questions12:16 Using Body Language to Stay Calm and PresentSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  The One Social Skill That Beats All The Others 26.09.2026 22min

  Want to become more charismatic and confident in any conversation?👉 https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStoryWatch the full podcast episode here:👉 https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAgMost people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable.You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear.__________________0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster9:22 The Power of the False Ending13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story__________________Subscribe to Charisma On Command:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Sydney Sweeney Controversy Reveals Something Darker About Us 26.09.2026 14min

  Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhendersonSometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it.0:00 - Intro1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status8:15 - The Direct Route8:41 - The Indirect Route9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Andre RingkjoebChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Be Charming When Talking To People 26.09.2026 13min

  Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating StoriesJennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world. Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises. She is considered extremely funny and grounded. Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do. And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells. In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past. They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Show Up For Someone In A Rough Time 26.09.2026 16min

  The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult:https://bit.ly/002-26Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship.In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough.0:00 - Intro0:47 - Offer help before they ask1:25 - Offer help without hooks4:37 - Honor their boundaries7:23 - Support them without this...8:55 - See them as mid-storySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Why Modern Men Are Lost (The Missing Energy) 26.09.2026 13min

  Watch my King Archetype video:https://youtu.be/Qe3moydLS8wTry the Warrior Breathwork:https://youtu.be/aelfMAhl2hgIf you want to build unshakable confidence and reconnect with your full potential, check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/018-25In today’s video, I dive into why so many modern men feel lost, lonely, and disconnected—and reveal how the forgotten masculine archetypes, especially the warrior, hold the key to reclaiming our purpose, power, and inner fire.0:00 - Intro0:58 - Archetypes explained1:46 - The final masculine archetype2:25 - Part I: Channel Your Aggression4:04 - Part II: Embrace Solitude5:25 - Part III: Take Risks6:50 - Part IV: Wield The Fire of DeathSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Unlock The Forgotten Masculine Power Modern Men Crave 26.09.2026 16min

  Join the in person event waiting list:https://charismaoncommand.activehosted.com/f/70Some men seem to see what’s coming. They spot where the market will move, guess how competitors will act, and position themselves to win.In this video, I’ll show you how to build that skill, read patterns, predict outcomes, and influence what happens next. To do so, we’re going to dive into what depth psychology calls the archetype of the Magician.0:00 - Intro2:02 - Unlearn what you have learned3:29 - Enter non ordinary states of consciousness5:02 - Surrender to something larger9:18 - It's not about you11:15 - Join my in person event Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Be Confident Under Pressure (Even if You're Shy) 26.09.2026 13min

  The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:👉 https://bit.ly/016-26-IndePressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away.In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection.You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more confident, and how to stop holding back so you can express yourself freely at work, on dates, and in your social life.0:00 - Intro1:10 - Priming4:00 - Energy Mirroring5:29 - Announce Your NervesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How to Apologize Without Shame: The Upright Apology 26.09.2026 15min

  Learn more about Charisma University: https://bit.ly/021-25Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology.My podcast with Joe Hudson:https://youtu.be/KxiPnflbwJI?si=ocYol2HiZU3DpIB3Joe Hudson's YouTube channel:‪@ArtofAccomplishment‬ Get $300 off Joe Hudson's Connection Course:https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/charisma-on-command0:00 - Intro1:30 - The problem2:28 - How this applies to your life3:02 - A real apology 3:19 - How can we fix it?3:54 - The Shame "Hot Potato"6:14 - The problem with shame5:52 - Why I made this video7:34 - The 4 steps to an upright apology9:26 - How to further improve relationshipsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  The Masculine Move Most Men Are Too Afraid to Make 26.09.2026 16min

  Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacherMost men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples.You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want.0:00 - Intro0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct actionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Stick To Your New Years Resolutions 26.09.2026 6min

  Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDSo I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Take Control Of Any Conversation Without Trying 26.09.2026 11min

  How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2ENXozaLearning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview. This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Be The Center Of Attention 26.09.2026 11min

  Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjPWhy People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around.Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices