In the Nude: naked truth of healing

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  Why You Escape: Unpacking “-isms” and Under and Over-Functioning Trauma Response 08.09.2026 58min

  If you are exhausted from using work, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or substances to manage the silent weight of burnout, this deep, transformative conversation reveals why changing the surface behavior never fixes the trauma underneath: and how to finally meet the version of yourself that doesn't need to run.Why do so many "successful" lives still feel emotionally frozen on the inside? When we experience unresolved trauma or childhood disconnection, our survival brain learns to trade authenticity for attachment: using coping mechanisms like overworking, hyper-control, perfectionism, or chemical escapes just to feel safe and accepted. But changing the behavior alone never heals the root cause. When you treat the symptom without tending to the nervous system wound, shame takes over, locking you into an endless cycle of escape, burnout, and self-abandonment.If you feel like you have tried everything, keep circling the same patterns, or suspect that the very thing you are avoiding is what will set you free, you are not broken. Your survival habits make total sense.In this powerful, eye-opening episode of In the Nude: Naked Truth of Healing, host Rachel Abi sits down with renowned addiction and recovery expert Jeanne Foot (founder of The Recovery Concierge and Naturally High) to unpack what it actually takes to heal addiction, trauma, and emotional disconnection from the root.Together, they share direct, actionable insights on how black-and-white thinking keeps us trapped, why ego is often just a shield for hidden fear, and how to transition from white-knuckle survival into true somatic peace.What We Unpack in This Root-Cause Conversation:The Hidden Mechanics of Escape: Why high-functioning adults use workaholism, control, and substances to numb unprocessed emotional pain.Treating Root Causes vs. Symptoms: How trauma reshapes your identity and why self-compassion, not shame or harsh discipline, is the ultimate turning point for change.Becoming the Scientist of Your Life: Practical tools using somatic healing, hypnotherapy, NLP, and breathwork to observe your patterns without judgment.Micro-Actions over Dramatic Breakthroughs: How movement, sleep, nervous system regulation, and journaling create sustainable, long-term emotional freedom.Rebuilding Self-Trust: Rachel and Jeanne share lived experiences of burnout and rebuilding, offering a realistic path to softening your defenses and creating a life that actually feels like home.Healing is not a rigid destination or a test of perfection: it is a daily practice of returning to yourself. Tune in to stop surviving on autopilot, clear the old survival patterns, and step into an authentic life of unshakeable calm, agency, and peace.Where you can find more Jeanne Foot? https://therecoveryconcierge.com/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/naturally-high/id1585263254https://www.instagram.com/therecovery_concierge/
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  The "Google Maps" Rule for Inner Child Healing: How Childhood Trauma Conditioning Shapes Your Beliefs and How to Reprogram Your Subconscious 03.09.2026 18min

  If you find yourself overfunctioning in relationships, accepting crumbs of affection, or constantly trying to earn the love you already deserve:this raw, eye-opening episode reveals why your brain keeps running an outdated survival script, and how to finally break the cycle.What if the heavy belief crushing your daily life isn't an absolute truth, but simply an old survival story your brain created to keep you safe as a child? When you grow up surrounded by emotional unpredictability, conditional approval, or attachment wounds, your subconscious mind adopts core protection scripts like "I am unlovable," "I am unworthy," or "I have to be perfect to be safe." Decades later, those exact childhood wounds quietly run the show—shaping how you handle conflict, driving you to overwork, and locking you into exhausting patterns of people-pleasing and self-doubt.If you are tired of self-improvement that feels like endless, exhausting work, or you're ready to stop handing your power over to past betrayals, you are not broken. You are simply stuck in a subconscious loop.In this deeply personal and practical episode of In the Nude: Naked Truth of Healing, host Rachel Abi unpacks why so many of us overfunction, over-deliver, and trade our authenticity for peace. She traces how childhood conditioning creates the rigid patterns we carry into adult relationships, and breaks down why your daily actions reveal what you actually believe about your worth—regardless of how many positive affirmations you repeat.Rachel introduces her game-changing "Google Maps" approach to belief reprogramming: a hands-on, action-based strategy to map out where you currently are, interrupt old survival stories, and build unshakeable self-trust through conscious, grounded choices.What We Unpack in This Naked Conversation:The Subconscious Origins of Overfunctioning: Why you settle for crumbs in relationships and feel the constant urge to earn love, safety, and validation.The "Google Maps" Framework: How to rewrite deep-seated core beliefs ("I'm not enough," "I'm unlovable") through small, aligned actions instead of forced positive thinking.Past & Future Illusion: Why trauma makes your imagination masquerade as certainty—and how to pull your nervous system back into the present moment.Shifting from Resistance to Choice: How to stop fighting old triggers and start responding with calm, conscious, and firm boundaries.Reclaiming Self-Worth: How to drop self-protection mechanisms, lay down the weight of overwork and resentment, and give yourself permission to take up space.You do not have to spend the rest of your life living from wounds that were never yours to carry. Tune in to stop surviving past stories, step out of relational anxiety, and start building a life that feels like genuine peace, joy, and self-trust.
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  What Are You Pretending Not to Know? Shame, Ego-Driven Ambition, and the Truth About Body-Based Healing with Jay Sefton 01.09.2026 56min

  If you are torn between chasing your big ambitions and longing for quiet peace, exhausted from white-knuckling your way through shame spirals, and tired of generic self-help advice that leaves you feeling empty... this grounded, disarmingly honest conversation will show you how to finally come back to your body.When you grow up in an environment shaped by emotional unintelligence, rigid expectations, or a high-control background, you learn early that shame is a survival mechanism. You internalize the belief that you are never doing enough, turn your ambition into an exhausting hustle, and let the quiet fear of scarcity run your life. Years later, you might find yourself stuck in a cycle of striving for the next achievement, only to feel deeply disconnected, anxious, and defeated when it fails to bring you lasting peace.Shame, scarcity, and ego do not just disappear on their own. They silently shape every choice you make until you learn how to actively interrupt them in real time.In this thoughtful, practical conversation on In the Nude: Naked Truth of Healing, host Rachel Abi sits down with actor and mental health professional Jay Sefton to unpack the hidden crossover between theater and therapy. Drawing from 25 years in acting and his transition into mental health work, Jay shares how body awareness, silence, and the Meisner technique become powerful somatic tools for coming home to yourself. Rachel brings her own raw healing journey into the mix, turning this dialogue into an accessible, unvarnished blueprint for shifting from harsh self-judgment to authentic self-trust.Together, they strip away the performance of "fixing yourself" and dive into what it actually takes to regulate your nervous system on your hardest days. You will learn how to recognize when your motivation is nourishing you versus when it is draining your spirit, why resistance isn't a sign to give up, and how small, body-based actions rebuild self-worth faster than any positive affirmation ever could.What We Unpack in This Naked Conversation:The Intersection of Acting and Therapy: Why listening, somatic presence, and dropping the social mask on stage are the exact same tools required for deep personal healing.Deconstructing Ego-Driven Striving: The crucial difference between healthy drive that fuels your soul and ego-driven ambition that leaves you feeling hollow and exhausted.Interrupting Emotional Spirals: Practical somatic tools—including breathwork, body regulation, and "naming the weird thing out loud"—to stop anxiety and shame before they overwhelm you.Reframing Resistance: Why feeling stuck or hesitant isn't a stop sign, but an invitation to move forward with more radical honesty and less shame.Building Your Personal Litmus Test: How to tune into your physical body to discern what truly makes you feel alive versus what you are doing just to satisfy external validation.You do not have to earn your right to exist or prove your worth through relentless effort. Your way is allowed to be your way. Tune in to step out of the mental prison of performance, stop pretending not to know your truth, and discover practical principles to traverse this world with more ease, honesty, and peace.Want more Jay? https://www.unreconciledtheplay.com/https://www.instagram.com/unreconciledtheplay/?hl=enhttps://jaysefton.com/
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  Why You Escape: How Numbing, Overworking, and CPTSD Hyper-Vigilance Keep You Trapped in Survival Mode 27.08.2026 22min

  Ever feel like you’ve made massive strides in your healing journey, only for an unexpected trigger, betrayal, or comment to pull you straight back into old habits of self-criticism, fear, and feeling "not enough"? You aren’t back at square one—your nervous system is just asking for a new level of safety.Why do deeply ingrained patterns like overthinking, perfectionism, overworking, and people-pleasing feel so impossible to break with simple willpower or positive thinking? The truth is, your conscious mind only holds a fraction of the power—the rest is driven by subconscious belief filters and "stuck energy" stored in your physical body. When you've spent years operating in high-alert survival mode, relaxing into a life of calm, peace, and authentic joy can actually feel terrifying to an unconditioned nervous system.In this powerful, eye-opening episode of In the Nude: Naked Truth of Healing, host Rachel Abi joins renowned energy medicine expert and mind-body therapist Dr. Judith Swack to strip away the confusion around subconscious barriers, emotional triggers, and somatic healing.Together, they break down the exact mechanics of how old trauma wounds resurface and explore how deep core beliefs—like "I am unlovable" or "I am unsafe"—cause your brain to automatically deny, delete, and dismiss the positive love and success right in front of you.Rather than treating healing as a rigid, linear process, this conversation offers practical, fast-acting somatic tools—including Frontal Occipital Holding (FOH) and bilateral stimulation—to clear emotional baggage, reset fight-or-flight responses in real-time, and shift your nervous system back into calm.What We Unpack in This Deep-Dive Conversation:The Science of Stuck Energy: How subconscious emotional patterns drive habits like emotional eating, self-sabotage, and anxiety far more than your conscious thoughts do.Targeted Somatic Techniques: Practical, hands-on tools like unwinding frontal occipital holding and self-hug bilateral stimulation to dissolve shame, panic, and anger in minutes.The "Deny, Delete, Dismiss" Bias: How inherited belief filters warp your reality—and how to rewire your brain to finally receive love, success, and connection.Navigating Triggers & Setbacks: How to process heavy emotional waves in your body instead of suppressing them or spiraling into mental loops.Living in True Authentic Peace: How to tune into your body’s subconscious signals, step out of performative perfectionism, and create space for unapologetic joy.You do not have to spend the rest of your life managing emotional triggers or fighting your own mind. Tune in to uncover the hidden drivers behind your habits, clear old subconscious blocks, and step into the peaceful, thriving life you deserve.
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  Overpreparing Is a Trauma Response: Visibility Wounds, Unfinished Healing, and the Fear of Being Seen as Yourself with Kristina Denton 25.08.2026 1h 16min

  If you are exhausted from overpreparing just to feel safe, terrified of stepping into the spotlight of your own life, and feeling completely alone in the messy, unpolished reality of trauma recovery... this disarmingly honest conversation is your permission slip to stop performing and finally come home to yourself.When you grow up with visibility wounds, enmeshment, or an environment where love felt like something you had to constantly earn, you learn early that performance equals safety. You become an expert at overpreparing, managing your reputation, and chasing external validation just to prove your worth. Years later, you might find yourself trapped in an exhausting cycle of perfectionism and control, feeling like the thing you fear most, being truly seen for who you are, is the exact thing your soul is screaming for.Healing from complex trauma is not a clean, linear, 5-step formula. It is tender, uncomfortable, and often requires us to face the strange ways our adult lives magnify every unfinished part of our past.In this raw, deeply human conversation on In the Nude: Naked Truth of Healing, host Rachel Abi sits down with actress, writer, and producer Kristina Denton for an unfiltered look at identity, self-worth, and the pressure of visibility. Kristina opens up about how a childhood of feeling disconnected shaped her deep love of storytelling, why acting became both a safe escape and a terrifying mirror, and how years of chasing Hollywood accolades nearly buried her true self.Together, Rachel and Kristina strip away the sanitized wellness tropes to discuss the unvarnished reality of nervous system survival patterns, IFS (Internal Family Systems), breathwork, and somatic healing. They unpack the vulnerability of putting family truth on the page, the emotional fallout of breaking generational silence, and why real transformation begins only when we stop trying to control the narrative and start trusting our own voice.What We Unpack in This Naked Conversation:The Overpreparation Trap: How hyper-vigilance and overpreparing are secretly trauma responses rooted in the fear of making mistakes or being judged.Healing Visibility Wounds: Why stepping into the spotlight, whether on a stage or in your personal relationships, triggers your body's survival instincts, and how to safely navigate the pressure of being seen.Dismantling the Myth of Earning Love: Unpacking enmeshment, the toxic illusion of "the other half," and how to stop abandoning yourself to keep the peace.Somatic & Integrative Modalities: How Human Design, astrology, IFS (Internal Family Systems), therapy, and breathwork helped Kristina reconnect with her physical body.The Courage of Truth-Telling: Kristina’s 7-year journey writing her deeply personal book, including the raw emotional impact on her family dynamics and sisterhood.True healing does not happen when you force yourself into a flawless box; it happens when you choose to become more real than you were ready for. You do not have to carry this difficulty alone anymore. Tune in to step out of performance mode, lay down your heavy armor, and find real-time, practical truths to better traverse this world.Want more Kristina? https://kristinadenton.com/https://www.instagram.com/kristina7denton/?hl=en
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  When Old Trauma Resurfaces: How to Stop the Self-Criticism Loop, Regulate Your Body, and Reclaim Inner Peace 21.08.2026 28min

  If you have been doing "all the right healing work" but still find yourself spiraling into old self-doubt, fear, and the quiet weight of "not being enough": this raw, compassionate conversation is your blueprint to stop surviving your life and finally start enjoying it.We are often told that healing is a straight line, but the reality is much messier. You can make incredible progress, only for an unexpected trigger, setback, or old wound to pull you right back into familiar mental loops of self-criticism, anxiety, and exhaustion. When you spent years operating in survival mode: managing everyone else’s needs, guarding against betrayal, or fighting to prove your worth, learning how to simply step into calm, peace, and genuine joy can feel terrifyingly unfamiliar.True emotional freedom isn't about never getting triggered again; it’s about knowing how to safely navigate your way back to yourself when you do.In this disarmingly honest episode of In the Nude: Naked Truth of Healing, host Rachel Abi strips away the pressure of toxic positivity to explore what it actually takes to break free from the cage of harsh self-judgment. She validates the uncomfortable reality of emotional setbacks, reframing them not as failures, but as gentle invitations to reconnect with your physical body, ground yourself in the present moment, and practice radical self-compassion.Rachel walks you through the exact, practical tools she uses to process heavy emotions instead of burying them, replace harmful inner narratives with softer truths, and face small daily fears. Most importantly, she shares how to regulate your nervous system so you can stop white-knuckle surviving and finally build a life rich with calm, ease, and unapologetic self-expression.What We Unpack in This Naked Conversation:The Myth of Linear Healing: Why old triggers and wounds resurface even after major progress—and how to navigate setbacks without shame.Rewriting the "Not Enough" Narrative: Actionable mindset shifts to interrupt harsh self-criticism and cultivate a gentler, more supportive internal voice.Somatic Grounding & Processing: Practical ways to feel through difficult emotions in your body instead of suppressing them or staying stuck in your head.Making Room for Authentic Joy: How to regulate your nervous system so you can safely drop your guard, embrace your unique quirks, and experience real peace.Small Choices, Big Freedom: Daily micro-habits that build long-term emotional resilience, help you overcome fear, and allow you to truly thrive.You do not have to earn your right to enjoy your life, nor do you need to be "fully fixed" to experience deep peace right now. Tune in to step out of the mental loops of survival, reconnect with your authentic truth, and reclaim your natural state of joy.
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  Why You Keep Repeating the Same Patterns | Healing Childhood Trauma, Limiting Beliefs & the Hidden Roots of Self-Sabotage 18.08.2026 1h 3min

  Have you ever wondered..."Why do I keep ending up here?""Why do I know what needs to change, but I still can't seem to change it?""Why do I keep people pleasing, overthinking, shutting down, or choosing relationships that hurt me?"If you've asked yourself those questions, this conversation is for you.In this deeply honest episode of In the Nude: The Naked Truth of Healing, Rachel sits down with Dr. Judith Swack, biochemist, immunologist, master NLP practitioner, hypnotherapist, and pioneer in energy psychology, to explore why trauma often lives far deeper than our conscious thoughts.Many of us spend years trying to heal through insight alone. We understand our childhood. We recognize unhealthy patterns. We know our triggers.Yet we still find ourselves repeating the same behaviors.Why?According to Dr. Swack, the answer often lies beneath conscious awareness.Together, Rachel and Dr. Swack unpack how childhood trauma, complex trauma, emotional neglect, religious trauma, limiting beliefs, and subconscious survival patterns become stored throughout the mind and body, quietly shaping our relationships, self-worth, health, boundaries, and everyday decisions.They explore why traditional approaches sometimes leave people feeling frustrated and stuck, and introduce practical techniques designed to help uncover and shift the deeper beliefs driving those patterns.In this episode you'll discover:• Why understanding your trauma isn't always enough to heal it• How limiting beliefs formed in childhood continue shaping adult relationships• Why people pleasing, perfectionism, anxiety, self-doubt, and emotional overwhelm are often survival adaptations• How subconscious beliefs influence your nervous system, body, and sense of safety• Practical exercises Dr. Swack uses to help uncover deeply rooted emotional blocks• Why healing isn't about becoming someone new, but uncovering who you were before trauma taught you who you had to beWhether you're healing from childhood trauma, CPTSD, emotional abuse, religious trauma, chronic anxiety, perfectionism, people pleasing, or simply feel exhausted from repeating the same patterns, this conversation offers a compassionate perspective that may help explain why healing can feel so difficult, even when you're trying so hard.This isn't about finding another formula.It's about understanding yourself more deeply.Because healing isn't about becoming a different person.It's about finally coming home to the person you've always been underneath the survival strategies.If you've ever felt like you're "doing all the work" but still feel stuck, this episode will remind you that you're not broken, you're not behind, and you're certainly not alone.Want more Dr Judith? https://www.hblu.org/https://www.amazon.com/Clear-Trauma-Now-Powerful-Solution/dp/1961493845https://www.instagram.com/hblu_drjudithswack/
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  Why You Keep Making the Same Mistakes: How to Stop Striving, Reclaim Your Peace, and Heal Childhood Unworthiness 13.08.2026 15min

  If you are deeply exhausted from constantly striving, trapped in a loop of making the same mistakes, and feeling completely alone because you cannot seem to hustle your way into peace... this raw conversation is your permission slip to stop performing and start living. When you grow up in a behavior-focused environment with emotionally unintelligent parents or inside a high-control religious background, you learn early that your worth is tied directly to your performance. You became an expert at predicting what everyone else needed, managing your reputation, and striving for achievements to feel safe. Years later, you might not even realize you are carrying the invisible, crushing weight of Complex PTSD (CPTSD). You just know you are tired, trapped by your own thoughts, and frustrated that no matter how much you achieve, it never feels like enough. The truth is, your brain is hardwired to predict and relapse into familiar survival patterns. When change feels uncomfortable or terrifying, your nervous system defaults to what it knows: over-analyzing, control, and relentless effort. Most wellness advice tells you to try harder or follow a rigid 5-step formula, which leaves you feeling defeated when your mind naturally freaks out over the unknown. You are left secretly waiting for someone or something to rescue you, while drowning in the quiet noise of life.In this deeply personal and honest episode of In the Nude: Naked Truth of Healing, Rachel Abi unravels the illusion that achievement equals happiness. Sharing candid reflections from her own seasons of change, Rachel reveals how childhood experiences of feeling left out or unworthy shape our adult cycles of regret, self-doubt, and perfectionism.This isn't just philosophy; it is an accessible, practical lifeline to help you step out of the mental prison of "more, faster, better" and into a state of quiet confidence. You will learn why true transformation begins not when we force our lives into a rigid box, but when we choose to pause, breathe, and choose gentle presence right now.What We Unpack in This Naked Conversation:The Default Mode Network: How your brain’s need for predictability creates cycles of regret, anxiety, and self-sabotage, and how to interrupt those loops.Releasing External Validation: Unraveling the lie that your reputation, achievements, or accolades determine your value.Simple Grounding Practices: Practical, sensory-based ways to anchor yourself in the present moment using simple cues like deep breathing and environmental awareness.From Hustle to Quiet Presence: Why choosing gratitude, calm, and small daily acts of care breaks the endless cycle of undue striving.Embracing Real Impact: Rachel’s personal story on finding purpose and navigating change without needing to control every outcome. Every moment spent chasing results is a moment lost in disconnection. You do not have to carry this difficulty alone anymore. Tune in to step out of survival mode, stop fighting your own thoughts, and discover how love and self-compassion conquer fear, one small choice at a time.
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  Feeling frustrated making the same mistakes? Secret to thriving: Embracing Silence 11.08.2026 1h 6min

  Silence can feel terrifying.  A life filled with noise, trauma and dysregulation: I found silence triggering. This episode walks through not only the truth of the impact and power of silence and it's direct correlation to your having more peace but also how to take baby steps that won't cause triggers.We all know we need to wash our body or brush our teeth but scoff at the idea of silence, rest and play BUT it is a deeply needed "wash" of our brain and feelings. Silence literally helps your body, brain and soul.  It helps your cardiovascular system, your immune system, your sleep, it aids brain regeneration, helps creativity, enhances focus and aids processing emotions instead of them getting locked up in the body. This conversation isn't getting into the muck of the scientific benefits as much as it is an emphasis on how to cultivate it simply within your life now. Taking the concept and applying it in real ways and real actions that can help it feel less confusing and more integrated. The noise of life can get in the way of us really living our life and thriving in it. A simple proof of this is one of the only moments of silence we have is right before we go to sleep: How often is your brain just throwing words and thoughts at you that you struggle to fall asleep.Andrew's practical challenge is to listen to your favorite song and just listen. It doesn't have to look like long meditations or silent retreats: it can look like focused breathing for 90 seconds. Start where you are with what you can: tangibly making your life better in sustainable ways. Want to more Andrew?https://artoflivingretreatcenter.org/https://www.instagram.com/andrew.keaveney/https://www.facebook.com/andrew.keaveney.5/https://substack.com/profile/1390952-andrew-keaveney/note/c-296793210
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  The Truth About Why Changing Your Life Feels So Exhausting: How Small Daily Choices Rewire Childhood Trauma 06.08.2026 14min

  If you are exhausted from trying to change your life, completely defeated because you keep making the same mistakes, and feeling deeply isolated in a struggle nobody else seems to talk about... this raw conversation is the honest, practical compass you have been waiting for.When you grow up with behavior-focused, emotionally unintelligent parents or inside a high-control religious environment, you learn very early that your worth is tied to your performance. You were taught that following the rules perfectly kept you safe, while your true feelings, boundaries, and needs were treated like an inconvenience. Years later, you might not even realize you are carrying the invisible weight of Complex PTSD (CPTSD). You just know you are deeply tired, struggling with constant self-doubt, and trapped in an exhausting loop of trying to fix your life without ever feeling like you are actually thriving.You are not broken, and you are not failing. You are navigating the terrifying reality of trying to unlearn a childhood script that taught you to abandon yourself. Most people make healing sound like a clean, 5-step formula, which leaves you feeling completely alone and defeated when your brain naturally freaks out over the unknown. You might find yourself secretly waiting for someone to rescue you or fix the pain, only to fall back into old patterns of self-protection and self-sabotage.In this heartfelt, deeply vulnerable episode of In The Nude, Rachel Abi breaks down how love actually conquers fear when change feels uncomfortable and terrifying. Sharing raw personal memories of feeling excluded, unworthy, and invisible as a child, Rachel reveals how those early wounds silently create our adult patterns of self-doubt and relationship anxiety.This is an honest, practical guide to true transformation. You will learn why beliefs are simply repeated actions, and why real healing does not happen through a massive overnight overhaul. Instead, it happens through tiny, consistent acts of daily care that slowly teach your nervous system a brand-new truth: that you are worthy, lovable, and capable of creating a life you actually enjoy.What We Unpack in This Naked Conversation:Dismantling the Rescue Fantasy: Why waiting for someone else to complete or save you keeps you stuck in childhood patterns, and how to safely take your power back.The Science of Small Actions: How micro-habits like stretching, taking a short walk, showering, or practicing a quiet breath physically teach your brain that you are worthy of love.Unpacking the Exclusion Wound: How childhood memories of feeling left out or hyper-criticized by emotionally unavailable parents create your adult fear of change.Moving Beyond Toxic Formulas: Why healing from a hard childhood is messy, non-linear, and requires radical self-compassion rather than rigid rules.Choosing Love Over Fear: Practical somatic tools to help you show up for yourself when your nervous system is screaming at you to run back to what is familiar.Finding access to this conversation can directly alter how you treat yourself on your darkest days. You do not have to navigate this difficulty alone anymore. Tune in to step out of survival mode and start building a life rooted in genuine self-worth.
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  Your past DOESN'T dictate your future: embracing your worth the true path to your fitness goals 04.08.2026 48min

  If I asked you to name 3 things you hated about yourself you could likely without any time write that list: we have been taught to critique ourselves, shame our bodies, and all the while quietly take on loads that aren't ours. This pattern we follow like those before us is digging our own grave: the grave of our souls, hearts bodies AND the ability to have a life we love. If we want to have a different life and feel differently we have to be willing to do, think and be different. Self worth and self acceptance IS that work. Not a rest when you achieve. Not reward when you are productive enough. Not love when you are that size INSTEAD seeing the powerhouse you are in this exact moment and embracing this current version of you fully loving and accepting it, holding it's hand with the love you never received and SHOWING yourself that you are lovable by being the first person to do so. Bringing that acceptance to the table and decompressing the beliefs that aren't working for us is the real magic to getting weight to drop off and achieving the joy and peace you desire. Stop waiting to see yourself as loveable and worth it and start being it for yourself: listen to hear practical tools and steps to get you towards a life you love. Want more Ramona? https://ramonakcoaching.com/https://www.instagram.com/ramonakcoaching/
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  Time travel, gratitude and actually living a life of your dreams 30.07.2026 17min

  What if you could really have a life you loved?  One you woke up excited about. What if you could really take giant strides towards gaining yourself that life. What if I told you it was time travel? What if i told you the gateway to timetravel is gratitude? After 3 years of healing and very little movement forward and loads of anger: i learned a lesson about acceptance, grace and love.  A lesson about belief systems how they impact our lives AND how to shift them without feeling fake. This episode I breakdown a simple shift you can do for yourself. It isn't a how to guide with three easy steps but it is a perspective that you can pull out and see each individual situation in your life and with that you can gain the personal weighted knowledge on what to do within your own power. Let's change the story. Let's gain a life bigger than the dreams of our childhoodself. Let's really live.
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  Why You Still Feel Stuck (Even After the Trauma Is Over)2 28.07.2026 56min

  In this raw and honest episode of In the Nude: The Naked Truth of Healing, Rachel sits down with Dr. Christopher Cortman: a licensed psychologist with over 40 years of clinical experience and more than 85,000 psychotherapy sessions : to explore forgiveness, resentment, trauma recovery, grief, and emotional healing.For many people living with CPTSD, religious trauma, high-control upbringing wounds, or chronic anxiety, forgiveness can feel impossible. Dr. Cortman explains why bitterness often becomes a form of protection, how resentment can shield us from vulnerability, and why holding onto anger may keep us emotionally stuck long after the original harm occurred.The conversation dives into one of the most misunderstood topics in trauma healing: the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. Forgiveness is about releasing the emotional grip of the past; reconciliation is about rebuilding trust and intimacy = and those are not the same thing.Rachel and Dr. Cortman also discuss grief, unresolved trauma, emotional triggers, nervous system responses, and guided imagery therapy. They explore how unfinished pain can shape relationships, self-worth, and daily life for years, and how intentionally revisiting painful memories in a safe therapeutic context can help people process, reframe, and release what they’ve been carrying.This episode challenges the belief that time heals all wounds. Instead, it offers a compassionate and practical path toward healing through facing the pain, telling the truth, feeling the feelings, and choosing acceptance.If you’re healing from childhood trauma, emotional abuse, religious trauma, toxic relationships, or complex PTSD, this conversation will help you understand how forgiveness can become an act of self-liberation, peace, and coming home to yourself.Want more of Dr. Cortman in your life? https://srqshrink.com/https://www.instagram.com/drchristophercortman/https://www.tiktok.com/ ⁨@drchristophercortman⁩  https://www.youtube.com/@drchristophercortman
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  Process of healing: Recipe for thriving that ACTUALLY works for ANYONE 23.07.2026 54min

  If I hear one more person talk about what to do I might just scream.There is so much noise, so much to do and so many must haves that I feel exhausted just thinking about it. You don't need another list of actions. You don't need another person who doesn't know your life telling you what to do YET you also want help getting to a life you love and feel lost as to who to listen to. I cannot promise you a life of money coming out of your ears, I cannot promise you that you will gain that relationship, or that car you desire but I can promise you that if you listen to this and actually apply these filters to your life you will gain more JOY, CONTENTMENT, and a life filled with more PEACE.If you want to thrive, wake up excited about your life and really be present in enjoying your existence, listen in.  Hundreds of books read, hundreds of hours of therapy in all different modalities: I have taken all of that knowledge and wisdome and boiled it down to the foundation and offered those steps up for you. Walking you through step by step how to go from where you are to where you love the life you are in with joy, contentment and peace as a status you come home to as default.  Giving my own personal life as example and collateral damage to the cause. If you listen to only one podcast I have ever done, this is the one to listen to. 
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  What If Your Biggest Limitation Is a Story You Never Chose? 21.07.2026 1h 4min

  Many of us believe we're seeing reality clearly.But what if the thoughts, beliefs, fears, and patterns shaping your life were built from old wounds instead of truth?In this Naked Conversation, I sit down with Beth Jones to explore the life-changing power of radical self-awareness and how healing begins when we're willing to question the stories we've been carrying for years.Beth shares her deeply personal journey from trauma, survival mode, and unconscious bias into a life rooted in self-love, compassion, and authenticity. Together, we discuss how childhood experiences, relationship trauma, religious conditioning, and old coping mechanisms quietly shape our perspectives, often without us realizing it.In this conversation, we explore:• How unconscious beliefs and biases influence your relationships, choices, and healing journey• Why trauma survivors often struggle to see themselves with compassion• The pivotal shift that helped Beth move from surviving to thriving• Practical tools for healing trauma and rewiring limiting beliefs• How self-awareness helps break generational patterns and cycles of pain• Why self-compassion and boundaries are essential parts of emotional healing• The truth about healing being a lifelong journey rather than a destinationThis episode is for anyone who feels stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected from themselves, or frustrated by repeating the same patterns despite years of personal growth work.Healing is not about becoming someone new.It is about uncovering who you were before fear, trauma, shame, and survival convinced you otherwise.You are not broken.You are becoming aware.And awareness changes everything.🎧 Listen now and discover how self-awareness can become the first step toward healing, self-love, emotional freedom, and a life that feels more fully your own.Want more Beth in your life? https://empoweredsurvivors.com/https://www.instagram.com/bethjoneshealingmentor/https://www.youtube.com/@BethJonesHEALingMentor
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  Grasping at "Good" and fitting "Normal" breaks your ability to thrive and keeps you trapped in abuse patterns. 16.07.2026 15min

  Quantifying value wastes energy and time, yet it is prolific. #1. Winner. All words that don't actually convey full truth."Normal" is another waste of time. We each have "normals" within ourselves or within our families. "Normal" however as a thing isn't real.  It is a box. A way to quantify ineffectively. While definitions and understanding trends can helps us feel understood or less alone holding tightly to boxes of "identity" are more like shoving our body through a cookie cutter we were never met to fit perfectly instead take from the frame work that this is a "generalization" and that all things are in fact a spectrum. Depression can look like a few weeks of being down; it can also mean someone who is close to unaliving themselves= not the same despite being boxed the same. When we let go of the boxes and controls others have given ourselves and instead gain curiosity for our unique personhood we gain MUCH more clarity and actionables to who we are and what to do with that.  How to process our feelings. How to adjust to the situation. How to gain more peace. How to thrive. In this epsidoe I breakdown how "normal" isn't real AND freeing yourself from white knuckled grip on our "identities" actually free us into a beautiful world where we can actually thrive with ease following our own magic.  
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  Stop Forcing Your Life: Why Surfing the Waves of the Unknown Is the Only Way to Stop Self-Abandoning 14.07.2026 43min

  If you are running yourself into the ground trying to manage your life through mental constructs, rigid logic, and pure control: but you still wake up feeling anxious, isolated, and completely defeated... this conversation will shatter the walls of your cage.For those of us raised inside high-control religious structures or under the roof of behavior-focused, emotionally unintelegent parents, certainty was our only protection. You were conditioned to distrust your body, ignore your desires, and treat your intuition like a dangerous sin. You learned to navigate life using a strict, logical formula: obey the rules, hit the milestones, dominate your emotions, and keep everyone else comfortable. You became an expert at reading external scripts, but you are living with a deep, silent emptiness. You are likely fighting the exhausting, chronic freeze response of Complex PTSD (CPTSD) without even realizing it: wondering why the more you try to control your life, the more disconnected and paralyzed you feel.In this profoundly disruptive episode of In The Nude, Rachel Abi sits down with scientist, author, and intuitive pioneer Dr. Sophia Trevenna to completely strip away the western paradigm of hustle, control, and domination. Sophia shares her radical transition from rigid scientific skepticism to an unfiltered life of intuitive adventure and energetic co-creation. This isn’t an aesthetic talk about trendy manifestation; it is a raw, real-time experiment on what happens when you decide to live beyond what you know.Together, Rachel and Sophia reveal how trauma forces us to externalize our solutions, why forcing your life to fit into traditional societal boxes keeps your nervous system in a state of high alarm, and how to physically retrain your body to read the subtle somatic signals of true alignment. This conversation is a practical, non-linear blueprint for the woman who is tired of just surviving the corporate and cultural matrix and is ready to step into her absolute creative sovereignty.What We Deeply Unpack in This Naked Conversation:The Trap of Mental Constructs: Why relying solely on what you "know" keeps you looping in the exact same generational trauma patterns.Somatic Manifestation vs. Domination: Why trying to force your dreams through aggressive control leaves you spiritually bankrupt, and how to "surf" life's energy instead.The Seven Feminine Principles: Shifting out of hyper-masculine survival structures and into collaborative, fluid, and ecosystem-based business and lifestyle models.Interpreting Your Body’s Radar: Practical rituals to clear stuck energy, trust your posture cues, and translate the unconscious wisdom of your physical self.Embracing the Sacred Pause: How to handle hardships, setbacks, and divine timing without spiraling into a freeze response or toxic self-criticism.Be warned: This conversation requires a complete surrender of your need to control the room. It is a raw, naked invitation to step off the cliff of certainty and find community in the unknown. Finding this door could alter the entire trajectory of your life's work and healing.Want more of Dr Sophia? https://www.drsophiatrevenna.com/https://sofanyawellness.com/https://www.instagram.com/drsophiatrevenna/https://www.instagram.com/sofanyawellness/
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  Living a peaceful life and leaving anxiety behind: doing the unthinkable; surrender 09.07.2026 17min

  Chaos is not fixed by control. The more we try and shove our life into the pretty picture we think it should be the more it explodes out of the bottom  and sides of the box. Leaving us riddled with anxiety. Which not to be dramatic is slowly killing us. What then do we do?Pressure from so many sides telling us what we should do, be, have, own, achieve... Internally the "not good enough" "not enough" "unlovable" drums beat louder and louder till we cave to the pressure and shatter... This might be binge eating, this might be sickness, this might be depression, the list goes on.  Let go. Terrifying as it sounds. Let go. This episode I go into depth on the principles and some practical ways I act on "letting go" in my own life. The noise of this world is never going to stop. Life is too short to keep living on default.  Too short to be living with this stress inside of us making this existence miserable AND shorter than it could be. If you want a different life than you have... one with more peace and contentment and fulfillment: join me on this adventure. 
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  When Emotional Suppression Backfires: Reframing Pain and Reclaiming Your Internal Focus with Colin Owensby 07.07.2026 43min

  Many of us raised by behavior-focused, emotionally unavailable parents or trapped inside strict, high-control religious environments learned a brutal baseline rule for safety: never show weakness. You learned to suppress your anger, freeze your tears, and treat your body like an unfeeling machine to avoid punishment or rejection. You became an expert at surviving, but you are completely empty, exhausted, and feeling entirely alone. You are likely navigating the invisible, crushing weight of Complex PTSD (CPTSD) without even knowing it—wondering why every self-help formula leaves you feeling more broken, disconnected, and stuck in a survival loop.In this raw, nakedly honest episode of In The Nude, Rachel Abi sits down with ultra-endurance athlete and mindset guide Colin Owensby to strip away the pristine lies of the wellness industry. This isn’t a clinical checklist or a toxic positive speech about "no pain, no gain." This is an exposed, vulnerable roadmap for the person who feels entirely isolated in the messy middle of trying to change their life.Together, Rachel and Colin pull back the curtain on how trauma hides in our physical bodies, why traditional definitions of strength keep our nervous systems locked in a permanent fight-or-flight chokehold, and how to use intentional movement and raw vulnerability to step out of victimhood and reclaim your absolute sovereignty. Colin shares his personal journey of navigating deep trauma, transforming physical activity into somatic therapy, and discovering that true resilience isn't a hard rock that breaks under pressure: it is fluid, adaptable water.What We Deeply Unpack in This Naked Conversation:The Hardness Fallacy: Why the rigid perfectionism you used to survive your childhood is now the exact cage starving your soul.Somatic Movement as Therapy: How to use physical challenges to move stuck survival energy out of your nervous system and release trauma-clutter without a rigid formula.The Reality of True Vulnerability: Dismantling the outdated, toxic cultural norms surrounding masculinity and emotional suppression.Shifting the Internal Focus: Moving from an insatiable need for external validation to a deeply anchored, daily practice of somatic gratitude.Building a Joy List: Practical, micro-steps to uncover your authentic desires, connect with a real community, and safely allow your inner light to shine.Be warned: This conversation does not offer a cheap spiritual shortcut. It is an honest, confrontational, and deeply compassionate mirror that will challenge you to drop your armor. Accessing this shift can radically change your entire relationship with your pain and rewrite the trajectory of your health.Want more Colin? https://thecolinowensby.com/https://www.instagram.com/thecolinowensby
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  Tired of cycling the same bullsh*t? Fear of discomfort is holding you prisoner. 02.07.2026 16min

  What if pain wasn't something you fought? What if pain was the vehicle of joy?We all experience repeating the same cycles of behavior and the resulting consequences. Whether it’s dating your "father" over and over l again or spending all that you make, or constantly being exhausted. Most of the time, fear of the unknown and fear of pain causes our default mode network to turn back into what we have known. If you want to stop living in a circle: Awareness and acknowledgment are the first steps... But what’s after that?In this episode, I breakdown a huge shift that's free and impactful: changing our relationship to pain. A conscious choice of collaborating with the seeming incomprehensible, and in that freeing ourselves from suffering. The impact of conscious perspective directly increasing our sustainable peace in the process and journey. The path is perspective and principle of ideals and filters of which, you get to decide how to apply and in what ways. I know that feels empty in a world of to dos we look for that same cut and dry: if cut and dry worked it would have worked by now. Life isn't paint by numbers. Let's not enjoy the freedom and joy of play together.