Ok Mom Podcast

What Desi Culture Gets Wrong About Marriages 27.05.2026 59min

In this episode, we asked one simple question: What’s one thing Desi culture gets completely wrong about marriage?From staying together “for the kids” to valuing image over emotional compatibility, the responses got raw, honest, and deeply relatable. We unpack the pressure to settle, the obsession with what people will say, gender expectations, family involvement, and why so many couples are taught how to survive marriage but not how to build a healthy one.This conversation is uncomfortable at times, funny at others, but necessary. Whether you agree or disagree, one thing’s certain: Desi marriages are changing, and people are finally saying the quiet parts out loud.

How To: Rage-Bait Men 20.05.2026 52min

This week, we handed the mic to the audience and asked, "What’s the ultimate way to rage-bait men?"The responses ranged from harmlessly hilarious to absolutely diabolical. We break down the funniest entries, debate the psychology behind them, and share stories of accidental rage bait moments.

What Did You Compromise On To Get Married Pt. 2 13.05.2026 1t

Marriage is beautiful. But it is also two people constantly negotiating their wants, their needs, and sometimes their dreams. This week, we opened up about the things we let go of to say I do and whether we would do it all over again. No filters, no perfect answers. Just an honest conversation about love, sacrifice, and what it really means to build a life with someone.0:00 INTRO0:22 JT4:45 Urdu 17:30 Looks18:35 My family is right22:23 Education27:15 Creators31:05 Job privacy and socials 52:41 In-laws

Men Will Never Understand...(Pt.2) 06.05.2026 54min

Part 2 is HERE, and the submissions just keep getting better. 😭 We asked our community to finish the sentence "Men will never understand…" and we are still processing. In this episode, we're diving into round two of your most relatable, funniest, and honestly most cathartic answers. Want Part 1? That's a Patreon exclusive, bestie. 🤍 Link below.Subscribe to Patreon

I Married You...Not This Habit 29.04.2026 57min

In this episode, we dive into the little habits no one warns you about the ones you never even realized would bother you until after saying “I do.” From oddly specific routines to everyday quirks that slowly become impossible to ignore, we share our personal discoveries and the surprising things that tested our patience in marriage. It’s honest, funny, and maybe a little too relatable. If you’ve ever thought, “I didn’t know this would annoy me this much,” this episode is for you.

Dating Apps Would Be Better If... 22.04.2026 1t 1min

Let’s be honest: dating apps feel less like a "romance tool" and more like a second job where the boss is mean and the pay is zero. We asked you how to make them better, and you didn't hold back.This week, we’re putting the developers on blast. No more "AI matchmakers" or "premium gold tiers" we’re talking about the real-world fixes that would actually make us stop wanting to delete our accounts every Sunday night.

The Tipping Point in Love & Friendship Pt.2 15.04.2026 1t 6min

Part 2 is where it gets even more real.If you haven’t seen Part 1 yet, it’s available now on our Patreon make sure to subscribe for an extra episode every week and all the unfiltered conversations we don’t post anywhere else. https://www.patreon.com/c/OkMomPodcastIn this episode, we go deeper into what happens after you realize things aren’t equal, setting boundaries, pulling your energy back, and navigating the guilt that comes with choosing yourself. We also get into your stories, and some of them yeah, they hit hard.This is your reminder that relationships should feel mutual, not draining.Tap in, and don’t forget to check out Part 1 on Patreon.0:00 INTRO0:01 Push presents & coffee4:30 Meri Zindagi Hai Tu 24:35 After having kids29:06 Physical affection39:20 When I stopped putting in effort

Craziest Backhanded Compliments Pt.2 08.04.2026 1t 2min

In Part 2 of this fan-favourite series, we’re diving even deeper into the wild world of backhanded compliments, those sneaky remarks that sound nice… until they really don’t. 😅After the overwhelming response to Part 1 on Patreon, you all delivered again with some of the most outrageous, hilarious, and downright brutal “compliments” we’ve ever heard. From accidental insults to perfectly disguised shade, we’re reading and reacting to the submissions that left you confused, offended, or just laughing in disbelief.

Unfiltered Inbox Pt. 2 01.04.2026 1t

In today’s episode, we dive straight into the inbox and unpack YOUR dilemmas, wild scenarios, and “what would you do?” moments. From messy relationships to awkward situations and tough life choices, nothing is off limits.We’re giving our honest takes, a little tough love, and maybe some questionable advice along the way 👀Got a situation you need help with? Send it in for a chance to be featured in a future episode.Sit back, relax, and let’s get into it.

What I’d Never Tell My Family Pt. 2 25.03.2026 48min

Welcome back to the wild ride! In this Part 2 of our series, we're diving even deeper into the secrets that could send our families spiraling, except this time, the stakes are even higher. From unexpected confessions to downright shocking revelations, we’re taking you behind the curtain of what really goes on in our lives that no one can ever know.You won’t believe some of these secrets (seriously, some of us might have to change our names after this). Get ready for more laughs, more jaw-dropping moments, and more "wait, you did WHAT?" reactions.Warning: This episode might make you rethink your own family dynamics... or at least what you don't tell them. 😅

Tough Seasons of Life We Appreciate Now Pt. 2 18.03.2026 1t 4min

Part 2 is here! For part 1, head on over to our Patreon.In this episode, we dive deeper into the tough seasons of life, the moments that felt heavy, confusing, or even unbearable at the time… but somehow shaped us into who we are today.It’s easy to question everything when you’re in the middle of it. But looking back, those struggles often carry the lessons, growth, and unexpected blessings we couldn’t see before.If you’re going through a tough chapter right now, this one’s for you. You’re not alone, and we hope we can make you laugh a little. Or alot.

Worst Advice You've Received Pt. 2 11.03.2026 1t

In this episode, we asked a simple question that led to some wild stories: “What’s the worst advice you’ve ever received?” From terrible tips and questionable relationship guidance to the kind of life advice that sounds good… but goes completely wrong 😅We break down the funniest, most ridiculous, and surprisingly relatable answers, and talk about why bad advice spreads so easily, and how to spot it before it ruins your day (or your life).Expect honest stories, a few debates, and plenty of laughs along the way.🎧 Tune in and let us know in the comments: what’s the worst advice YOU’ve ever gotten?

Intrusive Thoughts Pt. 2 04.03.2026 1t 2min

In this episode, we asked one bold (and slightly chaotic) question:“What’s an intrusive thought you’ve wanted to say to your partner?"And let’s just say the answers did NOT disappoint.From hilarious relationship confessions to brutally honest “I can’t believe I almost said that” moments, we dive into the unfiltered thoughts we all have but rarely admit out loud. Are intrusive thoughts harmless? Should you always be honest? Or are some things better left unsaid?Whether you're in a long-term relationship, newly dating, or single and just here for the chaos, this episode is painfully relatable.

Who Are These BILs & SILs Pt.2 25.02.2026 52min

In this episode, we’re talking all about BILs and SILs, the brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law who bring the spice, the sweetness, and sometimes the stress to family life 😅.Are in-laws supposed to feel like real siblings?What happens when loyalty gets complicated?How do you keep the peace without losing your mind?Whether you love your in-laws, tolerate them, or are still figuring it out… this episode is for you.Get ready for relatable stories, honest conversations, and a few laughs along the way.

From the Archives: Toxic Aunties & Uncles Pt.2 18.02.2026 53min

We’re back with Part 2 because apparently, the aunties held a committee meeting and decided we’re still not doing enough with our lives. If you’re South Asian, you already know no wedding, birthday, or random Sunday lunch is safe. One minute you’re reaching for samosas, the next you’re being audited about your career, your relationship status, your weight, and why your cousin’s son is suddenly the blueprint for success. In this episode, we’re diving into the fine art of “beta, it’s just concern,” decoding the legendary “log kya kahenge,” and unpacking why every life update turns into a competitive sport.It’s chaotic, it’s too real, and yes, we’re laughing through the trauma. If you’ve ever mastered the skill of fake smiling while being emotionally cross-examined at a shaadi, this one’s for you.

From the Archives: The Hardest Moments in Marriage 11.02.2026 1t 12min

Marriage isn’t always easy; even the strongest couples face moments that challenge their patience, trust, and connection. In this episode, we dive into the toughest times partners encounter, from major disagreements to life’s unexpected stresses, and share honest insights on navigating them together.Join us as we explore real stories, practical advice, and strategies for turning challenges into growth. Every marriage has its ups and downs, and understanding the hardest moments is key to building a stronger, lasting partnership.

From the Archives: Desi Bridal Industry 04.02.2026 1t 3min

We’re revisiting one of our earlier episodes, where we delve into the Desi bridal industry, exploring the pressure to conform to a certain aesthetic, as well as the expectations placed on brides, their families, and vendors alike.In this episode, we unpack the realities behind the glam:• Unrealistic standards• Cultural and family pressures• The business of weddings in South Asian communities• How tradition, money, and expectations intersectLet us know your thoughts in the comments and share this with someone who needs to hear it!

They Came for My Rishta and Said What? 28.01.2026 1t

If you’ve ever sat through a rishta meeting and thought “there’s no way this is real life,” this episode is for you.We’re unpacking the most unhinged, shocking, and downright hilarious things people say and do during the rishta process. From wildly inappropriate questions to surprise demands no one warned you about, we’re sharing stories that prove matchmaking is truly a contact sport.In this episode, we get into:The audacity of some rishta questions (age, weight, salary, and even vibes?)Things elders say with a straight face that leave everyone speechlessWhether you’re deep in the rishta trenches, happily married, or just here for the chaos, this one will have you cringing, laughing, and saying “omg SAME” the whole way through.Warm up your chai, mute the family group chat, and press play, because they really came for the rishta and said that.

Episode 125: Why Do My In-Laws Do This? 21.01.2026 56min

In this episode, we dive into the wonderfully baffling world of in-laws and the things they do that are just… weird. From unsolicited “helpful” advice and strange house rules to boundary-blurring habits and traditions no one can explain. We’re sharing the moments that make you lock eyes with your partner and silently ask, “Is this normal?” Expect laughs, mild secondhand embarrassment, and the comforting reminder that if your in-laws are odd, you are definitely not alone.aughter

Episode 124: Desis & Marital Expectations 14.01.2026 1t 11min

In this episode, we’re talking about Desi marital expectations, specifically the complicated, often unspoken dynamics between families and daughters-in-law after marriage. We unpack the problematic ways DILs are sometimes “managed,” corrected, or controlled, while also holding space for the very real pressures and emotional labour DILs carry. This isn’t about blaming, it’s about understanding, questioning tradition, and imagining healthier ways forward.0:00 INTRO3:23 Hot dogs8:54 Saba Faisal 18:23 The wedding dress debacle25:38 Sacrificial lambs39:59 Hear, Speak, See no evil51:33 Shaadis59:24 The host