The New Adam Podcast w/ Man in the Mirror

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  Ep. 36 | America's Demoralized Men: What the Data Says w Ken Burchfiel 30.09.2026 1Std. 2Min.

  Ken Burchfiel is a research fellow at the Institute for Family Studies and one of the authors of America's Demoralized Men, a two-part study built on a national survey of 2,000 men aged 18 to 29. Brett Clemmer and Jeremy Schurke of Man in the Mirror sat down with him to talk through what the study found and how it lines up with our own report, The State of Young Men in America.Read the IFS reports:Part I: Worthy Aspirations, Trying CircumstancesPart II: Lost Pathways, Greater StrugglesRead The State of Young Men in America: https://maninthemirror.org/soym/CONNECT WITH MAN IN THE MIRRORWebsite: maninthemirror.orgYouTube: Man In the Mirror
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  Ep. 35 | Why Young Men Are Flooding Back to Church with Jake Corn 22.07.2026 24Min.

  Why are more young men showing up at church than young women, and what does that reveal about the future of ministry?In this episode of The New Adam Podcast, Ryan Reeves and Jake Corn dig into the surprising data behind the rise in young men attending church regularly, the types of churches drawing them in, and what they’re actually looking for when they walk through the doors.From traditional marriage and direct preaching to men’s ministry, discipleship, and the need for real brotherhood in a post-digital world, this conversation gets into what’s really happening beneath the trends.Ryan and Jake also explore why churches that focus on clear gospel content, meaningful involvement, and genuine relationships may be better positioned to reach the next generation of men.If you’re a pastor, church leader, or just curious about the shifting landscape of faith and culture, this one is worth your time.Visit us: maninthemirror.org
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  Ep. 34 | Win the Day ft. Warren Mainard of Impact Players 20.07.2026 27Min.

  Unlock the secret to transforming men's lives through authentic brotherhood and biblical leadership. If you’ve ever wondered how community, discipline, and faith can turn a struggling man into a powerful impact player, this episode is your blueprint.Warren Mainard, president of Impact Players, shares the inspiring genesis story rooted in the book Man in the Mirror by Patrick Morley. Discover how a simple idea—men coming together—became a nationwide movement that now empowers hundreds of men across the globe. Warren reveals the core principles behind Impact Hard, their groundbreaking 75-day challenge that combines physical, emotional, and spiritual growth with real community. Find out how this program taps into men’s natural bonding instincts—shoulder to shoulder rather than face to face—to forge lasting connections that fuel transformation.Visit us: maninthemirror.org
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  Ep. 33 | What Men Actually Want From Church 29.06.2026 15Min.

  A lot of the current conversation around men leaving the church completely misses the point. It’s not about a lack of interest or commitment—it’s that men are tired of being asked to just sit still and be passive observers.In this episode, we want to talk about the growing disconnect between what the modern church model expects and what men actually need. We look at why the standard, spectator-style Sunday routine feels so hollow, the shift in how men are engaged (or not engaged) in these spaces, and what it actually looks like to build an environment that challenges men rather than just pacifying them.Visit us: maninthemirror.org
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  Ep. 21 | From Stadiums to Stillness: Lessons on Men’s Souls with Promise Keepers Founder RT Philips 18.02.2026 38Min.

  In this powerful episode, Brett is joined by RT Phillips, a pioneer in the modern men's movement and the first president of Promise Keepers. RT takes us behind the scenes of the historic 1990 gathering in Boulder, Colorado, where 4,200 men sparked a supernatural explosion of faith that eventually reached millions. From his early days in the "hippie culture" and getting drafted into the Army to pastoring in Hawaii, RT reflects on a life shaped by both massive catalytic success and a "20-year freefall" that followed his time at the top. The two discuss the shifting needs of men—moving from the "cultural Christianity" battles of the '90s to the current crisis of isolation and loneliness in the 2020s. RT’s core message is a call to authenticity: that a man's greatest influence doesn't come from his "bio" or his trophies, but from the honesty of his scars and a deep understanding of his adoption as a son of God.
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  Ep. 23 | The Integrated Man: Stability in a Season of Change 04.03.2026 30Min.

  Host Ryan Reeves is joined once again by Jake Korn for a candid conversation on navigating life’s "cold snaps." Moving past the usual surface-level advice, Ryan and Jake explore the biological and spiritual necessity of stress, comparing a man’s growth to trees that require wind to develop deep roots. From Jake’s transition into a new role at Wounded Warrior Project to Ryan navigating the impending loss of his father and his daughter’s early graduation, they discuss how to remain an "integrated man" rather than a reactive one. They tackle the modern dopamine crisis, the discipline of gardening as a present-focus tool, and the "Boat and Sail" analogy for family leadership. This episode serves as a gut-check for men to stop manipulating the future and start stewarding the present, finding the "good days" even in the middle of chaos.
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  Ep. 22 | The Art of a Listening Heart w/ Chris "Harp" Harper 26.02.2026 39Min.

  In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Brett Clemmer sits down with Chris "Harp" Harper, CEO of BetterMan, for a raw and insightful conversation on the discipline of character and the weight of real-world leadership. From his upbringing in the "hollers" of Kentucky to leading a national men’s ministry, Harp shares why he prioritizes consistency over intensity and the vital importance of a "listening heart." The duo dives into the pitfalls of leading for affirmation, why your feelings are a "terrible compass" for truth, and how our life’s "misses" are often what qualify us most to mentor others. Whether you’re a young man looking for an on-ramp to community or an older leader wondering if you have anything left to offer, this episode serves as a powerful reminder that maturity isn't found in flashy moments, but in the faithful, daily grind of following Jesus.
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  Ep.11 | What Midlife Feels Like 26.11.2025 28Min.

  Midlife hits every man differently, sometimes suddenly, sometimes slowly, and often in ways we don’t expect. In this episode, Ryan and Brett have an honest conversation about what it actually feels like to realize you’re not a kid anymore. From the moment your body stops keeping up, to the shifting expectations of work, marriage, identity, and spiritual growth, they unpack the subtle transitions, the disappointments, the dangers, and the surprising gifts of this stage of life. Together they explore how midlife reveals cracks we’ve ignored, exposes where we’ve placed our identity, and invites us into deeper humility, wisdom, and dependence on God. If you’ve ever felt the strange, surreal tension of getting older, physically, vocationally, or spiritually, this episode will meet you right where you are.
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  Ep. 30 | Missing Mom: Brett talks navigating grief 17.06.2026 20Min.

  Brett Clemmer shares the personal story of his mother’s recent passing and reflects on how we can honor a parent’s legacy while navigating the reality of grief. We hope this perspective offers encouragement and a reminder that a mother's influence doesn't end when her journey does. In this episode: Brett’s personal reflection on loss. Navigating Mother’s Day during grief. The lasting impact of a godly legacy.
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  Ep. 31 | Aliens, Algorithms, and the Online Outrage Machine — with Jake Corn 17.06.2026 19Min.

  Ryan sits down with Jake Corn to talk about how Christian men should think about the noise — UFO headlines, online controversies, the endless churn of viral debates. It's a conversation about discernment, curiosity, and keeping our heads (and our faith) steady when the internet keeps trying to pull them in every direction. Visit us: maninthemirror.org
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  Ep.12 | Gandalf Isn't Coming (Why Mentors Fail Us) 03.12.2025 30Min.

  We all long for the "Swiss Army knife" mentor, a perfect, all-knowing sage like Gandalf, Dumbledore, or Obi-Wan Kenobi. But Episode 12 of the New Adam podcast, featuring Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer (celebrating his 25th anniversary at Man in the Mirror), argues that this pursuit leads to disappointment. Instead of looking for a single, flawless figure with "secret knowledge" to guide every aspect of your life, the key is to adopt a "tool-for-the-job" approach to mentorship. After assessing specific deficiencies in areas like career, marriage, and finances, men should seek out multiple, imperfect mentors-the hands, ears, and feet of the body of Christ-each gifted in a particular area to offer targeted wisdom, even if that means consulting a book or simply avoiding the mistakes of a counter-example.
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  Ep. 19 | Is Work a Calling and How Do I Find It 04.02.2026 36Min.

  In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Korn strip away the "romanticized" pressure of finding a mystical career calling, arguing instead that work is primarily about identifying your natural talents and learning how to monetize them. Jake shares his personal transition from the military to a civilian role at the Wounded Warrior Project, emphasizing the importance of "putting miles on the soul" through experience rather than waiting for a bolt of inspiration. From discussing the rising costs of being a young man in 2026 to the value of "second chair" leadership, the duo concludes that while the Bible doesn't necessarily label your trade as a "calling," it strictly demands excellence and character in whatever path you choose to walk.
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  Ep.8 | Update from Man in the Mirror Asia 05.11.2025 1Std. 8Min.

  In this episode of "The New Adam Podcast with Man in the Mirror", Brett and Ryan discuss Brett's recent whirlwind trip visiting Man in the Mirror Asia. Brett shares stories and observations from five countries, highlighting the growth and impact of the ministry in diverse cultural and religious settings. In Malaysia, the ministry is thriving with over 50 groups using the "My Journey" curriculum. Indonesia showcases a powerful multi-generational partnership to disciple Christian men, where local translation of materials is key. The trip to China reveals the great cost and quiet joy of Christianity in a restrictive environment, contrasting the faith's deeply personal value there with its ease in the West. Finally, the visit to Nepal underscores the vast needs and impactful, cost-effective nature of ministry, where local Christians, including the head of Evangelism Explosion Nepal, are joyfully strengthening men's faith despite economic hardship and social pressure. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize that men's core issues and desire for authentic Christian community are universal, regardless of culture or country.
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  Ep. 17 | New Years and Past Mistakes in Life 14.01.2026 37Min.

  As the calendar turns, many of us are tempted by the "cliché" of New Year’s resolutions—gym memberships that go unused and lofty goals that lack a plan. But for men, the start of a new year often brings a heavier burden: regret. In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer dive into the psychology and theology of looking back. They discuss the critical difference between "good guilt" (a warning light that signals a need for change) and "bad guilt" (a hamster wheel of self-loathing that becomes a false identity). From Blackstone griddles and picky eaters to the humble brilliance of theologian John Frame, Ryan and Brett explore how to move from being "stuck" in past mistakes to walking in the freedom of genuine forgiveness.
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  Ep. 4 | Being a Humble Father 08.10.2025 35Min.

  In the episode "Being a Humble Father," hosts Ryan and Brett have a candid and vulnerable discussion about the struggles of fatherhood. They share personal stories, including Ryan's experience with feeling overwhelmed and Brett's account of accidentally hurting his daughter. They explore the societal pressure on men to project an image of perfect competence, and how this can lead to shame and emotional disengagement. The guys emphasize that true strength lies in humility and the willingness to admit mistakes, highlighting the importance of apologizing to children and seeking a supportive community. They conclude that a father's integrity is a critical lesson he can teach his kids, as it models accountability and healthy emotional expression.
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  Ep.7 | The Generational Gap between Men Today is Wild 29.10.2025 42Min.

  On this New Adam Podcast episode, host Ryan Reeves sits down with Kent Evans (Manhood Journey) and Scott Mawdesley (Man in the Mirror’s Spiritual Fathers and Dads on Tap) to talk about raising kids and what shaped their vision of manhood. From high school days in ’88, ’91, and ’96 to parenting teens and twenty-somethings today, they reflect on mentors, church life, and the shift from occasional news to always-on social feeds. They ask what young men really need now, why many crave straight talk and wise counsel, and how fathers and mentors can step in with presence, clarity, and faith-anchored guidance. It is a candid, practical conversation for dads and leaders who want to invest in the next generation.
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  Ep. 20 | Stop Trying to "Do Better": The Cure for Christian Burnout w/ Robbie Angle 11.02.2026 45Min.

  In this episode, Brett sits down with Robbie Angle, President of True Face Ministries, to dismantle the "know more, do better" treadmill that leaves so many men exhausted and isolated. Robbie, a former therapist who once served as a missionary in al-Qaeda territory, shares his personal transition from a high-drive achiever "earning" God's love to a leader practicing the "lighter yoke" of abiding. The conversation dives into the messy reality of parenting eight children—including two sets of twins and five adoptions—and how the "90% nature vs. 10% nurture" realization shifted his fatherhood from pressure-filled shaping to intentional stewardship. From the "last 1%" of transparency in brotherhood to the critical difference between unhurried relationship and mere productivity, Robbie offers a refreshing paradigm for any man feeling "uncontent" or paralyzed by the gap between his expectations and his reality.
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  Ep. 27 | The War for Men: Luke Detraz on Identity, Father Wounds, and Rebuilding the Internal Map 01.04.2026 29Min.

  In this episode, Ryan Reeves sits down with Luke Detraz, founder of Field & Faith, to discuss the tectonic shifts facing men in 2026. Luke shares his personal journey from navigating identity wounds to the mission behind his new book, The War for Men. We dive deep into why so many men today feel "functionally invisible" in their own social circles. Luke argues that rebuilding a man starts from the inside out—addressing the "Generational Ghosts"  and the father wounds that often dictate our modern tensions. Whether you are navigating a career transition, family loss, or the weight of isolation, this conversation provides a tactical map for finding your footing again.   #ManInTheMirror #TheWarForMen #LukeDetraz #FieldAndFaith #Masculinity #Fatherhood #Identity #Faith #Brotherhood #PersonalGrowth #Legacy
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  Ep. 14 | The Power of Humility in Fatherhood with Kent Evans 17.12.2025 32Min.

  In this episode of the New Adam podcast, host Ryan Reeves and guest Kent Evans (Manhood Journey) reflect on the vital role of humility and intentionality in marriage and fatherhood. Kent shares the joyous news of his son's recent wedding, a high school sweetheart romance, and the subsequent realization that he was "not ready" for marriage in his early twenties, admitting to struggles with immaturity, financial irresponsibility, and truthfulness. This leads to a discussion on the adulting crisis facing young men today, as well as the importance of older men modeling an exemplary, humble faith, an example too often missing. They challenge the "bad theology" that convinces men they have nothing to offer, urging them to embrace their experiences and gifts. Ryan and Kent conclude by highlighting a key marriage priority that has kept Kent's 30-year relationship strong: the shared, consistent study of scripture.
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  Ep. 24 | Dealing With the Death of a Father 11.03.2026 33Min.

  In this deeply personal episode, Ryan and Jake sit down just days after the passing of Ryan’s father. Moving past the "clinical" or "academic" view of death, they dive into the messy, multifaceted reality of grief, the "Boomer" legacy of the 1940s generation, and how we as men can integrate loss into our lives without losing hope.