Come Here To Me: Relationship Experts Walk the Talk

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  How to have The Talk in your relationship 17.10.2025 8Min.

  What makes things better is connection. This week, Figs shares a short training on the "connection conversation" couples need BEFORE they get into problem-solving for prenups, moving, careers, or any other topic.
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  No Bad Guys! ft. The Bachelor 06.12.2024 39Min.

  Are partners born wicked, or do they have wickedness thrust upon them? From The Bachelor to the state of politics, "bad guys" are a recipe for disconnection — but not in the way you'd expect...
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  Understanding Conflict w/ "Rooster & Chickie" 17.10.2024 6Min.

  Teale & Figs explain the Rooster & Chickie analogy for conflict in relationships as they peck at a disagreement of their own.
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  Defensive Dating 03.10.2024 34Min.

  Is it self-protection or self-destruction? Figs explains how to salvage a date gone wrong using a funny/powerful viral clip of reality TV star Tiffany Pollard.
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  Relationship Shame 26.09.2024 38Min.

  Figs and Teale dig up the roots of Figs' shame around their wedding anniversary.
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  TherapyJeff's 'Healthy Relationship' Tiktok 19.09.2024 49Min.

  What makes a relationship healthy? Figs critiques Tiktok creator TherapyJeff's video, "10 signs you’re in a healthy relationship."
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  Early-Relationship Betrayals 05.09.2024 38Min.

  Teale surprises Figs with a topic they've been dancing around since the very beginning of their relationship.
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  Men vs Women in Relationships 14.09.2023 43Min.

  Figs chats with podcast host (and relationship skeptic) Nicolas Gregoriades about the most common relationship dynamic between men and women.
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  Feedback Failures 07.09.2023 50Min.

  Are your concerns usually met with defensiveness? You might be stuck in a feedback loop… Figs explains why constructive criticism is so difficult, and what to do about it.
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  Should You Diagnose Your Partner? 31.08.2023 27Min.

  Figs and Steph discuss the pros and pitfalls of the growing trend of partners "diagnosing" each other with personality disorders.
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  Healing the Present in Please Like Me 24.08.2023 41Min.

  Transform past wounding into a triumph using a present moment and a quirky, compelling scene from the Australian tv show Please Like Me.
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  The Truth About Codependent Relationships 29.06.2023 41Min.

  "Codependent" or… human? Figs and producer Steph discuss the over-pathologizing of attachment wounding in relationships and explore a better way to heal.
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  How to Fix a Toxic Relationship 22.06.2023 50Min.

  Producer Steph joins as the "Voice of the internet" to ask Figs one of its most-searched questions… How do you repair a relationship that has become "toxic"?
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  Attachment in HBO's Succession 15.06.2023 33Min.

  Couples Therapy Works: What happens when you don't get love? Figs and Karen break down a scene from Succession and its thematic ties to the "Sigma male" movement.
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  Triggering Or Toxic? 13.04.2023 36Min.

  Couples Therapy Works: How do you know if your partner's behavior is unacceptable? Karen joins Figs to answer this important client question.
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  Seeing The Negative Cycle 23.03.2023 33Min.

  Couples Therapy Works: Healthy couples work as a team against The Cycle… but how do they know they're in it? Figs and Karen break down the signs of and steps in the negative infinity loop that traps all couples.
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  Behind the Therapists 16.03.2023 42Min.

  Couples Therapy Works: Karen and Figs, feeling overextended, share the sweetest and hardest parts of being a couples therapist.
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  Why He Withdraws 09.03.2023 44Min.

  Relationship Experts Walk the Talk: It's Figs' turn in the hot seat, digging into a "You're inconsiderate" judgment of Teale to discover a deeper negative view of himself—"I'm not good enough."
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  Impossible Moments 23.02.2023 37Min.

  Couples Therapy Works: Karen joins Figs to discuss "impossible moments" in relationship—and why you should embrace them.
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  Back From Betrayal 16.02.2023 49Min.

  Couples Therapy Works: From years-long affairs to smaller breaks in trust, Karen and Figs explain how they are able to bring couples back from the brink after betrayal.