Almost Forty

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  Understanding My Mum: What I didn't know 19.07.2026 28λ

  This week I’m dipping back into the archives with one of the most relistened episodes of Almost 40: a conversation with my mum. It started as a joke. My podcast manager suggested I ask mum the questions you’d want answered before the end of someone’s life. Mum was 57 at the time of recording! What unfolded surprised me. Mum shares why her proudest achievement isn’t her kids or grandkids, but the sharp left turn she took into a whole new career despite a lifelong fear of exams and a belief that she wasn’t smart enough. We talk about what it was like having two babies by 19, the day I rolled off a hospital bed at twelve weeks old (yes, I’m the fractured skull child), and why “I don’t know how you do it” rarely lands the way people intend. We also unpack something I can’t stop thinking about: why women call their achievements luck. Mum bought her own home after her divorce and is now mortgage free, and her first instinct was to call herself lucky rather than proud. Becoming a mum myself changed how I see her, and this conversation changed it again. In this episode: • The career change my mum made in midlife and the self-doubt she pushed through • Being a young mum at 19 and how you cope when there’s no other option • Why “I don’t know how you do it” lands differently when you’re in survival mode • Luck versus pride: how women talk themselves out of their own achievements • The one thing mum would do differently, and what it reveals about parenting, guilt and work ethic If you love this one, come join me over on Almost Confidential for the more personal episodes.   Follow Almost 40 wherever you’re listening. It makes a huge difference.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  The "Good Girl Undoing" with Dr Lara Goode 06.07.2026 22λ

  Dr Lara Goode opens up about her recent realisation and diagnosis about of what her psychologist called "severe combined type ADHD" at 35. Lara runs her own allied health clinic, is a Mum of two boys and she’s only now meeting herself for the first time - at 35.  In this episode, Lara and I unpack what a late ADHD diagnosis actually feels like: the relief, the rage, and the question she now asks herself every day - is this actual Lara, or performing Lara? We talk about: Getting diagnosed with ADHD at 35 and grieving the years it was missed Good girl conditioning, people pleasing and having no boundaries Masking, mirroring and being a chameleon in relationships Why anger in women is treated as “unbecoming”, and why our mid-thirties is when the rage shows up Burnout, high standards and genuinely believing in bandwidth you don’t have Postnatal anxiety and the undoing that motherhood brings What Lara would say to her younger self Whether or not ADHD is part of your story, if you’ve ever felt like you’ve spent your life performing a version of yourself, this one is for you. Follow  Dr Lara Goode on Instagram Follow Kylie on Instagram Want more?  access exclusive Almost Confidential Episodes here: The unfiltered personal episoides  in full.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  The Miserable Mum Episode ; What Matters & What Doesn't 21.06.2026 56λ

  What makes a Miserable Mum? Is it linked to life satisfaction? If you’re feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, carrying the mental load, or struggling to enjoy family life, this episode is for you. In this episode of Almost Forty, Kylie is joined by Alison from Our Neurodiverse Family for an honest conversation about the recent social media trend surrounding "Things we do because we refuse to be Miserable Mum's". This conversation is all about motherhood, parenting, family systems, resentment, unrealistic expectations and the hidden factors that contribute to mum burnout. Together they explore why so many women feel exhausted by the pressure of being a “good mum” and why the answer isn’t necessarily becoming a better parent - it’s identifying what actually matters, letting go of what doesn’t, and redesigning the systems that are creating friction in everyday family life. Topics discussed include: • The mental load of motherhood • Family dinners and parenting expectations • Mum guilt and resentment • Family systems that reduce overwhelm • Neurodivergent families and practical supports • Teaching kids independence and life skills • Fend For Yourself Dinner (FFYD) • Letting go of perfectionism • Finding more joy and life satisfaction as a parent Whether you’re navigating motherhood, parenting neurodivergent children, feeling overwhelmed by family responsibilities, or simply looking for practical ways to make family life feel easier, this episode is packed with relatable stories, permission slips and actionable ideas. Follow Alison from Our Neurodiverse Family on Instagram here and remember to dm her the wprd BRAINSTORM to secure one of her FREE limited sessions  Head over to the Our Neurodiverse Website here for more info    If you enjoyed this episode, you’ll love Almost Confidential -  The subscriber-only podcast featuring bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes conversations, personal reflections and deeper discussions. Follow Kylie On Instagram via Kylie Lately.         See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  January Me Wouldn’t Believe This - The Mid Year Reset 14.06.2026 33λ

  In this personal solo episode of Almost Forty, I’m taking a moment to reflect on the first six months of the year and unpack some of the changes. This is an honest conversation about where I was in January compared to where I am now, in Mid June. This episode is also packed with reflective prompts to help you pause, check in with yourself and consider what progress you’ve made, what you’re still carrying, and what you want the second half of the year to look like. In this episode: Reflecting on the first six months of the year Burnout, over-functioning and hypervigilance Financial goals and taking responsibility for the things that matter Relationships, self-trust and letting people in Work, purpose and creating a life that feels more aligned Why your camera roll can reveal more than you realise Journal prompts for a mid-year reset and reflection If you’d like a copy of the journal prompts from this episode, send me a DM on Instagram with the word RESET and I’ll send them through. If you’re enjoying Almost Forty, make sure you’re following or subscribing so you never miss an episode. Topics discussed: mid-year reset, personal growth, burnout recovery, self-trust, relationships, journaling, goal setting, reflection, ADHD, mindset, women’s wellbeing, personal development. Unlock Exclusive Subscriber Episodes Here:  https://apple.co/iam    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  The 7 Relationship Rules I'm *trying* to live by 07.06.2026 41λ

  This episode is all about practical, research-backed tips to enhance communication and emotional connection in relationships. Hosted by Kylie, this episode revisits her most listened-to podcast on communication, expanding on key principles for secure interactions. In this ep Kylie covers: Debunking the "mind reader myth" and the importance of clear communication Differentiating between facts and feelings to prevent misunderstandings The significance of regulation and self-awareness in conflict resolution Managing unmet needs and how to respond when they are ignored The value of post-conflict debriefs and continuous learning Maintaining appreciation and affirmation over time Recognising triggers  Follow Kylie on Instagram here  Listen to the 10 Golden Rules Of Communication Episode here   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Kylie & Cassie ~ Pt 2~ Personal Questions, Closure & Supplements 31.05.2026 26λ

  The Unfiltered Conversation continues- Part 2 with Cassie and Kylie. Part One is Live Now for you. This portion of the chat includes personal questions, reflections, closure and more.  Cassie is an experienced and degree qualified naturopath and nutritionist, Cassie is passionate about co-creating achievable and sustainable solutions with her clients. Her approach involves combining the latest evidence based research with traditional herbal medicine methods and believes small changes can create a big impact Follow Cassie On IG Here  Learn More About Cassie HereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Kylie & Cassie Unfiltered ~ Holding It Together VS Holding Yourself ~ 31.05.2026 33λ

  This is a must listen episode- for every woman in her 30s and 40s. It is a very real and raw discussion about navigating the transitions in life. Cassie opens up about her own experience in moving through a time in life where she felt disconnected from the reality in front of her- and how she learnt to accept this pivot. Cassie reflects on the most impact and profound ways she learnt to cope, and thrive. It's a vulnerable and real unfiltered exploration of how it feels when life throws a curve ball. It's about mental health, holding it together, acceptance and moving on.  Part two is live now - keep listening. Cassie Davenport is an experienced and degree qualified naturopath and nutritionist, Cassie is passionate about co-creating achievable and sustainable solutions with her clients. Her approach involves combining the latest evidence based research with traditional herbal medicine methods and believes small changes can create a big impact!   Follow Cassie Here and Visit Cassies Website Here   You can reach out to book an appointment with Cassie via info@cassiedavenport.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Is Family Life Supposed To Feel This Hard?!| Q&A With Alison 24.05.2026 36λ

  If you ever find yourself wondering is parenting is meant to feel this hard? or is it normal to find family dynamics challenging... This is the episode for you! Alison, founder of Our Neurodiverse Family and AuADHD Coach Family Dynamics Strategist joins me to answer listener submitted questions. We chat about the reality of needing support, the lack of village, the pressure and expectations of parenting. We get into what it means to have a vision for your family in the future but also, right now.  Alison answers questions about sensory seeking behaviour, systems and more. For more helpful guidance -  Follow Alison on IG and explore options to work with Alison here Our ND Family WebsiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Almost Confidential: The Parts You Haven’t Heard 17.05.2026 24λ

  This episode is a sneak peek behind the subscriber feed and into the more personal thoughts and moments that don’t make the main podcast. Inside this episode: a very real pre-teen parenting situation that pushed me to my limit things I’ve never properly said out loud about parenting solo a conversation with my son about high school culture, vaping, bullying and consent the reality of being a Type B / ADHD mum trying to hold life together the emotional undercurrent behind the polished version of adulthood and more  To access these subscriber episodes in full and hundreds more- simply click here: Almost Confidential EpisodesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Answering Your Questions 🫣... 10.05.2026 27λ

  Answering questions submitted via Instagram including the things I would never suggest throughout pregnancy, expectations, judgement, parenting tools, relationship questions and more. Remember every week you can access subscriber only episodes via Almost Confidential. Those are the conversations that will never make it to the main feed.  Unlock Almost ConfidentialSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Ending The Burnout Era, Letting Go & This Thing Called Rest? 06.05.2026 21λ

  A solo episode talking through elements of burnout, delegating, resting and letting go. From one Mum to another- on ending the burnout era.  Unlock exclusive eps here  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Dear Tara Pavlovic 03.05.2026 39λ

  This is an "open letter" style episode in response to a podcast ep where Tara Pavlovic opened up about her separation.  Listen to ALMOST CONFIDENTIAL HERE for the episodes that will never make it to the main feed Listen to the Now What Ep here with Rach and Tara  Follow Tara on IG here See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  okay, lets go there ( the one I was nervous for ) 15.04.2026 18λ

  This was an interview I was really nervous for - It's hard to sit down and chat about mistakes at the best of times- let alone with a microphone but it felt like the right thing to do. Enough time has past to have this chat and so, this is a (portion of) a conversation I had with Rachel over on the Now What Podcast discussing the truth about breaking up with someone who is not the biological parent of your children. It's raw, honest and perhaps, needed- to help ease the shame some women may carry when it comes to "failed" relationships.  Listen to the full conversation with Rachel here: The Now What? Ep Listen to the Almost Confidential Exclusive Episodes here : https://apple.co/iamSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  What Skye Wheatleys Instagram Stories made me think about for days... 29.03.2026 32λ

  What Skye Wheatleys Instagram Stories made me think about for days- in regards to parenting and partnership. This is an episode for women navigating their 30s and 40s, who are curious about relationships, identity and the impact and dynamics of parenting.  Unlock Exclusive Episodes here: https://apple.co/iamSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  I just wanted to make weekends "good again" 22.03.2026 24λ

  "I realised I was feeling numb toward weekends - and something had to change" enter Project Make Weekends Good Again. This has been a work in progress and today's podcast ep is all about the feeling of same/sameness from weekend to weekday and how I've managed to make progress toward creating more contrast. It's an episode for every Mum out there who needs the reminder that she can. be present, lower the bar AND enjoy weekends again.  Listen to the most recent subs ep via Almost Confidential https://apple.co/iamSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  She Asked Me If Getting Diagnosed Was Worth It... 15.03.2026 30λ

  In this episode of Almost Forty, Kylie responds to a message from a listener who asked a simple but deeply personal question: “Was getting diagnosed actually worth it?”After receiving her own adhd diagnosis several years ago - and navigating diagnoses for her children - Kylie reflects on what truly changed… and what didn’t.She shares the practical realities of the diagnostic process, the financial and emotional considerations, and the unexpected ways understanding ADHD and Autism has helped her make sense of past experiences, relationships, parenting, masking, and identity.   This episode explores: What a diagnosis can give you (and what it can’t) The psychological clarity that can come with understanding yourself differently How diagnosis changed Kylie’s parenting Why language like masking, burnout and decompression matters The complexities of navigating a world that isn’t built for neurodivergent people Kylie also reflects on rejection sensitivity, friendship dynamics, and the experience many neurodivergent women describe of feeling like they were always trying to figure out “how to be a person.”If you’re considering exploring a diagnosis for yourself, or supporting a child through that process, this episode offers a thoughtful and honest reflection on what that journey can look like.You can also listen to Kylie’s earlier conversation about neurodivergence with Dr Erin Bowe here: https://podcasts.apple.com/es/podcast/almost-forty/id1453463089?l=ca Dr Erin Bowe specialises in supporting women navigating the neurodivergent diagnostic process and offers a compassionate, affirming approach to understanding ADHD and autism in adulthood. :  Access subscriber content here.    https://apple.co/iam  Follow Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylielately?igsh=MW0xZGxmZXdqYmw2bQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Stop Forcing It: 10 Health Habits I Swear By 08.03.2026 26λ

  In this episode of Almost Forty, Kylie shares the simple health habits she relies on in her late 30s to support energy, wellbeing and everyday life. Instead of complicated routines or extreme wellness trends, this episode focuses on realistic habits that are easy to repeat and work alongside a busy life.Kylie talks about the small things that make the biggest difference. This is about creating a sustainable relationship with health in midlife, where consistency matters more than perfection. If you’re looking for simple ways to support your health, energy and wellbeing without overcomplicating things, this episode is for you.In this episode:Simple health habits for women in their late 30s and beyond. Focusing on health habits that work with your life, not against it- Follow Almost Forty for more conversations about midlife, wellbeing, personal growth and modern motherhood.  Access the subscrier only episodes here:    ALMOST CONFIDENTIAL  Instagram : follow kylie here See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Last on the List: When You Stop Counting Yourself 01.03.2026 16λ

  Unfortunately - it is really common for women to feel like they no longer matter in their own lives. It happens gradually and simply, because they run out of time and energy to even "care" what they like or want for themselves.  When everyday is focused on meeting the needs of everyone around you - it makes sense that you just kind of "turn your own needs and wants down". At some point though, we have to tune back into ourselves. This episode is about why women deprioritise their own preferences, the discomfort of not knowing what you enjoy anymore and realistic ways to begin reconnecting with yourself in small, effective ways.This isn’t about adding more to your plate.It’s about restoring the signal of who you are.If you’ve been feeling disconnected from yourself, this is your starting point. To access private and personal episodes : Check out Almost ConfidentialSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  The 5% That Matters Most For Any Transformation 22.02.2026 36λ

  This episode is for anyone who has ever craved change but lacks the bandwidth for transformation. It's for the woman who feels stuck in the "same same" cycle of each day...  or even each year.  Kylie  answers a DM from a Mum who feels completely "over it" and desperately craves a Mindset Reset and feels defeated that the new year has not brought the transformation she hoped.   Listen to Almost Confidential here        See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  Live Reaction To Episode One - 6 Years on. 19.02.2026 32λ

  This episode is a live reaction to the very first podcast episode I shared - Six years on from the very  to the day - Listen in to hear what has changed, what's remained and the ick of listening back to yourself 🫠 Follow here on IG  Access Subscriber Only Episodes HereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.