That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

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  192 You’re already orgasmic, how to remove the blocks to reach orgasm with Emma Swain 16.09.2026 49λ

  Orgasms are not a finish line - they’re a state of being, and most women/AFAB have been taught the wrong way to access them. Sex and relationship therapist Emily sits down with sensual embodiment coach Emma Swain to unpack why so many people feel blocked, disappointed, or “not orgasmic,” and how to move from pressure and performance into real, sustained pleasure. Emma challenges the idea that orgasm is just a physical peak and breaks it open into something much bigger: emotional release, energetic expansion, nervous system safety, and full-body surrender. If you’ve ever felt like your body “doesn’t work,” only orgasms with one specific method, or rushes straight to a quick climax and drops off, this conversation will shift the way you think about pleasure completely. Emma’s Instagram   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  191 Why women pay for sex - the experience of hiring an escort with Anna Grosman 09.09.2026 37λ

  Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of Her Confidant, shares how she built Australia’s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, and why more women than ever are quietly reclaiming intimacy, confidence, and connection. From her own journey growing up in a conservative family to creating two businesses in this space, Anna opens up about the stigma she’s fighting, the women she serves, and the life-changing conversations happening before a booking ever takes place. She explains how Her Confidant works, why every client begins with a deeply personal consultation, and how the experience is designed to feel safe, respectful, and fully tailored from start to finish. You’ll discover: What sexual experiences at Her Confidant look like How Anna matches clients with companions using intuition, experience, and careful screening The role trauma awareness, consent, and trust play in creating a safe sexual experience Why some clients say this experience has done more for them than years of therapy How intimacy, touch, and pleasure can support confidence at every age Anna Grosman is the founder of Her Confidant, Australia’s only female-led agency providing curated intimate experiences for women and couples.    Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreHer Confidant Instagram Her Confidant Website Her Confidant LinkedInSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  190 Dickfishing - Ask a sexologist 02.09.2026 25λ

  Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in. Today's episode explores catfishing. Submit your anonymous question for the podcast   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  189 Why do people get turned on by humiliation? with Sexologist Lex Nyree 26.08.2026 49λ

  Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having this kink does not automatically mean someone has low self-esteem. Key topics Lex defines humiliation kink. Examples discussed include verbal humiliation, small penis humiliation, service humiliation, public embarrassment scenarios, forced feminisation, and financial domination. Emily and Lex discuss why humiliation kink can be appealing, including the release of control, novelty, sexual association developed over time, and accidental discovery through play. They discuss what it means to have a fantasy vs kink that is practised. Safety. Lex describes the experience of both submissives and dominants. They discuss how to bring up your humiliation kink with a partner. Does having a humiliation kink mean you have low self-esteem?   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre www.sexwithlex.com.au Instagram @sexwithlexmelbSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  188 Missionary sex shouldn’t be boring, if it is, you’re doing it wrong 19.08.2026 15λ

  In this episode, Emily explores how to spice up the missionary position. Missionary can get a bad rap, dismissed as boring or too vanilla, but it doesn't have to be. Emily shares 8 ways to bring more pleasure, connection and excitement into missionary, proving there's way more to this position than people give it credit for. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  187 Why you keep dating the wrong people with Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown 13.08.2026 56λ

  Why do we keep choosing the wrong partners — even when we know better? In this episode of That’s Orgasmic, Emily sits down with psychotherapist and professor Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown to unpack the unconscious patterns that draw us toward emotionally unavailable relationships, familiar chaos, and unresolved wounds. Together, they explore the idea of an “erotic emotional map,” how childhood attachment patterns can shape adult love lives, and why butterflies, adrenaline, and uncertainty can sometimes be misread as attraction. Gillian shares practical tools for noticing what a relationship brings out in you, including a simple body-based exercise and a post-date reflection practice that helps you track whether someone expands your sense of self or slowly erodes it. If you’ve ever found yourself repeating the same relationship pattern, struggling to walk away, or wondering why calm love feels unfamiliar, this conversation offers compassionate insight and grounded guidance for choosing healthier, safer, and more reciprocal connection. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre Pre-order Dr. Gillian O'Shea Brown's book now (with a preorder bonus of a sample chapter and the Erotic Emotional Map) Take the Psychological Achilles Heel Quiz: https://gillianosheabrown.webflow.io/ Dr. Gillian's Instagram Dr. Gillian's TikTok  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  186 What makes someone good at sex? (It's not experience) 05.08.2026 17λ

  Think being good at sex comes from having lots of experience? Think again. In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest myths about sex: that the more sex you have had, the better you'll be in bed. The truth is, great sex has everything to do with communication, curiosity, connection, and a willingness to learn. We'll explore:• Why sexual experience doesn't automatically make someone a better lover• The qualities that actually make someone a great sexual partner• How communication can transform your sex life• Why slowing down often leads to more pleasure• The importance of connection and aftercare• Why porn isn't sex education• Evidence-based resources to help you learn about pleasure, even if you've never had sex before   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  185 Why do I like my sex toy more than partnered sex? 22.07.2026 18λ

  This episode explores the listener question, "I bought a toy and I'm honestly a little embarrassed about how much I like it more than partnered sex. Does that mean something's wrong?" Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  184 Stop approaching women like this 15.07.2026 22λ

  In this episode, Emily discusses a recent scary experience of a man asking for her number in public. Emily also discusses the different ways men have approached her in public, from the ok to the bad.   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  How to eat pussy - Queer edition with Jordana Ezra [REVISIT] 08.07.2026 43λ

  There is no new episode this week, instead, enjoy this revisit to episode 134 How to eat pussy.  In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the pussy frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life.  Emily and Jordana discuss: Performance anxiety to eat pussy How to eat pussy How to practice pussy worshipping How to get to know your pussy Getting out of your head and into your body FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast To book a session with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre follow the link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com JORDY'S INSTAGRAM  FREE PLEASURE MAPPING SESSION WITH JORDYSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  182 How to have a terrible sex life 01.07.2026 26λ

  Emily a sex and relationship therapist, discusses the most common behaviours that contribute to a bad sex life...they're more common than you'd think. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  181 UPDATED - How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips- Part Two 29.06.2026 10λ

  Apologies for the error in uploading the same episode for both part one and two of 'how to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  180 How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips- Part one 24.06.2026 9λ

  This episode is part one of two episodes - How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  179 Daily practices to reconnect to your sexuality 17.06.2026 24λ

  Low desire? Disconnected from your body? Struggle to experience pleasure? This practical episode explores daily practices to connect to your sexuality.  Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  178 Why touch can disappear in relationships 10.06.2026 15λ

  This episode explores demand and non-demand intimacy. Emily explains what is happening when not only sex has decreased, but physical touch and intimacy have decreased too. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code: thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  177 How to initiate sex 03.06.2026 17λ

  Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Workbook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation bundle Ebook + Workbook Emotional Bank Account Podcast episode FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  176 Is your relationship is running on empty? 27.05.2026 14λ

  This episode explores the emotional bank account. A concept often discussed in therapy to determine the health of your relationship and how you can improve it. Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  175 Why you are experiencing erectile difficulties 20.05.2026 16λ

  Overcome your erectile difficulties with my online self-paced course  Overcoming Erectile Difficulties Program: How to obtain and maintain an erection Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook (How to initiate sex) FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre Discount code for course: THATSORGASMIC   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast If you want to track your erectile health use the link below to access the FirmTech Ring. A penile device that tracks your erections and can also be used as a cockring. https://myfirmtech.com/emilyduncan Use the code: ThatsOrgasmic for 15% off.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  174 Five things I repeat as a Sex Therapist that you probably need to hear too 13.05.2026 16λ

  This episode explores 5 things Emily always says as a sex therapist to her clients during their therapy sessions. Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  173 Exploring Kink and BDSM with Coby Baker 29.10.2025 42λ

  This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist. Emily and Coby discussed: What is Kink and BDSM Development of kinks Common practices Difference between a kink and a fetish How to explore kink and BDSM safely Communication How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore Aftercare FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre, follow the link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Sexual Wellness Centre. Coby’s website Coby’s InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.