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  E131: Electric Play – The Spark Between Fear and Pleasure 14.09.2026 1ώ 7λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! Today's episode is all about electric play a form of BDSM that's often misunderstood and surrounded by myths. Some people imagine it's dangerous, others think it's just a gimmick, and many have never even heard of it. So today, we're going to separate fact from fiction. We'll explore why some people enjoy electric sensation, how consent and communication are central to the experience, and why education and risk awareness matt...
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  E130: Q & A with a dominatrix 07.09.2026 47λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! One of the things I enjoy most about asking for your questions is that sometimes a handful of completely unrelated questions end up circling around the same idea or we just go straight off the tracks into a whole different podcast. When I looked through the ones I wanted to answer this week, they seemed to be about completely different things. I totally have not been ADHD putting this off because of how indepth these question...
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  E129: Feminisation: Why Does It Appeal to Some Men? The Psychology, Shame & Misconceptions 31.08.2026 27λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! Welcome back everyone to Behind The Paddle Podcast Today's episode is one I've wanted to make for a long time because it's surrounded by misunderstanding, judgement and, frankly, a lot of misinformation. We're talking about feminisation. Now, before anyone jumps to conclusions, this isn't an episode promoting or criticising it. It's an attempt to understand it. I have my own stories which I'm going to share with you. Some of ...
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  E128: An English Madam Part 13 24.08.2026 31λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E127: BEHIND THE BADGE - Alan Greer 17.08.2026 32λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! “Laws are threats made by the dominant socio-economic ethnic group in a given nation. It’s just a promise of violence that’s enacted and the police are basically an occupying army, you know what I mean?” - Brennan Lee Mulligan A police officer is given something that few people in society ever receive: authority. That authority is not only the power to enforce the law. It is the ability to enter people's lives at their most v...
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  E126: An English Madam Part 12 10.08.2026 36λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E125: An English Madam Part 11 03.08.2026 45λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E124: An English Madam Part 10 27.07.2026 49λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E123: An English Madam Part 9 20.07.2026 31λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E122: An English Madam Part 8 29.06.2026 48λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E121: An English Madam Part 7 22.06.2026 45λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E120:Confidence & Guidance 15.06.2026 1ώ 16λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! This was taken from my bimonthly Zoom event. I’ve been thinking a lot recently about how some men don’t know either how to navigate in the bedroom, don’t have as much confidence, haven’t much experience or confidence or have trauma therefore needing some mentoring in some manner. I have started to notice in my years of being a companion that there is an increase in men using my services who either aren’t as experienced ...
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  E119:Motherhood, Money & Morality: Sex Work While Pregnant Part 2 08.06.2026 41λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! Baby Bumps & Backlash: S*x Work and Pregnancy. This episode came about from hearing about Bonnie Blues pregnancy gangbang/golden shower. In this episode of Behindthepaddle podcast you will hear from myself who has done adult content while pregnant. I will explain why, how I felt at the time and how I currently feel and how moving forward we can help pregnant women. This experience is from somebody who has live...
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  E118:Motherhood, Money & Morality: Sex Work While Pregnant Part 1 01.06.2026 1ώ 6λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! Baby Bumps & Backlash: S*x Work and Pregnancy. This episode came about from hearing about Bonnie Blues pregnancy gangbang/golden shower. In this episode of Behindthepaddle podcast you will hear from myself who has done adult content while pregnant. I will explain why, how I felt at the time and how I currently feel and how moving forward we can help pregnant women. This experience is from somebody who has live...
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  E117: An English Madam Part 6 25.05.2026 29λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E116: An English Madam Part 5 18.05.2026 43λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E115: An English Madam Part 4 04.05.2026 39λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E114: An English Madam Part 3 27.04.2026 26λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E113: An English Madam Part 2 20.04.2026 50λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...
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  E112: An English Madam Part 1 26.03.2026 22λ

  Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south ...