Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman
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In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast.
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The Smile That Hides the Pain – Why So Many Black Women Mask Their Mental Health Crises | MINISODE 24.07.2026 19mHey lady! You know we love a mental health check-in, so we want you to answer one simple question for us…are you good? We mean that for real, are you good? Are you ok? How are you? Ok, that was three questions but you get the gist. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri stop by to holler at the strong Black women in our community to let them know that we see you. We see you getting up each day and giving it your all even if on the inside it is a struggle. This week they invite you to place the mask to the side and look in the mirror and assess how you are feeling and how you are doing. You can lay the armor down and tend to the parts of yourself that are tender without judgment. Doing so can help you avert full on meltdown or burnout because truthfully lady, ain’t nobody got time for that. So do yourself a favor, give yourself a hug or take a nap and allow yourself to validate your own humanity with self-compassion. As always, we have a community of like-hearted women who will welcome you with open arms. You are not out here alone, lady. Join us in our Patreon for real sistergirl support! Today’s sponsor is VB Health, known for science-backed, third-party tested supplements made in the USA. Try Drive Boost for libido support. Many people report noticing benefits within 1–2 weeks of daily use. Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
So What's Therapy Like Anyway? | TBT 23.07.2026 40mHave you been considering seeing a mental health professional? Well, then today’s episode is just for you. Dom acknowledges that as a mental health professional she is biased so she turns to Terri to share her experience with therapy. Through... -
Introducing The Black Guy Who Tips Podcast | Sitting Down! with Pete Dominick (Network Drop) 21.07.2026 1h 44mRod and Karen are joined by Pete Dominick to discuss Podjam 3, the importance of community, doing warm-up for TV shows, interviewing authors, growing up funny, racial differences in comedy, political comedy, meeting J-L Cauvin, J-L running for office, hyper vigilance, and some white people news. The Black Guy Who Tips Podcast Podjam 3 Tickets: https://events.humanitix.com/podjam3 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/theblackguywhotips Twitter: @rodimusprime @SayDatAgain @TBGWT Instagram: @TheBlackGuyWhoTips Email: theblackguywhotips@gmail.com Blog: www.theblackguywhotips.com Teepublic Store- https://the-black-guy-who-tips-podcast.dashery.com/ Amazon Wishlist – https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1PDD9JUQUNVY5?ref_=wl_share Crowdcast – https://www.crowdcast.io/theblackguywhotips Voicemail: (980) 500-9034See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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How to Actually Enjoy Your Summer as an Adult | MINISODE 17.07.2026 19mHey lady! This week Terri and Dr. Dom drop in for a quick musing on why making time to enjoy your summer is of high importance for Black women. This year is zooming by and back-to-school ads are already popping up threatening Summer’s freedom with its Fall rhythm and routines. Before we get there make sure you have a Summer to remember! Whether it’s stopping by your local pool to lay out and cool off, taking a hike to get your heart rate up and see the sights, or planning a tropical vacation, making you time and taking a break from life’s demands is worth your attention. Lady, you are worthy of rest, pleasure and delight. Make it a point to find all three and more this summer. And, tag us in the photos on Instagram! We want to see how our community is making the most of Summer 2026! Today’s sponsor is VB Health, known for science-backed, third-party tested supplements made in the USA. Try Soaking Wet, which supports vaginal health and balance. Many people report noticing benefits within 1–2 weeks of daily use. Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
Revisiting Your Goals with Grace | MINISODE 10.07.2026 17mHey lady! Summer is officially here and if you’re anything like us we are welcoming the longer days, gearing up for some fun in the sun, and hopefully taking a bit of a break from the grind. Speaking of taking a break, after eight beautiful years of giving you fresh content each Friday, Dr. Dom and Terri are taking a much-needed, well-deserved break. Yes, ladies for the next few months Terri and Dr. Dom are pulling back to rest, recalibrate and come back in the Fall with inspired content and fresh perspectives to keep you glowing and growing. Now, you already know that we love you for real and would never leave you hanging so keep tuning in each week because we’re going to drop mini episodes to make sure you’re still on track to be the best you. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri offer encouragement as we head into the midpoint of the year. Are you feeling like you’re not making progress on your goals? Don’t fret, you still have time to adjust your plan or pivot altogether if that feels right. Tap in this week to get the fuel to get assess your current path so you can move through the rest of the year with clarity and confidence! This episode is sponsored by VB Health, a woman-owned, physician-led supplement company creating doctor-formulated supplements that work. We’re featuring Drive Boost (libido support for all genders). Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
No Is a Complete Sentence | TBT 09.07.2026 37mNo! In case you were wondering, no is a complete sentence. Use it without hesitation. Nike! (Just do it!) Know that using it is an act of self-care. Can you think of a time when you’ve had to say no or struggled to say no? Who have you had to say no...
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Black Men and Relationships with Dr. James Wadley 03.07.2026 44mHey lady! Have you and your girlfriends caught yourselves asking what is wrong with these…men these days? Well, you’re not alone. This week, friend of the show, Dr. James Wadley joins Dr. Dom and Terri to discuss the ‘why’ behind the current dating environment and what you can do to have fun while you wade through the sea of frogs until you meet your prince. Dr. Wadley offers insight to the male perspective in the current dating landscape and some understanding of why there appears to be frictions between the sexes. Lady, you do not want to miss Dr. Wadley’s down-to-earth real talk about what he’s seeing in his male clients. He affirms what many of us are experiencing trying to find true love and companionship, calls out the brothas for accountability and leaves the door open for women to take accountability for themselves as wel Girl, tap in and hear some uncomfortable truths and unpopular opinions. Getting real before you get down in the bedroom is the gameplan for the future, lady. Tap in for a sure-fire way to up your dating game! Quote of the Day: "Intimate relationships can provide a sanctuary from the world of facades, a sacred space where we can be ourselves, as we are." – bell hooks Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Where to find Dr. James Wadley: Website: Dr. James Wadley LinkedIn: Dr. James Wadley Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
The Pursuit of Black Love with Codie Elaine Oliver | TBT 02.07.2026 49mAh, amor! Isn’t it sweet? Lady, if you are a romantic – or want to be – this episode is for you. Codie Elaine Oliver, CEO, and co-founder of Black Love, Inc., a fast-growing media company comprised of the Black Love+ app, joins Dr. Dom and Terri for a...
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Understanding Uterine Cancer with Dr. Kemi Doll 26.06.2026 1h 6mHey lady! This week Dr. Dom and Terri welcome Dr. Kemi Doll, a physician, surgeon, researcher, advocate and author of A Terrible Strength: The Hidden Crisis of the Black Womb & Your Survival Guide to Healing to sit down and talk to us about the importance of caring for our wombs at all stages of life. Dr. Kemi provides an insightful and informative lens as to how the impact of adequate care – and the neglect of such care – can shape Black women’s reproductive health and overall quality of life. Far too often, Black women’s reproductive health is reduced to the facilitation of producing babies and little more. However, there is a vast array of reproductive issues that affect Black women and those issues are not given the spotlight that they need – particularly uterine cancer, the fastest growing cancer in Black women. Dr. Kemi gives a historical review of how we collectively arrived to a place where not only is Black women’s maternal health in peril, but we are now facing aggressive concerns in other womb matters. The good news is that with once you are armed with good information you can turn those debilitating aches and pains into a plan to advocate for your health and your needs. Lady, you’re going to want to pay close attention because Dr. Kemi is going to lay out the tell-tale symptoms that let you know you’re experiencing abnormal womb health. Good health isn’t given to you, it’s something that you tend to and advocate for your entire lifetime. We know as a Black woman you may be accustomed to pushing through all the random and weird body sensations you may experience but it’s time to tune in and make sure that you’re listening to your temple and treating it as such. We’re sending you love and positive energy, lady! Quote of the Day: "To all who cramp, bleed, and endure- and those who love us. It's time for a new story." – Dr. Kemi Doll This episode is brought to you by VB Health, supplements that work. Check out Soaking Wet for vaginal health. With daily use, many people report improvements within 1–2 weeks. Visit this link and use code HerSpace at checkout for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Where to find Dr. Kemi Doll: Website: Kemi Doll Book: A Terrible Strength: The Hidden Crisis of the Black Womb & Your Survival Guide to Healing Instagram: @kemidoll LinkedIn: Dr. Kemi Doll Facebook: Dr. Kemi Doll Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
What's a Chakra? Sex, Healing, and Balance with Eliza Boquin | TBT 25.06.2026 49mLady, have you ever had your chakras line up with your partner’s? Would you know what it feels like if they did? No worries. Mother Earth provides us with everything we need so we got you today! Joining Dr. Dom and Terri this week is Eliza Boquin to...
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Who Are You Without a Goal – The Endless Pursuit of Becoming 19.06.2026 50mHey lady! If you’re anything like us then you know that all of your goals and dreams are within your reach; but, if you’re anything like us you know that you don’t have to burn out to make those dreams happen. In this one beautiful life you get to live do you want to spend it on the dream chasing treadmill, or are you ready to be a human being rather than a human doing? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom discuss the life-changing magic of deciding that being content with the life you built as it is now. This doesn’t mean that you give up your aspirations for the life you envision for yourself, but it does mean reframing the path to that life so that you don’t relinquish your peace of mind and your good health. Dr. Dom and Terri dive into the six components that can help you audit your ambition and what’s driving you. When you look at your life how do you really feel? Often, when we have big dreams we take the adage, it’s not the destination, it’s the journey a little too literally. Sometimes the forward momentum can blind us to the positive gains we have now. Being mindful and present is the gift itself, so why can it be so difficult to slow down enough to enjoy it? Terri and Dr. Dom offer clarifying questions and perspectives to help you gain a healthy view on life and when good enough is actually great! Lady, life is what you make it so stop and smell the roses, tell the people that love and support you that you appreciate them, and keep doing you! And, if you need additional support, join us in Patreon. We’ve built a beautiful community of sister friends who have released the mantle of perfection and are living their best lives just as they are. Quote of the Day: “The goal isn’t to stop becoming. The goal is to make sure you don’t miss your life while you’re becoming.” – Unknown We’re partnered with VB Health, a doctor-formulated supplement brand focused on sexual wellness you can trust. Featuring Soaking Wet, designed to support vaginal health, pH balance, and comfort. Most users report results after 1–2 weeks of consistent use. Visit this link and use code HerSpace at checkout for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
Mental Wellness is Business Wellness with Dr. LaShonda T. Green | TBT 19.06.2026 55mHey lady, are you tired of sitting on the sidelines and ready to try your hand at that idea you’ve been dreaming up? Well, today’s episode is for you. Dr. LaShonda T. Green, a licensed clinical Psychologist, joins Dr. Dom and Terri to discuss ways...
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7 Silent Relationship Killers 12.06.2026 50mHey lady! We’re almost halfway through the year, which means it is a great time to audit your life and your relationships. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri offer a thorough examination of the silent killers that impact your relationships. These quiet habits are sure fire ways to make your intimacy disintegrate slowly over time. The good news is that there are ways to address these habits before they fester and rot the relationship from the inside out. This is a must watch episode. What’s that? You didn’t know that we’re on all streaming podcast platforms, including YouTube?! Grow with us in community as Terri and Dr. Dom offer strategic advice to help you advocate for your needs, build resilience and strengthen your conflict resolution skills. This episode is chock full of substantive questions to help you guide your personalized process to speaking up in a way that feels authentic to you while developing the trust that comes with honest communication in your relationship. If you’re seeking an individualized plan custom for your and your situation, reach out to Dr. Dom for a consultation. Dr. Dom can work with you for a deeper dive into issues that may be creating blocks in your interpersonal relationships or coaching to help you and your relationships soar to new heights! Quote of the Day: “Never be limited by other people’s limited imaginations.” — Dr. Mae Jemison Today’s sponsor is VB Health, known for science-backed, third-party tested supplements made in the USA. Try Drive Boost for libido support. Many people report noticing benefits within 1–2 weeks of daily use. Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.com Check out the Best of CHS!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
Finding Your Personal Power with Rhonda Ross | TBT 11.06.2026 47mLady, how do you learn to shine your own light when your parents are THE Diana Ross and Berry Gordy?! Well, THE Rhonda Ross has learned how to do just that. Rhonda wants all of us to see “the force within” ourselves and “to recognize it, harness it,...
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PART 2: Why Your Reputation Matters More Than Ever 05.06.2026 48mHey lady! This week Dr. Dom and Terri pick up where they left off discussing why protecting your reputation is high priority as we navigate the new terrain of a saturated misinformation market where a sharp discernment will be key to keeping you from getting got. Your name carries weight wherever you go. What does your name say when you aren’t in the room? Terri and Dr. Dom dive even deeper into why developing good character, high integrity, and a moral compass go a long way to earning a strong reputation. Life is made for living and who you were then does not have to be who you are now. While reputations change you character stands the test of time. Part One focused on how to interrogate yourself but we are hardwired to be in community with others. This week Dr. Dom and Terri highlight ways to identify green flags in others so that your ability to vet becomes stronger in your interpersonal relationships. Lady, you’ve heard us say it and we’ll continue to say it – we’re all we got. So, we need to start acting like it and nurture the relationships that help us show up as our authentic selves. If you’re ready to drop the masks and be the truest you, tap in babe! We’re over here growing! Quote of the Day: “Because the reality is, people are human. People make mistakes. But we also have to learn how to protect ourselves, trust ourselves, and move with wisdom.” – Unknown This episode is brought to you by VB Health, supplements that work. Check out Soaking Wet for vaginal health. With daily use, many people report improvements within 1–2 weeks. Visit this link and use code HerSpace at checkout for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.com Check out the Best of CHS!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
It Ain't About You Boo: How to Stop Taking Things Personally | TBT 04.06.2026 39mRejection. Insecurity. Perfectionism. These are some of the reasons why we may be taking things personally. At different stages and seasons in life, we have all found ourselves in a space where we are asking, “What did I do? Why am I the target here?”...
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PART 1: Why Your Reputation Matters More Than Ever 29.05.2026 48mHey lady! This week Dr. Dom and Terri dive into an important, but sometimes touchy topic. What you think about yourself and what others think about you are two different concepts that radically impact your life. Self-esteem and self-regard are what keep your self-concept in check but your reputation is built on variable factors – few of which are in your control. The good news is there are strategies to help you improve your reputation and all of them are in your control. Terri and Dr. Dom offer perspective on why building strong character matters more than creating an image built on controlling people’s perception of you. Don’t get it twisted, your image matters and so does the narrative around you but the incredible thing about living is that at any moment you can own your narrative and write a new story based on what is true to you and your life experience. Lady, this episode is jam packed with richness to help you gain clarity about how to present the best, most real version of yourself. You deserve to live in a world where you are respected and valued, but that first starts with you! Quote of the Day: “Deal with yourself as an individual worthy of respect and make everyone else deal with you the same way.” – Nikki Giovanni Know what you’re looking for? Feeld has rolled out its “shared desires” feature, which immediately shows you what you have in common with someone else. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
Tough Conversations: Calling Off A Wedding, Cohabitating, and Speaking Up During Sex | TBT 28.05.2026 55mHey lady! There comes a time in life when you’ll have to open up your mouth and speak up. But, certain situations require a deeper level of skill than others. How do you navigate tough conversations? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom outline a few...
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Soft Life or Survival? What the ‘Young Heaux’ Era Is Really Teaching Us 22.05.2026 1h 1mHey lady! Can you tell the difference between an old heaux and a young heaux? If you can no longer drop down and get your eagle on, but it’s cool because you don’t even know that means anyway then this episode is for you. This week, Terri and Dr. Dom have fun bridging the gap between the generational divide that exists because sistas across the land are realizing we have a lot to learn from each other. No matter what generation you are a part of, we can all agree that life is remarkably different than what we were used to; and what has become clear in these turbulent times is that we’re going to need each other to get through them. Our individual life lessons weave into a colorful tapestry of collective wisdom when we decide to listen to one another. With that perspective in mind, Dr. Dom and Terri make a playful delineation between old heaux and young heaux behavior. Pour your favorite beverage of choice and tap in to what makes each lived experience amazing and different and worth celebrating. Young heauxs have enviable opportunities and freedoms that our ancestors dreamed, and old heauxs have the benefit and beauty of a life before social media allowing space for creativity, culture, and common sense. Together, we can light a path for the generations younger than us to build the world they deserve. Tap in! Quote of the Day: “When you’ve seen women give everything and still end up depleted… choosing yourself starts to look like rebellion.” – Unknown This episode is sponsored by VB Health, a woman-owned, physician-led supplement company creating doctor-formulated supplements that work. We’re featuring Drive Boost (libido support for all genders). Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace Know what you’re looking for? Feeld has rolled out its “shared desires” feature, which immediately shows you what you have in common with someone else. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. -
Future Millionaire: A Young Person’s Step-By-Step Guide to Making Wealth Inevitable with Rachel Rodgers | TBT 21.05.2026 47mHey lady! Are you ready to get your ish together once and for all? Then bust that notebook out, sis, because this week Dr. Dom and Terri have a powerhouse guest join them to drop gems on how to get your financial house in order so you can welcome...
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