Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Episodios

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  Be Slow to Speak 23.07.2026 12m

  When tension is high, how do you avoid saying something to your spouse that you'll end up regretting? Deborah Pegues and Jim Daly offer some helpful thoughts on what it means and looks like to control your tongue. Then, the Smalley's share how to calm down and get collected even when an argument gets intense. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY30 Days to Taming Your TongueFocus on Marriage AssessmentControlling Your Tongue (Digital Download)Take the Reactive Cycle AssessmentListen to Focus Live on Godcaster
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  Learning to Work in Tandem 21.07.2026 9m

  When conflict arises, does one of you tend to get aggressive, and does the other withdraw? Dr. Josh and Christi Straub talk with Jim and Jean Daly about how to recognize your patterns in conflict and how you can handle arguments in a more constructive way. Plus, Greg and Erin offer some helpful advice on how to recognize if you're playing the victim in marital conflict. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYFamous at HomeFocus on Marriage AssessmentBecoming Teammates in Marriage I-II (Digital)Take the Reactive Cycle AssessmentCounseling Consultation and Referrals
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  Overcoming Financial Feuding 16.07.2026 14m

  Money is one of the biggest reasons couples fight. Erin and Greg Smalley discuss how a tennis ball can sparked a big fight between them. Also, Jim Daly talks to Chuck and Ann Bentley about how Chuck repented of idolizing money. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYMoney Problems, Marriage SolutionsFocus on Marriage AssessmentGetting on the Same Page Financially in Marriage (Digital)Take the Reactive Cycle AssessmentListen to Focus Live on Godcaster
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  Making Good Marital Choices 14.07.2026 13m

  How do you know if you're actually making the best decisions for your marriage? We don't always get it right. Greg Smalley opens up about some mistakes he made and how he learned from them. You'll also hear Dr. Ron Welch and his wife Jan speak to Jim Daly about something they call "unspoken truths," and how they can influence your choices. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY10 Choices Successful Couples MakeFocus on Marriage AssessmentThe Best Choices You Can Make for Your Marriage (Digital Download)Take the Reactive Cycle AssessmentMaking the Right Choice in Marriage
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  Navigating Inevitable Conflict 07.07.2026 9m

  When the tension is high in your marriage, how do you and your spouse work through it? Fawn Weaver and Jim Daly share about ways you can de-escalate an argument with your mate. Then, Erin and Greg open up about how they've learned to get better at working through a conflict as a team. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYThe Argument-Free Marriage Focus on Marriage AssessmentReducing Conflict in Your Marriage (Digital) Take the Reactive Cycle Assessment Counseling Consultation and Referrals    
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  Building Boundaries With In-Laws 09.07.2026 11m

  What do you do if your in-laws are making things difficult for you and your spouse? Drs. John Townsend and Henry Cloud talk with Jim Daly about how to respond if an in-law is pressuring you to do things that hinder you from prioritizing your marriage. Plus, Greg Smalley describes how he's learned to focus more on his marriage while not relying on his parents as much. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get today's featured resource, "Boundaries."Take the Focus on Marriage Assessment.Download "Establishing Healthy Boundaries With Your In-Laws."Take the Reactive Cycle Assessment.Listen to Focus Live on Godcaster.
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  When You’re Not Getting Along with In-Laws 02.07.2026 12m

  In-law relationships can be some of the most complex after you get married. Dr. Gary Chapman joins Jim Daly to talk about responding in a Christ-like manner when your in-laws are not treating you fairly. Also, Erin Smalley discusses how this is a common issue for a lot of couples, and why you're not alone if this is your story.     Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Happily Ever After   Focus on Marriage Assessment    Becoming Friends With Your In-Laws    Download the Godcaster App   Counseling Consultation and Referrals   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  What Do You Appreciate About Your Mate? 30.06.2026 11m

  What would happen in your marriage if you simply told your spouse what you love about them? Kathy Lipp joins Jim Daly to share about an experiment she and her church did with couples. Then, Erin Smalley discusses the difference that giving your spouse regular compliments can make.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Happy Habits for Every Couple   Focus on Marriage Assessment    Fun Ways to Pep Up Your Marriage    Download the Godcaster App   Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  4 Simple Things You Can Do 25.06.2026 10m

  What if your marriage was only a small adjustment away from going to the next level? Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk to Jim Daly about 4 things you can do that'll keep the communication strong with your spouse. Also, Greg Smalley breaks down why simple habits add up over time.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Blended and Redeemed   Focus on Marriage Assessment    Redeeming Your Blended Marriage    Download the Godcaster App   Conversation Starters for Date Nights   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  Building Trust & Friendship 23.06.2026 11m

  Just like your house needs a solid foundation, your marriage needs trust. Dr. Henry Cloud joins Jim Daly to share about why showing empathy is required for building trust. Then, Erin Smalley explains why trust is necessary for having a deeper friendship with your spouse.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Trust   Focus on Marriage Assessment    Learning to Build Healthy Trust    Download the Godcaster App   Counseling Consultation and Referrals   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  Accepting When Your Mate Says "No" 11.06.2026 13m

  If you want a good relationship, you sometimes have to tell your spouse, "No." Arlene Pellicane talks about a time where she had to have a tough conversation with her husband on learning to accept her "No." Also, Greg and Erin share how working through tough scenarios can lead to better friendship with your mate.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Focus on Marriage Assessment   How To Avoid Bad Influences On Your Marriage    Practice Makes Parent Podcast    Hope Restored   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  What Every Woman Wants from a Man 18.06.2026 13m

  Every wife longs to feel safe in her marriage. Jim Daly and Brant Hansen discuss why women find it so attractive if a man seeks to protect them. Also, Greg Smalley talks about how men need to step up and take responsibility for leading their wives well   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   The Men We Need   Focus on Marriage Assessment    Being the Man Your Family Needs    Download the Godcaster App   The Unique Matter of Manhood   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  The Male & Female Brains 16.06.2026 13m

  Men and women tend to respond to stress and situations very differently. Jim Daly and Gary Thomas address the differences in brain chemistry between husbands and wives. Then, John and the Smalley's discuss what a husband can do if a wife keeps bringing up the same problem in conversations.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Loving Him Well   Focus on Marriage Assessment    How to Positively Influence Your Husband    Download the Godcaster App   Counseling Consultation and Referrals   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  Dates Don’t Need to be Expensive 04.06.2026 9m

  What if some of the best date nights didn't cost money? Jim Daly talks with Jay and Laura Laffoon about how you can have a wonderful date with your spouse for not much money. Also, John asks Greg and Erin how they're learning to still have dates together, in a season with grown adult children.     Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book The Fundamentals of Marriage for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Discovering God's Design for Your Marriage    Is Your Husband or Wife Your Best Friend?    3 Ways to Create a Godly Marriage   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  When Kids Get in the Way 09.06.2026 15m

  Kids are a blessing, but they also require you to be more intentional to spend time with your spouse. John and the Smalley's open up about times they felt disconnected in their marriages when raising children. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Dave and Ashley Willis about making time for dates with your spouse, even if you have little kids.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Focus on Marriage Assessment   How To Avoid Bad Influences On Your Marriage    Practice Makes Parent Podcast    Hope Restored   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.  
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  Your Spouse is Still Your Friend 02.06.2026 14m

  Are you and your mate best friends? Howard and Danielle Taylor join Jim Daly to make the case for why friendship in marriage is necessary for a thriving relationship. Then, Dr. Greg Smalley shares the most important thing you can do to keep your friendship alive.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book The Fundamentals of Marriage for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Discovering God's Design for Your Marriage    Is Your Husband or Wife Your Best Friend?    3 Ways to Create a Godly Marriage   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  P.L.A.N. for a Better Marriage 27.05.2026 14m

  What if a small change you made had the biggest impact on your marriage? Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey share four steps you can take to improve your relationship. Also, Greg and Erin explain why it's good to make time for having fun, even if you are very busy.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Filling Your Marriage With Joy    Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage    Unhappy Marriage? Fix it With These Simple Habits for Marital Happiness   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  The Needs of Military Spouses 25.05.2026 10m

  Today, we honor the sacrifices of our military and spouses of veterans. Erin Smalley shares some of the statistics of how military families battle loneliness. You'll also hear from Jessica Manfre, who joins Jim Daly to share about how you can reach out to those serving in the armed forces.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Never Alone for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Hope and Encouragement for Military Families    Resources: Military Issues    Counseling Consultation and Referrals   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  When Your Spouse Needs to Get Healthier 21.05.2026 11m

  What do you do if your spouse is making unhealthy lifestyle choices? Dave Willis talks with Jim Daly about how his wife Ashley encouraged him to go to the doctor and deal with his health issues. Plus, Greg and Erin address how to respond well if you've tried talking to your mate about their diet and lifestyle, but he or she hasn't listened yet.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Naked and Healthy for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Taking a Health Journey With Your Spouse    Counseling Consultation and Referrals    Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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  Staying Healthy in the Midlife 19.05.2026 11m

  The midlife years of marriage are filled with changes, but can also be very rich. Lisa-Jo Baker joins Jim and Jean Daly to address some of the ways she had to adjust to the middle years of life. Then, Greg Smalley opens up about struggles men usually face during that time-period.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book The Middle Matters for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Thriving as a Wife and Mom in the Middle Years    Abounding Midlife Living    Breaking Free of Midlife Boundaries   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.