Saved & Single

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  After Divorce, I Became the “Church Hoe”: Dr. Tammie’s Story | Ep. 26 20.08.2026 1h 9m

  After her first marriage ended, Dr. Tammie Carter Jenson says she became what she calls the “church hoe”, chasing relationships, looking for another husband, and trying to fill wounds she had never healed.In this vulnerable follow-up conversation on the Saved & Single Podcast, Tammie opens up about what happened after divorce, including loneliness, sex, gambling, comparison, desperation for marriage, and the choices that eventually led her into a second marriage for the wrong reasons.She shares the moment she realized another relationship could not heal what was broken inside of her and what spiritual recovery actually looked like.Jasmine and Tammie talk candidly about Christian dating after divorce, being unequally yoked, sexual choices, Christian counseling, learning to be alone, rebuilding your relationship with God, and healing before dating again.Tammie also shares how nine years of singleness changed her and what was different when she finally met the man she now calls her “forever husband.”This episode is for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, heartbroken, starting over, or tempted to rush into another relationship because being alone feels uncomfortable.It’s a powerful reminder that sometimes the next step after heartbreak isn’t another relationship. It’s recovery.▶️ Watch Tammie’s first Saved & Single episode:[INSERT EPISODE 2 LINK]🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  Did God Send Them? How to Know If Someone Is From God 12.08.2026 53m

  In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine Mays talks about one of the hardest parts of Christian dating: discerning the difference between someone who is truly aligned with God’s plan for your life and someone who simply looks good on paper.Jasmine shares why the “almost right” relationship can be so dangerous, how fear of starting over can cause Christian singles to overlook red flags, and why chemistry, dreams, signs, Scripture quotes, and Christian language are not enough to determine whether someone is right for you.She also breaks down what Christian dating is really for, why dating should be a discovery process, and how to invite God into every stage of getting to know someone before you become emotionally attached.You’ll learn what to look for in a godly relationship, including purpose alignment, spiritual growth, peace, healthy boundaries, consistent character, and wise counsel.This episode is for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or never married and want to date with discernment, recognize counterfeits, avoid settling, and trust God with their love life.Stay until the end for a prayer for wisdom, clarity, peace, and the courage to walk away when you know a relationship is not right.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  Why Am I Still Single? How to Keep Believing God for Marriage 05.08.2026 1h 13m

  Have you been believing God for marriage for years and started wondering whether it will ever happen for you?In this honest episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine Mays sits down with her mother, Pastor Sandy Mays, to talk about what Christian singles can do when waiting becomes exhausting, disappointment weakens their faith, and they feel ready to give up on marriage.Jasmine opens up about heartbreak, relationships she believed would lead to marriage, moments when she questioned whether she had heard God correctly, and the fear that perhaps there was no one for her.Pastor Sandy shares practical guidance for rebuilding your faith through Scripture, prayer, speaking God’s Word, guarding your thoughts and words, and taking action as God leads. They also discuss comparison, dating apps, counterfeits, non-negotiables, sexual compromise, and the difference between hoping for marriage and truly believing it can happen for you.This episode is for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or never married and want encouragement while waiting on God for love and marriage.Stay until the end for a powerful prayer and a practical assignment to help you rebuild your faith when you feel discouraged, weary, or ready to give up.Bible teachings mentioned in this episode:Kingdom Families, Volume 2 by Bill Winston:How Many Frogs Do You Have to Kiss to Find a Prince? by Bill Winston:
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  "God Told Me I’d Meet My Husband at 35...Then It Happened": Dr. Jasmine's Story | Ep. 23 22.07.2026 1h 6m

  In this inspiring episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine Mays sits down with Dr. Jasmine Leigh Morse to share a powerful Christian testimony about waiting on God for marriage, healing after heartbreak, and trusting His timing.Years before meeting her husband, Dr. Jasmine heard God say “35.” But waiting that long did not fit the timeline she had imagined for her life. She opens up about depression, childhood rejection, unhealthy dating patterns, heartbreak, and the season of prayer, fasting, healing, and surrender that prepared her for the relationship she had been praying for.Dr. Jasmine shares how she met her husband during her 35th year, how she knew he was truly a man of God, and why peace, character, celibacy, friendship, and intentional dating mattered more than checking every box on her list.This conversation is for Christian singles who feel discouraged, forgotten, or afraid that marriage may never happen. It is a reminder that God can heal your heart, break unhealthy relationship cycles, renew your hope, and prepare you for healthy love in His timing.Stay until the end for a powerful prayer for Christian singles who are waiting, healing, and trusting God with their love lives.📚 Dr. Jasmine’s book, Heart Rhythms:📱 Connect with Dr. Jasmine:🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  "I Married a Counterfeit"... Red Flags, Divorce & Trusting God: Sherrie's Story | Ep. 22 08.07.2026 1h 9m

  In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Sherrie Robinson for an honest conversation about Christian dating, rushing into marriage, divorce, red flags, discernment, and learning how to trust God after heartbreak.If you have ever met someone you thought was sent by God, moved too quickly, ignored warning signs, or asked God to bless something you had already chosen, this episode will speak to you.Sherrie shares how the desire for marriage, rejection, waiting, and emotional attachment shaped the decisions she made in a relationship that looked promising in the beginning.This episode is for Christian singles who are divorced, widowed, never married, or dating after disappointment while still believing God for love, marriage, healing, and a kingdom relationship that honors Him.You’ll be encouraged to pray before you get emotionally attached, trust your discernment, stop turning red flags yellow, and remember that your life does not begin when singleness ends.Sherrie’s book, Beauty for Ashes:ORDER ON AMAZON🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  Breaking Soul Ties, Healing After Divorce & Finding Godly Love: Sealeta’s Story, Part 2 | Ep. 21 01.07.2026 1h 5m

  In Part 2 of Sealeta’s story on the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine continues the conversation about soul ties, healing after divorce, church hurt, therapy, celibacy, and learning how to stop settling for relationships that are not aligned with God.If you’ve ever felt stuck in a situationship, struggled to break an emotional or physical attachment, ignored conviction, or wondered why it is so hard to let go of someone you know is not good for you, this episode will speak to you.Sealeta shares how she became entangled in a soul tie after divorce, how father wounds and loneliness affected her choices, and what it took for her to finally get free.She also talks about practical steps like prayer, fasting, therapy, deleting and blocking, Christian community, learning to enjoy her own company, and asking better questions while dating.This episode is for Christian singles who are divorced, widowed, never married, or dating after heartbreak while still believing God for healing, wholeness, marriage, and a relationship that honors Him.You’ll be encouraged to break unhealthy patterns, stop settling for attention, trust God’s timing, and believe that healthy love is still possible after trauma, divorce, disappointment, and church hurt.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  "I Married Him 3 Times"... Trauma, Divorce, Soul Ties & Church Hurt: Sealeta's Story | Ep. 20 24.06.2026 56m

  In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Sealeta Brinkley for a powerful conversation about childhood trauma, divorce, remarriage, soul ties, church hurt, abuse, and learning how unhealed pain can repeat in relationships.If you’ve ever ignored red flags, gone back to someone who hurt you, confused familiarity with love, or wondered why you keep attracting the same patterns, this episode will speak to you.Sealeta shares how father wounds, childhood trauma, and a lack of healthy relationship examples shaped the way she viewed men, marriage, faith, and her own worth.Her story includes multiple marriages, betrayal, spiritual confusion, church hurt, and the painful journey of realizing that loving God does not mean you do not still need healing.This episode is for Christian singles who are divorced, widowed, never married, or dating after heartbreak while still believing God for love, marriage, healing, and a relationship that honors Him.You’ll be encouraged to examine your patterns, stop mistaking chaos for love, trust God’s healing process, and believe that wholeness is still possible after divorce, abuse, and disappointment.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  Why Didn’t They Choose Me? Christian Dating Rejection After 40 | Ep. 19 17.06.2026 53m

  In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about Christian dating rejection, disappointment, heartbreak, and learning how to keep your eyes on God when dating does not go the way you hoped.If you’ve ever met someone you thought was “the one,” prayed about them, imagined a future, and then felt crushed when they did not choose you, this episode will speak to you.Jasmine shares personal stories about rejection, hope deferred, heartbreak, comparison, and the emotional toll of dating after 40 as a Christian single.This episode is for Christian singles who are divorced, widowed, never married, or dating after disappointment while still believing God for love, marriage, healing, and a relationship that honors Him.You’ll be encouraged to process rejection without shame, stop romanticizing people who were not meant for you, trust God through closed doors, and keep pursuing purpose while waiting.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  Why We Ignore Red Flags When We’re Lonely | Ep. 18 14.06.2026 40m

  In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about why Christian singles sometimes ignore red flags when they are lonely, tired of starting over, or deeply desiring marriage.Jasmine shares a personal dating story and unpacks how loneliness, attachment, fear, physical chemistry, and the desire to be chosen can cause us to overlook spiritual incompatibility, emotional unavailability, inconsistency, and other warning signs.This episode is for Christian singles over 40 who are dating after divorce, widowhood, heartbreak, or a long dry season and want to make wise, God-honoring relationship decisions.If you’ve ever stayed too long, ignored your discernment, or tried to convince yourself someone was “good enough,” this conversation is for you.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  Is Waiting Until Marriage Still Realistic? | Christian Singles & Sex | Ep. 17 27.05.2026 53m

  In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about Christian dating, celibacy, temptation, intimacy, soul ties, and why waiting until marriage can feel so difficult in modern dating culture.Is waiting until marriage still realistic for Christian singles over 40? What happens when physical intimacy creates emotional attachment before real security exists? And how do you maintain boundaries while dating someone you’re genuinely attracted to?Jasmine discusses:• Christian dating and sex• Celibacy and temptation• Emotional attachment and soul ties• Dating after divorce or widowhood• Boundaries in Christian relationships• Loneliness, intimacy, and uncertainty in dating• How to talk about physical boundaries early• Honoring God while navigating real attractionThis episode is raw, practical, compassionate, and created for Christian singles trying to honor God while navigating dating in the real world.This episode is raw, practical, compassionate, and created for Christian singles trying to honor God while navigating dating in the real world.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  “I Want Marriage”… Why Christian Singles Still Can’t Find Love: Jason’s Story | Ep. 16 20.05.2026 1h 4m

  Why does dating feel so difficult for Christian singles over 40 — even for people who genuinely want marriage?In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Jason Perry for an honest conversation about Christian dating, divorce, emotional maturity, loneliness, church culture, online dating, long-distance relationships, and why so many good men and women are still single.Jason opens up about what he’s truly looking for in a wife, the disconnect between expectations and reality in modern dating, and what many churches misunderstand about serving single adults.This episode discusses:• Christian dating over 40• Dating after divorce• Why good people still struggle to find love• Church culture and singles ministries• Emotional availability and compatibility• Long-distance relationships• Red flags and dating expectations• Marriage-minded dating• Faith, loneliness, and hopeIf you’re divorced, widowed, never married, or trying to navigate Christian dating in today’s world, this conversation will hit home.🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the podcast?https://www.savedandsinglepod.com📩 Interested in connecting with Jason?📱 Follow Saved & Single:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod
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  “He Was My Assignment… Not My Forever” | Widowhood & Finding Love Again: Trina's Story | Ep. 15 14.05.2026 1h 16m

  What happens when the person you thought was your forever becomes part of your testimony instead?In this emotional episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Trina Knight to discuss divorce, remarriage, caregiving, widowhood, grief, faith, surrendering to God, and unexpectedly finding love again after loss.This conversation covers Christian widowhood, healing after heartbreak, blended families, trusting God through tragedy, dating after loss, and navigating relationships over 40 with faith.If you are divorced, widowed, healing, or wondering whether God still has love for you, this episode will encourage you.🎙️ Interested in sharing your story on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: BE A GUEST ON THE SHOW
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  “He Was Fine… Then Gone” | Losing My Husband & Rebuilding My Life: Bridget's Story | Ep. 14 07.05.2026 1h 3m

  What happens when the love of your life is suddenly gone?In this deeply emotional episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Bridget to talk about the heartbreaking loss of her husband to suicide, the grief that followed, and what it looks like to rebuild your life after unimaginable pain.Bridget shares their love story, the moment everything changed, the questions she wrestled with, and how her faith, identity, and view of love were transformed through loss.This conversation is raw, honest, faith-filled, and filled with hope for anyone navigating grief, widowhood, heartbreak, or learning how to keep living after loss.Topics include:Losing a spouse to suicideWidowhood & griefFaith after tragedyRebuilding life after lossHealing emotionally & spirituallyLove, dating & marriage after griefMental health & unanswered questionsIf this episode touched you, share it with someone who may need it.
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  Dating After Divorce: Relationship Expert Debra Fileta | Ep. 13 29.04.2026 1h 5m

  If you’re a Christian single over 40 who has been divorced and wondering if you’re truly ready to date again… this episode is for you.In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, I sit down with licensed counselor and relationship expert Debra Fileta to talk about healing after divorce, why so many people repeat unhealthy relationship patterns, and how to know if you’re actually ready to start dating again.We break down the truth about shame in the church, how trauma impacts who you’re attracted to, and why you may be choosing what’s familiar instead of what’s healthy. Debra also explains why dating should be a season of investigation, not intimacy, and what it really looks like to prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship.We also talk about navigating dating with children, when to introduce your kids to someone new, red flags to watch for, and how to approach dating with wisdom instead of fear.If you’ve ever asked yourself:Am I really healed… or just ready for companionship?Why do I keep ending up in the same kind of relationship?How do I date again without repeating my past?This conversation will challenge you, equip you, and help you move forward with clarity.
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  You’re Not Meeting New Men… It’s the SAME Man | Identity Coach Anabell Ingleton | Ep. 12 22.04.2026 1h 9m

  If you’ve ever felt like you keep meeting the same man just in a different body, this episode will open your eyes.In Episode 12 of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Identity Coach Anabell Ingleton to break down why your dating patterns aren’t random. From subconscious beliefs to past experiences, they unpack how your internal world influences who you attract and why many Christian singles over 40 feel stuck in the same cycle.This conversation dives into identity, emotional healing, and the “mirror effect” in dating. You’ll learn why focusing on what you don’t want keeps showing up, how past relationships can quietly influence your choices, and what it actually takes to start attracting something different.If you’re navigating dating after divorce, long-term singleness, or repeated relationship patterns, this episode will give you clarity, language, and a new way to approach love.Download the Mirror Effect GuideDownload the "Wife Ready" ExerciseFollow Anabell on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/anabell.ingleton
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  I Stayed 14 Years… The Night Everything Changed: Precy's Story | Ep. 11 16.04.2026 59m

  If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship, afraid to leave, or unsure how you would rebuild your life… this episode is for you.In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Precy Lawson, who shares her powerful story of marriage, abuse, forgiveness, and ultimately making the decision to leave and start over after 40.After 14 years in a relationship that turned increasingly unstable and unsafe, everything came to a head one night that changed her life forever. What followed was a journey of faith, courage, and rebuilding from the ground up.This conversation dives into:• Why women stay longer than they should• The emotional and mental weight of leaving• Forgiveness and faith in the middle of pain• Rebuilding your life after 40• Trusting God when everything feels uncertainIf you’ve ever asked:“Why am I still here?”“Can I really start over?”“Will I be okay on my own?”This episode will speak to you.Subscribe to Saved & Single for real conversations about faith, healing, dating, and life after 40.
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  I Thought God Sent Him… But I Was Wrong: Natalan's Story | Ep. 10 09.04.2026 58m

  Have you ever thought someone was sent by God… but deep down something felt off?In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, we have a real and honest conversation about ignoring red flags, trying to “save” a man, and dating or marrying someone who doesn’t share your faith. You’ll hear a powerful story of marrying someone you didn’t truly love, entering relationships outside of God’s will, and the lessons learned through pain, growth, and faith.We talk about being unequally yoked, father wounds, and why many women feel called to fix men instead of choosing alignment.If you’re single, divorced, or navigating dating over 40 as a Christian, this episode will give you wisdom, clarity, and encouragement.
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  I Said I Was Done… Then I Met My Husband Hours Later | Married After 45: Ty Haggan | Ep. 09 01.04.2026 1h 6m

  In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Ty Haggan, who spent decades single, believing God for marriage while watching everyone around her move on with life.After years of waiting, healing, and wrestling with disappointment, she reached a breaking point and wrote in her journal: “I am done.”Just hours later, she met the man who would become her husband.Ty shares her journey through long-term singleness, navigating faith, dealing with loneliness, healing from past relationships, and learning how to truly trust God with her desire for marriage.This conversation is for Christian singles over 40 who are wondering if it will ever happen for them or questioning whether God still has marriage in their future.If you’ve ever felt like you’ve done everything “right” and are still waiting, this episode will encourage you to keep believing while also doing the inner work required to receive what you’ve been praying for.
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  What Marriage Is REALLY Like (And What You Need to Fix Before You Get There): Angela Palin | Ep. 08 25.03.2026 1h 1m

  We hear “marriage is hard”… but what does that actually mean?In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with Angela, who has been married for 28 years, to break down what marriage really looks like behind the scenes, beyond the wedding, beyond the romance.They talk about communication, compromise, respect, and the real work it takes to build a lasting relationship.If you’re single, divorced, or widowed and desire marriage, this episode will challenge you to look at what you need to develop now before the relationship ever begins.This conversation will help you prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship instead of just hoping for one.
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  What Christian Singles Should Actually Be Doing (While Trusting God) | Ep. 07 19.03.2026 43m

  In Episode 7 of Saved & Single, Jasmine breaks down what Christian singles should actually be doing while trusting God for a spouse. Following her conversation with Christian matchmaker Jackie Dorman, she shares personal insights on long-term singleness, hope deferred, emotional healing, and why many believers feel stuck in the waiting season.This episode explores the balance between faith and action, and what it really looks like to partner with God instead of passively waiting. Jasmine discusses non-negotiables vs. preferences, the importance of community, doing the inner work, and how to prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship.If you’re a Christian single over 40 navigating dating, healing, and the desire for marriage, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and practical next steps._______Saved & Single is a podcast for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or never married and want honest conversations about faith, relationships, healing, and purpose.If you're navigating dating, singleness, or rebuilding life after divorce, this podcast is for you.Follow the show and share this episode with someone pursuing marriage God’s way.Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/savedandsinglepod