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  Episode 589: Raising Conscious Sons and Daughters with Dr. Shefali 09.10.2026 36m

  What if the child you worry about most is learning to speak up for herself, while the child who never causes trouble needs more room to be herself?Rebecca Greene welcomes Dr. Shefali, clinical psychologist, bestselling author, and founder of the Conscious Parenting Movement, for a candid conversation about raising children who know their own worth. Dr. Shefali explains why conscious parenting begins with examining our own expectations, reactions, and need for control.Rebecca brings questions from her own life as a mother. They discuss how to respond when a strong-willed daughter speaks in a tone that sets you off, why an easygoing “perfect” child may be hiding her needs, and how parents can let children experience ordinary setbacks without rushing to fix everything.They also explore what sons may need as they grow, the pressure children face online, and the difference between connection and smothering. Drawing on her books Raising Conscious Daughters and Raising Conscious Sons, Dr. Shefali offers parents a place to start: make one small change, practice it for a week, and keep learning alongside your child.In this episode:Why conscious parenting asks parents to examine themselvesHelping outspoken daughters feel heard while teaching respectful communicationWhy the “good” child deserves a closer lookLetting children learn from disappointment and imperfectionDr. Shefali’s thoughts on movement and mentorship for boysStaying connected while respecting a child’s growing independenceLearn more about Dr. Shefali and her books at DrShefali.com.Listen to The Whinypaluza Podcast on Apple Podcasts.
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  Episode 588: Please Don't Give Up 07.10.2026 24m

  Please Don’t Give UpWhen your child says, “I hate this. I don’t want to do it anymore,” when do you listen... and when do you keep pushing?In this Whinypaluza Wednesday, Rebecca and Seth get very real about that question as they share the ongoing adventure of teaching Ella to drive.Ella does not love driving. Actually, she really does not love driving.That immediately brought Rebecca back to another experience from Ella’s childhood: learning to ride a bike. Ella hated the feeling of it, hated falling, and eventually decided she simply did not want to learn.Now Rebecca sees a familiar pattern appearing behind the wheel.But this time she is asking a harder parenting question.Is letting our children walk away always supporting them?Or are there moments when our job as parents is to help them stay with something long enough to get through the uncomfortable part?Rebecca also shares an important realization about herself. When she initially tried to teach Ella to drive, her own anxiety made the experience harder for both of them. Seth stepped in with a completely different approach. He stayed calm, found things to praise, and helped Ella build confidence.It worked.But Rebecca began to wonder whether encouragement without enough challenge could only take Ella so far.That is where parenting gets complicated.Sometimes our children need compassion.Sometimes they need patience.Sometimes they need someone to believe in them when they do not believe in themselves yet.And sometimes they need us to lovingly say, “I know you don’t like this, but we’re not giving up yet.”This conversation is also about something much bigger than driving.Rebecca talks about the reality of September, getting back into school routines, homecoming, packed schedules, studying and the feeling that there simply is not enough time for one more thing.Ella believes even ten minutes spent practicing driving is ten minutes she cannot spend studying.Rebecca sees it differently.Life will always be busy.There will almost always be a reason something is inconvenient.The question becomes whether we allow being busy, uncomfortable or afraid to make our decisions for us.Key TakeawaysParenting does not always mean removing discomfort. Sometimes growth requires helping our children stay in the discomfort long enough to discover that they can handle it.Your child’s resistance does not automatically mean you are doing the wrong thing. “I don’t like this” and “I cannot do this” are two very different statements.Different children need different parenting approaches. Rebecca and Seth openly acknowledge that what works with one of their children may not work with another.Parents need self-awareness too. Rebecca realized her anxiety was making driving practice harder for Ella and let Seth take over when Ella needed his calmer approach.Encouragement matters, but so does challenge. Confidence can grow when children experience themselves doing something they once thought they could not do.Being busy can become an easy reason to stop. Ten minutes may feel insignificant to a parent and enormous to an overwhelmed teenager. Both perspectives can exist at the same time.There is a difference between forcing a child toward our goals and helping them persist toward something that will give them independence, confidence, or an important life skill.And perhaps the biggest reminder of all:Sometimes the lesson is not about driving, the bike, the test, or whatever challenge is directly in front of us.Sometimes the lesson is simply learning:I can do hard things. I can be uncomfortable. I can keep going.Because our children will eventually face challenges we cannot solve for them.One of the greatest things we can give them is the experience of discovering that difficulty does not always mean stop.Sometimes it simply means:Please don’t give up.
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  Episode 587: Starting High School Through My Daughter’s Eyes 02.10.2026 27m

  Rebecca Greene has interviewed parenting experts, authors, therapists, and educators, but this conversation may contain some of the most important parenting advice she has ever received.Her guest is her daughter, Lillie Greene, who is celebrating her 14th birthday and beginning her freshman year of high school.In this warm, honest, and occasionally emotional mother-daughter conversation, Lillie shares what it really feels like to enter high school, navigate changing friendships, manage pressure, and grow into a more independent version of herself.Lillie explains that teenagers’ moods and communication are not always directed at their parents. Sometimes their minds are simply overloaded. Her advice to parents is refreshingly direct: don't take every response personally, don't force a conversation, and give teenagers time to come back when they are ready.Rebecca also learns why asking questions immediately after school can feel overwhelming, even when those questions come from love. She shares a powerful moment when she resisted the urge to question Lillie after a school dance and waited until Lillie was ready to talk the following day.Their conversation reveals an important distinction between giving teenagers freedom and abandoning parental responsibility. Lillie wants more independence, while Rebecca still needs to know where she is, who she is with, and how she is getting home. Together, they discover that trust grows when both parent and teenager communicate clearly.Lillie also opens up about people-pleasing, fitting in, developing confidence, learning to slow down, and choosing friends who reflect the person she wants to become.This episode reminds us that staying close to a teenager doesn't require parents to have all the right answers. It requires patience, curiosity, emotional safety, and the willingness to listen without immediately correcting, questioning, or fixing.In this episode:• What the transition from middle school to high school really feels like• Why teenagers may need time to decompress before talking• How parents can stop taking every teenage response personally• The difference between independence and a lack of communication• What Lillie has learned about friendship and fitting in• Why “you are who you surround yourself with” matters in high school• How self-talk and supportive friendships build confidence• Why physical activity helps Lillie manage overwhelm• The lesson Lillie is learning about slowing down• How Rebecca is learning to wait instead of pushing for answers• What helps teenagers feel safe enough to tell their parents the truth• Lillie’s honest advice for parents of teenagersLillie leaves parents with a message worth remembering:“Don’t force things upon your kids. Let them do what they need to do, and be the one there to support them.”Listen to The Whinypaluza Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756This Episode Is Sponsored by Lovebug ProbioticsMoms spend so much time caring for everyone else that supporting their own health can fall off the list. Lovebug Probiotics makes it easier to add gut-health support to the family routine.Created by co-founder and mom Ashley Harris after her experience with broad-spectrum antibiotics, Lovebug offers science-focused probiotics made with clean ingredients for babies, toddlers, kids, moms, and other adults. Options include Kids Probiotic Chewables, Tummy Gummies, and Little Ones, all thoughtfully formulated to support digestive and immune health.*Shop Lovebug Probiotics and use code WHINYPALUZA20 for 20% off your first order:https://lovebug.com/collections/allThese statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
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  Episode 586: Homecoming – The Good, the Bad, the Ugly 30.09.2026 27m

  One week of school, and then it was homecoming. Rebecca and Seth’s daughters had barely settled into the new school year before the family was juggling dates, friends, photos, rides, and plans that seemed to change every few minutes.In this Whinypaluza Wednesday conversation, Seth joins Rebecca from Las Vegas to look back on the excitement and chaos. Ella was celebrating her last homecoming, while Lillie was attending her first. Rebecca wanted to show up for both girls, but their different plans made that harder than it sounds.Rebecca and Seth also talk about a lesson they’ve learned as parents: kids don’t all want the same homecoming experience. One may want a big group, another may prefer a few friends, and another may not want to go to the dance at all. Supporting your child sometimes means letting go of the picture you had in your head.In this episode:The challenge of balancing one daughter’s first homecoming with another daughter’s lastWhy kids should be free to enjoy school dances in their own way, including choosing not to goThe changing plans before the dance and the parents who helped make it all workRebecca’s decision to let Lillie go with her friends, even though it meant missing the photo of her daughters together that she wantedWhy clear updates about rides and after-dance plans matter to parentsHow Rebecca and Seth found a quiet moment for dinner together in the middle of a chaotic dayThe girls had a good time, and the evening worked out. Rebecca and Seth are honest about the stress it took to get there, too. Their advice for parents in the thick of it: talk to other parents, stay flexible, and choose which moments matter most.What has homecoming been like in your family? Rebecca and Seth would love to hear your stories and advice.Listen to The Whinypaluza Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756This Episode Is Sponsored by Lovebug ProbioticsMoms spend so much time caring for everyone else that supporting their own health can fall off the list. Lovebug Probiotics makes it easier to add gut-health support to the family routine.Created by co-founder and mom Ashley Harris after her experience with broad-spectrum antibiotics, Lovebug offers science-focused probiotics made with clean ingredients for babies, toddlers, kids, moms, and other adults. Options include Kids Probiotic Chewables, Tummy Gummies, and Little Ones, all thoughtfully formulated to support digestive and immune health.*Shop Lovebug Probiotics: https://lovebug.com/collections/allUse code WHINYPALUZA20 for 20% off your first order.These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
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  Episode 585: Perimenopause, Motherhood & the Art of Saying No 25.09.2026 52m

  What happens when a woman who has spent years managing everyone else’s life finally reaches her breaking point?Rebecca Greene welcomes novelist Kristin Bair for a funny, honest and deeply relatable conversation inspired by Kristin’s novel, Clementine Crane Prefers Not To. Rebecca loved the book so much that she read it twice, recommended it to every mother she knew and knew she had to bring Kristin to the Whinypaluza audience.The novel begins with a hot flash, but the real story is much bigger: the invisible mental load women carry, the resentment that grows when one person becomes responsible for everything and the moment a woman realizes she is allowed to stop.Kristin shares how perimenopause collided with a line she had carried since graduate school: “I would prefer not to,” from Herman Melville’s Bartleby, the Scrivener. Together, those ideas became Clementine Crane, an overwhelmed wife and mother whose first hot flash sparks a personal rebellion.Rebecca and Kristin explore why women are so often expected to remember appointments, manage relationships, plan celebrations, anticipate everyone’s needs and keep the household moving. Kristin makes an important distinction: women did not necessarily create these roles. They inherited them, were not taught how to reject them and often continued carrying everything because they could not see another way.Kristin encourages women to begin with one small act of resistance. Leave the laundry alone. Do not automatically plan the family outing. Stop solving a problem before anyone else notices it exists. Saying “I prefer not to” can begin quietly, with one decision that gives a woman room to breathe.They also discuss using humor to confront difficult truths, what men can do to create healthier relationships, Kristin’s writing process and why she protects each student’s unique voice.What You’ll LearnHow perimenopause inspired Clementine CraneWhat the invisible mental load includesWhy guilt appears when women stop managing everythingHow to begin saying “I prefer not to”Why humor makes difficult truths easier to faceHow families can create healthier expectationsWhy writers must protect their original voicesAbout Kristin BairKristin Bair is a novelist, essayist and writing instructor who writes fiercely and humorously about women navigating motherhood, marriage, ambition, identity, perimenopause and the mental load.Her fourth novel, Clementine Crane Prefers Not To, follows a woman whose first hot flash awakens her to the invisible responsibilities she has accepted for years. Kristin also wrote Agatha Arch Is Afraid of Everything, The Art of Floating and Thirsty.Website: https://www.kristinbairokeeffe.com/Instagram and TikTok: @kbairokeeffeBook: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/709879/clementine-crane-prefers-not-to-by-kristin-bair/This Episode Is Sponsored by Lovebug ProbioticsMoms spend so much time caring for everyone else that supporting their own health can fall off the list. Lovebug Probiotics makes it easier to add gut-health support to the family routine.Created by co-founder and mom Ashley Harris after her experience with broad-spectrum antibiotics, Lovebug offers science-focused probiotics made with clean ingredients for babies, toddlers, kids, moms and other adults. Options include Kids Probiotic Chewables, Tummy Gummies and Little Ones, all thoughtfully formulated to support digestive and immune health.*Shop: https://lovebug.com/collections/allUse code WHINYPALUZA20 for 20% off your first order.These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.Listen to Whinypaluza: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756Remember to laugh a lot, learn and love.
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  Episode 584: The Trap of Unrelenting Standards 23.09.2026 35m

  High standards can inspire children to work hard and reach meaningful goals. But when those standards become unrelenting, achievement can stop feeling rewarding and start feeling like a requirement for being worthy.In this Whinypaluza Wednesday episode, Rebecca and Seth Greene explore how perfectionism, anxiety, external validation, family expectations, and the need for control can quietly create enormous pressure for children and parents alike.Rebecca also asks parents to consider a difficult but important question: Are our children learning to be hard on themselves by watching how hard we are on ourselves?This conversation is not about lowering expectations or discouraging ambition. It is about helping children pursue their goals without believing they must always be perfect.In this episode, Rebecca discusses:Why parents should examine the behavior they are modelingHow praising effort, attitude, and process builds lifelong confidenceWhy achievement cannot provide lasting internal validationHow criticism and labels can intensify pressureThe effect of sibling comparison and competitive environmentsHow black-and-white thinking fuels perfectionismWhy “good enough” can be a healthy and powerful standardHow boundaries can reduce overworking and over-practicingHelping children tolerate uncertainty about college, careers, and the futureWhy self-compassion must begin with the parentThe goal is not to raise children who stop caring. It is to raise children who understand that their worth is not determined by a grade, award, performance, or perfectly planned future.Listen to The Whinypaluza Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756This Episode Is Sponsored by Lovebug ProbioticsMoms spend so much time caring for everyone else that supporting their own health can fall off the list. Lovebug Probiotics makes it easier to add gut-health support to the family routine.Created by co-founder and mom Ashley Harris after her experience with broad-spectrum antibiotics, Lovebug offers science-focused probiotics made with clean ingredients for babies, toddlers, kids, moms, and other adults. Options include Kids Probiotic Chewables, Tummy Gummies, and Little Ones, all thoughtfully formulated to support digestive and immune health.*Shop Lovebug Probiotics and use code WHINYPALUZA20 for 20% off your first order.These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.Looking for more support helping your child move from overwhelm toward regulation?Get Dr. Roseann’s FREE Nervous System Starter Kit and join The Nervous System Reset: 4 Weeks to Regulated for practical tools to help you understand dysregulation, regulate yourself first, and create more calm and connection at home.The free three-day Nervous System Reset LIVE takes place September 21–23.Get started here:https://go.drroseann.com/kit?am_id=rebecca2879The Nervous System Starter Kit and four-week Nervous System Reset are free. Rebecca may earn a commission if you later purchase a paid Dr. Roseann program through this link, at no additional cost to you.
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  Episode 583: Stop Putting Yourself Last 18.09.2026 56m

  Many mothers become so focused on caring for everyone else that they slowly lose touch with themselves. Their days revolve around responsibilities, expectations, and never-ending to-do lists, leaving little room to consider what they need or how they want to feel.In this episode of the Whinypaluza Podcast, Rebecca Greene speaks with Amy Pons, founder of Unlock the Magic, about reconnecting with your intuition, rediscovering your identity, and learning to trust yourself again.After 20 years in mainstream business and marketing, Amy realized that the success she had worked so hard to build no longer felt aligned with who she truly was. Her body, emotions, and intuition were telling her that something needed to change. That realization led Amy to leave corporate life and begin helping others move beyond the roles, rules, and expectations that have kept them disconnected from themselves.Amy explains why mothers must stop placing themselves last and challenges women to create a “to-feel list” alongside their traditional to-do list. Rather than adding another responsibility, this practice asks women to identify how they want to feel and make choices that support that intention.Rebecca and Amy also explore intuition, purpose, energy, chakras, generational patterns, and how a mother’s willingness to live more authentically can influence her children. Amy reminds listeners that children learn how to trust themselves by watching the adults in their lives make courageous, aligned choices.This deeply personal conversation encourages women to honor their inner knowing, remain open to different possibilities, and stop assuming that caring for themselves means caring less about everyone else.You’ll LearnWhy constantly putting yourself last does not help your family.How a “to-feel list” can change the way you approach your day.Why your body may signal when something in your life feels misaligned.How to recognize and explore intuitive hunches.Why your brain may resist ideas that feel unfamiliar.How small steps can help you reconnect with your purpose.Why children learn self-trust by watching their parents.How to become more open to possibilities without forcing a particular outcome.Why more than one truth can exist at the same time.How to begin trusting yourself by one additional degree.About Amy PonsAmy Pons is the founder of Unlock the Magic, where she helps people reconnect with who they truly are beyond the roles, rules, and expectations they have spent years trying to fit into.After 20 years in mainstream business and marketing, Amy realized she had spent much of her life quieting her intuition and forcing herself into a version of success that no longer felt aligned. Today, she blends business experience, life coaching, energy work, and soul-centered guidance to help others live more fully, honestly, and freely.Connect With AmyWebsite: https://unlockthemagic.orgLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/amyponsismagicInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/unlockthemagic_Connect with Rebecca:https://linktr.ee/whinypaluzamomSpecial NoticeLooking for practical support to help your child move from overwhelm toward greater calm and regulation?Download Dr. Roseann’s FREE Nervous System Starter Kit and join The Nervous System Reset: 4 Weeks to Regulated for tools to help you understand dysregulation, regulate yourself first, and create more calm and connection at home.Get free access here:https://go.drroseann.com/kit?am_id=rebecca2879Affiliate disclosure: The Starter Kit and Nervous System Reset are free. If you later purchase a paid Dr. Roseann program through Rebecca’s link, Rebecca may earn a commission at no additional cost to you.
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  Episode 582: Back to School Tips from My Family to Yours! 16.09.2026 35m

  Back-to-school season brings new schedules, new expectations, early mornings, and plenty of emotions for both kids and parents. Whether your child is starting high school, heading off to college, or simply beginning another school year, the transition is a good opportunity to reset routines and think about what will help everyone thrive.In this Whinypaluza Wednesday episode, Rebecca Greene and her husband, Seth, share back-to-school advice from the entire Greene family. With Max beginning his sophomore year of college, Ella entering her senior year of high school, and Lily starting her freshman year, each family member brings a different perspective on handling the school year.Their advice ranges from practical tips about preparation, routines, and even finding the best time to do college laundry to bigger lessons about setting goals, getting involved, making friends, and remembering that everything will eventually get done. Rebecca and Seth also discuss the importance of maintaining basic needs like sleep, healthy food, water, and exercise when schedules become busy.Most importantly, back to school does not have to mean back to perfection. Kids need time to adjust, learn, make mistakes, and figure things out. Parents can set clear expectations while also recognizing when children are putting too much pressure on themselves. Effort and progress matter more than getting everything exactly right.In this episode:➡ Why routines and structure can make the transition back to school easier➡ Encouraging kids to pace themselves and trust that everything will get done➡ Helping children talk about what they are experiencing instead of keeping it inside➡ Setting goals and encouraging kids to pursue opportunities that interest them➡ Why every child should find a way to get involved at school➡ Preparing ahead without expecting everything to be perfect➡ Finding quality friendships and encouraging kids to include others➡ Prioritizing sleep, nutrition, hydration, and exercise➡ Setting clear expectations without creating unnecessary pressure➡ Giving yourself and your children grace during periods of transition➡ Slowing down enough to enjoy the season of life you are inEvery school year is a season that eventually passes. While it is easy to focus on grades, schedules, activities, and what comes next, Rebecca reminds parents and kids to enjoy where they are right now. Give yourself time to adjust, find something you enjoy, connect with people, and keep moving toward your goals.Listen to Back to School Tips from My Family to Yours!, then share your family's best back-to-school tip with Rebecca.Explore Rebecca’s podcast, blog, newsletter, parenting community, and other resources at www.whinypaluza.com.If this episode helped you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating or review, and share it with another parent who could use a little encouragement as the new school year begins.Looking for more support helping your child move from overwhelm toward regulation? Download Dr. Roseann’s FREE Nervous System Starter Kit and join The Nervous System Reset: 4 Weeks to Regulated for practical tools to help you understand dysregulation, regulate yourself first, and create more calm and connection at home: https://go.drroseann.com/kit?am_id=rebecca2879Affiliate disclosure: Rebecca may earn a commission if you later purchase a paid program through this link, at no additional cost to you. The Starter Kit and Nervous System Reset are free.
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  Episode 581: Raising Capable Kids Without Overparenting 11.09.2026 45m

  Nicole Runyon, LMSW, spent more than 20 years working as a child psychotherapist before shifting her focus to coaching parents. She joins Rebecca Greene to discuss how technology, overparenting, and limited independence may affect children’s confidence and emotional development.Rebecca and Nicole explore:How screens may interfere with connection and healthy developmentWhy rescuing children can unintentionally undermine their confidenceThe value of free play, movement, responsibility, and age-appropriate discomfortHow parents can combine strong boundaries with love and connectionWhy parents should examine their own habits and the child’s environmentNicole is a parent coach, keynote speaker, and bestselling author of Free to Fly: The Secret to Fostering Independence in the Next Generation.Connect with Nicole:Website: https://nicolerunyon.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/igenerationmentalhealth/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolerunyonlmsw/Follow Rebecca: https://linktr.ee/whinypaluzamomFree Support for ParentsLooking for practical ways to help your child move from overwhelm toward greater calm and regulation?Download Dr. Roseann’s FREE Nervous System Starter Kit and join The Nervous System Reset: 4 Weeks to Regulated. Both resources are free and include tools to help you better understand dysregulation, regulate yourself first, and create more calm and connection at home.Get free access here:https://go.drroseann.com/kit?am_id=rebecca2879Affiliate disclosure: The Nervous System Starter Kit and four-week Nervous System Reset are free. If you later choose to purchase a paid Dr. Roseann program through Rebecca’s link, Rebecca may earn a commission at no additional cost to you.This Episode Is Sponsored by Lovebug ProbioticsBeing a mom means spending a lot of time thinking about everyone else's health and well-being — and sometimes forgetting about your own! Lovebug Probiotics makes supporting your family's gut health one simple addition to your routine.A mom on a mission created Lovebug. After co-founder Ashley Harris received broad-spectrum antibiotics during the birth of her son, Hudson, she began learning about the gut microbiome's important role in overall health. That journey inspired Lovebug: a family-focused line of probiotics developed with science at the forefront and made with clean ingredients.For busy families like ours, Lovebug offers probiotics for different ages and stages, including Kids Probiotic Chewables, Tummy Gummies, and Little Ones, plus options for babies, toddlers, moms, and other adults. Lovebug probiotics are thoughtfully formulated to support digestive and immune health — making gut health one more simple way to support the people you love.*Ready to find the right Lovebug for your family?Shop Lovebug ProbioticsUse code WHINYPALUZA20 for 20% OFF your first order.*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. When does helping our children become overdoing it?Important Content NoteThis episode includes discussion of suicide attempts, self-harm, eating disorders, anxiety, and children’s mental health.This conversation shares the guest’s perspective for educational purposes and is not a substitute for individualized medical or mental health care. If you or someone you know is in crisis in the United States, call or text 988. Call 911 if there is immediate danger.Follow, rate, and share the Whinypaluza podcast.
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  Episode 580: What We’ve Learned in 21 Years of Marriage 09.09.2026 40m

  What keeps a marriage strong after 21 years?Marriage is not sustained by one grand romantic gesture. It grows through the daily choices to communicate, express appreciation, work through disagreements, show affection, and remember that you are on the same team.As Rebecca and Seth Greene celebrate their 21st wedding anniversary, they reflect on the lessons that have helped them build a loving and lasting relationship. They share why assuming the best about your spouse can prevent unnecessary conflict, why appreciation should always be expressed, and why expecting your partner to read your mind rarely ends well.Rebecca and Seth also discuss the danger of keeping score, the importance of communicating your needs directly, and how to decide whether something truly needs to be addressed or simply released. They explain why resolving a conflict is more valuable than proving who is right and why couples should “race” to be the first to apologize.This warm, honest, and funny episode of Whinypaluza Wednesday is a reminder that successful marriages are not perfect. They are built by two people who continue choosing one another, growing individually, and facing life’s challenges together.In This Episode, You Will Learn➡ Why assuming the best intentions can change the way you respond to your spouse➡ How expressing gratitude and appreciation strengthens your emotional connection➡ Why keeping score creates resentment and what to address instead➡ How direct communication prevents confusion, frustration, and unmet expectations➡ Why affection, apologies, teamwork, and letting go are essential to a lasting marriageAfter 21 years, Rebecca and Seth know that love does not remain frozen in time. It deepens through parenting, change, challenges, laughter, forgiveness, and the countless ordinary moments two people share.Listen to What 21 Years of Marriage Taught Us, then share the most valuable relationship lesson you have learned.Visit Whinypaluza.com for more episodes, parenting support, and Rebecca’s latest articles.If this episode helped you, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who would appreciate an honest conversation about lasting love.Free Support for Calmer Family LifeWould you like practical tools to help your family manage stress, emotional overwhelm, and nervous system dysregulation?Download Dr. Roseann’s FREE Nervous System Starter Kit and join The Nervous System Reset: 4 Weeks to Regulated.Get started here:https://go.drroseann.com/kit?am_id=rebecca2879Affiliate disclosure: Both resources are free. Rebecca may earn a commission if you later purchase a paid Dr. Roseann program through this link, at no additional cost to you.
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  Episode 579: Parenting with Less Conflict and More Connection 04.09.2026 1h 1m

  How to Reduce Conflict With Your KidsWhy does repeating yourself sometimes make your child less likely to listen? And how can parents set boundaries without turning every request into an argument?Rebecca Greene welcomes Sari Beth Goodman, M.A., Certified Parent Educator and Coach and founder of The Parental Edge, for an honest conversation about communication, emotional triggers, boundaries, parenting guilt, and reducing conflict at home.Sari explains why children do not always need another lengthy explanation and why parents do not have to remain perfectly calm during every difficult moment. Instead, parents can learn to recognize their emotional buttons, express frustration respectfully, set clear limits, and repair the relationship when things go wrong.Rebecca and Sari also discuss breaking expectations into smaller steps, helping children express big emotions appropriately, and creating connection without forcing children to talk.Key TakeawaysWhy repeated explanations can cause children to tune outHow to set boundaries without requiring your child’s agreementWays to recognize and manage your emotional triggersHow to repair the relationship after a difficult momentWhy parenting guilt keeps us from appreciating what is going wellHow humor and shared activities can strengthen family connectionListen to The Whinypaluza Podcast, then follow and share the show with another parent:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756About Sari Beth GoodmanSari Beth Goodman, M.A., is a Certified Parent Educator and Coach and the founder of The Parental Edge. She helps parents strengthen communication, reduce conflict, and build healthier relationships with their children through practical tools, emotional awareness, and supportive guidance.Connect With SariWebsite: https://theparentaledge.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theparentaledge/Additional Support for ParentsLooking for more support helping your child move from overwhelm toward regulation? Download Dr. Roseann’s FREE Nervous System Starter Kit and join The Nervous System Reset: 4 Weeks to Regulated for practical tools to help you understand dysregulation, regulate yourself first, and create more calm and connection at home:https://go.drroseann.com/kit?am_id=rebecca2879Affiliate disclosure: Rebecca may earn a commission if you later purchase a paid program through this link, at no additional cost to you. The Starter Kit and Nervous System Reset are free.
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  Episode 578: The On Call Mom 02.09.2026 35m

  Moms are often the first call when a child needs advice, a ride, help solving a problem, or simply the reassurance that someone is there. Being that safe place is a privilege, but constantly being on call can also become physically and emotionally exhausting.In this Whinypaluza Wednesday episode, Rebecca Greene and her husband, Seth, have an honest and humorous conversation about balancing availability with healthy parenting boundaries. Rebecca reflects on her journey from being an on-call therapist and supervisor to becoming the on-call mom of three teenagers.Being available does not mean Mom must immediately handle every request. Children are often more capable than parents realize, and allowing them to solve problems, wait a few minutes, help around the house, or ask the other parent can build independence while easing some of Mom’s mental load.Rebecca also discusses why mothers must communicate when they are unavailable, share responsibilities with their partners, ask their children for help, and make room for their own appointments, interests, rest, and enjoyment. Taking care of yourself is not selfish. It helps you remain the steady, supportive person your family needs.In this episode:What it really means to be the on-call momHow to remain available without being available every minuteWhy children need opportunities to solve their own problemsAllowing kids to wait or be temporarily inconveniencedCommunicating clear windows of availabilitySharing responsibilities with your spouse or partnerAsking children to contribute and help at homeRecognizing when Mom needs rest, support, or time offMaking sure Mom’s needs are included in family plansUsing small steps to regain momentum when you feel depletedYou can be the person your family calls without carrying everything alone. The goal is not to stop being there for the people you love. It is to manage your energy so you can be there without completely losing yourself.Listen, follow, and share this episode with an on-call mom who needs to hear it. Please leave a rating or review and let Rebecca know which parenting topics you would like discussed next.Explore Rebecca’s podcast, blog, newsletter, parenting community, and other resources at www.whinypaluza.comThis Episode Is Sponsored by Lovebug ProbioticsBeing a mom means spending a lot of time thinking about everyone else's health and well-being — and sometimes forgetting about your own! Lovebug Probiotics makes supporting your family's gut health one simple addition to your routine.Lovebug was created by a mom on a mission. After co-founder Ashley Harris received broad-spectrum antibiotics during the birth of her son, Hudson, she began learning about the important role the gut microbiome can play in our overall health. That journey inspired Lovebug: a family-focused line of probiotics developed with science at the forefront and made with clean ingredients.For busy families like ours, Lovebug offers probiotics for different ages and stages, including Kids Probiotic Chewables, Tummy Gummies and Little Ones, plus options for babies, toddlers, moms and other adults. Lovebug probiotics are thoughtfully formulated to support digestive and immune health — making gut health one more simple way to support the people you love.*Ready to find the right Lovebug for your family?Shop Lovebug ProbioticsUse code WHINYPALUZA20 for 20% OFF your first order.*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.SPECIAL NOTICELooking for more support helping your child move from overwhelm toward regulation? Download Dr. Roseann’s FREE Nervous System Starter Kit and join The Nervous System Reset: 4 Weeks to Regulated for practical tools to help you understand dysregulation, regulate yourself first, and create more calm and connection at home: https://go.drroseann.com/kit?am_id=rebecca2
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  Episode 577: Helping Kids Navigate the Messy Side of Friendship 28.08.2026 50m

  Friendship problems rarely arrive with a handy instruction manual. A child comes home hurt, angry, or feeling left out, and a parent is left wondering whether to listen, offer advice, step in, or quietly confiscate every phone in the house.In this episode of The Whinypaluza Podcast, Rebecca Greene talks with award-winning author, speaker, and parenting resource expert Jessica Speer about helping children and teens navigate the complicated social world of friendships, peer pressure, group dynamics, screens, and middle school.Jessica explains that many friendship struggles are not evidence that a child or friend is “bad.” Often, young people are still learning communication, conflict resolution, boundary-setting, and other social-emotional skills. Parents can help by listening without immediately trying to fix the problem, practicing difficult conversations, and teaching children to notice when repeated harmful behavior may require a stronger boundary.Rebecca and Jessica also discuss why social challenges feel more intense in a digital world. Group chats and social media can keep friendship drama going long after the school day ends, leaving children with more opportunities to compare, assume, ruminate, and feel excluded. Jessica offers practical guidance for talking about technology without making every conversation negative, preparing children for peer pressure, and creating a safe plan that allows them to call home when they need help.At the heart of the conversation is the power of co-regulation. When a child comes home emotionally overwhelmed, a parent’s calm presence can help settle the child’s nervous system. Children do not always need an immediate solution. They need to feel seen, heard, and supported by a steady adult who believes in them.In This Episode, You Will Learn✓ How to distinguish normal friendship conflict from repeated behavior that may require stronger boundaries.✓ Why tweens and teens may remain in unhealthy friend groups because belonging feels developmentally essential.✓ How phones, group chats, and social media can intensify exclusion, comparison, assumptions, and anxiety.✓ Why a parent’s calm nervous system can help an emotionally overwhelmed child co-regulate.✓ Which physical and behavioral changes may signal that a child needs additional support.Jessica leaves parents with an honest and hopeful reminder: children do not need perfect parents who solve every social problem. They need caring adults who keep learning, stay connected, model healthy responses, and take care of their own well-being too.Listen to The Whinypaluza Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756If this episode helps your family, please like, follow, share it with another parent, and leave a review.About Jessica SpeerJessica Speer is an award-winning author, speaker, and parenting resource expert who helps children, teens, and families navigate friendships, social challenges, digital life, and growing up with confidence. Blending social science, real-life experiences, practical advice, and interactive activities, she is the author of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girl’s Guide to Happy Friendships, Middle School: Safety Goggles Advised, and The Phone Book: Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand. Jessica holds a master’s degree in social sciences and is completing a second master’s degree in mental health counseling. She lives in Colorado with her family.Connect With Jessica SpeerWebsite and free resources:https://jessicaspeer.com/Books:https://jessicaspeer.com/jessica-speer-books/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/jessica_speer_author/LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-speer-author
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  Episode 576: Boundaries are a Blessing 26.08.2026 37m

  Boundaries are not walls. They are honest guidelines that help relationships feel safer, healthier, and more balanced.In this episode of Whinypaluza Wednesday, Rebecca and Seth Greene share an honest conversation about setting boundaries in marriage, parenting, friendships, work, money, and everyday life. They discuss why staying silent to avoid conflict often creates resentment and how clearly communicating your needs can strengthen the relationships that matter most.Rebecca and Seth also explore how to respond when someone sets a boundary with you, why people-pleasing is not the same as kindness, and how to say no without guilt.In this episode:Why healthy boundaries strengthen relationshipsHow Rebecca asked Seth for better communication about his scheduleRecognizing when work is taking over your personal lifeSetting limits around your time, money, energy, and availabilityWhy your loved ones cannot read your mindHow to receive someone else’s boundary without becoming defensiveWhat to do when you accidentally cross a boundaryGiving yourself permission to say noHealthy relationships require honesty, communication, and room for everyone’s needs. You do not have to keep saying yes while quietly becoming frustrated. Sometimes the most loving thing you can say is, “This isn’t working for me. Can we find a better way?”Visit Whinypaluza.com for more parenting, marriage, and family resources.Please follow, subscribe, share the episode, and leave a review. Your support helps more parets and families discover Whinypaluza.
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  Episode 575: How to Stop Pretending You’re Fine 21.08.2026 51m

  How many times have you said “I’m fine” because it felt easier than explaining what you were really carrying?In this heartfelt episode of Whinypaluza, Rebecca Greene talks with Christian life coach, speaker, and Amazon bestselling author Darla Nelson about the pressure women feel to look strong while privately carrying stress, anxious thoughts, grief, exhaustion, and emotional weight. Darla explains why honesty is the first step toward peace and why repeating “I’m fine” does not heal what is happening beneath the surface.Rebecca and Darla explore how fear-driven thoughts become habits, how chronic stress can begin to affect the body, and how truthful thinking differs from toxic positivity. They also discuss building healthy habits one small step at a time, trusting God when life feels uncertain, allowing older children to learn through their own experiences, practicing self-care without guilt, and moving through grief with grace.This conversation is a compassionate reminder that peace is not reserved for people with perfect lives. It begins with taking off the mask, acknowledging what you are carrying, and choosing the next faithful step.In This Episode, You Will LearnWhy saying “I’m fine” can become a mask that keeps women from acknowledging what they need.How repeated words and thoughts can shape the beliefs we form about ourselves.How to replace fear-driven thinking with truthful thinking without slipping into toxic positivity.Why ongoing stress can affect sleep, physical health, relationships, and everyday decisions.How faith, small healthy habits, practical self-care, and grace can help create lasting peace.About Darla NelsonDarla Nelson is a Christian life coach, speaker, and Amazon bestselling author of I’m Fine. Really? She helps women move from stress, anxious thoughts, and emotional overwhelm into a life with more peace, calm, and faith-grounded confidence. Through her coaching, speaking, and media appearances, Darla encourages people to stop pretending they are fine and start giving themselves permission to heal, breathe, and live with more honesty and grace.Connect With DarlaWebsite: coachdarlanelson.comInstagram: @coachdarlanelsonBook: I’m Fine. Really? Visit Darla’s website to find the book and download her free ebook, The Weight Behind “I’m Fine.”If this episode speaks to you, share it with someone who may be saying “I’m fine” while carrying more than anyone realizes. Please like, follow, and share Whinypaluza so more parents and families can find these honest, helpful conversations.Listen on Apple Podcasts: The Whinypaluza Podcast
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  Episode 574: What I Brought Home from Vacation besides Laundry 19.08.2026 26m

  If you have ever returned home needing a vacation from your vacation, Rebecca and Seth Greene understand completely.In this episode of Whinypaluza Wednesday, Rebecca shares what she brought home from a long-awaited multigenerational family vacation besides several loads of laundry. After years of dreaming about traveling with her parents, brother, sister-in-law, nieces, husband, and children, Rebecca finally helped make it happen.The trip included college tours, jet skiing, dolphins, jellyfish, a boat ride Rebecca probably should not have taken without Dramamine, and the joy of seeing all 12 family members gathered around the same dinner table.Not everything went according to plan. The hotel room was too small, there were not enough beds, the pool was indoors, traffic added an unexpected hour to the drive, and Rebecca became seasick. But those imperfect moments helped her recognize how much pressure she places on herself to make everything perfect.Rebecca and Seth discuss why families need to plan around their real needs, why mothers must take care of themselves as carefully as they care for everyone else, and why being together matters more than creating a flawless itinerary.In this episode, you will learn:✓ Why you must stop talking about the memories you want to create and start making them happen.✓ How planning around your family’s actual needs can make traveling more enjoyable for everyone.✓ Why mothers should prepare for their own comfort and health, not only their children’s.✓ How the pressure to create a perfect vacation can prevent you from enjoying the experience.✓ Why connection, flexibility, and time together matter more than the hotel, schedule, or destination.The laundry eventually gets washed. The imperfect hotel room becomes a funny story. What stays with you are the memories, the laughter, and the people who were sitting around the table.Listen to What I Brought Home From Vacation Besides Laundry on The Whinypaluza Podcast.Please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share this episode with another parent who could use the reminder that family memories do not have to be perfect to be meaningful.Listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756
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  Episode 573: Helping Neurodiverse and Marginalized Children Thrive 14.08.2026 44m

  A child who melts down, shuts down, or resists expectations may not be misbehaving. Their nervous system may simply be overwhelmed.Rebecca Greene welcomes Dr. Niki Elliott, clinical professor and director of the Center for Embodied Equity and Neurodiversity at the University of San Diego, for a powerful conversation about helping neurodiverse and marginalized children thrive.They discuss sensory differences within families, why children may mask all day and unravel at home, and how parents can become an anchored presence rather than escalating alongside their children. Dr. Elliott also explains why children need agency, dignity, and adults who recognize the needs behind their behavior.You Will Learn✓ Why neurodiverse children may melt down after masking all day.✓ How sensory differences can create conflict between parents and children.✓ Why parents must understand their own triggers and nervous systems.✓ How an anchored adult helps a child feel safe and regulate.✓ Why families need an informed and supportive community.Connect With Dr. Niki ElliottVisit https://nikielliott.com to learn more about Dr. Elliott, her programs, and Heart-Centered Connection: 7 Essential Skills for Helping Neurodiverse and Marginalized Children Thrive.Preorder the book through Amazon or Barnes & Noble. Organizations interested in book clubs or bulk purchases can visit https://www.porchlightbooks.com.Listen, follow, and share The Whinypaluza Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756
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  Bonus: Positive Thinking Muscle 12.08.2026 21m

  Build Your Positive Thinking MuscleWhile Rebecca and her family are enjoying some well-earned vacation time, we wanted to share an episode originally released in 2022. Four years later, its message about strengthening your positive thinking muscle remains just as relevant and needed today.Positive thinking does not mean pretending everything is wonderful or pressuring yourself to feel happy all the time. It means recognizing negative thought patterns, processing difficult emotions, and intentionally guiding yourself toward a healthier perspective.In this Whinypaluza Wednesday replay, Rebecca Greene and her family share practical ways to strengthen your positive thinking muscle. Rebecca explains why awareness is the first step toward change, how self-care affects your mindset, and why the way you speak to yourself matters. Like any muscle, positive thinking becomes stronger and more natural with consistent practice.In this episode:✓ Why positive thinking should never become pressure to feel happy all the time.✓ How to recognize negative thoughts before they take control.✓ Why talking, journaling, praying, or doing a brain dump can help release emotional weight.✓ How to become your own friend and change the way you speak to yourself.✓ Why practicing healthier thoughts consistently makes them easier to access.Listen to this encouraging replay and discover how small, daily shifts can help you move out of a negative place and build a healthier, more resilient mindset.Listen to The Whinypaluza Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756Remember to like, follow, and share the podcast with another parent who could use this reminder.
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  Episode 571: What Every College Parent and Student Needs to Know 07.08.2026 47m

  Sending a child to college changes parenting overnight. Parents want to stay involved, but college students need room to advocate for themselves, make decisions, handle conflict, and ask for help.In this episode of The Whinypaluza Podcast, Rebecca Greene welcomes her special friend Kate Burrow, a higher education professional with more than 20 years of experience working with college students. Kate also helped Rebecca navigate Max’s first year of college, making this conversation especially personal.Kate offers honest, practical advice about college move-in day, homesickness, academic expectations, roommate problems, campus resources, career exploration, internships, and the difficult transition from managing a child’s life to supporting a young adult.Listeners will learn:✓ Why students who struggled in high school may be better prepared to persist in college.✓ How parents can support their college students without immediately stepping in and taking over.✓ What to say when a student calls home and says, “I hate it here.”✓ Why “optional” tutoring, study sessions, and review classes should rarely be treated as optional.✓ How communication, practical life skills, and asking for help can determine whether a college student struggles or thrives.Kate also reminds parents that an uncomfortable experience is not necessarily an unsafe one. College students need the confidence to handle hard moments, use available resources, communicate with roommates, and solve problems while knowing that their families remain firmly in their corner.Listen to The Whinypaluza Podcast on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756Please like, follow, and share the podcast with another parent preparing for the college years.About Kate BurrowKate Burrow holds a Master’s degree in Higher Education Administration and has more than 20 years of experience working with college students at colleges and universities across the country. She has taught numerous career and major exploration courses, as well as college success courses designed to help students navigate academic and personal transitions.Kate has also earned a certificate in Leadership Coaching and is currently learning to become a Proactive Conversations conflict management communication facilitator.She is a wife, a mother of two, and enjoys reading, attending theater events, and arts and crafts.
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  Episode 570: Summertime Mom Mode 05.08.2026 24m

  Summer can be joyful, chaotic, and surprisingly difficult for working moms. The children are home, schedules constantly change, the house is rarely quiet, and getting through a simple workday can feel nearly impossible.In this Whinypaluza Wednesday episode, host Rebecca Greene and her husband, Seth Greene, share an honest and funny conversation about “summertime mom mode.” Rebecca explains why doing less during the summer does not mean you are failing. It may mean you are choosing connection, sunshine, friendship, and memories over an impossible standard of productivity.Rebecca and Seth discuss making time for outdoor breaks, planning vacations and social activities, trying summer hobbies, protecting personal time, and giving yourself permission to serve an easy dinner and leave the laundry for a rainy day.In this episode:✓ Why being less productive during the summer does not make you lazy.✓ How working parents can create small opportunities to enjoy the season.✓ Why you should schedule the activities you keep talking about doing.✓ How lowering expectations around meals, chores, and the perfect house creates room for connection.✓ Why moms may need more personal time when family demands increase.Listen to The Whinypaluza Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whinypaluza-podcast/id1534167756Remember to like, follow, and share this episode with another mom who is deep in summertime mom mode.