Becoming Her : A Podcast For The Woman Becoming

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• 57 - What Your Soul Really Wants 10.06.2026 8min

  What if more success is not what your soul is craving? In this reflective bridge episode, Fe closes May by naming the deeper longing beneath hustle, pressure, approval, and clean building: freedom to obey God without performing for people.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 56 - Stop Building Under Babylon’s Pressure 03.06.2026 8min

  Not every system that works is clean. In this episode, Fe talks about Babylon as a pattern of pressure, speed, image, and name building, and how to recognize when your daily rhythms are being shaped more by toil than obedience.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 55 - You’re Not Responsible for Everything 27.05.2026 9min

  There is a difference between stewardship and self-reliance. In this episode, Fe talks about the hidden belief that says, “If I do not carry everything, everything will collapse,” and how hustle becomes a false god when pressure turns into identity.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 54- You’re Not Difficult for Telling the Truth 20.05.2026 8min

  There is a real cost to integrity, especially when telling the truth makes you look like the problem. In this episode, Fe talks about false peace, clean obedience, and why being misunderstood does not automatically mean you are wrong. This is for the woman who is tired of shrinking her convictions just to keep everyone comfortable.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 53 - Prayer, the Brain, and the Power of Surrender with Dr. Josh Brahinsky 13.05.2026 31min

  In this episode of The Becoming Her Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Josh Brahinsky for a thoughtful conversation about prayer, speaking in tongues, surrender, and what science can help us observe about the body and brain during spiritual practice.Dr. Brahinsky has spent nearly two decades studying charismatic evangelical prayer, with special attention to speaking in tongues, worship, embodiment, surrender, creativity, and the way these practices shape how people live and move in the world.This conversation is not about using science to prove God. It is about looking carefully at what happens when human beings pray, surrender, worship, and practice faith with their whole selves. We talk about the difference between theology and science, what researchers can measure, what they cannot claim, and why this kind of work matters for believers, thinkers, and anyone curious about the connection between faith, the brain, the body, and behavior.Inside this episode, we talk about:• Why Dr. Brahinsky has spent nearly twenty years studying charismatic evangelicalism and Pentecostal prayer• What speaking in tongues can teach us about surrender, control, worship, and embodied faith• Why prayer is not only a spiritual practice, but also a deeply physical and relational one• What researchers discovered when they studied people praying and speaking in tongues in brain imaging environments• The concept of “dropping in” during prayer and why it became important in the research• How surrender may be connected to creativity, inner flexibility, and a greater sense of capacity• Why science does not need to replace theology or prove God in order to offer meaningful insight• What it means to study the body without reducing the work of God to biologyLearn more about Dr. Josh Brahinsky and The Prayer Study here:https://www.theprayerstudy.com/Get his book, Tongues of Fire: How Charismatic Prayer Changes Evangelical Brains and Inspires Spirit-Filled Activism, here:https://a.co/d/03leDDAWListen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.If this episode helps you think more deeply, follow The Becoming Her Podcast and leave a review. Reviews help the podcast become more discoverable and help more women find conversations that bring faith, psychology, behavior, and truth into real life.The growing can continue.
• 52 - When Urgency Starts Sounding Like Wisdom 06.05.2026 17min

  Sometimes the problem is not that you lack discipline. Sometimes the problem is that you have been making decisions from depletion and calling it responsibility. In this episode, we are talking about the difference between urgency and wisdom, why hustle culture weakens discernment, and why your judgment is part of your stewardship.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 51- When Discipline Is Really Fear in Disguise 29.04.2026 16min

  Some women are not overworking because they lack discipline. They are overworking because slowing down feels unsafe. In this episode, we are talking about the difference between excellence and bondage, diligence and drivenness, obedience and fear.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 50- Spiritualizing Self-Interest: What It Really Looks Like 22.04.2026 8min

  The word drops on Monday. The offer goes live on Friday. And somewhere in between, walking away starts to feel like missing God.This episode names the pattern of using divine language to bypass people's discernment and drive them toward a yes they were never at peace about. It is a conversation for the woman who has been spiritually pressured and the woman who needs to honestly examine how she has been using God's name in her influence and her business.Listen now on fejoneslive.com, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 49 - That Is Not Marketing. That Is Manipulation. 15.04.2026 7min

  Manipulation does not always look like a con. Sometimes it looks like a countdown timer. Sometimes it sounds like "God told me to release this." Sometimes it shows up in the caption that calls your hesitation a lack of seriousness.This episode names the tactics that have been normalized in online business and ministry spaces, and draws a clear line between persuasion that serves and pressure that exploits. Whether you have been on the receiving end or you need to examine your own methods, this conversation is for you.Listen now on fejoneslive.com, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 48- What If Your Strategy Is the Problem? 08.04.2026 12min

  Sometimes the issue is not your discipline. Sometimes it is not your capacity. Sometimes it is not even the season.Sometimes the real problem is the method.In this episode, we are talking about what happens when a strategy looks productive on the outside but is quietly producing anxiety, compromise, confusion, and distance from God on the inside.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 47-When Your Life Becomes Inventory 01.04.2026 7min

  At some point, “sharing” stops being connection and starts being extraction. In this episode, Fey talks about the quiet shift that happens when you begin to view your home, your marriage, your kids, and your everyday moments as content. If you have felt that pressure, or that exhaustion, this will put language to what is really happening and how to break free without becoming cynical or secretive.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 46-Consistency That Produces Fruit 25.03.2026 10min

  Consistency matters, but alignment decides what your consistency produces. In this episode, Fe breaks down why you can be disciplined and still be off, how capacity and season shape obedience, and what it looks like to build routines that actually bear fruit.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• Special -For Such a Time as This 21.03.2026 13min

  The Iranian church is on fire for Jesus while the Western church argues about aesthetics. The same land that holds the tomb of Esther and Mordecai, the same people whose ancestors stood in the gap for the Jewish nation, are paying with their freedom and their lives for a faith we treat like a lifestyle accessory. This is the conversation most of the internet is not ready for. Fe is having it anyway.Tune in now at fejoneslive.com/podcast, or listen on iTunes, Spotify, and Amazon Music.
• 45 - The Hidden Worship Behind Hustle 18.03.2026 10min

  If your mood changes with likes, views, and comments, you are not “being strategic.” You are being discipled by approval. In this episode, Fe breaks down the hidden worship behind engagement addiction and how to rebuild your work on conviction instead of craving.Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• 44 - The Hidden Cost of Staying “In the Know” 11.03.2026 10min

  You do not have to delete every app to be honest about what modern media is doing to your brain, your nervous system, and your heart. If you have felt yourself getting more reactive, more suspicious, or quicker to judge people you actually care about, that is not random. There are reasons for it, patterns behind it, and warning signs you can learn to recognize before it reshapes you. In this episode, we are going to talk about the quiet ways social media and modern media can harden you, and how to step back before you lose what matters most. Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• #43 - Your Energy Speaks First 04.03.2026 6min

  Desperation has a smell, and customers can sense it long before you ever drop a link. In this episode, I am calling out the spammy habits that destroy trust, why pressure based selling repels the right people, and what to do when you are tight on money and tempted to get messy. Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• #42 - The High Cost of Loose Talk 25.02.2026 7min

  A lot of damage does not come from malice. It comes from rushing, assuming, exaggerating, and then letting pride keep you quiet when you realize you were wrong. In this episode, I am breaking down what it looks like to lead people on, how it destroys trust in business and relationships, and what mature leaders do instead. Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• #41- When Life Gets Hard, These Three Keep You Steady 18.02.2026 8min

  Some people fold the moment life gets tight, and others stay steady, clear-headed, and productive, even when the pressure is real. In this episode, I am breaking down three attitudes that will take you far in life, not just in business, but in every area that matters. You will hear the difference between quitting and finishing, how peace becomes a compass, and why gratitude is not denial, it is strength. Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• #40 - The Killer of Creativity 11.02.2026 8min

  You have the ideas. You have the desire. But lately, everything feels forced, and you cannot figure out why you keep stalling. In this episode, I am calling out the hidden habit that quietly pulls your focus off your assignment, twists your definition of success, and leaves you feeling like you have nothing original left to say. Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.
• #39- Upgrade Your Mind Without Going Broke 04.02.2026 6min

  If money is tight, it is easy to tell yourself growth has to wait. But what if the real issue is not your budget, it is your system? In this episode, we are talking about how to build serious skills with what you already have, how to learn faster without drowning in information, and how to use AI as a support tool without letting it replace your thinking. Listen now on my website, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or Spotify.