The Thing Doers

Who Are These People? 20.05.2024 34min

This episode introduces the ladies, Sam, Pam and Richelle. A trio of unlikely friends who have found friendship regardless of the improbability. Being in different stages of life and different states doesn’t stop their daily connection via Marco Polo and that's where this podcast was born. These are women that do ALL the things as most women and moms do in their worlds. We share what we do, why we do it, what we love, hate and are indifferent about each week.

The Thing Doers Introduction 15.05.2024 1min

A brief introduction of who we are and what we talk about here at "The Thing Doers"

Mom Guilt 21.05.2024 1t 5min

This episode focuses on the many layers of mom guilt, realizing that it is generally self-imposed but can also come from external forces. The ladies talk through guilt as a stay at home mom and a working mom. This also extends to wife guilt and self guilt as well. The comparison of the perfect social media moms and hitting our mom breaking points.Even with adult children mom guilt can be the gift that keeps on giving.

Brains, What are they good for? 27.05.2024 56min

In this episode the ladies dive into all the aspects of that thing that drives us, our brains. From their fascination with the psychological side of brains to the unknown world of why we allow our brains to be so mean to us. They cover seizures, dreams, alcohol and all the things that make us who we are and how we think. They still don’t understand the complexities, or how men are different from women but it makes for an interesting chat about how our brains are the same and yet oh so different.

Magic Coffee Table 03.06.2024 1t 8min

Sam and Pam host this week and discuss the world of the magic coffee table from the coffee table’s perspective. Spurred by a YouTube video of the same name this discussion shares the concept and what the life of a magic maker in our homes is like. The magic is who the Thing Doers are at their core. This comes with a lot of work, pride, frustration and feeling of accomplishment.

Special Guest 24.06.2024 41min

This episode is missing the ladies, well all except Pam. So Pam invites a couple of guests to sit in the empty podcast seats. Her husband Steve sits to chat about lists, old TV, and freeways among other things. And then a surprise call from her sister adds Wendy into the conversation so we can talk crocheting, football and the depth of the waters of the great state of Texas. A virtual cornucopia of topics for your listening pleasure. Note this was recorded before this year’s Superbowl so that’s the only thing that is gonna throw you a bit in our references.

Awards for Everyone 10.06.2024 1t 11min

In this episode we discuss a variety of things that affect the family and our own personal values. From making the decision for public school or homeschool, the fall of mankind as we know it with the increase of participation awards for everything and the lack of striving to be better or even the best at something. So much to talk about and we talk about all of it.

Glitter & Other Horrors 17.06.2024 44min

In this episode we discuss things we just can't tolerate (glitter, paper labels, and the like) and wander into what to watch whether it’s an old kids movie, true crime or network TV we share them all. And a little side step into the animal world. This episode covers a lot of topics in a relatively short amount of time.

Yes, No and the F-Word 01.07.2024 59min

Sometimes you hear something on a reel that make you go, hmmm. The inspiration for this episode came like that. A reel of a 70 year old lady who knows what she’s talking about. Sam and Pam discuss what she had to say and learn about the value of our yes', our no's and the power of just saying eff it when the mood strikes. This topic is for anyone whether you're a mom, a wife, an employee or a friend, these tools are simple ways to take back your life and stop all the people pleasing at the sacrifice of yourself.

Who Am I? 15.07.2024 57min

In this episode Sam and Pam tackle the question of self-identity with a touch of sarcasm. Sam shares a curveball thrown by a new friend who asked, "Who are you?" Realizing she can describe others but not herself, Sam fumbles for an answer, realizing she can easily describe others but not herself. This challenge eludes Pam too who is stumped beyond answering "I wear black everyday and I'm an introvert" They mock the typical "What do you do?" query, noting that job titles don't tell their whole story. Sam shares her struggle of saying she's "just a mom" despite taking her role seriously, complete with nightly guilt trips. How do we recognize personal traits and passions beyond professional labels, which can lead to richer human connections. The conversation also touches on balancing work and life, sharing relatable gripes about skyrocketing living expenses and budget reassessments. They highlight the relentless pursuit of success, and when is enough really enough?

Mental Load 08.07.2024 58min

In this episode Sam & Pam delve into the overwhelming world of mental load—the never-ending tabs open in their heads managing home and family life. Mental load isn't just about tasks but the constant mental gymnastics required to keep everything running smoothly. The daily struggle with the barrage of thoughts and responsibilities. They reflect on the absurdity of it all, balancing the necessity of routine with the fear of missing a beat. This provides a lighthearted look into the often unnoticed complexities of mental load and its impact on personal sanity and ask “do men carry mental load?” They discuss how the book “Don’t Believe Everything You Think" helped Sam gain perspective on controlling her scattered thoughts and reducing mental chaos, despite feeling overwhelmed at times. They delve into the dynamics of overthinking and its impact on productivity and creativity, reflecting on their own experiences of preparing to do a podcast in the midst of the crazy life of a Thing Doer.

Bad Manners 29.07.2024 42min

In this episode of The Thing Doers, we dive into the glamorous world of parenting across state lines, comparing the high-stakes, fast-paced life in California with the charmingly disciplined realm of Texas. Ever wonder why kids in Texas listen to their parents and those in California seem to run wild? We've got personal anecdotes, playdate dramas, and a touch of cultural critique to keep you entertained. But that's not all! We also tackle the modern-day dilemma of survival. Spoiler alert: constantly chasing more money and stuff might just mean you're missing out on raising decent human beings. Who knew? We question the necessity of the latest gadgets and shiny cars, pondering if our minimalist-minded selves are onto something. Join us as we sarcastically navigate the chaos of contemporary parenting, and maybe, just maybe, figure out how to raise respectful and responsible kids in today’s oh-so-demanding world.

Gimme a Break 12.08.2024 40min

Ever been told that grocery shopping counts as "me time"? Join us on the latest episode of "The Thing Doers" as we break down the ridiculousness of what society deems a "break" for moms. From the "luxury" of showering alone to the "relaxation" of running errands, we're calling out the nonsense. We'll also explore the absurd types of breaks we get: Bathroom Time-Out, Car Cry Sessions, and Actually Leaving the House (without kids!). Spoiler: Moms need real breaks, not glorified chores. Get ready for some eye-rolls, a couple of tipe and a serious reality check.

Battle of 2 Birds 26.08.2024 34min

Night Owls or Early Birds? In this episode of Pam and Sam delve into the eternal debate between early birds and night owls. They sarcastically praise the early risers for their supposed productivity while pointing out the absurdity of waking up at 4 a.m. for anything other than milking cows or solving world crises. They discuss the joys of a quiet gym at 10 p.m., the terror of alarm clocks, and the joys of kids who sleep in. They champion late-night creativity, arguing that nighttime inspiration can sometimes surpass morning productivity. It's all about finding balance and embracing one's natural rhythms, Pam and Sam conclude by advocating for personalized routines and the value of sleep, leaving listeners with the thought: "If we were all meant to wake up early, coffee wouldn’t be so strong" And a BONUS Dishwasher tip too!

Is That Weird? 09.09.2024 40min

Today’s episode asks the questions…Is that weird? We admit we are all weird but some of our “normal” may seem odd to others. We're airing our dirty laundry on things we love, hate, and cringe at—because normal is overrated. From Kidz Bop: 12-year-olds butchering Top 40 hits to wire hangers and what is this about brushing teeth Sam? We’ll touch on the foods and shows that are our guilty pleasures and dive into the strange things that fill us with irrational fear. Urinals, elevators, and manhole covers which are the potential urban death traps. We also share some PSA’s and safety tips that you may not have been aware of so you might learn something or at least become aware that you may be doing something that might make you an A-hole. We love our listeners and want to all become a little better humans to those around us and enjoy each others weirdness.

On The Move 23.09.2024 39min

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Pam travels from California to the Lone Star State for an in person recording with Sam and special guests Wendy and Chris to discuss the massive migration of Californians out of the Golden State. They talk about why they've made the move to Texas and the many others that have been heading to states like Tennessee, Idaho, and Utah—where there’s more space, more freedom, and fewer reasons to roll your eyes. They dive into why so many are ditching the overpriced chaos and fake smiles of California for the promise of something better. They laugh about how they went from dodging earthquakes to dodging hurricanes, all while navigating the wild, wild world of Texan hospitality—where neighbors bake you bread just because your kids sneeze. But let’s not get too sappy; they also rant about the horror show that is Texas driving and how the local Mexican food makes them long for a real California taco. And stick around for a bonus tip from Sam on how to cap the night with your kids to ensure a full night’s sleep. With a mix of snark, sarcasm, and a few "bless your hearts," they spill the tea on why Texas isn’t perfect (but is definitely beating California for them and their families).

30 Days of Less 07.10.2024 32min

This week, Sam and Pam share their plans for the 30-day challenge to rid their homes of clutter and they’ve added an extra twist by committing to a no-spend month, meaning they can only buy things with the money they earn from selling some of their own treasures. Pam drops some wisdom on minimalism (a.k.a. owning two things instead of twenty) and the difference between wants and needs. There's chat about magic wands, peaceful spaces, “buy days” vs. “look days,” and Sam dishes out two tips that you didn't know you needed but will be glad you heard. Even while recording this episode life is in full swing as Pam’s family and Sam’s husband provide some background ambiance with their dinner in the next room. It’s a Thing Doer class in getting stuff done, because what’s productivity without a little chaos? Welcome to the multitasking circus!

For The Long Haul 21.10.2024 43min

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam decide to spice things up by bringing their better (or worse?) halves Austin and Steve onto this week’s podcast to talk about that delightful rollercoaster we call marriage and the path from the first date, breaking up, living together and then the altar. With many years of wedded bliss (or survival) under their belts, they’ll share their oh-so-personal insights on fighting styles, communication, having their lives together while still having their own independent lives. You’ll also get the scoop on how they figured out they’d found “the one” and what it’s like trying to build a healthy relationship by having things you do together and hobbies of your own like surfing, coloring or organizing a drawer (Pam’s convinced that qualifies as a hobby). Plus, they’ll dive into the art of being real in front of your person from the get-go, no facades allowed, and what it’s like growing up together in a marriage (because apparently, maturity is optional). Hold onto your vows, it’s about to get real.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? 18.11.2024 38min

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam check in on their thrilling 30-day decluttering adventure. You know, the one where they finally toss out that sock missing its soulmate since 2004, or the hangers your mom got with those slacks she bought at Mervyn's back when Mervyn's was still a thing. It’s all about giving yourself permission to part with the “perfectly good” stuff you’ve been holding onto for that mythical day when it might be useful. (Spoiler: it won’t.) Trust us, your home, your brain, and your life will feel lighter—because who needs all that junk? And, as if that’s not enough, Sam drops her genius tip: end every day with a nightly dance party with your kids (or even without) and see what magic that can create.

Just The Tip 16.12.2024 42min

After surviving the chaos of a dog seizure and wrangling their families Sam and Pam sit down to record this episode: “Just the Tip.” where they dive into some of their favorite money-saving hacks to help you squeeze every last penny. Want to clean your house without breaking the bank? They’ve got homemade cleaning products for that. Drowning in a sea of mail, subscriptions, and medical bills? Don’t worry, they’ll help you dig your way out. Pam even dishes out a couple of apps that’ll save you money — or, better yet, get some back. Plus, they throw in a few tips for surviving a shopping trip with kids and how to start teaching them the value of money. And hey, if you're really feeling ambitious, why not make your own butter?