How to Move Abroad: Your Guide to Start Living Abroad

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  You Can't Read Your Way Into Being Ready to Move Abroad 30.07.2026 16min

  I cannot swim. I know the theory. I've watched people do it my entire life. I could explain the mechanics to you in detail.And if you threw me in a pool right now the outcome would not be good.This week I'm talking about why moving abroad is the same — why you cannot read or research your way into being ready for something you can only learn by doing. Why the not knowing yet is not the problem. Why the falling down on the ice is not failure, it's the process. And why my daughter being at hockey camp this week made me think about all of this in a way I needed to say out loud.Also: why you don't have to figure any of this out alone, and what support in this process actually looks like.
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  Stop Trusting Google. Here's What It's Getting Wrong About Your Move Abroad 20.07.2026 19min

  You've been googling moving abroad for weeks. Maybe months. And the information you've found is — some of it useful, some of it outdated, and some of it confidently, specifically wrong in ways that are sending your planning in the wrong direction.This week I'm going through the biggest things Google gets wrong about moving abroad. The money number that doesn't apply to you. The digital nomad visa obsession. The Schengen confusion. The backwards order of operations. The you stop paying US taxes when you leave myth that could actually get you in legal trouble.Google is a starting point. This episode is the correction.Instagram: @iammistelle
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  True Crime, Cold Coffee, and Why Nobody Talks About the Middle 15.07.2026 11min

  I've restarted this episode three times. I've made coffee I didn't drink. I've listened to approximately four true crime podcasts this week and I know more about cases in rural Ohio than I do about my own content plan.And I'm guessing you have a version of this too. Not about a podcast. About the move. The research you've been doing. The applications you've been sending. The thing you've been working toward that hasn't quite shown up back yet.This week I'm talking about the in-between. The hardest part that nobody names. The place where you've committed in your heart but the rest of your life hasn't caught up yet. Where the motivation has quietly left the building and you're going through the motions on a good day and not even that on a bad one.I don't have a tidy solution today. I'm still in it. But I've got something brewing that I think is going to help. Stay tuned.Also: send me your true crime podcast recommendations immediately. I'm almost out of episodes and it's urgent
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  I Miss Being Good at Things: The Competence Grief of Moving Abroad 06.07.2026 20min

  I am, in English, reasonably funny. Quick. Articulate. I can read a room.In German, even after years, I am a flattened version of myself. I can express the basic version of an idea. I cannot do nuance. The jokes don't translate. And in social situations I go quiet — not because I have less to say, but because the gap between what I want to say and what I'm capable of saying is genuinely embarrassing.This week I'm talking about something I call competence grief ... the real, disorienting loss that comes from being good at things and then suddenly being a beginner again as an adult. The language piece, the cultural piece, the identity piece. Why it's harder than the visa paperwork in some ways. And why it's temporary, even when it doesn't feel like it.
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  Stop Hitting Apply on LinkedIn. Here's What Actually Gets You a Job Abroad 29.06.2026 15min

  You've optimized your LinkedIn profile. You have the right keywords, the right headline, the right summary. You're applying to listings that match your experience. You're posting content to stay visible.And nothing is happening.This week I'm telling you why. LinkedIn is not a job hunting platform — it's social media for people who are at work. And the difference between those two things matters enormously when you're trying to get a job in another country as a foreign applicant hitting apply from six thousand miles away.What LinkedIn is actually good for. What it's specifically bad at. And what actually gets you a job abroad — which is almost never the apply button.Free networking resource
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  The Privilege Conversation Nobody in the Move Abroad Space Is Having 22.06.2026 14min

  Moving abroad is a privilege. I'm going to say that clearly and then spend the whole episode explaining what I mean by it — because I don't mean what you might think I mean.I moved to Switzerland with less than $2,000 in the bank. I also had a relocation package, a transferable job, a university education, and a US passport. Both of those things were true at the same time. And I think that's actually the more honest version of this conversation than either extreme — not only rich people can move abroad, and also not everyone can move abroad if they just want it badly enough.This week I'm talking about who actually has access to this option and who doesn't, why the person who chooses to relocate across an ocean and the person who flees conflict are not having the same experience, and what being aware of your privilege actually means for how you show up when you get there.This is the uncomfortable one. I think you're ready for it.
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  You've Been Googling the Wrong Words for Moving Abroad. Here's What They Actually Mean 15.06.2026 22min

  You've been using visa, permit, and residency like they mean the same thing. They don't. And it's sending your research in the wrong direction.This week I'm walking through the vocabulary of moving abroad — not in a glossary kind of way, just in a these words matter and here's why kind of way. Visa vs. permit. Temporary vs. permanent residency. Citizenship vs. naturalization. Schengen vs. EU. Domicile. Leave to remain. All of it.Because the more fluent you get in this language the clearer your planning becomes. And right now a lot of you are googling the wrong thing and wondering why nothing makes sense.
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  Unscripted: What's it really like to live abroad? 08.06.2026 12min

  In this episode, I'm just chatting about what it's really like to live abroad and what I miss most about the US. There's no task on this one... just me and you sharing how it actually feels to live abroad.
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  What Healthcare Actually Looks Like When You Move Abroad 01.06.2026 17min

  I had cancer at thirty. I've navigated healthcare in two countries with that history, including a high-risk pregnancy in Switzerland that cost me nothing beyond my regular insurance premium.This week I'm talking about what healthcare in Europe actually looks like — how most of Europe's systems work for legal residents, what makes Switzerland different, whether doctors speak English, and what to do about the gap between leaving your American coverage and getting onto a new system.Also: if you've been telling yourself you can't move abroad because of your health situation — please listen to this one before you make that call. It might not be the barrier you think it is.
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  You Left America. Your Vote Still Counts 25.05.2026 13min

  Here's the thing nobody says clearly enough: moving abroad is not opting out. You still file US taxes. You still carry that passport and get the face when someone finds out you're American. You still feel the dollar losing value in your actual bank account. You are still affected by what happens there.This week I'm making the case for why your vote matters more from abroad than you might think ... and why five million Americans living outside the US not voting is one of the most quietly consequential political facts nobody talks about.FVAP.gov — official government resource for overseas votersDemocrats AbroadRepublicans Overseas
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  American Moving Abroad? The IRS Is Coming With You. Here's What That Means 18.05.2026 23min

  Nobody wants to talk about taxes. Until the IRS sends them a letter, at which point everybody wants to talk about taxes very urgently.This week I'm giving you the heads up before that happens. The basics of what Americans abroad actually need to know about US taxes — why you still have to file even when you live somewhere else, why you probably won't owe anything, what FBAR is and why the penalties for missing it are genuinely alarming, and what to do about your state taxes before you leave.This is not tax advice. I am not a tax professional and I will tell you approximately forty times in this episode to hire one. But this is the awareness conversation that nobody is having clearly enough in the move abroad space and you deserve to know this stuff before it becomes a problem.Important disclaimer: This episode is general awareness only. Please consult a qualified expat tax professional for advice specific to your situation.
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  Going Back to School Abroad at 30, 40, or 50: The Moving Abroad Visa Strategy Nobody Talks About 11.05.2026 14min

  Someone I know just got accepted into a Master's program in France. She's in her thirties. She's moving in September. And she is not doing this because she couldn't think of anything else — she's doing it because it is one of the smartest moves I've seen someone make in a long time.This week I'm making the case for the student visa as a legitimate, strategic, completely underrated pathway for adults who want to move abroad. We're talking about what a student visa actually gives you, why earning a local degree dramatically changes your job prospects in that country, why you are not too old for this, and the practical things you need to research if you want to take this seriously.Also: why the nineteen year old with the lanyard who lives in your imagination is not relevant to this conversation and needs to be evicted immediately.
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  You've Done Everything Right. So Why Aren't You Moving Abroad Yet? 04.05.2026 13min

  This one is for the person who has been doing the work. Really doing it — hiring coaches, rewriting the resume, applying and applying and applying — and still not moving.This week I'm talking about what's actually happening when the job-first strategy isn't working, why the problem is sometimes structural and not personal, and the questions worth sitting with honestly when you've been at this long enough that the effort and the results have completely stopped matching.Also: the thing career coaches often don't say, why being on the ground changes everything, and why your first move doesn't have to be your forever move.This is not a pep talk. It's a real conversation with someone who has been doing everything right and deserves an honest answer about why it might not be working.
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  Schools Abroad: What I Wish Someone Had Told Me Before We Moved 27.04.2026 19min

  My daughter has been in schools in two countries across three different systems — a bilingual Swedish-German private school in Vienna, a German-English bilingual private school in Switzerland, and next year the local Swiss public school. Every single one of those decisions was made deliberately, for specific reasons, with real trade-offs.This week I'm talking about what I actually learned navigating school systems abroad — the real cost of international school versus local school, what the Swiss tracking system at grade six means and why it matters more than most expat content will tell you, and the questions you actually need to ask about your destination's school system before you move.Also: what gifted identification in Austria taught us about Swiss education policy, and why we're moving our daughter to local school before sixth grade on purpose.
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  Every Person You'll Tell About Moving Abroad (And How to Survive Them) 20.04.2026 20min

  You have the plan. You have the country, the visa, the number, the Tuesday Test results. You know this works.Now you have to tell people.This week I'm walking through every type of person you're going to tell about your move abroad — the Catastrophizer, the Underminer, the one who makes it about themselves, the Unsolicited Expert, and the rare and precious Quiet Supportive One — and exactly how to handle each of them without abandoning your plan or your sanity.Also: the partner conversation, the people who won't come around, and what you actually don't owe anyone an explanation for.Spoiler: it's more than you think.Conversation starters
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  The Moving Abroad Reality Check Nobody Gives You (But Should) 13.04.2026 17min

  You picked a country. Amazing. Now let's find out if it actually works.Not the Instagram version — anyone can imagine themselves somewhere beautiful on a Saturday with a glass of wine and nowhere to be. The Tuesday version. The one where you need to buy toilet paper and find a dentist and figure out whether your visa actually works and whether you can afford to live there on your actual budget.This week I'm walking you through the Tuesday Test — five questions that tell you whether your country works for your real life or whether you need to adjust one thing before you go any further.Spoiler: it's almost always just one thing. And one thing is completely fixable.AbroadAF app
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  You're Overcomplicating Moving Abroad. Here's Proof. 06.04.2026 16min

  Last week I made you cry. This week I'm giving you a break.No frameworks, no heavy stuff, no seventeen-step process. Just the honest, slightly unhinged truth about why you're overcomplicating this — and the only three things you actually need right now to move this whole situation forward.Spoiler: it's not a perfect plan. It's not a fully funded savings account. It's not a remote job and a signed lease and a detailed spreadsheet.It's a country, a visa lane, and your actual number. That's it. We're covering all three and then I'm sending you away with exactly one thing to do this week.You've got this. I promise you've got this. Now stop researching and let's actually move.
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  The Real Cost of Moving Abroad — And Why It's Still Worth It 30.03.2026 21min

  I found out I had breast cancer at thirty years old. That's the real reason I moved abroad — not the job offer, not the adventure. The diagnosis that made one day stop being an option.This week I'm telling you the actual story. The cancer. The friends I lost. My best friend of twenty years I haven't spoken to in eleven. The moment every single time I say goodbye to my mom at the airport. The weight of being far from home when things go wrong.And then I'm telling you why I'd do it again. Every single time.This one is for the person who is scared and wanting out and feeling guilty about both. You're not crazy. You're not ungrateful. You're paying attention. And the life you want is more buildable than you think.
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  How Much Do I Actually Need to Move Abroad? Hint... It's not $20K. 23.03.2026 18min

  Everyone on the internet has an opinion about how much money you need to move abroad. Most of them are wrong — or at least, wrong for you.This week I'm giving you a simple formula to calculate your actual savings target based on your specific situation: where you're going, which visa you're using, and how long you need to float yourself before income kicks in. Because your number is built from those things — not from a Reddit thread and not from what someone else paid to move to Barcelona in 2019.I'm also getting into why the visa you choose changes everything about what you need financially — and how picking the right pathway for where you actually are right now might make this possible a lot sooner than you think.This is the last money episode. We're closing this chapter with a real number, a real timeline, and zero excuses.
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  Moving Abroad on a Budget: How to Make Trade-Offs without a Shame Spiral 16.03.2026 18min

  Moving abroad means making trade-offs. Every single person who has done it has had to make them — there is no version of this where you don't. The goal isn't to avoid them. It's to make them on purpose instead of by accident, because the accidental ones are the ones you end up resenting.This week I'm breaking down the two trade-offs that trip people up the most — do you move now with less money or wait and keep saving, and do you ship your stuff or sell it all and start fresh. I'm also getting into how to stop treating every financial decision like a test of how serious you actually are about this move.Spoiler: it's not. It's just math with feelings stapled to it.Free download: 10 Money Hacks for Your Move AbroadInstagram: @iammistelle