Trauma Demystified

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  The Apparently Normal Part That Masks Your Pain 29.07.2026 8min

  Have you ever felt like there are different versions of yourself — one that functions, gets things done, keeps moving, and something else underneath that occasionally breaks through? This episode looks at structural dissociation: how the brain's natural left/right split gets used, under chronic childhood trauma, to help a child survive. One part carries on — the "apparently normal" part. The other parts hold what was too much to process at the time, and get activated when something in the pre...
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  You're Not Crazy, You Have Parts: A Guide to Parts After Childhood Trauma 02.07.2026 9min

  Have you ever reacted in a way that didn't feel like you? Stayed in a situation you knew wasn't good for you — and couldn't make yourself leave? There's a reason for that. And it has nothing to do with being broken. In this episode of Trauma Demystified, I introduce parts work for adults healing childhood trauma — what parts are, why they develop, and what it actually looks like to build a relationship with them. Watch on youtube: https://youtu.be/IJAERoJMj18 I share the coaching session that...
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  Why Boundary Advice Doesn't Work After Childhood Trauma (And What Actually Does) 21.02.2026 30min

  Have you ever read about healthy boundaries but had no idea how to actually get there — or tried to set one and felt your whole system shut down? In this episode I explore what most boundary advice misses: the deeper inner process that makes boundaries possible after childhood trauma. This isn't about scripts and tips — it's about the healing work that has to come first. For adults healing from childhood trauma, abuse, or dysfunctional family dynamics who are ready to do the inner work of rec...
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  When the Past Shows Up: Understanding Childhood Trauma Triggers as an Adult 27.10.2025 39min

  Have you ever had a reaction that felt way bigger than the situation? In this episode I break down what childhood trauma triggers in adulthood really are — and why I prefer calling them "activated parts." We explore why activation is usually about both the past and something real happening in the present. For adults healing from childhood trauma who are ready to hold complexity and trust themselves. Free guide: It's Not a Bad Habit — exploring the connection between your patterns and your chi...
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  Healing Relational Trauma: What No One Tells You 30.07.2025 29min

  What if healing from relational trauma doesn't guarantee the love and outcomes you've been working toward? In this episode, I share the truths about relational trauma recovery that no one wants to talk about — the messy, complicated realities that don't fit into simple healing narratives. For adults tired of oversimplified healing stories and ready for honest conversations about what recovery actually looks like. Free guide: It's Not a Bad Habit — exploring the connection between your pattern...
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  How to Create Safety After Childhood Trauma 14.05.2025 35min

  What does safety actually mean after childhood trauma? If you've experienced abuse, neglect, or relational trauma, feeling safe — especially in relationships — can be deeply unfamiliar. In this episode I break down what safety actually looks like across different dimensions of your life and share practical strategies for building it in your body, relationships, and daily life. For adults healing from childhood, complex, or relational trauma who struggle to feel safe in themselves and want pra...
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  How To Recover From Complex Trauma 28.03.2025 37min

  What makes complex trauma different from single-incident trauma—and why does recovery require a different approach? In this episode, I break down the nature of complex trauma, explore its lasting impacts on your nervous system and relationships, and share the experiential, holistic healing approaches that actually work for deep, lasting transformation. What You'll Learn The key difference between single-incident trauma and complex trauma—and why understanding this matters for your recoveryCom...
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  Five Practical Trauma Recovery Tools for Everyday Healing 13.01.2025 32min

  What if you could create an inner safe space, contain overwhelming memories, and rewire your brain's response to trauma—all through practical, accessible techniques? In this episode, I share five trauma counselling techniques I regularly use with clients that leverage neuroplasticity to support real, lasting healing. What You'll Learn How to create an inner safe space that you can return to whenever you feel anxious or overwhelmedA powerful technique for containing painful memories so you can...
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  How to Heal from Childhood Abuse as an Adult 08.12.2024 37min

  How do you heal from childhood abuse as an adult—especially when the effects have shaped your relationships, self-worth, and sense of safety? In this episode, I break down the different forms of childhood abuse and neglect, explore their lasting impacts, and share practical steps and healing approaches that can help you reclaim your life. What You'll Learn The difference between childhood abuse and neglect—and why both can profoundly shape your developmentHow emotional abuse, physical abuse, ...
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  Thinking About EMDR? Here's What I Tell My Clients Before We Start 21.10.2024 28min

  Is EMDR a quick fix for trauma, or does it require more preparation than you think? In this episode, I break down what EMDR therapy actually is, walk you through all eight phases of the treatment process, and address common misconceptions. So you know what to expect if you are considering EMDR for your healing journey. What You'll Learn What EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is and how bilateral stimulation helps integrate traumatic experiencesWho can benefit from EMDR: su...
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  Polyvagal Theory for Trauma 22.08.2024 33min

  Why does your body respond with freeze, fight, or flight in situations that don't seem threatening—and how can you shift back to safety and connection? In this episode, I break down Polyvagal theory, explain how your autonomic nervous system shapes your experience of trauma, and share practical tools to befriend your nervous system and expand your capacity for healing. What You'll Learn What Polyvagal theory is and how the vagus nerve regulates your responses to stress and safetyThe three ke...
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  Parts Work Therapy: How it Can Help You Heal Trauma 29.06.2024 32min

  What if the different emotions, roles, and ages you experience aren't signs of dysfunction—but intelligent protective responses to trauma? In this episode, I introduce parts work therapy, explain the theory of structural dissociation, and share practical ways to reconnect with your fragmented parts so you can move toward inner harmony, emotional balance, and wholeness. What You'll Learn What parts work therapy is—and how it differs across modalities like Internal Family Systems (IFS), inner c...
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  What are best practices for trauma treatment? 23.04.2024 29min

  Why doesn't traditional talk therapy work for trauma—and what actually does? In this episode, I break down the most effective, evidence-based approaches for trauma recovery, explain why bottom-up methods are often more powerful than top-down approaches, and help you understand what to look for when choosing trauma counselling that fits your unique needs. What You'll Learn Why traditional talk therapy isn't effective for trauma—and the six key reasons it falls shortThe difference between top-d...
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  Finding the right trauma counsellor 08.02.2024 36min

  How do you find a trauma counsellor who actually understands trauma—and won't cause more harm than healing? In this episode, I share my own painful experiences with unhelpful therapists, break down the essential traits of effective trauma counselling, and give you nine critical questions to ask before choosing a counsellor so you can find the right support for your unique healing journey. What You'll Learn The five essential traits of a good trauma counsellor: trauma-informed practice, specia...
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  Thriving after Trauma: Goals for Recovery 28.12.2023 40min

  Do you know what you're supposed to be healing toward — or does recovery feel like a vague, moving target? In this episode I break down what goals for trauma recovery actually look like, why they depend entirely on what happened to you, and what meaningful progress means for each category of traumatic experience. I also share why the approach that works for someone processing a single event can actively get in the way for someone who grew up in an abusive home — and what the difference means ...
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  Understanding the Window of Tolerance: Re-balancing a Dysregulated Nervous System 29.10.2023 32min

  Do you swing between feeling completely overwhelmed and feeling nothing at all — and have no idea what to do with either state? In this episode I break down what the window of tolerance actually is, how to use it in trauma recovery, why dysregulation has a direction that determines everything about what your nervous system needs, and what to do differently depending on which way you've gone. I also share why applying a calming strategy when you're shut down — or a stimulating one when you're ...
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  You're Not Broken: Understanding Trauma and Recovery 03.09.2023 31min

  What is trauma—and how do you know if you've experienced it? In this first episode of Trauma Demystified, I introduce the podcast, share my own story of healing from childhood violence, and break down what trauma actually is, the different categories it falls into, common symptoms, and what recovery can look like when you're ready to begin your journey. What You'll Learn What trauma actually is: an experience that overwhelms your nervous system and blocks your capacity to integrate it emotion...