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  How To Not Drink: Dealing With Peer Pressure 27.09.2026 7min

  Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28YAs soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  This Is Not Confidence 27.09.2026 24min

  The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:https://bit.ly/KevVsClavMost people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity.You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it.Timestamps:0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You"6:33 The Characters We All Play7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First8:28 Nothing Left To Protect10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular16:29 Try This YourselfSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Stop Doing This When You Speak 27.09.2026 7min

  Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University:https://bit.ly/026-25There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust.0:00 - Intro 0:16 - Context0:41 - His voice is constricted1:47 - What you should do instead 2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted 4:35 - Want more tips like this?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Trying to Get Respect Doesn’t Work, This Does 27.09.2026 16min

  The fastest way I know to build real confidence and strong social skills:https://bit.ly/005-26Most people lose respect in ways they don’t even notice. They try too hard to look confident, dominate conversations, or prove their worth, but those moves usually backfire.In this video, you’ll learn the respect killing habits that make people take you less seriously, how Tommy Shelby avoids them, and how to build real self-respect so you can stay calm under pressure, stop chasing approval, and become someone people naturally respect.0:00 - Intro0:20 - The 3 respect killing moves0:40 - Respect killer #11:22 - The body language that earns respect2:07 - Why fake confidence backfires2:51 - Respect killer #23:40 - How Tommy Shelby stays calm4:01 - The 3 to 5 second pause5:03 - The Joffrey Rule5:51 - Respect Killer #36:51 - How to handle underhanded comments7:31 - When to walk away8:30 - The deeper reason people lose respect9:41 - How to build self-respect11:17 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: [http://www.charismaoncommand.com](http://www.charismaoncommand.com)Facebook: [http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand](http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand)Instagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Joe CordleEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How Charles Manson Controlled His Followers (Toxic Partners Do This Too) 27.09.2026 16min

  The best way I know to quickly improve your confidence: https://bit.ly/CU-2525It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me.That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too. 0:00 - Intro1:06 - They impersonate the family unit3:02 - They isolate you from your real family unit4:31 - They twist language to disguise what's happening5:52 - They demonize asking questions7:24 - They reward blind obedience9:21 - They use fake reciprocitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  The “Mature” Habit That Quietly Destroys Relationships 27.09.2026 14min

  Join the email list. Get your discount for the Art of Accomplishment Connection Course: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/aoa-discountIn a recent interview, Anthony Hopkins is asked about his estranged daughter. At first, he avoids the question. Then he gives an answer that reveals far more than he likely intends.The language he uses shuts down vulnerability and blocks connection. This video breaks down why those kinds of phrases feel protective in the moment, and why they quietly damage the relationships you care about most.0:00 - Intro0:32 - Shut down phrases1:15 - The real problem 2:21 - The staircase of vulnerability 3:49 - Go First4:04 - Show Care5:04 - Just Listen5:27 - Acknowledge Your Part6:03 - Share Your Story7:23 - Stop Treating Yourself HarshlyConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma 27.09.2026 5min

  Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meethttps://goo.gl/janZ3FDaily Tip: What your Body Language says about your CharismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Have Fun Without Drinking 27.09.2026 7min

  "How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?"https://goo.gl/0uDf6EIt can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is. People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill. That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink.So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't. Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?" Hopefully these musings help :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups 27.09.2026 13min

  Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EsiXrrWill Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma. Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in. You might find it hard to hold people's attention. This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower.The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups. And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example. He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation. Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  4 Simple Questions To Find Your Passion 27.09.2026 8min

  Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/VTGFwiHow To Find Your PassionPeople often write me asking what they should do with their lives. They lack a sense of purpose. They have this sense that they should "follow their passion" but they don't really know what it means. Plus half the world is telling them that following a passion is stupid or misinformed. They encourage them to develop the skills they are already good at and that society values. That way they can get a good job and get paid.I'm all for developing skills that can land you gainful employment. But as to sticking to making that your sole focus? Screw that. And as for sticking only to what you're already good at? Screw that too. Start with what excites you. If you care enough, you'll put in the work to become fantastic in that field. And the way the world is going, you can get paid for most anything (hell, I make money talking about how celebrities exude charisma!) This video answers the question "How do I find my passion?" It is there is to help you overcome some of the hidden doubts you might have. The things that might be holding you back from discovering what your passion really is and committing to developing it. Ask yourself these 4 questions and write down the answers. Then pick the common thread and do it more. You'll be a happier person for it, and you might just get a chance to earn a living doing something you love.1. What makes you lose track of time?2. What do you spend money to do?3. Where do you fear judgment?4. What makes your heart race?Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  The Podcaster's Secret To Instant Connection 27.09.2026 16min

  Level up your charisma in the fastest way possible: https://bit.ly/CU-2425For the first time in history we have professional conversation havers - they’re called podcasters. And one of the most overlooked social skills that make them successful - is the ability to connect with anyone, even when they have nothing in common.So in this video, I’ll show you 6 techniques - that the best conversationalists use, and that you can use today - to connect with anyone and begin a more meaningful relationship.0:00 - Intro0:29 - #1: Let them know this2:03 - #2: Navigate the talk towards...3:49 - #3: Parroting4:34 - #4: Advocate for things people...6:32 - #5: Pause and take a moment7:29 - #6: Go there first9:06 - A challenge for you9:49 - The fastest way to level up your charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  4 Body Language Habits That Put You In The Top 1% 27.09.2026 9min

  The fastest way to level up your confidence and charisma: http://bit.ly/3J5ixuiWhen it comes to having attractive, captivating body language there’s only 4 things you need to know - and if you do them, these 4 will immediately take you into the top 1% of communicators. 0:00 - Intro0:11 - Reveal your vitals2:01 - Verbally own your experience 3:01 - Develop strong eye contact 4:55 - Practice charisma as an opportunity to feel good Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Make A Disrespectful Person Look Insecure For Insulting You 27.09.2026 13min

  Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbwIYhHow To Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk, Robert Downey Junior StyleWe all have had those situations in life where we KNOW someone is trying to get to us. Maybe they keep asking embarrassing questions. Maybe they put us down with backhandedly. We know they are attacking us passive aggressively, but it feels like there is nothing we can do about it. Many of us don't know how to handle this kind of conflict.In this interview with Robert Downey Junior, Krishnan Guru-Murthy continually asks about his history with drugs and jail. In the context of the interview, the questions are out of line, yet Guru-Murthy continues to probe. This video will show you how Robert Downey Junior handled the situation and the exact steps that you can take to deal with these kinds of passive aggressive attacks. The good news is that you don't have to be a jerk, nor do you have to be a total door mat. You can politely be assertive and then exit the conversation by following the 5 steps.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Give Advice That People Actually Listen To 27.09.2026 16min

  A 'Trick' That Gives You INSANE Confidence: https://bit.ly/2DxyfvUElliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker. He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives. And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time. Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off.We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice. Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded. We can change that. By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give. So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change.Link to confidence tip: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDLink to Elliott Hulse's final video in breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xgjb8spwewSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  The Recurring Dream You've Been Having Is Trying To Tell You Something 27.09.2026 18min

  Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions.In this video, I explain why this is a mistake.You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions.0:00 - Intro1:49 - Carl Jung2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg 9:44 - Step 1 10:01 - Step 210:28 - Step 311:08 - Step 4Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  The 3 Traits That Make You Impossible to Ignore 27.09.2026 19min

  Build the confidence and charisma to express yourself authentically:👉 https://bit.ly/015-26-MamdaniZohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support.In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality.0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-ExpressionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower 27.09.2026 10min

  How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpowerhttps://goo.gl/rsuAzZEveryone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement. But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change. We find excuses. We don't follow through.This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed. It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be.When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier. Enjoy :-)Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeisterhttp://amzn.to/1Ocr1JeJoin the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: http://www.charismaoncommand.comSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  The One Thing That Saved James Gunn’s Career 27.09.2026 9min

  Learn the social skills to build powerful connections: https://bit.ly/CU-2225When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback.0:00 - Intro0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment1:48 - Wait a second...3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved4:03 - A Practical Takeaway5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Wharton Business School: Entrepreneurship Speech (former private equity Associate) 27.09.2026 24min

  Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship. It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-)Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTDIf just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  Why People Tell Him Things They’ve Never Said Before 27.09.2026 14min

  The fastest way to learn to express yourself confidently: https://bit.ly/028-25Diary Of A CEO Podcast: @TheDiaryOfACEO My Diary Of A CEO Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIMMost people think charisma is about how you talk. But the real superpower lies in how you listen.In this video, we break down the subtle listening habits that make Steven Bartlett one of the most captivating conversationalists alive. You’ll learn how to hold silence, guide emotion, and create moments where people feel seen in ways they rarely do.0:00 - Intro1:14 - #1: Steven almost never interrupts3:52 - #2: Offer the least invasive support possible7:00 - #3: Offer an empathetic mirror8:51 - #4: Ask chunky questions9:32 - #5: Presence matters more than techniqueSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices