If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes

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• Lil Rel Howery Knows You Have To Define Your Own Success. 21.07.2026 52min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Lil Rel Howery for an inspiring conversation about building a lasting career in entertainment through persistence, purpose, and creative evolution. Rel reflects on the moment he realized he'd truly "made it" in film and television [00:46], then looks back to the high school performance that first showed him he could win over even the toughest audiences [02:04]. He shares how directing became part of his journey after encouragement from Bobcat Goldthwait [03:29], the lessons he learned making his directorial debut [06:19], why collaborating closely with every department shaped the experience, and how casting friends and fellow comedians—including support from Tiffany Haddish—helped bring his vision to life [07:56]. The conversation also explores his love of horror-comedy [11:00], how comedy continues to evolve alongside audiences [13:46], and the way grief and personal experiences have informed both his work and perspective [16:47]. Rel also discusses the importance of inspiring the next generation to understand the many career paths available in entertainment [19:10], the values instilled by his parents through community service and mentorship [22:46], and the filmmakers who inspired his own creative ambitions, from Steven Spielberg [27:08] to the lessons he drew from Sylvester Stallone and Rocky [29:04]. He explains why studying the business has been just as important as mastering the craft [30:37], the unique challenge of acting while directing [32:34], and how he now defines success through personal milestones like Get Out and his Chicago Theatre special [33:54] [36:36]. Closing on a reflective note, Rel shares how he stays grounded and present [43:53], the wisdom and healing that have shaped this stage of his life [47:07], and previews his new horror-comedy Haunted Heist, arriving in theaters on July 24 [50:50].  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Lil Rel Howell: @comedianlilrel Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Amber Knows She's Pregnant 14.07.2026 24min

  In this special episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes shares the biggest personal announcement of her life—she's expecting her first child. Amber opens the episode with her exciting pregnancy reveal [00:00], explains why she waited to share the news publicly [01:59], and reflects on manifesting the space to embrace motherhood through maternity leave [03:52]. She also recounts the encouraging conversation in Las Vegas that shifted her mindset [05:22], the emotional moment she took the pregnancy test [06:41], and the unforgettable surprise of telling Conor they were expecting [08:59]. Amber candidly discusses keeping the pregnancy private [11:16], navigating first-trimester exhaustion [11:50], and adjusting to new routines centered around nutrition, hydration, and prenatal care [14:04]. As the journey continues, Amber shares the emotional experience of telling family at 12 weeks [17:32], explains why she chose to skip a traditional gender reveal [19:13], and instead joyfully reveals the gender on the show [19:54]. Looking ahead, she invites listeners to be part of this next chapter [21:02], laughs about baby names and maternity fashion [23:17], and closes with heartfelt reflections on gratitude, growth, and the life-changing adventure of becoming a mother [24:02]. Filled with vulnerability, excitement, and optimism, this episode marks the beginning of a deeply personal new season and celebrates the power of embracing life's biggest milestones. Ask or share with Amber: withambergrimes@gmail.com  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Candiace Dillard Bassett Knows IVF and Family Planning 07.07.2026 58min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Candiace Dillard Bassett for a candid conversation about fertility, IVF, and the deeply personal journey to intentional motherhood. Candiace shares why family planning became a priority [00:00], walks through the beginning of her IVF experience [03:00], and breaks down the importance of genetic testing [06:10] and understanding the IVF process [09:09]. She opens up about navigating hormonal treatments [12:01], overcoming physical and emotional challenges throughout the process [14:54], the realities of egg retrieval [18:11], and processing gender expectations and disappointment [21:01] while learning to trust her own path. Candiace also reflects on the emotional highs and lows of IVF [23:49] and how the experience ultimately reshaped her perspective on motherhood [27:12]. The conversation continues with an honest look at emotional resilience during fertility treatments [32:32], why Candiace chose to publicly share her story to help others [35:54], and the importance of thoroughly researching fertility options [37:50]. Amber and Candiace also discuss the unique healthcare challenges Black women face [40:37], advocating for yourself in medical settings and interracial relationships [43:44], the invaluable role of doulas during childbirth [47:34], and Candiace's labor and delivery experience [50:29]. The episode closes with reflections on balancing music and personal growth [53:34] and how motherhood has transformed her life, purpose, and identity [56:59]. Blending vulnerability, education, and empowerment, this episode offers an insightful guide for anyone navigating fertility, reproductive health, and the evolving journey of motherhood. Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Candiace Dillard Bassett: @therealcandiace Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Shayla Cowan Knows How To Land The Plane 30.06.2026 56min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with award-winning producer and Collective Edge President Shayla Cowan for an insightful conversation about leadership, career evolution, and building a lasting legacy in entertainment. At (00:30), Shayla is introduced, followed by a look at how she and Amber first connected at (01:12). By 04:15, Shayla shares why she made the move from Los Angeles to New York, and at 06:18, she reflects on her 15-year journey in the industry. At (09:02), she breaks down her rise from executive assistant to manager, including a memorable “sunglasses interview” story at (14:03) that highlights her boldness and work ethic (17:00). The conversation continues with insights on leading as the boss (21:11), balancing comfort and creativity (23:48), and planning major career moves (25:33), all while navigating imposter syndrome (28:16). The episode also dives into the leadership skills that define successful executives, including setting boundaries and leading with empathy. Shayla shares how she manages stress through baking (30:10), self-talk and music (30:34), and offers strategies for handling difficult people (31:36), including her “24-hour rule” (34:50) and approach to disarming tense situations (36:57). She recounts powerful industry moments like the Pulled Up Agency story (38:47), explores the balance between ego and leadership (43:42), and walks through a high-pressure concert contract crunch (46:58). The conversation wraps with lessons on maintaining boundaries and off-hours (49:05), leaving your light on for opportunity (50:55), and putting actionable steps together (52:24), before closing with key takeaways and gratitude at (54:27). Through candid storytelling and practical advice, Shayla offers invaluable lessons on executive leadership, personal growth, resilience, and building influence without sacrificing authenticity. Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Shayla Cowman: @shayla_pc Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Justin Tranter Knows It’s Never Too Late To Pivot 23.06.2026 54min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Justin Tranter for a candid conversation about career reinvention, creativity, and finding success on your own terms. Justin reflects on the journey from rock star to hit songwriter [00:00], sharing how understanding the balance between artistry and industry structure [11:20] ultimately led to a major career pivot [20:47]. Justin opens up about recognizing when change is necessary, embracing new opportunities, and discovering the joy of writing songs for other artists [25:52]. The conversation offers valuable insight into navigating the music business while remaining authentic, adaptable, and committed to personal growth. Amber and Justin also explore the realities of sustaining a creative career, discussing the songwriter's journey [27:51], setting meaningful and achievable goals [31:53], and the importance of self-awareness in identifying strengths and limitations [36:25]. Justin shares lessons on pivoting throughout different stages of life and career [39:49], challenges common misconceptions about fame and success [45:01], and explains why embracing both strengths and weaknesses is essential for long-term fulfillment [51:06]. Packed with wisdom for creatives, entrepreneurs, and anyone facing a crossroads, this episode is a masterclass in evolution, resilience, and trusting the path forward.  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Justin Tranter: @tranterjustin Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Eric Bellinger Knows Men Cry Too 16.06.2026 55min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Eric Bellinger for a powerful conversation about emotional safety, vulnerability, and the foundations of healthy relationships. Eric reflects on how grief shaped his emotional journey [03:04], the impact of family dynamics on the way he learned to express feelings [05:58], and the importance of setting relationship standards rooted in trust and communication [09:03] [11:54]. The discussion also explores masculinity and emotional openness [15:13], the role of compromise in long-term partnerships [17:59], and how growth and change can strengthen relationships over time [20:54]. The conversation deepens into the transformative power of vulnerability [24:02] [27:58], navigating emotional safety and trust [30:45], and how grief can become a catalyst for personal growth [32:56]. Eric shares how music became an outlet for expressing emotions [35:21], the role therapy played in his self-awareness journey [39:12], and how fatherhood reshaped his understanding of masculinity [41:29]. Through honest reflections on emotional awareness, reciprocity, and supporting loved ones [48:38] [50:05], Eric offers valuable insight into building stronger relationships, embracing vulnerability, and celebrating fatherhood through both life and music [51:28].  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Eric Bellinger: @ericbellinger Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Amber Knows Emotions Are Temporary But Decisions Are Permanent 09.06.2026 38min

  In this deeply personal episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes reflects on the life lessons hidden within her tattoos, using each piece of ink as a marker of growth, grief, love, and self-discovery. From navigating the weight of loss and the emotions that inspired early tattoo decisions [02:54] to lessons learned from impulsive choices in relationships [05:50], Amber explores how significant moments have shaped her perspective over time. She also discusses the illusion of covering up pain rather than addressing it [09:09], the meaning behind friendship tattoos and evolving relationships [11:58], and the temporary nature of trends and external validation [14:53]. The conversation expands into the role boredom can play in poor decision-making [18:12], the story behind her final tattoo and the wisdom passed down from her parents [21:09], and the importance of embracing mistakes as part of the human experience [24:01]. Through vulnerability, humor, and self-reflection, Amber shares valuable insights on personal growth, self-awareness, and the lessons that come from living, learning, and trusting the journey. This episode serves as a reminder that every scar, story, and mistake can become a meaningful part of who we are. Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Ravie B Knows Your 30's Are The Best Thing That Will Ever Happen To You 02.06.2026 1t 1min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Raven B. Varona for an honest conversation about self-discovery, healing, and navigating the transition from your 20s into your 30s. Together, they reflect on embracing change and personal evolution [00:00], the lessons, regrets, and realizations that shape adulthood [02:56], and the importance of asking deeper questions about purpose and fulfillment [05:48]. The discussion explores relationships and expectations [09:06], finding your voice and trusting yourself [14:50], and how loss can become a catalyst for growth and transformation [18:05]. They also highlight the value of community [21:00] and the need to redefine success and self-worth beyond external validation [23:49]. The conversation expands into purpose, creativity, and the lifelong journey of becoming your most authentic self. Raven opens up about finding meaning amid chaos [31:32], evolving her sense of purpose through self-discovery [34:07], and recognizing patterns of co-dependency while learning to make decisions with confidence [38:19]. She also discusses the role of therapy and self-reflection [40:41], the power of play and creativity in adulthood [43:14], and the importance of managing inner dialogue and self-talk [51:51]. Through vulnerability and insight, this episode offers a powerful perspective on personal growth, emotional wellness, and creating a life that aligns with who you truly are.  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Ravie B: @ravieb Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Dr. Siri Knows Good Therapy Ends 26.05.2026 1t 3min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Dr. Siri Sat Nam Singh for a powerful conversation about therapy, emotional healing, and personal transformation. Together, they unpack the purpose of therapy [00:00], the journey of finding the right therapist [03:06], and the idea that therapy can evolve or even come to an end as growth occurs [06:02]. Dr. Siri also explores the importance of empathy and authentic connection within the therapeutic process [08:51], while discussing emotional growth through reframing perspectives [11:48], balancing the heart and mind [14:55], and understanding gender dynamics in healing spaces [18:12]. The conversation expands into intuition, relationships, and emotional expression, highlighting the balance between masculine and feminine energies [31:36] [35:01] and the importance of communication and vulnerability in healthy connections [39:50] [43:39] [48:58]. Dr. Siri also reflects on navigating personal change and growth [55:01] while addressing the future of therapy in an increasingly technology-driven world [01:01:00]. Blending mental health insight with spiritual wisdom, this episode offers a thoughtful guide for anyone seeking deeper healing, stronger relationships, and a more intentional connection to themselves.  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Dr. Siri: @drsirinow Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite Books  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• If You Knew Better: Jason Lee Knows the Truth About Influence and Fame 23.05.2026 57min

  The Black Effect Presents... If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes! In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Jason Lee, founder of Hollywood Unlocked, for an honest conversation about personal growth, accountability, and evolving beyond public perception. Jason reflects on his journey from controversy to clarity, discussing the impact of reality TV on identity [09:09], the challenges of navigating public criticism [05:47], and how strategic chaos helped shape his business success [11:47]. He also opens up about ownership, influence, and authenticity [15:03] [17:57], while sharing insights on therapy, sobriety, and learning to regain control over his personal life [20:49]. The conversation deepens into responsibility, faith, and the importance of using influence with intention. Jason discusses relationships, accountability, and the illusion of control [29:09] [33:47], while emphasizing how resilience, purposeful partnerships, and self-awareness have transformed his outlook [37:36] [45:44]. From building a media empire to inspiring the next generation [50:00], this episode explores the balance between ambition and healing, offering a powerful perspective on growth, redemption, and becoming more intentional in both business and life.  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Jason Lee:  @theonlyjasonlee  @hollywoodunlocked Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite Books  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Estelle Knows Healing Starts With Surrender and Release 19.05.2026 1t 18min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Estelle for a heartfelt conversation about healing, authenticity, and personal transformation. Estelle reflects on her journey of self-discovery and emotional growth [05:07], opening up about navigating family dynamics [09:51], embracing difficult but necessary conversations [19:56], and learning to honor her own unique path [25:07]. The discussion explores the importance of acceptance and surrender in the healing process [30:12], while highlighting how vulnerability and self-awareness can create space for deeper peace and personal evolution [35:03]. The conversation expands into motherhood, timing, and the lessons that come with navigating life’s uncertainties [39:05] [42:43]. Estelle shares insight into trusting divine timing when making life choices [47:18], the power of perspective in shaping personal growth [53:06], and the emotional process of starting over while reconnecting with her roots [01:00:14] [01:07:06]. Through honesty, reflection, and wisdom, this episode offers a powerful perspective on healing, identity, and embracing the freedom that comes from becoming your most authentic self.  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Estelle: @estelledarlings Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite Books  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Jozzy Knows Sexuality Is Still Taboo 05.05.2026 1t 10min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Jozzy for a powerful conversation on authenticity, self-expression, and navigating identity in the music industry. From embracing her true self [00:00] [03:12] to unpacking the journey of self-discovery and breaking free from societal expectations [06:02] [08:52], Jozzy shares how confidence and vulnerability have shaped her path. She also speaks on trailblazing within the industry [12:11], maintaining creative control [15:07], and challenging the impact of the male gaze on women and artists [20:51], while emphasizing the importance of building a supportive and inclusive community [24:03]. The conversation expands into relationships, emotional intelligence, and personal growth, highlighting the need for intentionality and self-awareness in romantic connections [17:58] [41:02]. Jozzy reflects on confidence as a continuous practice [26:54] [35:54], while encouraging others to embrace their journey and evolve unapologetically [48:31]. Closing with a message on striving to be your best self—not just for personal success but to inspire others [57:46]—this episode offers a compelling perspective on authenticity, growth, and carving your own lane in life and career.  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Jozzy. on Instagram: @jozzy Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Child Knows the Business of Grief 28.04.2026 52min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with award-winning director Child for a deeply personal conversation on grief, loss, and the journey toward healing. From the immediate shock of losing loved ones [00:00] [03:00] to the lasting emotional weight grief places on daily life [06:10] [09:00], they open up about the full reality of loss — not just the heartbreak, but the overwhelming responsibilities that follow: legal battles, funeral planning, managing estates, and handling the countless technical demands that arrive precisely when you're least equipped to face them.  The conversation explores the importance of therapy [11:54] and processing emotions in real time, alongside the hard lessons of navigating life after loss [14:46] [18:07] —The discussion then shifts to mental health, relationships, and personal growth — from checking in on loved ones who appear strong [25:36], to reordering priorities away from career and toward meaningful connection [28:02], embracing boundaries [29:30], and navigating identity through life's transitions [30:59] [32:28]. They close by exploring how intentional environments foster healing [36:40] and why honest conversations about legacy and preparing for loss — before it happens — matter more than most people realize [41:14].  Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Child. on Instagram: @childartiste Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Nineteen85 Knows the Difference Between Parenting and Controlling 21.04.2026 1t 4min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Grammy-nominated producer Paul Jefferies aka Nineteen85 (of DVSN) for a powerful conversation on fatherhood, parenting, and personal growth. Reflecting on his journey as a young and single dad, Paul opens up about navigating parental expectations [01:20], embracing the idea of disappointing your parents as a path to self-discovery [02:44] [06:24], and unpacking generational differences in parenting styles [10:22]. This episode dives into how modern parents can create space for growth, grace, and understanding [21:28] [25:08]. Paul shares honest insights on navigating early parenthood [33:32], breaking generational cycles [49:24], and the role of therapy in personal growth [55:29], while emphasizing the importance of empowering children to find and use their voices [01:00:43]. This episode offers real-life perspective and actionable wisdom for anyone looking to raise healthier families and become a better version of themselves. Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Nineteen85 on Instagram: @nineteen85 Get Amber's newsletter on Substack Watch this episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET  Follow Amber's Book Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch  Read Amber's Favorite BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Amber Knows You Forgot Who You Really Are 14.04.2026 25min

  In this solo episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes dives deep into self-discovery, identity, and personal growth (00:00), exploring what it means to reconnect with your true self after years of societal pressure and expectations. She reflects on how life experiences, setbacks, and external influences can reshape identity, often leading people to lose touch with their passions, creativity, and purpose (05:27). Through honest insight, Amber highlights the emotional weight of that disconnect and the importance of recognizing it as part of the journey (12:22). Amber encourages listeners to embrace authenticity, reclaim their voice, and rediscover what genuinely brings them joy (21:52), emphasizing that today’s world allows for more freedom to evolve and live multifaceted lives. With practical reflection and empowering perspective, the episode serves as a reminder that growth requires courage, self-awareness, and a willingness to shed outdated versions of yourself in order to step fully into who you’re meant to be.  Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Durand Bernarr Knows Friendship Break Ups 07.04.2026 1t 9min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Grammy-winning artist Durand Bernarr for a heartfelt conversation about adult relationships, friendship dynamics, and personal growth. Durand opens up about the emotional challenges of friendship breakups, emphasizing the importance of accountability, communication, and honesty in maintaining meaningful connections. Together, they explore how life experiences shape the way we show up in relationships and why being clear about your needs is essential for long-term emotional health. The conversation also dives into self-discovery, evolving friendships, and the difference between genuine support and surface-level connections, highlighting the distinction between real friends and fans. Amber and Duran discuss how change is inevitable and how letting go of certain relationships can be a necessary step toward growth. With vulnerability and insight, the episode encourages listeners to prioritize authentic relationships, practice emotional awareness, and embrace personal evolution. Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• BurnedBeauty2018 Knows Narcissistic Abuse 31.03.2026 1t 18min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with empowerment advocate Tonya Renee Meisenbach (Burned Beauty 2018) for a powerful conversation about narcissistic abuse, toxic relationships, and the journey to healing. Tanya shares the deeply personal story of being set on fire by her husband and unpacks the 15 years of emotional abuse she endured. Tanya breaks down the warning signs, red flags, and psychological impact that often go unnoticed. Through her experience, she highlights the importance of self-awareness, recognizing unhealthy patterns, and understanding how trauma can shape relationship choices. The conversation also focuses on healing, personal responsibility, and reclaiming your life after abuse, as Tanya offers practical insight on safely exiting toxic situations and rebuilding self-worth. She emphasizes giving yourself grace, sharing your story as part of the healing process, and embracing self-love as a foundation for growth. Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Amber Knows Why You Can’t Make Decisions 24.03.2026 27min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes breaks down the power of decisive action and confident decision-making, challenging listeners to be quick in making choices and intentional about sticking to them. She explores how fear-driven habits like overthinking, hesitation, perfectionism, and avoidance can delay progress and keep people stuck, emphasizing the importance of trusting your instincts and moving forward with clarity. Through personal insights and practical strategies, Amber encourages listeners to embrace imperfection, build confidence, and take control of their choices in both personal and professional life. The episode serves as a mindset reset for anyone struggling with indecision, highlighting how disciplined thinking and consistent action can lead to growth, success, and a more empowered life. Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• 2 Chainz Knows The Voice In His Head Is God 17.03.2026 33min

  In this special live episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with 2 Chainz at Barnes & Noble in Los Angeles to discuss his new book, The Voice In My Head Is God. The Grammy-winning  rapper and entrepreneur shares the inspiration behind the book and explains how intuition, faith, and self-awareness have guided many of the most important decisions in his life. Reflecting on his upbringing in Atlanta  and the evolution of the city’s hustle culture, 2 Chainz emphasizes the value of humility, respect, and community while navigating success in music, business, and life. The conversation also dives into; his family life, his iconic name change, the untimely passing of his father, admiration for the women in his life,self trust, and how  his personal journey shaped the themes in The Voice In  My Head Is God. Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimes @2ChainzSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
• Malcolm Mays Knows Financial Responsibility 10.03.2026 1t 15min

  In this episode of If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes, Amber sits down with actor Malcolm Mays for a thoughtful conversation about success, financial responsibility and the realities behind pursuing a career in entertainment. Malcolm reflects on his journey from childhood acting to adulthood, sharing lessons learned about family dynamics, personal loss, and the pressures that come with financial success and public visibility. They highlight the importance of community, accountability, and staying grounded while navigating opportunities in Hollywood. The conversation also dives into financial literacy, social class, and the psychology of money, as Malcolm shares personal experiences growing up in a lower economic environment and learning how financial habits shape relationships and life choices. Together, they explore the importance of patience in financial decision-making, seeking trusted financial counsel, and understanding money as a reflection of time, effort, discipline and much more.  Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimes @imalcolmmaysSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.