Marriage Unhindered

Jaksot

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  Loving Him Through Sexual Addiction 15.09.2026 50min

  Dann and Roxane Aungst join Doug. Roxane discusses her reality during the 25 years of Dann’s sexual addiction.   Listener questions and comments: Maria - How do you look at your wife now? How did you overcome these emotions after such a long addiction? (22:43) Susan - Listening to this is very difficult. My daughter's husband was introduced to porn at 10 years old and it destroyed their marriage. She left him and is living with another man. Do you have any advice? (25:32) Yolanda - What you are saying is beautiful but my husband is very proud. It's still hurting us. (40:18)   Resources:   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Road to Purity https://roadtopurity.com/
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  Gaining Wisdom in Marriage 14.09.2026 50min

  Doug shares three tips from St. Bernard on gaining wisdom and explores how to apply them to our marriages today.   Listener questions and comments: Brian - Somebody came into my life briefly and because of my life issues they left. How do I move on or get them back? (21:52) Jessica - I don’t like the way my daughter dresses or the music she likes. How do I address this tension? (25:49) Noah - I am currently living in Utah and there aren’t many Catholics. What should I do? (33:40) Allen - The Philippines are about to legalize divorce. Muslims are protesting but the Catholics seem to be silent. What are your thoughts? (37:49) Lindsey - My mom is not Catholic and my family members are convinced she will go straight to heaven. Is this true? (40:38)   Resources: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   St. Bernard of Clairvaux on gaining wisdom Give thanks and praise Go to confession Be prudent in desire and speech
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  Resources for Faithful Marriages 11.09.2026 49min

  Dr. Julia Dezelski joins Doug to discuss USCCB resources available for married and dating couples.    Listener questions and comments: Chris - When I got married, there was very little marriage preparation. This needs to be a bigger emphasis. (22:41) Walt - It seems like in modern culture it seems like children are an add-on and not the focus. Is this being addressed? (31:14) Margy - There is very little available for people getting remarried in the Church and for those who have annulments. (38:25)   Resources: Catechumenal pathways for married life – Free PDF https://www.laityfamilylife.va/content/dam/laityfamilylife/amoris-laetitia/OrientamentiCatecumenatomatrimoniale/Catechumenal%20Pathways_ENG.pdf   Catechumenal pathways for married life - Book https://www.orderosv.com/product/catechumenal-pathways-for-married-life?ga_ref_list_id=75ga_ref_list_name=Related%20Products   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   For Your Marriage https://www.foryourmarriage.org/   https://www.portumatrimonio.org/   Second marriages https://www.foryourmarriage.org/second-marriages/
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  Prioritizing Family Over Career 10.09.2026 49min

  Doug discusses an email from a woman concerned that her husband works excessively and is pressuring her to take on full-time work as well. She worries that this dynamic is harming their marriage and family life. Doug emphasizes the importance of being present for one’s spouse and children and making family a top priority.   Listener questions and comments: Josephina - My husband and I are one of the couples who work a lot. I am comparing myself to the lady from the email, but at the same time I am also a workaholic sometimes. (19:28) Matt - I work 12-15 hours a day, and I am in a courtship right now. I find that if you really love them, that sacrifice shouldn’t take that much to make it happen. I want to also say that waiting till marriage is so worth it. (23:28) Richard - My son wants to get married, and the issue we come across is that his girlfriend is Catholic, but she is not practicing. (27:49) Fernando - At what point is doing everything for her happiness not ok if I start suffering? (38:09) Rex - I worked in oil, and I was a workaholic. You are touching on a lot of issues I went through. If I could go back, I would spend more time with the family. (44:11)
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  United Against the Enemy’s Attacks 09.09.2026 50min

  Doug discusses why you won’t find Eden here on earth and also tackles emails from couples who are struggling in their marriages.   Listener questions and comments: Richard - We have been married for 16 years but every time we go to put the sheets on the bed we end in a fight. (21:19) Alex - We have been separated for a year now and my husband suffers with addiction and infidelity. I just filled divorce today. (26:00) Mary - Comment for Alex: I have a book recommendation for her. 'Marriage 911'. (43:33) Maria - I am Catholic but I deal with spiritual warfare. My daughter got married to someone with demonic tattoos all over his body and they practice witchcraft. (44:56)   Resources:   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Marriage 911 https://www.foryourmarriage.org/blogs/marriage-911-how-god-saved-our-marriage-and-can-save-yours-too/   Questions to ask your spouse when facing divorce What’s one thing I am doing that I should stop doing? What’s one thing that I am doing that I should do more? What’s one thing I’m not doing that I should start doing?
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  Praying For Your Marriage 08.09.2026 50min

  Dr. Chris Ebberwein joins Doug to discuss his book, The Cana Rosary: A Couple's Prayer.     Resources:   The Cana Rosary: A Couple's Prayer https://www.amazon.com/Cana-Rosary-Couples-Prayer/dp/1502392232   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/
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  Making Jesus Christ the Center of your Marriage 07.09.2026 50min

  Fr. Peter Armenio joins Doug to discuss marriage and spousal love from his book Highlights of the Catholic Faith.   Listener questions and comments: Josephina - I went to confession, and I was able to apologize to my husband. It opened up the world of forgiveness. (19:55) Deedee - I have been married twice, and both men are deceased. What is the Catholic position on getting married a third time? (37:07) Walter - The world we live in is so materialistic and disposable. It’s also happened in marriages. People use their spouse and then throw them away. (38:34) Angel - I was on a few weeks ago talking about my fiancé. He is a general overseas, and he has issues that are getting worse. What do I do? (44:12)   Resources: Highlights of the Catholic Faith https://scepterpublishers.org/products/highlights-of-the-catholic-faith?srsltid=AfmBOop9iajSrMyZXnB-F1IOgNAr4ds-bYR_aYazTW52vhQd5KlqrQkp
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  Faith, Family & Radio 04.09.2026 50min

  Mark Swartzberg joins Doug to discuss his conversion to the Catholic Church, family life, and his journey to Relevant Radio. Listener questions and comments: •    Brian - What are the specifics on the validity of the marriage and the sacramentality of marrying a non-Catholic? (40:28)
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  Overcoming Anxiety 03.09.2026 50min

  Catherine DiNuzzo joins Doug to discuss anxiety from a Catholic perspective. They define good vs bad anxiety, the problem of guilt, and how to manage anxiety as a Catholic.   Listener questions and comments: Jasmine - How do I fight my mind that triggers anxiety even if I’m doing okay? (10:19) Rose - I get anxiety around my kids, but I don’t want to share with my kids. What do I say? (35:21) Judy - I have had anxiety when other people are driving. What should I do? (39:59)   Resources: Sacred Heart Mental Wellness https://www.sacredheartmentalwellness.com/
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  Standing Against No-fault Divorce 02.09.2026 49min

  Are you a victim of a no-fault divorce? Today, Mary Bowen joins Doug to discuss her efforts to overturn Texas's no-fault divorce law.   Listener questions and comments:   Patrick - I went through a no-fault divorce, and my wife threatened to say 'cruel and unusual punishment,' which means she is mean to me. (23:37) Karen - This happened to me, and they called it irreconcilable differences. It feels like your spouse and court are against you. It’s been 22 years, and you feel like you made a mistake. (35:57) Steve - I want to support you, and let’s get this done in Texas! (37:50) Stan - I went through one, and I want to tell you that this should be a class lawsuit. I don’t know how you can do this on your own. (38:57) Frank - What hope do you have for people who are happily married? What signs should we look for to prevent this? (40:51) Tony - My wife alienated my daughter from me and would turn my kids against me, and now my kids are getting divorced. I am a stander as well. (45:24)   Resources:   https://www.texasnofault.com/
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  Rules for Relationships 01.09.2026 50min

  Relationship coach Rose Sweet joins Doug to discuss the foundations of good marriages.   Listener questions and comments:   Denise - My boyfriend’s best friend is a concern to me. He wants me to meet her and her husband. I feel weird about it. (9:20) Shirley - My daughter is 'Christian' but has a second marriage. The kid from the first marriage still lives at home at 34. Is my daughter putting her kids before her husband? (18:46) LeeAnn - I was in a friendship with a guy, but then he got married, and I took the hint and distanced myself from him. (25:34)   Resources:   Rules for relationships   Listen Lead Love Let go   Rose Sweet   https://rosesweet.com/
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  The Ultimate Marriage Advice 31.08.2026 50min

  Doug shares the top reasons why people get divorced and gives to ultimate advice to not just avoid divorce, but to have a great marriage.   Listener questions and comments: Ellie - Do you have any tips for when we’re struggling with something but don’t communicate it because we’re worried it might seem irrational or unfair to the other person? Sometimes that fear of how it will be perceived can stop us from communicating altogether. (26:28)   Resources: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Why couples get divorced Poor communication Loss of trust Financial disagreements Emotional neglect (Matrimonial laziness) Unresolved conflict Changing personal goals and lifestyles   The ultimate marriage advice Plan daily prayer for and with your spouse Plan to do a good deed for your spouse every day Apologize and forgive always
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  Making Marriage Stronger (Part 2) 28.08.2026 50min

  Doug wraps up his discussion of 15 ways to strengthen your marriage and shares tips for planning 5 fun at-home dates. PLUS: The Friday Rant.   Listener question and comments: Alex - I would like to become Catholic but my wife does not and I want to know what to do. We have 5 kids. (8:25) R.J. - I could use some advice on being a grandparent. I’m going down to help my son out, and it’s been a while since I’ve been around the kids. I want to make sure I’m helpful and know how to best be there for them. (43:41)   Resources: Making Marriage Stronger (Part 1) https://relevantradio.com/2026/08/making-marriage-stronger/    Gottman Card Decks https://www.gottman.com/couples/apps/   Ways to strengthen your marriage Start with small rituals Listen like you actually mean it Schedule some fun time together Speak appreciation out loud Keep learning about each other Handle conflict without keeping score Share household responsibilities evenly Put the phone down Support each other’s interests Laugh together when life gets tense Have regular check-ins about the relationship Build a culture of compliments Create shared goals together Make physical affection a priority Celebrate milestones together   5 fun at home date nights Dance together Read poetry together Play board gmes and card games Wine and charcutarie board Make a photo album
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  Finding Hope in Difficult Marriages 27.08.2026 50min

  Monica Hinderer joins Doug to address challenging family and marriage issues, including OCD and ADHD, pornography, and infidelity. They offer guidance for navigating hurt, betrayal, and difficult relationships.   Listener questions and comments: Kate - My daughter-in-law has OCD and ADHD and is very attached to her family. (8:18) Maria - I found my husband watching porn. I don’t know what to do and I am embarrassed. (21:12) Dan - I find that withholding sex from a spouse only makes things worse when dealing with my own porn addiction. (37:49) Mary - I found out that my husband has been unfaithful before marriage and then during marriage. What should I do? (42:38)   Resources: Monica Hinderer https://www.monicahinderer.com/   Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change https://bit.ly/4cKsoRU   Get Your Loved One Sober: Alternatives to Nagging, Pleading, and Threatening https://bit.ly/4xrRpd3
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  Making Marriage Stronger 26.08.2026 50min

  Doug shares 8 ways to strengthen your marriage.   Listener questions and comments: Linda - What if you do these things but they aren't reciprocated. (20:09)   Resources:   Catholic Catch Singles Trivia Pre-Registration https://forms.cloud.microsoft/pages/responsepage.aspx?id=o-0BRmklpkqOCzBfwpVBLl-LqlRwJghFqZHL9AOb2yNUNDVNSzUzWEdUMzQzRDlTRU5aT0FPSzdFQyQlQCNjPTEu&route=shorturl    Gottman Card Decks https://www.gottman.com/couples/apps/   Ways to strengthen your marriage Start with small rituals Listen like you actually mean it Schedule some fun time together Speak appreciation out loud Keep learning about each other Handle conflict without keeping score Share household responsibilities evenly Put the phone down
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  Formula for a Happy Marriage? 26.08.2026 50min

  Dr. Christine Bacon joins Doug to discuss her Super Couple Formula for couples who desire a long and happy marriage.   Listener questions and comments: Jessica - My husband will ask me to validate his hurtful comments about my own family members if they did something wrong to him. (21:43) Brian - How in marriage do you apply forgive and forget? how do you realistically argue without letting past issues come up again. (38:39)   Resources: The Super Couple: A Formula for Extreme Happiness in Marriage https://www.amazon.com/Super-Couple-Formula-Happiness-Marriage/dp/1633932036   Super Couple Formula Selflessness Attentiveness Communication Respect Encouragement Deliberateness
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  Should Past Porn Use Stay Hidden? 24.08.2026 50min

  What happens when single women start attending a married guys’ breakfast after Mass? How do you heal a marriage after a wife discovers her husband’s past porn use? Doug goes to the mailbag to answer these questions and more. Listener questions and comments: Betsy — I wouldn’t want to know. It would be too much for me. (14:34) Rosie — I think it is irrelevant to bring up watching porn if it happened in the past. You are not defined by your mistakes. (19:48) Marie — I was married to someone who was into porn for 20 years before the marriage, and it continued during the marriage. We are divorced now. (22:25) Steven — I struggled with porn before marriage. I confessed it to my wife, and she has helped me stay pure. (28:02) Lisette — It would have been nice to know during the engagement process, but I don’t think I would want to know now. (32:34) Marie — I think one of the reasons porn is so bad is that it gives a man an unrealistic version of women. My son pointed out that women also do this with romance novels, and that also hurts marriages. (39:55)
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  The Beauty of Marriage 21.08.2026 53min

  Doug celebrates the beauty of marriage. Listeners share brief stories of love and commitment. Their stories highlight faith, devotion, and lasting love.   Niki - I married my high school sweetheart and we went through the motions with our faith but recently we have come together and are closer to God. We are now expecting a baby after 6 years of infertility. (8:47) Colleen - My husband noticed me in high school. He was a JV basketball player and I was a cheerleader. (11:09) Elizabeth - My husband saved my life on the second date. We have been married for 30 years. (22:26) Joseph - I met my wife in 1984 and we got married in 1992. I knew within 2 weeks that I would marry her. I prayed to the Blessed Mother and she sent me my wife. (30:36) Laura - My husband and I met in college. I am a Cubs fan and he is a Cardinals fan. When I flew home for a break and I got turned around in St Louis, he turned around and came back to get me. (32:51) Alyssa - We met during our youth group days and we finally got married. (37:25) Diane - My husband made a delivery to our office and he knocked over some plants when he was backing up his truck and we started talking that day. (39:23) Pete – I am a Cubs fan. I married a White Sox fan, and it’s working well after 35 years! (45:02)
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  Parenting Through Life’s Hard Moments 20.08.2026 53min

  Monica Hinderer joins Doug for a thoughtful conversation about the challenges of parenting, the importance of community and support, and navigating emotions during conflict.   Listener questions and comments: Chris - My wife and daughter get into fights and my daughter is only 7. I need advice. (27:29) Roger - My daughter is moving in with her boyfriend. What should I do? (44:03)   Resources: Monica Hinderer https://www.monicahinderer.com/
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  When Family Turns Against You 19.08.2026 53min

  How do you respond when you get cancelled by your daughter-in-law? What do you do when your husband’s brain surgery changes his personality and he is very abusive? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these questions and more.   Listener questions and comments: Deedee - Applause to Doug for answering that question well. Jesus said to forgive 7 x 70 times. (19:29)