Big Fat Positive: Pregnancy and Parenting (BFP)

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  Puberty Talks and Back-to-School Prep - Ep. 428 14.09.2026 49min

  In this week's "What's in Your Bag?" segment, Shanna and Laura confess the items they've somehow ended up hauling around, including one thing that survived a 102-degree drive across town. Also, Shanna preps her daughters for the first day of school and finally delivers the puberty presentation she'd been procrastinating for months, and Laura reports on the tail end of her family's Portland trip and a tiny plane Sebastian refused to leave. They also share this week's BFPs and BFNs.Kids' ages: Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10.5 years old, and Laura's kids are 7.5 years old and 5.5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• How to spend the last week of summer break• Creating a buffer day between summer camp and the first day of school• How schools announce teacher assignments and why they wait until the last minute• Making a puberty and periods presentation for your kids• What to put in a tween puberty readiness kit• Destigmatizing period conversations as a family• Including younger siblings in big-kid conversations• Aviation museums with kids: what to expect• The Spruce Goose and Howard Hughes• Hanging on to gift cards for way too long• Using gum or mints to redirect a dysregulated kid• Changing your child's sensory experience to interrupt a meltdown• Why your purse becomes a black hole (and what accumulates in there)• When grandparents win prizes your kids don't care about• Teaching kids to write thank you cards• How a small act of kindness came back aroundProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Evergreen Aviation & Space Museum, McMinnville, OR • Ice Breakers Sparkling Mints• Universal Studios Hollywood • Chuck E. Cheese• Funny Instagram reel: Bag of clothes for donation in your car• Next Level Arcade and Pinball MuseumConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and more.• Follow @bfppodcast on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook, or join our Facebook community group.Loved this episode? A quick rating or review helps other parents find the show. Thanks for listening!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Beauty Standards - Ep. 427 07.09.2026 48min

  In this week's "They Said What?" segment, Shanna and Laura cover a bedtime conversation that took a shocking left turn, a sentence Laura never expected to say out loud, and an adult's comment about beauty standards that made a lasting impact. Also, Laura reports on a Portland trip derailed by wildfire smoke and saved by 300 pinball machines, and Shanna navigates her daughter's emotionally charged earring switch. They also share this week's BFPs and BFNs.Kids' ages: Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10.5 years old, and Laura's kids are 7.5 years old and 5.5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• What to do when wildfire smoke ruins your vacation plans• Getting kids comfortable changing their earrings• Body image conversations with young kids• When your five-year-old is in a sweet, grateful phase• When your kid says something completely out of left field at bedtime• Using OpenTable and Resi's notify feature to snag last-minute reservations• Taking your kids to their first concertProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Next Level Arcade and Pinball Museum, Hillsboro OR • Fox Theater Pomona• Gado Gado Portland• OpenTable / Resy• Indiana Jones soundtrack on Spotify• Schindler's List soundtrack by John Williams• Beach Bunny• Vertigo by Beach BunnyConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and more.• Follow @bfppodcast on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook, or join our Facebook community group.Loved this episode? A quick rating or review helps other parents find the show. Thanks for listening!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Parenting Hacks for Hair Care, Laundry, Bubbles and More - Ep. 426 31.08.2026 57min

  In this episode's "What the Hack?" segment, Shanna and Laura share a laundry trick for linen and gauze, a tip for getting tiny hair bands out without tugging, and a game that teaches kids conversational skills, plus surprising uses for common household items. Also, Shanna struggles to recover from her family vacation (including an unfortunate suitcase incident) and reports on back-to-school shopping, while Laura kicks off Mommy-Daddy Camp with a sidewalk find that dominates the whole week. They also share this week's BFPs and BFNs.Kids' Ages: Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10.5 years old, and Laura's kids are 7.5 years old and 5.5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Recovering from vacation as a parent: why it's harder than it sounds• The "every mess is a choice" debate• Taking your kids back-to-school shopping• Planning activities for when your kids don't have summer camp• The joy of your kids discovering old-school, low-tech electronics• Trick for getting tiny hair bands out without tugging• How to keep craft supplies from disappearing at a shared table• The frozen pizza hack for families with different topping preferences• A funny and useful method for decluttering• An easy way to remove wrinkles from linen and gauze clothing• A fun game for teaching kids conversational skills• Hack for cutting pancakes and waffles• Tip for dispensing bubble solution without the spills• Theremin: what it is and why your local library might have one• Universal Studios with kids: when is the right age to go?Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Nature's Miracle - enzymatic cleaner for cat pee, highly recommended• Look Dine-In Cinemas - $2 classic movie screenings• Singin' in the Rain (1952) - what the family saw on Monday• Kodak 4200 Carousel Slide Projector - the free sidewalk find• r/CleaningTips on Reddit - where Shanna found the poop method• Fine mist spray bottle - for de-wrinkling linen and gauze• Universal Studios HollywoodConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and more.• Follow @bfppodcast on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook, or join our Facebook community group.Loved this episode? A quick rating or review helps other parents find the show. Thanks for listening!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Taking Kids on a Rustic Cabin Vacation - Ep. 425 24.08.2026 56min

  In the special segment "Would You Rather?," Shanna and Laura pose hypothetical parenting scenarios involving airplane antics, an irresistible newborn kitten, and more! Also, Laura reports on her 5-year-old's new activity that took some convincing and her 7-year-old's week at Percy Jackson summer camp, and Shanna recaps her family's trip to a 100-year-old lake community in Canada. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7.5 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Getting your kid into a new activity when they're resistant• How to show your son that gymnastics isn't just for girls• What is Percy Jackson camp like?• Travelling to Canada with kids• Rustic cabin life with sensory-sensitive kids• Kids and airplane boredom: what happens when the iPad dies• What's involved in fostering a newborn kitten• Whether to confront a stranger or just endure the annoyance• What is valley fever?• Recording vs. being present at your kid's graduation• When your kid graduates from preschool• Occupational therapyProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Mythic Camps / Camp Half-Blood - Augie's Percy Jackson camp• Percy Jackson and the Olympians (Disney+ series) • Valley Fever information - the fungal illness Laura mentions in connection with dust exposureConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more!• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  What Gets Easier as Your Kids Grow Up - Ep. 424 17.08.2026 52min

  In the special segment “Just You Wait,” Laura and Shanna share some of the things that get better as children grow up, including delightful developments on the playground, at birthday parties, in the car and more! Also, Shanna reports on a summer-camp dilemma that kept her up at night, and Laura checks in on her family's second week doing a screen-time ban. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7.5 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• When summer camp drama requires a midnight solution• Trusting your gut when something feels off• Week two of a screen time ban• Building your child's tolerance for independent play• When can you trust your kids with paint and Sharpies?• Kids swinging themselves at the playground: when does this happen?• Actually talking to other adults at kids' birthday parties• When your kids become generous with their own money• Getting in the car and going places without a production• Occupational therapy: what it looks like and why wait lists are so long• Kids' drama camp: writing and performing an original playProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Steve and Kate's Camp• Hurricane Harbor• Kids Empire• Diary of a Wimpy Kid animated film• Chuck E. CheeseConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more!• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Hard Reset: A Screen Time Wake-Up Call - Ep. 423 10.08.2026 48min

  In the special segment "OMG, I'm Freaking Out," Shanna and Laura share what's currently keeping them up at night, including a dental mystery that may require an unpleasant solution and a screen time wake-up call that was impossible to ignore. Also, Laura reports on her 7-year-old's mysterious trend of not eating lunch at summer camp, and Shanna recaps her girls' "Seussical the Musical" performance. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7.5 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Sending your kid to a STEM/STEAM summer camp• When your kid won't eat lunch at camp• ADHD medication and appetite• What it's like watching your kids in a musical theater performance• When your child has a missing tooth that won't come in• Screen time and ADHD• Signs that screen time has gotten out of hand• Screen-free playdates• Buy Nothing groups: a great resource for gardeningProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Camp Galileo - Auggie's STEM/STEAM summer camp• The Executive Function Playbook by Mike McLeod - what Laura was reading that informed the screen time decision• Cap'n Crunch Chicken recipe - Planet Hollywood copycat recipe• Shane's Inspiration - inclusive playground where one birthday party was held• Buy Nothing Project - Shanna's source for free succulent cuttingsConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more!• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  When Summer Camp Just Isn't the Right Fit - Ep. 422 03.08.2026 52min

  In the special segment "Stump the Moms," Shanna and Laura embark on a tour through history, grilling each other with surprising parenting trivia that takes them from prehistoric cave paintings to a 1974 marketing disaster to a present-day TikTok trend. Also, Shanna recaps a 4th of July fireworks adventure that almost didn't happen, and Laura shares an unexpected summer camp development that required some quick problem-solving. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7.5 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Taking your kids to their first 4th of July fireworks show• When summer camp isn't the right fit: how to handle it with your child• To tell or not to tell: navigating difficult conversations with kids• Prehistoric cave paintings• The invention of finger painting• The TikTok trend that stops toddler meltdowns cold• Pattern interrupt as a parenting technique• Why Gerber's attempt to launch a new product line failed spectacularly• How kids across the world draw people the same way at age three• How many minutes per year parents spend driving kids to school activities• Spirit days at camp: making them inclusive and fun• Preschool yearbooksProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• 4th of July Extravaganza at Warner Center Park• Ruffignac Cave / Cave of 100 Mammoths• Ruth Faison Shaw• Ziplock finger painting• Gerber Singles• The "Jessica" TikTok trend• Camp GalileoConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more!• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Is the Tooth Fairy Still Exciting to Kids in 2026? - Ep. 421 27.07.2026 45min

  In the special segment "Why Is My Kid Crying?," Shanna and Laura explore the things that have caused their little ones to melt down recently, from snack-related disasters to household accidents. Also, Laura reports on life after her trip to Italy, including a backyard helper who couldn't be stopped and a tooth that went missing in the night, and Shanna shares insights on what separates a good summer camp from a great one after her girls return to a longtime favorite. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Recovering from jet lag with kids at home• Getting kids involved in household chores• The tooth fairy in 2026: is cash still exciting for kids?• What to look for in a kids' summer program• Handling your child's disappointment• Wound closure strips: why it's a good idea to have them in your medicine cabinet• Professional theater with kids: is it worth it?• A classic, must-read chapter book for your kids (and you!)Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• The Nocturne Theater• The Little Mermaid at The Nocturne Theater• The BFG by Roald Dahl• Giant - the Broadway play about Roald Dahl• Wound closure strips / Steri-Strips• Seussical the MusicalConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more!• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  ADHD Deep Dive with Mike McLeod 21.07.2026 54min

  Shanna and Laura sit down with Mike McLeod, founder of GrowNOW ADHD, co-host of "The ADHD Parenting Podcast," and author of "The Executive Function Playbook," to learn more about Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). They dive into common misconceptions about ADHD, when parents might start to see signs of ADHD in their children, how screen time affects neurodivergent kids, how to navigate the ADHD medication journey, and so much more. Mike also breaks down exactly what executive function is and shares practical strategies parents can start using today to help strengthen their kids' executive functioning skills. This episode is available one week early for Patreon members at the Friends and Besties tiers.Topics discussed in this episode:Mike McLeod's background and how he became an ADHD expertWhy ADHD is not a superpower, and why that framing can be harmfulAt what age to start evaluating your child for ADHDWhat executive function actually isThe four pillars of executive functionWorking memory: hindsight, foresight and why ADHD kids are stuck in the present momentPractical strategies to strengthen executive functioning at homeScreen time and ADHD: what the research actually saysEdTech in classroomsADHD medication: safety, effectiveness and navigating trial and errorCommon ADHD myths bustedWhy ADHD kids need authoritative parentingHow to stop carrying the mental load aloneProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:GrowNOW ADHD - Mike's organization, parent training and student skills coaching"The Executive Function Playbook: Building Independence in Kids with ADHD" by Mike McLeod - Mike's book, frequently referenced in this episode"The Executive Function Playbook in Action: Activities and Exercises to Support Kids with ADHD" - the companion workbook"The ADHD Parenting Podcast" - co-hosted by Mike McLeod and Ryan Wexelblatt, founder of ADHD DudeGrowNOW ADHD on InstagramDr. Russell Barkley on YouTube - recommended for more on working memory and executive functionSarah Ward, M.S., CCC/SLP - also recommended for more on executive function"The Digital Delusion" by Dr. Jared Cooney Horvath - a must-read for parents and educators on edtechBookThinkers - the event Mike attended in BostonConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more!• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Solo Travel Without Kids - Ep. 420 20.07.2026 49min

  In the special segment “Mom Wins,” Laura and Shanna share recent parenting successes, including a meltdown intervention 6,000 miles from home and a wardrobe sacrifice that saved the day. Also, Laura reports on her child-free trip to Italy, and Shanna recaps a birthday that didn't go as planned. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• What to do when your birthday doesn't go as planned• Travelling solo as a mom• A jet lag hack when travelling abroad with kids• Using sensory awareness to help a dysregulated child• The value of having a parenting village• Why parenting techniques sometimes work better when coming from someone other than the parent• What happens when you forget to clean up a spill in your car• Gateway breakfast foods• The best items to pack for a trip abroadProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Annenberg Beach House, Santa Monica• Armstrong Nursery• Little Bites by Entenmann's• Nano Bag• Salt-Water Sandals Sun-San Boardwalk• Paper fans on AmazonConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more!• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Having Another Baby and Sibling Conflict: Listener Q&A 16.07.2026 45min

  Shanna and Laura answer listener questions on everything from what your child's personality at 15 months might tell you about who they'll become, to ideas for handling sibling conflict, to whether it's harder to go from zero to one child or one to two, and more!Topics discussed in this episode:• What your baby's personality at 1-2 years old might tell you about who they'll become• How BFP episode lengths are determined (and why they aim for 50 minutes)• Favorite and least favorite phases of parenting• The threenager phase: why three might be the hardest age• Canadian and Romanian/EU dual citizenship: Laura's situation explained• Ideas for managing sibling fighting• Using specific praise as a tool for reinforcing good sibling behavior• Teaching your younger child not to take the bait from an older sibling• Deciding to have another child• Transitioning from zero to one child vs. one to two• The surprising music our kids are loving right nowProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• "The Ghost Ship That Didn't Carry Us" by Cheryl Strayed - The essay Laura recommends for anyone deciding whether to have a second child• The Greatest Showman soundtrack• "This Is Me" by Keala Settle• Weezer's Blue Album• Indiana Jones soundtrack by John Williams• "The Rocky Road to Dublin" from the Sinners soundtrack• "The Wellerman - Sea Shanty" by Nathan Evans• BFP Episode 110 - Deciding to Have Another Baby• BFP Episode 415 Extras on Patreon - Includes the outtake story about Laura's brother Jeff completing a map project at the last minuteConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Serious Talks in Silly Places: Explaining Grown-Up Stuff to Kids - Ep. 419 13.07.2026 48min

  In the special segment "Never Have I Ever," Shanna and Laura reveal the unexpected things they've done recently that they never imagined doing before having kids, including navigating an awkward conversation in a public place. Also, Laura reports on her 7-year-old's last week of first grade, and Shanna solves a months-long medical mystery involving her daughter's toe. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• The last week of first grade• How to pack for a solo international trip• Figuring out what is going on with your kid's toe• Medical pedicures: what are they and are they worth it• Hiding things from your kids (for their own safety)• Age-appropriate explanations for things you weren't ready to explain yet• Clothing rental subscriptions• An item that makes packing your kid's lunches easierProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Sex Positive Families• useacondom.com • Nate the Hoof Guy on TikTok • Nuuly clothing rental • Bentgo Buddies reusable ice packs Connect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more!• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Kids' Impulse Control and Speech Therapy: Listener Q&A - Ep. 418 06.07.2026 1t 3min

  In the special segment "Checkin' the Inbox," Laura and Shanna answer listener questions about staving off sickness when you're a parent, managing your child's impulsive behaviors, knowing when your child needs speech therapy, and more! Also, Shanna reports on an action-packed getaway to Ojai and Santa Barbara with her mom and girls, and Laura shares two updates about her 5-year-old, including a drawing milestone and a dollar-store hack that's been a hit. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Should I give my child a structured or unstructured summer break?• A SoCal weekend getaway that is close to Los Angeles and FUN!• Family-friendly activities in Ojai and Santa Barbara• The benefits of taking your kids on adventures in nature• Getting your child an eye exam• When your child suddenly has a leap in drawing skills• Ideas for how to stay healthy and avoid sickness when you are a parent• Situations that make you feel uncool as a mom• How do you know if your child needs speech therapy?• How does impulsive behavior manifest in children with ADHD?• Tips for handling impulsive behavior• Audiobooks and podcasts we currently love• A fun, local, family activity - mini golf• The best affordable sunscreen that your kids will actually likeProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Lake Casitas kayak rentals• Santa Barbara Zoo• Land Shark Tours Santa Barbara• BFP Episode 75 - where Shanna first talks about being intimidated by teenagers• The ADHD Parenting Podcast• Mike McLeod: Executive Function-ADHD Specialist• Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)• Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke• Famesick: A Memoir by Lena Dunham• Automatic Noodle by Annalee Newitz• Love Trapped podcast• Search Engine podcast episode - "Why doesn't anybody come to my parties?"• The Interview podcast episode - "Robby Hoffman Will Always Feel Poor, No Matter How Rich She Gets"• If Books Could Kill podcast• Since You Asked podcast• Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb• Sherman Oaks Castle Park Mini Golf• Trader Joe's Invisible Gel Body Sunscreen• Trader Joe's Daily Facial SunscreenConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Dear Past Me: Kids' Haircuts and Balloon Crafts - Ep. 417 29.06.2026 49min

  In the special segment "Dear Past Me," Shanna and Laura turn back time to give their former selves parenting advice based on what they know now, including wisdom about kids' haircuts and handmade crafts. Also, Laura checks in about the surprising reason her child woke her up in the middle of the night, and Shanna gives updates about her daughter's student council run and talent-show debut. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Weird reasons you get woken up in the middle of the night when you're a parent• Processing emotions about your child's last year of preschool• When your child runs for student council • Preparing your child for a talent show• Whether to give your child bangs• Handling your child's deep emotional attachment to an objectProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Underwood Family Farms• Vertigo by Beach BunnyConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. a See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Class Pet Drama and Ear-Tube Surgery - Ep. 416 22.06.2026 55min

  In the special segment “What I Googled This Week,” Laura and Shanna reveal the funny and embarrassing things they've asked the internet recently, including questions about an unusual DIY craft project and an unexpected singing technique. Also, Shanna reports on the drama surrounding her family's turn at chick-sitting the class pets, and Laura talks about her 5-year-old's ear tube and adenoid surgery. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Taking home your child's classroom pets for the night• Ear tube and adenoid surgery• The unexpected how-to videos we Googled this week• When your child picks up a new hobby• Two fun films that our kids love watchingProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Lifetimes by Bryan Mellonie• Children's Hospital Los Angeles• Wicked Aviary Plague Doctor DIY Tutorial• Vertigo by Beach Bunny• Matilda (1996)• Matilda the Musical (2022)• Matilda by Roald Dahl• Yodel Beat from Trolls World TourConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Managing Last-Minute School Projects - Ep. 415 15.06.2026 48min

  In the special segment "Gripe Water," Shanna and Laura share the hilariously petty parenting problems that have been bothering them lately, diving into the topics of student-council campaigns and shopping for kids' clothes. Also, Laura reports on accidentally reaching a parenting milestone, and Shanna recaps her last-minute scramble to help her 7-year-old complete a school project. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• When is a good time to get rid of your baby monitor?• Managing deadlines for your kids' school projects• Helping your kid run for student council• Where to find plain, unbranded clothes for your kidsProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Good to Go: A Fresh Take on Potty Training for Today's Intentional Parent by Laura Birek and Gia Gamabaro Blunt• Great Big Family Play Day at the Autry Museum• PCIT - Parent-Child Interaction TherapyConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  The Mom Who Saved Toy Story 2 (and "Sad Doll Disease") - Ep. 414 08.06.2026 51min

  In the special segment "Today I Learned," Laura and Shanna discuss the fascinating or unusual things they have learned about recently, including the story of how a mom on maternity leave saved a major motion picture and a disturbing phenomenon involving a beloved children's toy. Also, Shanna navigates her daughter's last-minute wardrobe crisis, and Laura spends Mother's Day doing exactly what she wanted. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including events that provided some big laughs. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Planning a Mother's Day outing with your kids• Validating your child's feelings vs. gaslighting them into positivity• Reclaiming hobbies after having kids• How a mom saved Toy Story 2• Why your Owala (and other plastic items) may be melting• Surprising your partner: tips for keeping a secret in the age of smartphones• The Netflix Is a Joke Festival: a good excuse to see live comedy in LAProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• The Next Web article: "How Pixar’s Toy Story 2 was deleted twice, once by technology and again for its own good"• Reddit post about melting plastic Owala water bottle• Sad Doll Disease - article in New Scientist• Owala water bottle• The Handsome Podcast• The Wiltern• Largo at the Coronet• Flight of the Conchords• Netflix Is a Joke FestivalConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Mom Confessions: Failing the Sniff Test - Ep. 413 01.06.2026 55min

  In the special segment “Mom Confessions,” Laura and Shanna share the embarrassing or hilarious parenting experiences they have had recently, including an interaction with an unsuspecting stranger, an incident with a curious cat and more. Also, Laura celebrates her 10th wedding anniversary with an out-of-the-ordinary trip, and Shanna recaps a nail-biting end to her 7-year-old's softball season. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including a piece of office equipment that had to be rationed like screen time. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Taking your first overnight trip as a couple after having kids• Self-driving cars: would you try a Waymo?• When your child is facing a big moment and you're a nervous wreck• Kids with ADHD and visual tracking challenges in sports• Cats and kids: an unpredictable combination• Regulating your own emotions on a bad parenting day• Sleep disruption from enlarged adenoids in kids• Electric pencil sharpeners: a surprisingly divisive household item• Face painting at kids' sports eventsProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• The Line LA - Hotel that Laura and Corey went to for their anniversary• Waymo - Self-driving cars• Hard Fork - podcast that radicalized Laura on self-driving cars• Gwen - Restaurant that Laura and Corey went to for anniversary dinner• Martin Riese - Water sommelier• "Mom" by Meghan Trainor - Cece's walkup song• Spotify Jam• "Mr. Sun" by Raffi• "Grumpy Monkey" - Kid's book Shanna mentions• Robot Electric Pencil Sharpener• Face Paint Pens (Jim & Gloria)Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:• Ep. 407 - Where Shanna first talked about the Savannah Bananas San Diego trip• Ep. 410 - Where Laura first discussed Sebastian's ENT follow-up and upcoming ear tube surgeryConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  School-Auction Shockers and Kid Pranks - Ep. 412 25.05.2026 1t 1min

  In the special segment "Out of Context," Laura and Shanna share random text messages they have sent or received that shed light on their parenting lives, including shocking elementary-school auction items, bizarre stovetop contraptions and more. Also, Shanna gives an update on her 7-year-old's daily medication routine, and Laura reports on a last-minute volunteering opportunity that turned into an hours-long commitment. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including an exciting new parenting support program and a long-awaited Disneyland milestone. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Helping your child get comfortable with a daily medicine routine• Whether or not to use a reward system to help your child take medicine• When volunteering at school becomes a whole "thing."• What is Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)?• Picking your battles with neurodivergent kids• Shockingly inappropriate items in a school auction• Kids playing April Fools' Day pranks on their parents• Disneyland height requirements and the fast pass card hackProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• UCLA PCIT Program - Parent-Child Interaction Therapy individual and group sessions• Five Below - Shanna's treasure box supply sources• Wheel of Names - Shanna's homework rotation system• The Comeback - HBO show Laura watched while babysitting at Nora's• The Traitors - Peacock reality show (Nora's murder mystery party theme)• Highlights Magazine - Source of the April Fools' food prank activityPast BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:• Ep. 410 - Where Shanna talks about her struggle to get Cece to take her new daily medication• Ep. 411 - Where Laura's BFP was the Long Beach Grand Prix• Ep. 388 - Where Laura discussed switching the kids' schoolsConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  When Is It Time to Let Kids Quit an Activity? - Ep. 411 18.05.2026 49min

  Laura checks in on her 7-year-old's Little League season, and Shanna reports on a volunteer experience at her daughter's school that is somehow both underwhelming and overstimulating. Also, in the special segment "Loose Ends," Shanna and Laura give updates about topics they've talked about previously, including needy phases, screen time, hair care and more! Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including an exciting event in Southern California and an ordinary kitchen tool that can make food exciting for kids. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Letting your partner take the lead on kids' activities• When your child refuses to go to their sports games and practices• Volunteering at your kids' school• Does Laura feel like switching her kids' school was worth it?• Handling your child's needy/clingy phases• Dealing with screen time setbacks• Tips for managing fine hair• Volunteering as team DJ• Fixing a broken tooth• Taking your kids to an exciting car racing event in Southern California• How an ordinary kitchen tool can make food fun for kidsProducts, links, and resources mentioned in this episode:• Grand Prix of Long Beach• OXO PeelerPast BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:• Ep. 388 - Laura shares her decision to switch her boys' schools.• Ep. 392 - Laura discusses Sebastian's emotional/needy phase.• Ep. 393 - Shanna talks about the fine hair subreddit.• Ep. 395 - Laura reports on the PlayStation being introduced to her kids.• Ep. 401 - Shanna talks about taking on the role of softball team DJ for the spring season.• Ep. 408 - Shanna reports on losing a tooth crown while flossing.Connect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.