Love Patty Podcast: Genuine Conversations on fertility, family, feminism, and life as a modern female

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  70| Clare & Chloe Solo. Jack Turns 1! Weaning Toddlers, Feeding Issues, Developmental Delays, Low Tone and Genetic Testing. Why we all need women’s health retreats! 06.09.2026 37min

  Season 7 and 70 + episodes recorded! We cannot believe it. We usually love kicking off each new season with a solo episode, but this time we had a very special little guest join us .. baby Jack, who has officially turned ONE! Where has the time gone? This conversation has been a long time coming. There were so many things we wanted to talk about that we barely scratched the surface, but we managed to cover A LOT in this short, rapid-fire episode. We touch on: Feeding issues, Low muscle tone, Developmental delays, Speech pathology, physiotherapy & myofascial work, Genetic testing. Weaning a toddler from breastfeeding. Women’s retreats: and why we all desperately need them! It’s a short one, but there is  plenty packed in. Season Seven has some seriously inspiring, honest and beautiful interviews coming your way, and we cannot wait to share them with you all, Love, Patty xx @lovepattypodcast
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  69| Mia Connor: Makeup, Beauty, Business and the makeup rules that work on real women . 23.08.2026 1t 24min

  What if some of the makeup advice we’ve been following is actually doing us a disservice? Award-winning Australian makeup artist, educator and beauty entrepreneur Mia Connor joins us for an honest, practical conversation about what really works. With over 20 years in the industry, Mia has worked with countless brides, including Chloe! Brands, and famous faces such as Margot Robbie, while travelling internationally to educate and mentor makeup artists. We’re talking makeup for mature skin, ditching powder, skin dos and don’ts for brides, getting the most from your makeup trial, and five-minute makeup hacks. We also tackle the rise of social media beauty advice, and whether experience still matters when it comes to knowing what truly works. Plus, Mia shares the realities of building a successful beauty business - with her own products her signature ‘the liner’, staying ahead of the trends and evolving in an ever-changing industry. Expect expert tips, honest opinions, beauty truths and plenty of takeaways you’ll want to try immediately! love patty xx @miaconnor https://www.instagram.com/miaconnor?igsi=MWM5ZXJhdmNqeTJzcw==    
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  68|Rosie Rees- Yoni Egg to IVF. A Cosmic Love Story, from sexual awakening to motherhood. 09.08.2026 1t 21min

  This week on Love Patty, we’re joined by the incredible Rosie Rees, Queer Queen activist for internalised freedom, pleasure pioneer, sex educator, groundbreaking sex-toy creator, and founder of Yoni Pleasure Palace, The Naked Awakening, Splash Blanket and Yin Body. Rosie’s work goes far beyond helping women feel comfortable in their bodies. She challenges the deeply ingrained beliefs that tell women to be smaller, quieter and less connected to their pleasure, and invites us to reclaim our bodies as places of freedom, joy and self-discovery. We dive into everything from Rosie’s sexual reawakening, Yoni Eggs and naked yoga, to the evolution of her infamous “Squirt Blanket” into the Splash Blanket. A beautifully practical product that has found an entirely new life beyond the bedroom, from postpartum nappy-free time and breastfeeding leaks to skin-to-skin and starting solids! But this conversation is about so much more than pleasure. Rosie opens up about falling in love with her wife Ash after years of a complicated, long-distance crush, despite them both being in heterosexual relationships at the time. Their story is one of courage, cosmic connection and taking a leap when life doesn’t necessarily look how you imagined it would. Rosie never pictured motherhood for herself, but suddenly found herself becoming a stepmum and navigating a completely new chapter of life with Ash. Then, in 2020, Ash became suddenly unwell and was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis after presenting to hospital with paralysis in both legs. They spent six months in a wheelchair and underwent intensive rehabilitation to walk again. After walking down the aisle together, Rosie finally felt ready to pursue motherhood herself. Tragically, just six weeks after their wedding, Rosie’s mother died by suicide, changing the course of that journey once again. What follows is an extraordinary story of resilience, love, grief, hope and an unconventional path to motherhood. After four years of trying to conceive through "turkey basting" Rosie and Ash found themselves on what can only be described as a fated path when a woman offered to donate her late gay son’s sperm to a lesbian couple, with the hope of becoming a surrogate grandparent to the resulting child. For Rosie, who had experienced the devastating loss of her own mother, the connection was immediate and profound. That journey has now led to a successful IVF pregnancy, and Rosie is expecting her baby in November 2026 and she shares the gender of her baby with us! Alongside everything life has thrown at her, Rosie has built three thriving businesses from the ground up, creating spaces and products that encourage women to reconnect with their bodies, pleasure and confidence. This is a conversation about love, sexuality, grief, motherhood, resilience, business, identity and the courage to live life on your own terms. It’s joyful, vulnerable, hilarious and deeply moving — and we think you’re going to absolutely love Rosie. Happy shopping, Patty’s.  Love Patty xox  
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  67| Michelle Compounding Pharmacist. The Hormone Conversation Every Women Needs to Hear. PMDD, perimenopause, HRT, thyroiditis and 5HTP. 21.07.2026 56min

  Hormones influence so much more then our menstrual cycles, they shape our mood, energy, sleep brain function and overall wellbeing. Yes so many women are left feeling unheard, dismissed or simply told that what they're experiencing is "normal". In this episode, we sit down with Michelle compounding pharmacist and owner of Byron Compounding Chemist, whose passion is helping women thrive through personalised medications and supplements tailored to their individual needs.  Together, we deep dive into the complex world of women's hormones (yes we love getting nerdy). Exp[loring PMDD, perimenopause, bioidenitical hormones replacement (HRT), and the profound impact hormonal changes have on our mental health. Chloe shares her own experience with postpartum thyroiditis, and how she was close to starting a new antidepressant but advocated for more blood test first.  This conversation is packed with practical knowledge (hello topical iron!), evidence-informed insights and hope for women searching for answers. whether you're navigating, postpartum, sleepless kids, perimenopause or supporting a loved one, this episode won't let you down.  As always, this discussion is to help educate and reflect on our own experiences. This information is not a substitute for personalised medical advice.  Love,  Patty. xoxo https://byroncompounding.com.au Insta: @byroncompounding  
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  66|Sarah Wright Olsen~Hollywood, Healing, Motherhood & Magic. The power of community. 06.07.2026 1t 12min

  In this inspiring episode, we sit down with actress, author, entrepreneur, and mum Sarah Wright Olsen for an honest conversation about balancing career, motherhood, and purpose. Sarah shares her journey through the film and TV, working with Tom Cruise, Mathew McConaughey & Kathy Bates! What inspired her to build businesses outside of acting, and how becoming a mother reshaped her priorities and perspective. Sarah opens up about her experience with postnatal anxiety, a condition both Clare and Chloe also suffer with and why it's so important that we continue breaking the stigma around maternal mental health. She shares how those challenges inspired her to create spaces where mothers feel supported, connected, and never alone. We explore the story behind her podcast, The Mother Daze which she Co-host with Teresa Palmer, and her newest children's book "When I am not with you", which helps children navigate transitions, separation, and change with confidence and reassurance. Something close to Clare's heart after loosing her Dad in January. Beyond motherhood, we chat about her skincare brand BAEO, balancing business with family life, and leaning into the more intuitive, spiritual, and "witchy-woo-woo" side of life. From trusting your intuition to embracing practices that bring grounding and connection, Sarah offers a refreshing perspective on finding what supports you through motherhood and beyond. We know you are going to Love this Patty's x Pre-order Sarah's Book: https://www.booktopia.com.au/when-i-am-not-with-you-sarah-wright-olsen/book/9780310177296.html?srsltid=AfmBOoqF7Z90Nmlypn9AHPDbFfI3RNaLUYe9Vn-9fi3K7w3ZLYp1Pa3E The Mother Daze Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5TxM4jUXcSdRAGRmTA5oYj?si=c4092b9be35a4dba Sarah's Skincare BAEO:  https://baeo.com  
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  65|Sophie Beer- Children's Author & illustrator, fertility, Prenatal anxiety, CBT, miscarriage, medical trauma, acoustic nueroma tumour, juggling motherhood, working, creativity and burn out 21.06.2026 1t 12min

  Sophie Beer, Brisbane-based author and illustrator, has built an award-winning career creating joyful, bright, children's books, but her path to success has been anything but straightforward. In this heartfelt conversation, Sophie shares the determination that helped her pursue her creative dreams, refusing to take "no" for an answer, even when life presented unexpected challenges. From studying law before finding her true calling, to navigating fertility struggles, miscarriage, prenatal anxiety, and the shock of discovering she carries a cancer gene, Sophie opens up about the experiences that have shaped her both personally and professionally. After a tumour diagnosis made her realise how deeply she wanted to become a mother, Sophie embarked on a complex journey through pregnancy, birth, and parenthood. She speaks candidly about fertility and birth trauma, the healing experience of her second birth, the importance of midwifery-led continuity of care, and how CBT and talk therapy supported her mental health along the way. We also explore the realities of balancing motherhood with a thriving creative career, the pressures of the never-ending juggle, and the lessons Sophie has learned about burnout, ambition and her passions for music, creativity and delivering joyful children's books. This is an honest, inspiring conversation about resilience, advocacy, motherhood, and finding the courage to create a life that feels true to yourself. Love Patty  xx
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  64| Katie CEO Sabbia Co, Building a clean skincare brand from the ground up, motherhood, manifesting and universal downloads. 07.06.2026 1t 25min

  What does it take to leave the security of a stable career and bet everything on a dream? From $2,000 to a Thriving Skincare Empire with Katie, CEO of Sabbia Co In this inspiring episode, we sit down with Katie, CEO and co-founder of Sabbia Co, the clean skincare brand helping thousands of people feel confident in their skin again. In her mid-twenties, Katie took a huge leap of faith, leaving her marketing career and convincing her tradie partner, Dave, to back her vision. With just $2,000 each and plenty of determination, they launched SabbiCo from the ground up. Seven years later, Sabbia Co has grown into a thriving business with a dedicated team, thousands of five-star reviews, and a loyal community that continues to support its mission. Katie opens up about the realities of entrepreneurship and motherhood, including the pressure of having no paid maternity leave and returning to work just two weeks after the birth of her son, fearing the business wouldn't survive without her. Instead, the community she had built rallied around her, helping fuel some of the company's biggest growth to date. She also shares the lessons learned between the births of her two children, how she built systems that allowed the business to operate independently, and the unexpected challenges that came when she felt disconnected from a company that no longer relied on her every day. At four months postpartum with her daughter, Katie found herself struggling with loneliness and a loss of purpose before rediscovering her spark through part-time work, strong co-parenting with Dave, and the support of a nanny. We also dive into the fascinating science behind clean skincare, common causes of problem skin, and Katie's practical advice for anyone looking to improve their skin health. This conversation is an honest and refreshing look at ambition, motherhood, identity, business growth, and what it really means to build a life and career on your own terms. Thanks Katie for the 20% discount code too: LOVEPATTY at check out. Don't forget to like and subscribe, share with a friend and give us a 5 star review.  Love Patty. xxx https://sabbiaco.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/sabbiaco/ Love Patty Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lovepattypodcast/  
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  63|Sam- Fertility rollercoaster IVF Identical twins, IUI, Ectopic, missed miscarriage and welcoming baby number 3. 24.05.2026 1t 34min

  In this episode, Sam opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of her journey to motherhood, from heartbreak and loss to the chaos and beauty of raising three little ones. She shares her experience with infertility, a missed miscarriage, failed IUI cycles, and the decision to move forward with IVF, which led to the birth of her identical twin boys. Sam also speaks honestly about her C-section birth and recovery, the realities of postpartum life, and how essential having her mum as her village and support system truly is. We also dive into the devastating experience of an ectopic pregnancy and salpingectomy, before Sam’s journey led her back to IVF once again to welcome her baby girl. From surviving the 4-month sleep regression to co-sleeping, musical beds, and navigating life with babies who don’t sleep, this conversation is a raw and relatable look at modern motherhood. Sam also shares the emotional process of deciding their family was complete, from her partner getting a vasectomy to making the incredibly difficult decision of when they will take their remaining embryos off snow sleep. This episode is honest, vulnerable, and filled with the kind of conversations so many parents quietly carry behind closed doors. We love sharing these stories, please spread love and send to a friend. Love Patty xoxo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LovePattyPodcast Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lovepattypodcast/
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  62|Dr Tina Fleming, Endometriosis, Pelvic Pain , ovulation pain, diagnosis and treatments, fertility, women being heard, women’s health, future treatments 10.05.2026 57min

  In this empowering episode, we sit down with the incredible Dr Tina Fleming, OBGYN based on the Gold Coast specialising in pelvic pain, endometriosis, fertility care, and fertility treatments. This conversation is deeply personal for Chloe, as Dr Tina performed one of her miscarriage surgeries and later supported her through and performed  her successful IVF transfer with baby Jack. Chloe shares how Dr Tina and the entire team at Grace Private became a compassionate and supportive presence throughout her infertility journey. Together, we dive into many important and often misunderstood topics surrounding women’s health, including pelvic pain, endometriosis and adenomyosis, medical gaslighting, ovulation pain, perimenopause, hysterectomies, fertility knowledge and treatment options, IVF journeys, as well as diagnosis pathways and future treatment possibilities. Dr Tina is also a strong advocate for women’s symptoms and medical history being taken seriously when assessing suspected endometriosis, without women needing an ultrasound or laparoscopy to feel believed or validated by their healthcare practitioner. Most importantly, we discuss the importance of women being heard, validated, and genuinely supported by their healthcare providers. This episode is packed with knowledge and reassurance for any woman experiencing pelvic pain or fertility struggles, and we learnt so much from this incredible conversation with Dr Tina. Listen now for an open and informative discussion on women’s health, pain management, fertility, and advocacy.  Love,Chloe & Clare xx
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  61|Lara~Mrs Lardeedah, Your Go-To guid for family fun and making motherhood easier. Playgrounds to plane trips, you don't want to miss this. 26.04.2026 1t 13min

  In this episode, we sit down with Lara Mum to 2 boys and, the face behind Mrs Lardeedah, a go-to guide for families looking to make the most out of life with kids. Based on the Gold Coast, Lara has built a loyal community by sharing honest playground reviews, family-friendly activities, must-visit restaurants, and practical tips for travelling with little ones in tow. We chat about how she turned everyday outings into a trusted resource for parents, the realities of exploring with kids (yes, the chaos included), and her mission to make motherhood feel lighter, more fun, and a whole lot more supported. Clare expressed how Lara's playgroup map and 'fenced' filter option was a lifesaver for toddler mums with kids who run! Whether you’re planning your next weekend adventure, searching for a kid-friendly café, or just need inspiration to get out of the house, this episode is packed with ideas and reassurance that you’re not doing this motherhood thing alone. We chat solo parenting, fussy eating and scare Chloe about the chaos of venturing out whilst toilet training... Lara's instagram @mrslardeedah is a must follow for all SEQ families. She has over 100 playground reviews and is in the know with all the free activities happening around the coast. We know you will love this ep and hope it brings easy to your next family outing. Love Patty x https://www.mrslardeedah.com https://www.facebook.com/mrslardeedah https://www.instagram.com/mrslardeedah/ Love Patty: https://www.instagram.com/lovepattypodcast/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@LovePattyPodcast  
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  60 | S7! Solo ep Clare and Chloe, Life updates, baby jack, house move, toddler mess, ocp for ovulation pain, childcare options, return to work, second baby fertility chat, first birthday as a Mum, our first love patty event, yin and yangs to our husbands, having them on for an ep, s7 line up 12.04.2026 1t 14min

  Episode 60 kicks off Season 7 with just us — Clare and Chloe — sitting down for a long overdue life catch-up. We’re sharing the raw, beautiful chaos of this season of life — from life with baby Jack (nearly 8 months and the sweetest, smiley age) to navigating toddler mess (hello tin on milo poured into the new carpet), the whirlwind of moving house. We open up Clare's disappointing experience with trying the OCP for ovulation pain, discuss childcare options, and what returning to work really feels like when your heart is split in two places. There’s also a deeply honest chat about second baby fertility. This episode also marks a milestone: Chloe’s first birthday as a mum — a moment to reflect on how much life, identity, and love can change in a single year. We also share the joy of hosting our very first Love Patty event (still pinching ourselves!) and dive into a fun, real conversation about the hilarious “yin and yang” dynamics with our husbands (some great giglges here) — plus… should we finally get them on the podcast? And of course, we’re giving you a little sneak peek into what’s coming in Season 7 — some exciting chats ahead! Love Patty xx
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  59| Tara CMV pregnancy, From Survival to Soul Rising: Tara's Story of Motherhood, Healing and Purpose. 29.03.2026 1t 24min

  Welcome back to Love Patty This week we’re joined by the incredible Tara; mum of three, co-founder of Soul Rising Collective women’s retreats, and the woman behind the Gold Coast’s only clothes library. Tara bravely shares the story of her first pregnancy, where she was diagnosed with CMV and faced the unimaginable — being advised to terminate. She takes us through the emotional rollercoaster of seeking a second opinion, finding hope with a compassionate MFM specialist, and enduring weekly testing, MRIs, and blood work. From being told she wouldn’t be able to breastfeed to planning a C-section, Tara opens up about the fear, uncertainty, and strength it took to keep going. She also shares how she turned to vlogging as a form of therapy, creating her YouTube channel “CMV Stops With Me,” and the moment everything shifted, when her daughter Frankie was born healthy, with no signs of complications. Beyond her birth story, Tara speaks candidly about losing herself in motherhood with three little ones close in age, and how slowly reconnecting with joy and fun for herself sparked something bigger. That spark became Soul Rising Collective women's retreats designed for mums to simply arrive, be held, and reconnect with themselves. With Tara’s background in breath work and women’s circles, these retreats are all about rediscovering you. Clare first met Tara through her clothes library, a beautiful, practical solution to the fast fashion cycle so many of us are stuck in. What started as a simple idea while working in a pool shop has grown into a powerful community resource, helping women borrow outfits, save money, and reduce waste. There’s even a toy library, so your little ones can enjoy something new without the cost or environmental impact. This is a heartfelt and hope-filled conversation, for anyone navigating a CMV diagnosis, considering VBAC, or simply needing a reminder that you’re allowed to find yourself again in motherhood. Trigger warning: pregnancy loss and stillbirth are discussed in this episode. Thank you for being here and for your ongoing support. Love Patty xoxo Women's empowerment Travel: https://www.soulrising-collective.com/ Clothes Library: https://www.instagram.com/slow_down_fastfashion/reels/
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  58 | Elizabeth rodeo videographer, working single mum, finding yourself after divorce, following your intuition, creativity, filling your cup, western world, online community, supporting women, cowboy thirst traps 15.03.2026 1t 27min

  In this episode we chat with Elizabeth — a rodeo videographer, full-time manager, single mum of two, and the creative force behind three thriving Instagram accounts with nearly 90K followers on her rodeo contest page. Just a few years ago, none of this existed. After navigating the heartbreak of divorce, Elizabeth felt a quiet but persistent intuitive pull to try something completely new. With zero experience in photography and no connections to the rodeo or western world, she bought a camera, booked a flight to a rodeo, and started filming — despite many people close to her advising against it. What began as a leap of faith quickly turned into a creative passion and an entirely new chapter. Through capturing the raw, gritty world of bull riding and rodeo culture, Elizabeth found not only her artistic voice but also a supportive community and a growing online audience captivated by her authentic storytelling — and yes, occasionally her viral “thirst trap” videos featuring some very photogenic bull riders (hello that heated rivalry soundtrack reel!). In this honest, funny and deeply inspiring conversation, we talk about rebuilding your identity after divorce, the realities of solo parenting, following intuitive nudges even when they don’t make sense, and how she entered the western and rodeo world with no prior connections. Elizabeth shares what it’s really like filming bull riders behind the scenes, the moments that unexpectedly went viral online, navigating anxiety and mum guilt, and the double standards working mums often face. We also chat about financial independence, single life and dating advice for the ladies, western fashion and etiquette, and the exciting plans she has in the works for a huge new project aligned with her Single Cowboy brand. We recorded this conversation over Zoom before 7am Australian time (because mums), while Elizabeth joined us from Virginia. Naturally, our kids chose that night to not sleep — so this episode was powered by coffee, concealer, and plenty of laughs. The conversation felt less like an interview and more like three friends catching up over coffee… or maybe a cocktail. Elizabeth’s story is proof that rejection really can be redirection, and that it’s never too late to start again, follow your creativity, and build something meaningful — especially when you’re doing it to show your children what resilience looks like.We absolutely loved this chat and know you will too. Love,Patty xx
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  57| Solo Clare & Chloe. Feeding Battles, mum guilt & saying goodbye to Digger Pa. 01.03.2026 1t 33min

  Patty's this one is a big one. We start with baby Jack, who is now six months old, and the feeding challenges that have completely rocked the boat. From CMPI allergy and bottle aversion to navigating a full multidisciplinary team, we talk about what it’s really like when feeding isn’t “just feeding.” The appointments, the conflicting advice, the mental load… and the mum guilt that creeps in anyway. Chloe shares about advocating for herself after experiencing her first panic attack in seven years. What followed was pathology, answers, and a diagnosis of postpartum thyroiditis. A reminder that sometimes anxiety isn’t “just in your head,” and that mums deserve thorough care too. Clare opens up about seeing the incredible Tina, our trusted gynaecologist, and starting the OCP in hopes of finally getting relief from debilitating ovulation pain. Clare also unpack the chaos of moving house with toddlers, the stress that simmers underneath it all, and her controversial thought… bringing TV back for the kids!? And then, in the final 30 minutes, everything shifts. Clare and Chloe open up about the sudden passing of Clare’s beautiful Dad, Tony. It’s unfiltered. It’s raw. There is ugly crying. There are lifelong memories that will make you laugh through tears. We talk about what it means to navigate grief while still having to show up every single day as a mother. If you are holding loss in one hand and motherhood in the other, we see you. We hold space for you. This episode is dedicated to our beloved “Digger Pa.” We love you. We miss you. Always. Love, George & Emma 🤍
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  56| Ebony Power Tools & Power Moves. DIY, Home Reno's mum of 4, dealing with media trolls and the balance between Bunnings or beauty. 15.02.2026 1t 28min

  This week on Love Patty Podcast, we sit down with Ebony, mum of four, DIY queen, and fearless creative. She proves you don’t need a massive budget (or a professional crew) to build a home you love. From renovating room by room while raising four kids, to learning as she goes (yes, mistakes and all), Ebony shares how women can trust their instincts, back their style, and just start (even when it feels scary). we talk about learning as you go, involving your children in the process, and why embracing your personal style is an act of confidence. Ebony reminds us that perfection isn't the goal, courage is.  We also dive in to the realities of life as a content creator: navigating comparison culture, the highlight reels, the hustle, and how to handle trolls without losing your shine. This episode is for every woman who’s been waiting for permission to pick up the drill, take up space, and take a chance. If you've ever doubted whether you're capable, creative or brave enough - this episode will remind you that you absolutely are.    Love Patty
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  55 | Taneeka: From 1 to 3 children after twins, peri/ postnatal depression, Positive Vaginal Birth, Induction Experience, SAHM Life & Traveling with Kids 01.02.2026 1t 23min

  Patty's we know you love a birth story, and Taneeka has kindly shared both her positive vaginal birth's- first with her son and then with her twin girls. This chat is so wholesome for mothers in all phases of life. Neek's talks on making the choice to be a full time SAHM after finding out she was pregnant with the girls. This  was a difficult decision, as returning to work after having her son was a 'mind break' ; the identity shift of not "working" for the first time was hard to navigate. Although we all know the hardest and most rewarding "job" in the world is being a Mum, we all feel the guilt of needing to be more. We open up on the jump from 1 to 2/3 kids, and the grief you feel for your first borns; being pulled in so many directions.  We chat the growth your heart feels at welcoming more children into your life, the special bonds between siblings, and how we need to lower the expectations on older siblings and remember they are little too. Neek’s speaks on feeling so anxious overwhelmed and mentally flat in her first pregnancy, and how taking time for herself- working out at the gym and listening to other women's stories,  made her feel less alone. Her pregnancy and birth with the girls was very healing for  her motherhood wound, we also touch on travelling with the children, and the amazing experience of caravan travel with her family. Please share this with any other twin mums,  pregnant or postpartum women. You are amazing.  Love Patty. xxx
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  54| Ashlee Mum of 4! 4 different fertility journey's, IVF, birth stories, HG, recoveries, laparoscopies, endometriosis, ulcerative colitis, post partum anxiety, intrusive thoughts, isolation, therapy, stay at home mum, hardest transitions, reflective compassion for first time mum worries,sleep deprivation, colic, intolerances, relaxing into motherhood, complex decisions to take embryo's off ice, studying, letting go of mothering perfection, thriving as a big family 19.01.2026 1t 40min

  Ep 54 is the widest chat yet, and we loved every minute of it. Join Chloe, Clare and Ashlee for a big, honest, funny (quite a few giggles!) and deeply heartfelt conversation that covers so many topics! Ashlee is a Mum of four, aged 35 (currently studying this year!) and has been with her husband since she was 17. She opens up about her full fertility journey, with each child conceived differently; natural conception, Clomid, IUI and IVF, all delivered with Dr Drew Moffrey from the Gold Coast. We talk through her birth stories, including two emergency and two planned C-sections, an attempted VBAC, and the realities of post-birth recovery. Ashlee shares her experience living with chronic illness, including late-discovered endometriosis with bowel involvement, multiple laparoscopies, ulcerative colitis, and hyperemesis gravidarum, aka extreme! pregnancy sickness. She speaks honestly about the toll it takes and how she managed it alongside Motherhood. We also dive into post-partum anxiety, extreme intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, the scenarios our brain can play out to us, and the role therapy played in her healing. Ashlee reflects on becoming a Mum for the first time, being the first in her friend group, the intense anxiety she did not recognise until later, and how she struggled to ever leave her babies, even with her husband. Add extreme sleep deprivation and a so-called “colic baby” (later discovered to have intolerances) and it is no wonder that transition from zero to one felt like the hardest of all. One of the most emotional parts of the episode is Ashlee sharing the incredibly nuanced and difficult decision to take frozen embryos out of storage, or as we lovingly call it, snow sleep. It’s a conversation filled with compassion and honesty that so many women will resonate with. Now feeling like much more of a relaxed Mum, Ashlee looks back wishing she could give her first-time mum self a big hug. She speaks about how much she loves her big, fun family, being a stay at home Mum for several years now, and how the journey has brought her and her husband even closer. This episode is a reminder that there is no such thing as perfect mothering.. nor should we pressure outselves to do it all! The sheets do not need washing every week, and if you end up cuddled in bed watching a Disney movie because your baby is not tired at 8pm, that is more than okay. Women feeling seen and heard is what this chat is all about. We loved this conversation. Ps, Ashlee you have been through so much, a warrior and amazing woman, lovingly supporting your big beautiful family! Love the Patty’s Xx
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  53| Mirinda: Satya.psychology; Matrescence, birth trauma, surrendering in motherhood, postpartum identity loss, mental load & burnout, self-care vs avoidance, toxic productivity, walk-and-talk therapy, emotional regulation, mind-body healing, grief, and the duality of motherhood feelings. 04.01.2026 1t 23min

  Episode 53 with amazing Mirinda from satya.psychology, a mum of toddler twins boys! psych- and trauma-informed yoga teacher, and walk-and-talk therapist.  This  conversation sits at the intersection of mental health, holistic wellbeing, and the very real mental load carried by modern mums. The invisible juggling. The constant thinking. The love and resentment, gratitude and grief—all existing at the same time. We unpack matrescence and birth trauma, the loss (and reshaping) of identity in postpartum, and what it truly means to surrender in motherhood while learning to be comfortable with discomfort. There’s a grounded look at self care—how to voice support, and the honest difference berween “I need a break” and “I need to numb out…avoidance, numbing and actually honouring what you need in that moment, This episode also explores toxic productivity, emotional regulation (why it’s not about staying calm but about learning to feel), and the powerful mind-body approach to therapy. We dive into why walking—side by side, in motion—can gently rewire the nervous system and create space for clarity, regulation, and healing. Also hey positive multi-talking with exercise, talking, fresh air, sunshine and getting the dog or baby for a walk too. A conversation that honours duality, holds space for grief, and reminds mums that multiple truths can coexist—and that you’re still a good person for feeling them all. We loved tbis multi-faceted chat and cannot wIt to book some walk and talk therapy with satya.psychology!  love patty xx
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  52| Kayla. VBAC birth, Nurturing the mother, planning postpartum and finding harmony of masculine v feminine energy. 14.12.2025 1t 42min

  Please welcome Kayla Ruston, former founder of The PCOS Bible and Motherhood Leaked podcast, now mum of two and womb wellness coach. Kayla empowers women to reconnect with and reclaim their feminine essence and transform their pain into power. Clare and Kayla have a very long friendship going back to gymnastics when they were 5 years old, living in a share house with first loves, and then entering into motherhood at the same time with our first-born sons. They bonded over tricky transitions into motherhood, loss of identity, and expectations as first-time mums versus the healing second postpartum. Clare and Kayla both suffered with postnatal anxiety with their first-borns, and they openly talk about how that manifested for each of them and the paths they took to manage this, whilst reflecting on how healthy second births and postpartum can be. Kayla wisely states the importance of nurturing the mother’s spark, as her light guides the path for the whole family unit. If we forget to feed the flame of the mother, then everyone is left in the dark. We approach how self-care manifests for us, how we reclaim a sense of self in postpartum, and that it is okay to want more than “just being mum.” Clare was able to help Kayla plan her VBAC birth for Ari, her second-born son, and we dive into the tricky mix of woo-woo spirituality, whilst also being comfortable with modern medicine, and how you can have a beautiful birth in a hospital setting. Kayla had to let go of “success” being a home birth with no interventions, when in fact we need to validate birth in all forms. So much of birth is about the strength of letting go, lowering expectations, and leaning into your intuition — all things important for postpartum. Kayla had a painful posterior labour and had to surrender many prior “ideals” for her birth. This chat is raw, honest, and healing on all accounts. The perfect reminder to soften and accept our feminine energy and let go of the fast-paced, task-driven, goal-setting masculine side of us. A touch of woo-woo spirituality, balanced with the realness of motherhood. Love,Patty x
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  51| S6! Clare & Chloe Update! Baby life, Colonoscopy, iron deficiency, postpartum intimacy, ovulation pain and ADHD diagnosis. 07.12.2025 50min

    Season 6! — and we’re kicking things off with a cosy, no-filter solo chat with Clare and Chloe. It’s been ages since we’ve sat down for a simple life update, so we’re diving into all the things we’ve been navigating behind the scenes. From the so-called “must-have” baby products we may or may not have cheated on… to the postpartum ovulation pain!! And petiod pain (seriously, WTF is going on?). We touch on post-partum intimacy — and some important, less glamorous bits: colonoscopies, advocating for your own health instead of blaming everything on “mum fatigue,” iron deficiency, and even B6 toxicity (yes, it’s a thing). Clare also opens up about her ADHD diagnosis and her ongoing medication journey, sharing honestly about what’s worked, what hasn’t, and what she’s still figuring out. It’s raw, it’s real,— and it feels good to be back. love patty xx