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  We All Confront Each Other, & the WHGS Family May Never Recover… | WHGS 341 14.09.2026 1t 10min

  Tensions are HIGH in this episode, listener! It’s a non-traditional WHGS family episode today, and it may be one of our most raw and emotional episodes to date… Joined by both our fantastic co-hosts and comedians Lizzy Cassidy and Ali Kolbert, it all gets laid bare: Ashley confronts Ali on why she’s so intimidating, Ali confronts Ashley on why she’s so intimidated, the room confronts Ashley and Jen on why they haven’t got married, and Lizzy confronts strangers about their children. In-between, we discuss novel approaches to giving head, energy patches, and going to the movies. And to top it all off, some devastating news is dropped that may change the WHGS family forever… FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alvrahas  Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/alvrahas  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get affordable and personalized treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Amelia Montooth Prefers to Start Threeways Over Dinner | WHGS 340 07.09.2026 1t 12min

  This episode is being BOLD, listener! Amelia Montooth is the founder and CEO of Mutuals Media — the people behind your favorite online queer content like “Gaydar” with Anania, but today she’s in the apartment to get behind YOU with a strap! We discuss starting threesomes with strangers at pride, initiating it inside a crowded Thai restaurant, changing relationship habits, starting Mutuals Media, and the trauma caused by Tumblr and AskFM. How gay were Ashley’s parents?! Did Lizzy get discriminated against for getting gay married?! FOLLOW AMELIA, GAYDAR, & MUTUALS MEDIA: Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/mutualsmedia/  https://www.instagram.com/gaydarshow/  https://www.instagram.com/ameliamontooth/  TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@mutualsmedia  https://www.tiktok.com/@gaydar.show  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gaydarshow  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/X8gYb2mJT68  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Use code GAY50OFF for 50% OFF + FREE breakfasts at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Edy Modica Has an “Understanding” With Her Boyfriend | WHGS 338 31.08.2026 1t 6min

  This episode is open and free, listener! Edy Modica (Jury Duty, Let’s Start a Cult) is a hilarious comedian, actor, and content creator that had you chuckling on one of the greatest TV shows of our current time, but now she’s on the couch to show something NASTIER on screen! We discuss having an open relationship dynamic with your boyfriend, using your arrangement to flash strangers on the internet, butt play, pansexuality, and sexting people with gusto. Ashley asks Jen for permission to MILF. Lizzy gets gay married.  FOLLOW EDY MODICA: Watch her special premiere, “I’m Just Like You (And It Sucks), this 9/17 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMhAV7XrSKM   Or, Watch it NOW on VEEPS: https://veeps.com/edymodica  See her LIVE: https://linktr.ee/edytree  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doodiehole/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJs__QcRSjGMpyRbchWmXHQ  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/ecbxpFCqIcI  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Hannah Beck Escaped an Arranged Marriage Cult | WHGS 337 24.08.2026 1t 4min

  This episode is surviving a crazy childhood, listener! Hannah Beck is a hilarious queer Chicago-based comedian and podcaster that’s performing at the biggest venues across the city, but today she’s in the apartment to escape the biggest CULTS in America. We discuss growing up in a crazy cult, escaping it through your gay bestie, the best ways to flirt as a lesbian, how to tell if you’re on a date, and how dating men is a recession indicator. Against all odds — Ashley’s Brazilian MILF arc continues… and it gets GILFy. Lizzy can definitely tell when it’s not a date. FOLLOW HANNAH BECK: Listen to her podcast, “Cross My Heart,” wherever you listen: https://open.spotify.com/show/3qE6BxlVULLxWli5n6e2BL  Tour Dates: https://hannahbeckcomedy.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahbeckcomedy/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hannahbeckcomedy  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HannahBeckComedy  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/znV7URqtotU  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized & affordable treatment at www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Maddie Wiener’s Official WHGS Farewell! | WHGS 337 17.08.2026 1t 8min

  Get tickets to Maddie’s LIVE special taping on 9/20 in NYC! It will be the funniest thing you’ve ever seen, and the entire WHGS crew will be there: 6pm - https://www.comedycellar.com/reservations-newyork/?showid=1789941600  8pm - https://www.comedycellar.com/reservations-newyork/?showid=1789948800  This episode is a year too late, listener! Maddie Wiener is a stand-up comedian, staff writer at Saturday Night Live, and the FORMER co-host of WHGS, but today she’s in the apartment to give Bottom Nation some closure (and maybe some head). We discuss what Maddie has been up to, getting heart surgery, gender identity, its links to neurodivergence, sexism inside and out of relationships, and whether or not Heated Rivalry made you trans or horny. Ashley got socialized poorly. Lizzy treats her new strain of bi-polar disorder. FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener Go to her special taping: 6pm -https://www.comedycellar.com/reservations-newyork/?showid=1789941600  8pm - https://www.comedycellar.com/reservations-newyork/?showid=1789948800  Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/irHrgT-4f5A  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Eliot Glazer (Broad City, New Girl) Finds Hidden Booty on the Pacific Islands | WHGS 336 10.08.2026 1t 10min

  This episode is going on some kinky vacations, listener! Eliot Glazer is a delightful comedian, writer, actor, and the mind behind some of your favorite TV shows ever made, but today he’s in the apartment to get behind some handsome fellas — if you catch our drift! We discuss the phenomenon of big gay vacations, going to secret cove orgies on pacific islands, short-term flings while you are traveling, and which has a larger cultural impact: Shrek… or 9/11? Ashley encounters her childhood bully once more. Lizzy goes to a FLINTA sex party.  FOLLOW ELIOT GLAZER: Get his new book, “The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Gay:” https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Terrible-Horrible-No-Good-Very-Bad-Gay/Eliot-Glazer/9781668085424 Get tickets to a book launch event: https://linktr.ee/eliotglazer  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eliotglazer/  Twitter: https://x.com/eliotglazer  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/NDvDC-mT0UY  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized and affordable treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay  QUINCE: Get FREE shipping and 365-day returns at https://www.quince.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Comedians on Couches Swapping Girlfriends (w/ Freddie Shanel, Camille Schmidt, Jen & Sam) | WHGS 335 03.08.2026 1t 10min

  This episode is doin’ group stuff, listener! It’s a WHGS first as we shove FIVE whole guests onto the pod — Hilarious non-binary comedian & JFL New Face Freddie Shanel, their super talented girlfriend & musician Camille Schmidt, Ashley’s beloved GF Jen Davis, and comedian Sam Morrison (but he’s only allowed to watch). We discuss getting clocked as non-binary before you even knew it yourself, gender presentation, body image, having identical GFs, and car crashes giving you amazing skin. Ashley needs her tatas treated right. Sam takes a BIG one. FOLLOW FREDDIE SHANEL: See them live/Join their mailing list: https://linktr.ee/freddieshanel  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freddie.shanel1/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freddieshanel  Twitter: https://x.com/freddie_shanel  FOLLOW CAMILLE SCHMIDT: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/0XGV1FXgyGB0yg6lPcfQg1  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/camillejschmidt/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@camillejschmidt  FOLLOW SAM MORRISON:  See him at Fringe in Edinburgh ALL AUGUST: https://tickets.gildedballoon.co.uk/event/14:7149/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samuelhmorrison/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samuelhmorrison  Twitter/X: https://x.com/samuelhmorrison  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW JEN DAVIS: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/VHEYKkRgOxw  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Use code GAY50OFF for 50% OFF + FREE breakfasts at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Kevin Atwater’s One Night Stand in an ACTUAL Haunted House… | WHGS 334 27.07.2026 1t 1min

  This episode is in the TWILIGHT ZONE, listener! Kevin Atwater is an incredible queer musician who has garnered millions of listens across TikTok and Spotify with his honest songwriting, but today he’s in the apartment to honestly tell us one of the freakiest stories we’ve heard… We discuss otherworldly hookups in haunted houses filled with stuffed animals, writing queer music, getting started as a fan editor, and GHB patches getting you through it all. Ashley heals past trauma with love. Ali is going crazy. FOLLOW KEVIN ATWATER: Listen to his new album, “Blush Red,” right NOW: https://open.spotify.com/album/7fMmi1DkgkI1fdOhRFxUpg  He’s on tour! Get tickets here: https://www.kevin-atwater.com/tour  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kevatwater  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kevinatwatermusic  Twitter: https://x.com/kevatwater  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/91HfXUcjqqs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Polyamory Will Save Your Relationships (w/ Neil Rubenstein) | WHGS 333 20.07.2026 1t 6min

  This episode is OPEN and HONEST, listener! Neil Rubenstein is an incredible pansexual comedian who regularly opens for Ashley on the road, but today they’re meeting in the HOTEL ROOM for something a bit more saucy… We discuss polyamory, its benefits & challenges, mental health & healing, sex vs. gender expression, hooking up with gay republicans, and falling in love with a poly granny. Ashley goes in-depth on being open. Neil goes gay on the road. FOLLOW NEIL RUBENSTEIN: He’s on tour! Sign up for his mailing list to find out where: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1ZtPjhYREDKcbpqAtJJS1ILEOjWhRLCPj_i56ckOLBvk/viewform?edit_requested=true  Join his Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/NeilRubenstein  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsneilrubenstein  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neilrubenstein/  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/fNA5VDox8_I  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Daylight: The Unlikely Secret for a Better Sex Life (w/ Caitlin Peluffo) | WHGS 332 13.07.2026 1t 10min

  Watch Caitlin Peluffo’s new special, “Prosciutto Rose,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8M5HKgLyjcI — If you like Ashley’s comedy, you’re gonna love Caitlin! This episode is making sexy choices, listener! Caitlin Peluffo is a fan-favorite stand up comedian HOT off her success on Kevin Hart’s “Funny AF,” but today she’s returning to the apartment for the 4th time for some afternoon delight! We discuss making love in the middle of the day, energy vs. physical appearance, self-image when flirting, and going for the throat in a chicken fight. Ashley argues with homophobic gamers. Lizzy likes ‘em THICK. FOLLOW CAITLIN PELUFFO: She’s on tour! Get tickets here: https://punchup.live/caitlinpeluffo  Watch her on Kevin Hart’s “Funny AF” NOW: https://www.netflix.com/title/82054722  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@caitlinpeluffo  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caitlinpeluffo/  Twitter: https://x.com/caitlinpeluffo  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/_RhAymRBac8  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized and affordable treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  My GF (Jen Davis) and I Had a Relationship Ending Fight… | WHGS Ep. 331 06.07.2026 1t 8min

  This episode is FIGHTING, listener! Jen Davis is an incredible actor, content creator, and Ashley’s perfect girlfriend, but today she’s sitting on the couch to chew Ashley out — and NOT in that way, listener! We discuss hooking up with people out of the country, the beauty of a long-distance fling, drawing boundaries with your partner, and being cute even in your sleep. Ashley gets in serious hot water with Jen. Lizzy does domestic violence. FOLLOW JEN DAVIS: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/2OlG4Ngl09I  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Use code GAY50OFF for 50% OFF and FREE daily greens at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off   HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Ali Kolbert’s Secret to Stopping Comphet | WHGS Ep. 330 29.06.2026 1t 1min

  This episode is learning and growing, listener! It’s been a long time coming — a catch up with beloved comedian and friend of the show Ali Kolbert! It’s a duo episode today as we discuss what everyone’s been up to, straight propaganda in the New York Times, navigating comphet, disgustingly stinky ladies, and the three qualities you MUST have in order to get onto a boat. Also Ali made a VIRAL QUEER MOVIE?! You gotta tune in. SUPPORT ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert Watch her queer short film, “NO SEX,” now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpTo1U8ye-0  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/iX8aW5SdLYw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Gen Z Doesn’t Know How to Kiss w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 329 22.06.2026 1t 3min

  This episode is smooching, listener! Beloved actor, comedian, writer, and friend Breanne Williamson RETURNS for the annual ASH-BRE CATCH-UP — and you best believe there is gonna be some kissing involved! We discuss the crisis of kissing in younger generations, Love Island, the mental illness of young men, European vs. American sense of humor, and whether or not “Belly” is sexy dirty talk. Ashley has her DIRTIEST sex yet (literally). Bre wants romance. FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/K21UJXAzr_I  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized & affordable care at https://www.forhers.com/gay  HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Sabrina Wu’s WIERD Approach to Losing Their Queer Virginity | WHGS Ep. 328 15.06.2026 1t 7min

  (TW // self harm discussion; 8:14 - 9:52) This episode is making awkward moves, listener! Sabrina Wu (they/them) is an unfathomably funny stand up comedian, writer, and actor who you've seen on Joy Ride, Murderbot, and Abbot Elementary — but today they’re in the apartment to pop their queer cherry! We discuss realizing you’re gay when young, the bizarre ways you explore at that age, genderqueer identity vs. perception, acting, and getting called a filthy little PIG. Ashley reconnects with a messy fling. Lizzy experiments with polyamory. SUPPORT SABRINA WU: Watch them LIVE on tour: https://linktr.ee/sabwu  Watch Murderbot on Apple TV: https://tv.apple.com/us/show/murderbot/umc.cmc.5owrzntj9v1gpg31wshflud03  Watch Dying for Sex on Hulu: https://www.hulu.com/series/423f6320-b55b-453b-a85f-dea05bd495d9  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asabrinawu  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asabrinawu/  Twitter: https://x.com/asabrinawu  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/TRhH8Wg4YEQ  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: TOMBOYX: Use code GAY15 to get 15% OFF your order at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Zach Noe Towers Didn’t Watch “Heated Rivalry" — He LIVED It | WHGS Ep. 327 08.06.2026 1t 5min

  This episode is living through a real fantasy, listener! Zach Noe Towers is an endlessly lovable stand up comedian whose work has been featured on E!, Netflix, and Comedy Central, but today he’s in the apartment to showcase his work from GRINDR! We discuss having a LEGENDARY hookup straight out of “Heated Rivalry,” interpreting flirty body language, short & fiery flings, and big boy dumps. Ashley teaches a homophobic teen a lesson. Lizzy struggles for vacation sex. SUPPORT ZACH NOE TOWERS: Watch his special, “Twink Death,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmIxzOLtOQo  See Him LIVE: https://punchup.live/zachnoetowers/tour  Listen to “Good Morning, Sodomites” wherever you listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-morning-sodomites/id1533562889  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@zachnoetowers  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zachnoetowers/  Twitter: https://x.com/ZachNoeTowers  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/XZocFdfkQxk  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  TOMBOYX: Use code GAY15 to get 15% OFF your order at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Rachel Karp Went to EVERY Lesbian Bar in America | WHGS Ep. 326 01.06.2026 1t 11min

  This episode is going out tonight, listener! Rachel Karp is a writer, producer, and lesbian bar expert who has been documenting the history of sapphic nightlife in America, but today she’s in the sapphic space of Ashley’s apartment — and we’re doin’ BODY SHOTS! We discuss lesbian history through the lens of queer bars, the characters and stories found in them, age-gap relationships, and kissing your wife for the first time at a queer sex party. Ashley realizes she can get head. Lizzy ponders queer vs. gay. SUPPORT RACHEL: Read “The Lesbian Bar Chronicles” right NOW: https://www.rachelbkarp.com/  Listen to her podcast, “Cruising,” wherever you listen: https://www.rachelbkarp.com/podcasts  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachel.karp/  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/SutaDh61tpQ  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Use code GAY50OFF to get 50% OFF + free daily greens at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  HERS: Get personalized and affordable care at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Dodie Writes Gay Anthems While Being Straight | WHGS Ep. 325 25.05.2026 1t 5min

  This episode is musical, listener! WHGS is comin’ at you from ENGLAND with Dodie — an incredible singer, songwriter, and YouTuber with top-charting albums and a hit single, “She,” that took over Lesbian TikTok. We discuss writing queer anthems before knowing you’re queer, the odd ways you explore bisexuality before coming out, internalized homophobia, breakups, and being just like Zooey Deschanel — AKA, hot. Ashley needs sex for career accomplishments. Lizzy gets in quickies between childcare.  FOLLOW DODIE: Listen to her new album, “Not For Lack Of Trying,” NOW: https://open.spotify.com/album/6ogKuILl7vFFCahzxHvFOi  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doddleoddle/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doddleoddle  Twitter: https://x.com/doddleoddle  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@doddleoddle Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.dodie.co/  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/US_4IKSHyJA  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: TOMBOYX: Get 15% OFF your order with code GAY15 at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  I Made a Listener Trans (and Other Stories) | WHGS Ep. 324 18.05.2026 57min

  Get the full versions of all these highlights, PLUS uncut episodes, live streams, live show tickets, and MORE at https://www.patreon.com/WHGS. Ashley has just wrapped up her 2026 tour in Europe (thanks to everyone who came out to a show), so to give her a week to recover, we have decided to release a bunch of highlights from our exclusive PATREON ONLY bonus series — You’re Having Gay Sex. We react to CRAZY sex stories submitted by YOU, our listeners, and in-between, we banter about a variety of topics too strange to put on the main episodes. Enjoy this free sample of the WHGS PATREON!!! FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/  FOLLOW JOSH JOHNSON Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.joshjohnsoncomedy.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshjohnsoncomedy/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JoshJohnsonComedy  FOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/O0sGXBdOsLU  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  What is “Topping/Bottoming” for Lesbians? (w/ Award-Winning Writer Carmen Machado) | WHGS Ep. 323 11.05.2026 1t 12min

  This episode is all about theory, listener! Carmen Maria Machado is an author, essayist, and finalist for the National Book Award with her impressive body of work around queer identity, but today she’s in the apartment to put her genius towards solving age-old queer conundrums! We discuss topping vs. bottoming as a lesbian, what that actually entails, how it manifests in practice, and the Renaissance Faire. Ashley and Jen accidentally ask a man for a threeway. Lizzy experiences cinematic heartbreak.  FOLLOW CARMEN MARIA MACHADO: Check out her books: https://linktr.ee/carmenmariamachado?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carmenmmachado/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@carmenmariamachado  Website: https://carmenmariamachado.com/image  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/12QVX_B1-4c  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get affordable and personalized treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Interviewing My Girlfriend’s Little Gay Brother (Brad Davis) | WHGS Ep. 322 04.05.2026 1t 10min

  This episode is lore heavy, listener! Brad Davis is a queer musician, tech artist, and my dear girlfriend’s little brother, but today he’s in the apartment to be my little BOTTOM! In addition, for the FIRST TIME… WHGS producer and man-behind-the-camera Alex Vrahas fills in as co-host. It’s a BOYS EP as we discuss romantic flings while abroad, anticipation in sex, coming out, being a very straight-passing gay, and what it’s like to be in the shadow of your super hot sister. Ashley recounts her first time meeting the Davis family. Alex got groped at Pride.     FOLLOW BRAD DAVIS: Listen to his music NOW: https://open.spotify.com/artist/2eLHhv4aVBI0ZVwiSGH6Q6  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcd_rom/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bcd_rom  Live shows: https://www.instagram.com/nfgxcollective/  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/ae8_eTpcgB4  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Head to https://Factormeals.com/gay50off and use code gay50off to get 50 percent off and free daily greens per box, with new subscription only, while supplies last until 09/27/202 HELIX: Go to https://helixsleep.com/gaysex for 27% OFF sitewide! Exclusive for listeners of the show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices