Specialness Pod

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  S3_Ep-09: When Special Needs Means Mental Illness, and No One Takes It Seriously 02.09.2026 1t 14min

  In the mental health world, there is no blood test. No x-ray. Just a subjective judgment that changes from one doctor's office to the next, and a family left to live with the consequences.Jeff and Kim get honest about the part of special needs parenting that society files under "dangerous" or "crazy" and refuses to take seriously. They walk through Cason's mental health journey from the beginning: the manic behavior at four, the neuropsychologist who suspected bipolar one, the renowned psychiatrist who dismissed it as "just ADHD," and the medication trial and error that made everything worse. They also share the terrifying hospital day that no parent should have to fight through, and why the words "he's too young for that" cost their family years.This is a conversation about stigma, about a mental health system that is easy to be failed by, and about why our own community has to be the place understanding starts.If this episode helped you feel a little less alone, subscribe and share it with a family who needs it.#SpecialNeedsParents #MentalHealth #SpecialNeedsFamily #Caregiver #TheSpecialnessPodcast
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  S3_Ep-08: The Special Needs Grief No One Talks About 15.08.2026 1t 13min

  When people hear the word grief, they think someone died. For special needs parents, the grief is different. It's the life you planned for and never got to live, and it doesn't fade. It compounds.In this episode, Jeff and Kim talk openly about the grief nobody in the special needs world seems allowed to name. The milestones that never come. The family gatherings where the gap becomes impossible to ignore. The jealousy that shows up watching friends drop their kids at college. And why, after almost 25 years, the grief has actually gotten heavier, not lighter.If you have ever felt guilty for grieving while still loving your child with everything you have, this one is for you. You have permission to feel it.#SpecialNeedsParents #SpecialNeedsGrief #SpecialNeedsFamily #Caregiver #TheSpecialnessPodcast
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  S3_Ep-07: A Special Needs Mom Doctors Gave No Hope, Twice | Julia Erman (Part 2 of 2) 31.07.2026 47min

  Part 2 of our conversation with Julia Erman, a special needs mom whose two children share an ultra rare diagnosis. This is the half about what she did with it.Julia found out her kids were dying on her birthday, over a Zoom call. In this episode she talks about the faith that gave her peace that same day, why suffering builds a muscle most people never have to grow, and how a conversation at a backyard cookout turned into The Hazelnut Movement, a school program that has now reached 25 schools in 5 states.She also says something that stopped us: her daughter isn't the problem. Her own grief is. This is a conversation about the hard you can control and the hard you cannot.Missed Part 1? Watch it here: https://youtu.be/HqwvSUjrHZwABOUT OUR GUESTJulia Erman is a speaker, author, and founder of The Hazelnut Movement, a nonprofit school assembly program that helps kids understand disability through storytelling. She has written 18 children's books and has been featured in People Magazine and NBC Today Parents.Julia's website, books, and speaking: https://www.juliaerman.co/The Hazelnut Movement, school assemblies and educator resources: https://www.thehazelnutmovement.com/Julia is currently booking school assemblies and keynotes, and she has packets parents can send to their own school administrators. She also offers a free 7-day encouragement series for special needs moms called 7 Days of Hope.Find her on Instagram at @ermanjulia and @thehazelnutmovement.If this episode helped you feel a little less alone, subscribe and share it with a family who needs it.#SpecialNeedsParents #SpecialNeedsMom #RareDisease #SpecialNeedsFamily #TheSpecialnessPodcast
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  S3_Ep-06: A Special Needs Mom Doctors Gave No Hope, Twice | Julia Erman (Part 1 of 2) 24.07.2026 46min

  Our first ever guest. Julia Erman is a special needs mom, author, and founder of The Hazelnut Movement, and both of her children live with a diagnosis that only has a handful of documented cases in the world.In Part 1 of 2, Julia walks us through the beginning. A perfect birth that turned into a NICU emergency in 48 hours. A neurologist who took away every ounce of hope in two words. A second pregnancy that uncovered the cancer four doctors had missed. And the moment, two days after her son was born, when she realized it was happening all over again.This is one of the most honest conversations we have had on this show about grief, diagnosis, and how long it can actually take to find joy again.ABOUT OUR GUESTJulia Erman is a speaker, author, and founder of The Hazelnut Movement, a nonprofit school assembly program that helps kids understand disability through storytelling. She has written 18 children's books and has been featured in People Magazine and NBC Today Parents.Julia's website, books, and speaking: https://www.juliaerman.co/The Hazelnut Movement, school assemblies and educator resources: https://www.thehazelnutmovement.com/Julia is currently booking school assemblies and keynotes, and she has packets parents can send to their own school administrators. She also offers a free 7-day encouragement series for special needs moms called 7 Days of Hope.Find her on Instagram at @ermanjulia and @thehazelnutmovement.If this episode helped you feel a little less alone, subscribe and share it with a family who needs it.#SpecialNeedsParents #SpecialNeedsMom #RareDisease #SpecialNeedsFamily #TheSpecialnessPodcast
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  S3_Ep-05: Who Has It Harder in a Special Needs Marriage? 15.07.2026 55min

  A few weeks ago we posted a reel about the roles each parent plays in a special needs marriage. It passed 70,000 views and lit up our comments, so this week we're unpacking what we actually meant.Jeff said one of us drew "the short end of the stick," and it ruffled feathers. In this episode we clarify that comment, talk through the roles of breadwinner and caregiver, and get honest about the resentment and burnout that nobody warns you about. After 24 years, here's how we've split the load without losing each other.CHAPTERS0:00 The viral reel and why context gets lost1:45 What "the short end of the stick" really meant2:38 Secondhand medical info and surprise medication costs7:45 Deciding our roles before we even had kids11:16 How resentment and caregiver burnout creep in13:42 Why special needs divorces mirror regular ones, only magnified21:24 Personality decides roles, not gender stereotypes26:09 Why denial is one of the most dangerous things in our world29:06 How your roles shift as your child grows31:04 The jobs that became Dad's, from reading to infusions34:18 "I'm off the clock" and why the caregiver needs real breaks47:31 Balancing a neurotypical sibling52:25 What 24 years has actually taught us53:35 Next week: our first guest, Julie ErmanThank you to everyone following along from all over the world. Your comments, questions, and stories shape every episode we make.If this helped you feel a little less alone, subscribe and share it with a family who needs it.New episodes every week.#SpecialNeedsParents #SpecialNeedsMarriage #SpecialNeedsFamily #Caregiver #TheSpecialnessPodcast
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  S3_Ep-04: Special Needs Parenting Took Away Our Ability to Plan the Future 09.07.2026 58min

  We had plans.That sounds simple, but when you are raising a child with profound special needs, plans come with an asterisk.In this episode, we talk about the part of special needs parenting that is hard to explain to people who have never lived it. It is not just that your child’s future changes. Your future changes too.This conversation started with a reel that hit a nerve because so many parents said the same thing: you can’t really plan when you never know what is coming next.If you are a special needs parent, caregiver, or family member living with the constant unknown, this episode is for you.Watch the episode and let us know, what is something you had to stop planning the way other families do?
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  S3_Ep-03: The Pediatric Cliff: What Happens When a Special Needs Child Becomes an Adult? 02.07.2026 56min

  When Cason started aging out of pediatric care, we thought the hardest part would be finding new doctors.We were wrong.The harder part was walking into the adult medical world and realizing how different everything felt. For years, pediatric specialists knew Cason, understood his history, and treated him like a whole person. Then suddenly we were in adult offices where the records had not always been read, guardianship was not always understood, and people expected Cason to answer questions he could not understand.In this episode, we talk about the pediatric cliff, the transition from pediatric specialists to adult doctors, and what it feels like when your special needs child becomes a legal adult but still needs the same level of support.We also talk about one appointment that stayed with us, the kind of appointment that makes every future appointment harder.If you are a parent, caregiver, or family member navigating adult care, guardianship, disability, special needs parenting, or medical advocacy, this one may feel very familiar.Watch the episode and let us know, has your family experienced the pediatric cliff too?
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  S3_Ep-02: Does raising a special needs child really lead to an 87% divorce rate? 26.06.2026 53min

  After one of our Instagram reels reached more than 180,000 views, hundreds of parents shared their stories, challenged the statistic, and started one of the most meaningful conversations we've ever had.In this episode, we revisit that viral reel, correct the misinformation, and talk about what the research actually says.More importantly, we talk about what the comments revealed.Special needs parents opened up about marriages that grew stronger, marriages that fell apart, single parenting, caregiver burnout, trauma bonding, financial stress, and the daily realities that most people never see.This episode isn't about fear.It's about honesty.Whether you're raising a child with autism, a rare genetic condition, Down syndrome, or another disability, we hope this conversation reminds you that you're not alone.If you've ever wondered whether your marriage is the only one carrying this weight, this episode is for you.🎧 Watch now and join the conversation.If this episode speaks to you, we'd love to hear your story in the comments.#SpecialNeedsParenting #AutismParenting #SpecialNeedsFamily #CaregiverLife #Marriage #DisabilityAwareness #RareDisease #ParentingPodcast #SpecialnessPodcast
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  S3_Ep-01: One Phone Call Changed the Next 10 Months of Our Lives 16.06.2026 1t 3min

  After nearly a year away, we're back.What was supposed to be a simple three-day getaway turned into one of the hardest seasons we've faced as special needs parents.The day before our trip, our son Cason suffered a devastating ankle injury that required surgery and months of recovery. What followed was nine weeks of around-the-clock caregiving, medication complications, mobility challenges, emotional exhaustion, and the return of struggles we thought were behind us.At the same time, we were fighting another battle: a 30-month journey through the Social Security disability system. After multiple denials, endless paperwork, medical evaluations, appeals, and a court hearing, we finally received an answer.In this episode, we share what really happened during our time away, what special needs caregiving looked like behind closed doors, and what we learned when life changed overnight.If you're caring for a child or adult with disabilities, this episode is for you.💙 You're not alone.🎧 Listen on YouTube or your favorite podcast platform.#SpecialNeedsParenting #SpecialNeedsFamily #DisabilityAwareness #CaregiverLife #AutismFamily #ParentingJourney #SpecialNeedsAdult #FamilyCaregiver #SSI #SpecialnessPodcast
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  S2_Ep-10: We Thought We Had a Plan… Hopeful Plans vs. Hard Reality 07.07.2025 55min

  In this episode, we talk about the emotional aftermath of travel, how even the best vacations can take a toll—and what recovery looks like when you're caring for someone with special needs. From unexpected triggers to the slow return to normal, we share what it's really like behind the scenes.🌟 Special Shoutout:We want to take a moment to thank Special Soul Mama. If you're not already following her, you're missing out!👉 https://www.facebook.com/specialsoulmama/👉 https://www.instagram.com/specialsoulmamaShe’s a light—and we’re grateful to walk this road with her.If this episode resonates with you, please like, share, and comment. It helps more families like ours find this show. And don’t forget to subscribe!#MentalHealthAwareness #SpecialNeedsParenting #InvisibleStruggles #DisabilityAwareness #ParentingJourney #BipolarAwareness #AutismAndMentalHealth #MentalHealthMatters #SpecialnessPodcast
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  S2_Ep-9: We Thought We Had a Plan… Hopeful Plans vs. Hard Reality 12.06.2025 56min

  Buckle up—this is the one where everything went sideways.In this raw, emotional, and at times chaotic episode, Kim and Jeff recount a whirlwind 24 hours that took them from hopeful to heartbroken. What started as a routine trip to Houston turned into a spiral of medication issues, ER visits, and total emotional overload.🎙️ They open up about:* How quickly Cason’s behavior escalated* Their experience navigating the hospital system (again)* What it feels like when every plan you made unravels in real timeThis is the reality of parenting a medically complex, special needs child. It’s overwhelming, unrelenting—and rarely shown in this level of honesty.🔗 Watch, share, and don’t forget to subscribe for more unfiltered episodes of The Specialness Podcast.#MentalHealthAwareness #SpecialNeedsParenting #InvisibleStruggles #DisabilityAwareness #ParentingJourney #BipolarAwareness #AutismAndMentalHealth #MentalHealthMatters #SpecialnessPodcast
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  S2_Ep-8.5: Life Interrupted: When Everything Happens at Once 06.06.2025 5min

  We’re calling this one Episode 8.5 — a special edition update from Jeff.Life doesn’t always go as planned — especially when you're raising a child with special needs. In this honest solo update, Jeff shares why there was no episode last week and what hit their family all at once:Kim’s melanoma diagnosis and emergency surgeryAnother frustrating Social Security denialA three-hour cardio-pulmonary test for CasonA high school graduation road tripThis isn’t just a delay. It’s a glimpse into the unpredictable, exhausting, and deeply human side of life behind the podcast.💬 New episode next week with Kim back in the chair — and some fun travel stories from Houston!🧡 Thanks for being here with us.🎧 Watch, listen, and subscribe
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  S2_Ep-8: Mental Health Awareness Month… for Families Like Ours 20.05.2025 48min

  "It’s Mental Health Awareness Month… but where is the awareness?"In this powerful episode of Specialness, Kim and Jeff open up about the realities of living with mental illness in the family, especially when your child’s life is shaped by complex diagnoses like bipolar disorder, autism, and schizophrenia spectrum symptoms.💬 In this episode:✔️ Why Mental Health Awareness Month still feels invisible✔️ What people get wrong about depression, hallucinations, and “invisible” struggles✔️ The silent grief of watching life pass you by while you're stuck surviving✔️ The failure of our healthcare system to provide meaningful support✔️ Why mental health stigma is still costing lives—and what we wish more people understood✨ If you’ve ever felt unseen, unheard, or dismissed as a parent, caregiver, or individual living with mental illness—this one’s for you.📺 Watch now on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts!👉 Link in bio#MentalHealthAwareness #SpecialNeedsParenting #InvisibleStruggles #DisabilityAwareness #ParentingJourney #BipolarAwareness #AutismAndMentalHealth #MentalHealthMatters #SpecialnessPodcast
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  S2_Ep-7: The Disability System Is Failing Families Like Ours 20.05.2025 1t 4min

  "We’ve done everything right. But that still wasn’t enough."For over two years, Kim and Jeff Kribs have been fighting to secure basic SSI benefits for their son, Cason—who is intellectually disabled, legally under guardianship, and cannot live independently.In this explosive episode of Specialness, they read aloud from the denial letters, dissect inaccurate evaluations from government-appointed doctors, and expose the broken system that so many special needs families are forced to navigate.💬 In this episode:✔️ The exhausting maze of paperwork, deadlines, and duplicate forms✔️ False claims made in official medical reports✔️ Why their son—who can’t even button his own shirt—is being told he can live independently✔️ What this says about how society treats disabled adults🎧 This episode isn’t just about Cason. It’s about a system that seems designed to wear families down until they give up.If you’ve been through this, or love someone who has—you are not alone.📺 Watch now on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts!👉 Link in bio#SSIDenial #SpecialNeedsParenting #DisabilityRights #ParentAdvocacy #MentalHealthAwareness #SSIReform #NeurodivergentSupport #SpecialnessPodcast #BrokenSystem #GuardianshipMatters
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  S2_Ep-6: Did He Just Say That? Our Response to RFK Jr. and the Autism "Destroyed Families" Comment 02.05.2025 56min

  "Autism destroys families."That’s what Robert F. Kennedy Jr. said—and we had to respond.In this powerful and emotional episode, Kim and Jeff unpack their reaction to RFK Jr.’s comments about autism, disability, and the value of people who won’t “pay taxes” or “write a poem.”💬 In this episode:✔️ The truth about what life is like for their family and for Cason✔️ Why “destroy” is a dangerous word✔️ How stigma, lack of services, and government failure impact real families every day✔️ The difference between speaking truth and speaking harm✔️ Why Cason, despite all the challenges, is not a tragedyThis isn’t about politics—it’s about dignity, reality, and the stories behind the statistics.🎧 If you’re a parent, caregiver, advocate, or simply someone trying to understand this world better—this episode is for you.📺 Watch now on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts!👉 Link in bio#AutismAcceptance #SpecialNeedsParenting #RFKJr #Neurodiversity #MentalHealthAwareness #DisabilityAdvocacy #ParentingJourney #SpecialnessPodcast
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  S2_Ep-5: The Truth About Raising Siblings in a Special Needs Home - Specialness Pod 23.04.2025 57min

  "We were doing everything we could for our special needs son… but what about his brother?"In this heartfelt episode of Specialness, Kim and Jeff open up about the emotional journey of raising their neurotypical son, Jackson, while navigating the chaos of parenting a child with severe special needs.💬 In this episode:✔️ How sibling jealousy, resentment, and isolation showed up✔️ The emotional toll on Jackson—and what he remembers most✔️ The turning point when everything finally shifted✔️ What they wish they could’ve done differently✔️ How faith, therapy, and time brought hope and healing✨ This episode is for every parent who worries if they’re doing “enough” for the sibling in the background—the quiet one, the angry one, the one who seems like they’re just “fine.”🎧 Listen to their story of heartache, survival, and—eventually—connection.📺 Watch now on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts!👉 Link in bio#SpecialNeedsParenting #SiblingStruggles #NeurotypicalSiblings #MentalHealthAwareness #ParentingJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SpecialNeedsFamily #SpecialnessPodcast
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  S2_Ep-4: The Hidden Impact on Siblings of Special Needs Kids - Specialness Pod 08.04.2025 59min

  "When you’re raising a child with special needs, the whole family feels it."In this emotional episode of Specialness, Kim and Jeff open up about what it was like raising their younger son, Jackson, alongside his older brother Cason, who has complex special needs.💬 In this episode:✔️ How guilt shaped their parenting decisions✔️ The trauma Jackson experienced from a young age✔️ The survival strategies they used to protect both their boys✔️ Why Jackson grew up walking on eggshells—and how they helped him heal✨ This isn’t just a story about parenting a special needs child—it's a story about how siblings are affected, the guilt parents carry, and the silent burdens families live with behind closed doors.If you're raising a family touched by special needs, this one will hit close to home.#SpecialNeedsParenting #SiblingJourney #Neurodiversity #MentalHealthMatters #FamilyDynamics #ParentingJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SpecialNeedsSiblings #SpecialnessPodcast
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  S2_Ep-3: We Almost Gave Up… Then Came a God Wink - Specialness Pod 08.04.2025 53min

  🎙 Specialness Podcast – Season 2, Episode 3What keeps a marriage alive when life gets unthinkably hard? For Kim and Jeff Kribs, it’s faith. In this deeply personal episode, they open up about how their belief in God has carried them through some of the darkest moments of parenting a child with special needs.From failed adoptions to brutal hospital nights, and even moments where they feared for their safety—this episode is filled with the kind of raw honesty and hope that makes you feel less alone.✨ Hear how their faith was tested… and how, time and again, they experienced what they call “God winks”—unexpected moments of clarity, rescue, and grace.👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 Whether you're a parent, caregiver, or simply someone looking for proof that light can break through the darkness—this episode is for you.#SpecialNeedsParenting #FaithInHardTimes #GodWinks #ParentingJourney #SpecialnessPodcast #ChristianPodcast #MarriageAndFaith #MentalHealthAwareness #AdoptionJourney
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  S2_Ep-2: Raising a Special Needs Child: The Ongoing Grief No One Talks About - Specialness Pod 19.03.2025 1t 7min

  "We had dreams for our life, for our child, for our future… then reality hit."In this episode of Specialness, we open up about something every special needs parent feels—but not everyone talks about: grief. Grief for the child you expected, the life you imagined, and the milestones you’ll never experience.💬 In this episode:✔️ The moment we realized Cason’s life—and ours—would be different✔️ How grief shows up in everyday moments, even years later✔️ The way we’ve learned to process that grief and find joy in our realityWhether you’re in the middle of your own grief or just trying to understand what special needs parenting is really like, this episode is for you.📺 Watch now on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts!👉 Link in bio#SpecialNeeds #SpecialNeedsParenting #GriefJourney #ParentingStruggles #MentalHealthMatters #Neurodiversity #DisabilityAwareness #ParentingJourney #SpecialnessPodcast
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  S2_Ep-1: 87% of Special Needs Marriages End in Divorce—Here’s Why We Didn’t - Specialness Pod 18.03.2025 54min

  "The divorce rate for special needs parents is 87%. Here’s why we’re still standing."Welcome to Season 2 of Specialness! One of the biggest questions we get is: How have you stayed married for 30 years while raising a special needs child?The truth? It hasn’t been easy. The stress, the unknowns, the financial strain—special needs parenting tests a marriage in ways most people will never experience.💡 In this episode:✔️ The biggest challenges that nearly broke us✔️ How we navigated resentment, finances, and emotional burnout✔️ The mindset shift that kept us from becoming part of the 87%✨ Whether you’re married, divorced, or just trying to survive, this episode is a real look at what it takes to keep a relationship strong in the face of special needs parenting.📺 Watch now on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts!👉 Link in bio#Marriage #SpecialNeedsParenting #ParentingJourney #MentalHealthMatters #MarriageStruggles #Neurodiversity #FaithAndMarriage