Daddy Got Custody: Helping Good Parents Win Custody of their Kids

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  DGC 054 – How Text Messages Can Win or Lose Your Custody Case 06.09.2026 18min

  In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, a 27-year custody veteran, explains how something as simple as a text message can either strengthen your custody case or quietly damage it. Fred breaks down the most common texting mistakes fathers make during high-conflict custody disputes, including responding while angry, sending threats or insults, writing long emotional messages, using sarcasm, and taking the bait every time an Ex tries to provoke a reaction. He also explains what better custody communication looks like: brief, factual, polite, child-focused, and written as though a judge may someday read it. You'll learn why text messages can become powerful evidence, how patterns of communication can affect credibility, why complete context matters when saving messages, and how co-parenting apps can sometimes help create structure in difficult situations. Most importantly, this episode is about discipline. Stop texting your Ex like you are talking to your Ex. Start texting like you are talking to the judge.
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  DGC 053 – What to Do When Your Ex Violates the Court Order 30.08.2026 18min

  In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, explains what fathers should do when their Ex refuses to follow the court order. Fred breaks down how dads can protect themselves when parenting time is denied, exchanges are repeatedly delayed, important school or medical information is withheld, or other parts of the order are ignored. He explains why retaliation is usually a mistake, why calm communication matters, and how strong documentation can turn repeated violations into a clear pattern the court can actually understand. You'll also learn why fathers should keep following their own part of the order, when it may be time to involve an attorney, and why enforcement should be about restoring compliance — not getting revenge. Most importantly, this episode is about staying disciplined when the other parent is not. Don't respond to a court-order violation by creating one of your own.
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  DGC 052 – How Fathers Accidentally Damage Their Own Custody Case 24.08.2026 20min

  In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, a 27-year custody veteran, talks about one of the biggest threats to a Father's custody case: himself. Good Dads sometimes damage otherwise strong custody cases through a series of small, preventable mistakes — angry texts, missed parenting time, arguments during exchanges, talking to the kids about the case, ignoring court orders, poor documentation, social media drama, and assuming their attorney will take care of everything. Fred explains how one mistake may not destroy a custody case, but repeated behavior can create a pattern that opposing counsel can use to tell a damaging story about who you are as a parent. You'll learn why every text should be written as though a judge might someday read it, why you should consistently use the parenting time you already have, why custody exchanges should be boring, and why your children should never become messengers, witnesses, investigators, or emotional support during the fight. Most importantly, this episode is about recognizing that every decision you make during a custody battle is helping build one of two stories: a pattern of instability and conflict, or a pattern of calm, consistency, involvement, and responsible fatherhood. If you're a Dad fighting for custody, remember one simple rule:  Don't make the other side's case for them.
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  DGC 051 - Interview with Chel Cartmill, Author of "Spider on My Neck" 16.08.2026 36min

  In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, I sit down with Chel Cartmill, Next Chapter Transition Specialist and author of Spider on My Neck, for an honest conversation about the emotional side of divorce, custody, grief, and rebuilding your life after everything changes. Please contact Chel Cartmill at https://www.chelcartmill.com/  For my listeners, Chel is offering a complimentary consulting call here... https://bit.ly/469j06E  Chel explains why divorce can feel like a kind of death, how parents can continue showing up for their children while they are emotionally exhausted, and how to recognize the difference between normal grief and something deeper. We also talk about the overuse of labels like "narcissist," what emotional abuse can really look like, and why healing after divorce is not always a straight line. In the final part of the conversation, Chel shares the story behind her new book, Spider on My Neck, and how her own experiences with divorce, loss, fear, healing, and starting over shaped the message she hopes to give others. If you are a parent going through divorce, fighting for custody, grieving the loss of the family life you expected, or simply trying to figure out what comes next, this conversation is a reminder that the legal battle is only one part of the journey. Custody cases may be fought in courtrooms, but a lot of the real battle happens inside your own head and heart.
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  DGC 050 - The 10 Most Important Custody Lessons I've Learned in 27 Years 05.07.2026 10min

  After 27 years of dealing with custody battles, courtrooms, attorneys, judges, CPS, evidence, and the realities of raising kids after divorce, I've learned a few things—some of them the hard way. In this milestone 50th episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, I share the 10 most important custody lessons I've learned over the past 27 years. These aren't theories from a textbook. They come from my own custody battle, dozens of trips to court, years of raising my kids, and helping other fathers understand what it actually takes to fight for their children. We talk about why being a good dad isn't enough—you have to be able to prove it, why documentation and preparation matter, why temporary decisions can have long-term consequences, and why controlling your emotions may be one of the most important courtroom strategies you ever learn. Most importantly, this episode is about keeping the focus where it belongs: your kids. If you're a father facing divorce, custody litigation, or simply trying to become a stronger and more involved dad, these are the lessons I wish someone had given me when my custody journey began. 27 years. 50 episodes. A lot of mistakes, a lot of lessons—and four kids who made every bit of it worthwhile.
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  DGC 049 - What Fathers Should Never Say in Court 03.07.2026 17min

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, explains why the words fathers choose in family court can have a lasting impact on their custody case. In this episode, Fred breaks down some of the most common courtroom phrases that can damage a father's credibility—even when they're true—and explains why judges listen for far more than just the facts. They are evaluating attitude, maturity, judgment, self-control, and whether a parent demonstrates a healthy co-parenting mindset. Fred walks through the statements fathers should never make in court, including phrases like "She's crazy," "I deserve custody," "My child wants to live with me," and "I did nothing wrong." He explains why these emotional or exaggerated statements often backfire and offers stronger, child-focused alternatives that present fathers as calm, credible, and prepared. Throughout the episode, he emphasizes the importance of replacing accusations with evidence, emotion with strategy, and self-focused language with a clear commitment to the child's best interests. If you're preparing for a custody case or simply want to avoid costly courtroom mistakes, this episode will help you understand how to communicate in a way that strengthens your credibility and keeps the focus where it belongs—on your child. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com.
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  DGC 048 - Why Temporary Orders Can Decide Your Entire Custody Case 31.05.2026 17min

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, explains why temporary orders in a custody case can matter far more than most fathers realize. In this episode, Fred breaks down how "temporary" arrangements often create the first court-approved routine for a child, shape the judge's first impression, and can give one parent the advantage of becoming the default parent while the case is still unfolding. He also explains why dads who treat temporary orders like a warm-up round may spend the rest of the case trying to climb uphill. If you are fighting for custody, this episode will help you understand why you need to take temporary orders seriously, prepare early, and show the court a stable, child-focused plan from the very beginning. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
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  DGC 047 - The Difference Between Being a Good Dad and Proving It in Court 26.04.2026 15min

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, shares a hard truth many fathers learn too late: being a good dad and proving it in court are not always the same thing. In this episode, Fred explains why love, sacrifice, and private fatherhood matter deeply in real life — but why family court often looks instead for documentation, patterns, credibility, and proof of daily involvement. He breaks down the gap between what a father knows he does, what his child knows he does, and what a judge can actually verify. If you are fighting for custody, this episode will help you understand how to make your fatherhood visible in a system that rewards preparation. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
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  DGC 046 — 5 Ways Parental Alienation Cost My Ex Full Custody of Our Daughter 19.04.2026 15min

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, shares five real behaviors from his own custody case that contributed to his Ex losing full custody of their daughter Caitlyn. In this deeply personal episode, Fred walks through how failing to follow the court order, excluding him from medical decisions, involving Caitlyn in adult conflict, speaking negatively about Fred in front of their daughter, and being unable to say anything positive about him to anyone — including the judge — all added up to a pattern of parental alienation that the court could not ignore. If your Ex is doing any of these five things right now, this episode will help you recognize it, document it, and handle it the right way. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
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  DGC 045 — Interview with Dallas Criminal Attorney Nicole Knox 12.04.2026 32min

  In this episode of Daddy Got Custody, we sit down with Dallas trial attorney Nicole Knox to talk about the courtroom perspective of jury trials. From high-stakes courtroom strategy to the emotional realities parents face, Nicole shares what separates those who win from those who fall short. We dive into the difference between judge trials and jury and why a jury trial may be a better solution.  Nicole also breaks down how to handle interactions with law enforcement, what judges are really looking for, and how to position yourself as the stable, reliable parent your child needs. If you're in the middle of a custody fight—or want to be prepared before one starts—this episode gives you real-world insight from someone who's spent years defending clients when everything is on the line. Visit https://DaddyGotCustody.com Visit https://nicoleknoxlaw.com 214-740-9955
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  DGC 044 — What Caseworkers and Judges Look For in a Home Study 05.04.2026 16min

  Fred Campos breaks down exactly what caseworkers and judges are looking for during a home study—and why most Dads fail it simply because they don't prepare. Drawing from his experience and insights from his book, Fred explains that success starts long before the visit, with well-prepared paperwork, positive language about the Ex, and attorney-reviewed responses. He emphasizes that your home should immediately tell a story of stability, cleanliness, and intentional parenting—from a decluttered, well-maintained space to visible signs of a child-focused life like schedules, artwork, and family photos. Safety is critical, with proactive childproofing and organization playing a major role. Fred also highlights how everyday details—like what's in your fridge, how your child's room is set up, and even displaying a respectful photo of your ex—signal to caseworkers whether you foster a healthy environment. He wraps up with practical preparation strategies, reminding fathers that the home study can make or break their case, and that thoughtful, consistent preparation is the difference between passing and failing. Visit https://DaddyGotCustody.com
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  DGC 043 - 4 Things Judges Notice Fast in a Father's Custody Case 30.03.2026 20min

  In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, breaks down four things judges can notice very quickly when a father walks into a custody case — and why those first impressions can matter more than dads realize. Fred explains why fathers should avoid sounding bitter or obsessed with tearing down the mother, how important it is to show the court that you support your child having a healthy relationship with both parents, and why acknowledging things the other parent does well can actually make you sound more credible — not weaker. He also talks about the importance of proving hands-on parenting through specific everyday details instead of simply telling the judge, "I'm a good dad." The bigger lesson is that judges are not only listening to the accusations being made. They are also evaluating your attitude, your judgment, your emotional control, and whether you sound like a parent focused on the child or an Ex focused on winning a fight. You do not have to prove the other parent is terrible to prove that you are a capable, involved father. Sometimes the strongest thing you can show the court is that you are calm, fair, prepared, and focused on your child. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
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  DGC 042 - Derek Salyers Journey to Winning Custody 23.03.2026 50min

  In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, sits down with Derek Salyers to talk about his personal journey through family court, the fight to remain an active father, and what ultimately helped him succeed in his custody case. Derek shares the lessons he learned along the way, including why fathers need to stay involved, remain disciplined, and document what is actually happening instead of relying on memory or emotion. Fred and Derek also talk about the importance of creating a clear record of parenting time, communication, missed exchanges, and other significant events that may later matter in court. A major part of the conversation focuses on documentation and the work Derek is doing with Custody Journal, a tool designed to help parents organize and preserve important custody information. You can learn more at https://custodyjournal.com/. Derek also discusses his involvement with Fathers for Fair Custody, an organization focused on helping fathers navigate custody disputes, understand the family court process, and remain meaningful parts of their children's lives. More information can be found at https://fathersforfaircustody.com/. If you are a father facing a difficult custody battle, Derek's story is a reminder that preparation, persistence, documentation, and staying focused on your children can make a tremendous difference. You may not control everything that happens in family court, but you can control how prepared you are, how well you document your case, and how consistently you show up as a father. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
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  DGC 041 - 10 Favors Custodial Parents Should Do for Their Ex 31.08.2020 15min

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares ten favors or acts of kindness custodial parents do for the other parent. You will learn to consider "First Right of Refusal," encouraging phone or video calls with your children, adding your Ex as an emergency contact, and so much more. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
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  DGC 040 - 10 Ways to Be a Credible, Calm Witness 30.08.2020 21min

    Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares ten ways to be a credible, calm witness both in court and dealing with high stressed situations like cross examinations. You will learn reasons to be calm, keep your emotions in check, stick to the facts, speak in a non-condescending way when speaking with judges, social workers, police and other authorities. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com  
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  DGC 039 - 10 Ways to Absolutely Lose Custody of Your Kids 30.08.2020 19min

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares ten ways to absolutely lose custody of your kids.  Ranging from failing a home or social study, arguing with the judge in court, to not providing basic needs for your children. You will learn the fastest sure far way to lose custody.  The cost of parental alienation or brainwashing your children and finally the trap of not planning ahead or taking your case seriously. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
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  DGC 038 - 5 Tips to Consider in Your Case Thanks to Covid-19 23.08.2020 17min

    Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares three questions and five points you should be asking yourself regarding your child custody case in reference to Covid-19.  Has their been a change in your job?  How about the daily schedule of your kids?  Have your finance changed? Learn 5 points to consider and talk with your attorney in regards to custody modification during this Covid crisis. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com  
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  DGC 037 - 10 Side Hustles During Covid-19 28.06.2020 21min

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, and 11 year website designer.  Shares 10 successful side hustles he has watched clients start during this Covid-19 shutdown to help earn extra money for both their kids and their custody case.  True stories from #2 starting a lawn care business, to #9 a painting couple that earned nearly $7500 their first month starting an online membership class. Learn 10 ideas to make money within seven days so that you survive this pandemic. Show notes found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com
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  DGC 036 - Parental Alienation, Cathy's Story 10.05.2020 39min

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, interviews Cathy who tells the story of how her custody case with her children are going.  This interview touches things done right, wrong, parental alienation and elements she would do differently knowing what she knows now.  Fred ends the interview inviting you to reach out and support her through her GoFundMe page... https://www.gofundme.com/f/the-littlest-michaels-parentalalienation
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  DGC 035 - Spend Some Time with Your Kids 22.03.2020 21min

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses ten activities to do with your kids at home (during the Covid-19 virus).  From building a fort, teaching your kids how to cook, he explains this is a memory making opportunity like no other.  He goes on to suggest five things to do when you don't have your kids at home as well and much, much, more.