Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before

Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before

Justin Matters
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Viimeisin 24.12.2025

Date or Disaster is a podcast featuring viewer-submitted stories about bad dates, hookups, and relationships, including first dates gone wrong, catfishing, and online dating mishaps. Co-hosts Justin Matters and Chris Northover discuss monthly themes such as anonymous profiles, transphobia, and racism. They are joined by sexuality expert Robert Grigor to answer listener questions. The show aims to help listeners make smarter, safer choices in online dating.

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  • #5 - Little Monsters | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before 24.12.2025 28min
    Welcome back to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.In this series, my co-hosts Chris Northover, Robert Grigor and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.For this episode, I will be discussing my experiences regarding Lady Gaga and my various hook-ups, relationships and flings that have happened indirectly because of the global superstar. I also read out your submitted stories.Robert and Chris unfortunately won't be joining me this episode as I recorded this on a whim.Chapters00:00 - Lady Gaga02:31 - Bad Romance08:17 - LoveGame14:27 - Vanish Into You27:36 Thank you for listening and Xmas Tree
  • #4 - Red Flags | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before 27.10.2023 1t 3min
    Welcome back to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.In this series, my co-hosts Chris Northover, Robert Grigor and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.For this episode, we are discussing the concept of red flags, what concerning behaviour should you look out for and what have our viewers experienced?About the hostsJustin Matters is a Digital Marketing Specialist and Podcaster who also helms The Complete Guide to Horror Movies.Chris Northover is a media extraordinaire co-hosting and co-producing Queer Stories on the Swan.Robert Grigor is a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. CHAPTERS00:00 Intro02:14 Red Flags03:22 Chris's Red Flags04:50 Robert's Red Flags06:11 Justin's Red Flags07:37 Taylor Swift08:49 Slide in my DMs09:14 DM 1 Single as a Pringle11:09 DM 2 TransAction13:59 DM 3 Don't Ask, Don't Novotel15:34 DM 4 Gumtree17:28 DM 5 Coffs Harbour20:02 DM 6 Dealer Bust23:14 Which Stories Are Mine32:35 Unqualified Vs. Sexpert Advice32:56 Question 1 - Should I date or dump this guy?36:14 Question 2 - Are there safer ways to do auto-erotic asphyxiation?39:47 Question 3 - Am I the Asshole?42:50 Question 4 - My girlfriend leaked our sex tape to her Onlyfans, what should I do?46:39 Justin's odyssey of being single in 20231:03:03 Thank you for tuning in1:03:35 Queer Stories on the Swan1:03:41 GameboyFollow Queer Stories on the Swan below↪ Instagram↪ Podcast↪ YouTubeFollow me on social media↪ TikTok↪ Instagram↪ LinktreeWant spooky content? Check out The Complete Guide to Horror↪ YouTube ↪ TikTok#date #sex #heartbreak #revenge #rebound #trans #sydney #onlyfans #bisexual #hookup #problem #grindr #tinder #love #dating #scary #worstdate #bumble #hinge #datingapps #assault #onlinedating #podcast #sexuality #gay #lgbt #sexpert #education #funny #meme #taylorswift #amitheahole #reddit #pearl #drawntogether #orangensw
  • #3 - Heartbreak and Revenge | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before 21.04.2023 1t 36min
    Welcome back to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.In this series, my co-hosts Chris Northover, Robert Grigor and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.For this episode, we are discussing the concept of heartbreak, revenge and rebounds.About the hostsJustin Matters is a Digital Marketing Specialist and Podcaster who also helms The Complete Guide to Horror Movies.Chris Northover is a media extraordinaire co-hosting and co-producing Queer Stories on the Swan.Robert Grigor is a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Chapters00:00 Intro00:30 Introducing Co-Hosts Chris Northover and Robert Grigor02:46 Heartbreak and Revenge04:32 Chris's First Heartbreak08:17 Robert's First Heartbreak10:12 The Crabs11:13 Bisexuality and Bi-erasure16:28 Justin's First Heartbreak20:30 Justin's Revenge (Part I)22:46 Have Chris and Robert Exacted Revenge on an Ex?23:32 Justin's Shitty Revenge (Part II)27:41 Justin Runs Into His Ex in Melbourne28:40 Slide in my DMs30:02 DM 1 F**kboy31:59 DM 2 LesBeLovers35:41 DM 3 SloppySeconds41:40 DM 4 QueenB***h45:39 DM 5 BiBro48:37 Bragging Vs. Humblebragging51:12 Who Reported My Photo of Me Kissing Adore Delano?53:12 Which Stories Are Mine1:03:30 Unqualified Vs. Sexpert Advice1:03:53 Question 1 - How Do I Get Over Heartbreak?1:06:02 Question 2 - Can I Be Friends With an Ex?1:08:55 Question 3 - How Do I Break the News I've Cheated & How Do I Get Over the Guy I Cheated With?1:13:44 Question 4 - I Slept With My Ex's New Partner, Do I Tell My Ex?1:16:33 Question 5 - What are the Best Apps to Explore My Sexuality?1:26:55 Thank You to Co-Hosts Chris and Robert1:27:31 My First Date Post-Breakup1:33:03 Funny Tinder Exchange1:35:15 Send Us Your Questions and Submissions!1:35:41 A Tribute to My Ex'sFollow Queer Stories on the Swan below↪ Instagram: https://instagram.com/queerstoriesontheswan↪ Podcast: https://linktr.ee/queerstoriesontheswan↪ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@QSSStudios Follow me on social media↪ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justinmatters.mp4↪ Instagram: https://instagram.com/justinmatters.mp4↪ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/justinmattersWant spooky content? Check out The Complete Guide to Horror↪ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@completeguidetohorror ↪ TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@completeguidetohorrorSend in your stories! You can choose to remain anonymous#date #sex #hookup #allhookedup #catfish #catfishmtv #anonymous #discreet #grindr #tinder #theveronicas #love #dating #scary #worstdate #bumble #hinge #datingapps #lolita #dahmer #assault #onlinedating #podcast #sexuality #gay #lgbt #sexpert #education #funny #meme
  • #2 - Boundaries and the Beast | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before 24.03.2023 2t 11min
    Welcome to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.In this series, my co-host Chris Northover and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.For this episode, we are discussing the concept of boundaries.I also share my own horrifying experiences including both my best and worst experiences from 2022 that are strong examples of how respecting boundaries can go incredible and how breaking boundaries can be awful.We are also lucky to be joined by Robert Grigor, a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Robert joins us to answer your burning questions on everything from love, sex, hook-ups and more!Chapters00:00 Intro02:42 What Are Boundaries?10:00 The Guy Who Always Wanted to Sleep with a Podcaster20:30 Slide In My DM's21:20 DM 1 Blonde Bombshell29:48 DM 2 VersKing40:13 DM 3 BartenderLove54:26 DM 4 Nambucca Heads High School Musical1:02:04 DM 5 SpeedDater1:16:05 Justin's story1:24:27 Unqualified vs. Sexpert Advice1:24:57 Question 11:31:52 Question 21:36:41 Question 31:42:04 Question 41:47:49 How I Nearly Got Date Raped By a Mark Latham Lookalike2:01:11 My Best Hookup of All Time2:07:36 PSA to Str8 Men2:09:51 Thank You & Send Us Your Stories!2:11:12 A Delusional Encounter I Had With a TwinkFollow Queer Stories on the Swan below↪ ⁠Instagram⁠↪ ⁠Podcast⁠↪ ⁠YouTube⁠Follow me on social media↪ ⁠TikTok⁠↪ ⁠Instagram⁠↪ ⁠Linktree⁠Want spooky content? Check out ⁠The Complete Guide to Horror⁠↪ ⁠YouTube⁠ ↪ ⁠TikTokSend in your stories! You can choose to remain anonymous#date #sex #hookup #allhookedup #catfish #catfishmtv #anonymous #discreet #grindr #tinder #theveronicas #love #dating #scary #worstdate #bumble #hinge #datingapps #lolita #dahmer #assault #onlinedating #podcast #sexuality #gay #lgbt #sexpert #education #funny #meme
  • #1 - Catfishing and Anonymous Profiles | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before 10.02.2023 1t 52min
    Welcome to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.In this series, my co-host Chris Northover and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.  For this episode, we are discussing the concepts of catfishing and anonymous/discreet profiles.  I also share my own horrifying experiences including exposing my on-going catfish stalker who has assaulted me over the past 10 years.  We are also lucky to be joined by Robert Grigor, a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Robert joins us to answer your burning questions on everything from love, sex, hook-ups and more!  Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:48 The Backstory 01:56 Introducing Co-host Chris Northover 03:24 Queer Stories on the Swan 03:48 What is Catfishing? 05:01 What is 'Anonymous/Discreet Profiles'? 09:03 How Justin Caught His Ex via Catfishing Him 12:06 Slide In My DM's 12:43 Story 1 - The Shed 16:23 Story 2 - Bi-Curiosity Killed the Cat 22:23 Story 3 - WetNWild 31:37 Story 4 - Secret Santa 40:20 Story 5 - Teenage Catfish Mutant Turds 50:09 Justin's story 1:02:44 Unqualified vs. Sexpert Advice 1:03:33 Introducing Sexpert Robert Grigor 1:04:23 Question 1 1:09:44 Question 2 1:16:20 Question 3 1:25:55 Question 4 1:37:55 Justin's Catfish Stalker 1:49:54 Thank You & Send Us Your Stories! 1:50:34 Exposing My Catfish Stalker Lachlan Meng & His Weird Messages  Follow Queer Stories on the Swan below↪ ⁠Instagram⁠↪ ⁠Podcast⁠↪ ⁠YouTube⁠Follow me on social media↪ ⁠TikTok⁠↪ ⁠Instagram⁠↪ ⁠Linktree⁠Want spooky content? Check out ⁠The Complete Guide to Horror⁠↪ ⁠YouTube⁠ ↪ ⁠TikTokSend in your stories! You can choose to remain anonymous  #date #sex #hookup #allhookedup #catfish #catfishmtv #anonymous #discreet #grindr #tinder #allsaints #love #dating #scary #worstdate #bumble #hinge #datingapps #onlinedating #podcast #sexuality #gay #lgbt #sexpert #education #funny #meme

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