Dear Future Husband And Wife

I Stopped Abandoning Myself to Keep the Connection 03.04.2026 12min

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband & Wife Podcast, Simone Jay shares a powerful realization from her healing journey, how self-abandonment can hide behind what we often call “love.”Many women don’t realize they are overgiving, overexplaining, and overextending themselves in relationships, not because they lack love, but because they fear losing the connection.This episode breaks down:• What self-abandonment actually looks like• How anxious attachment shows up in relationships• Why overgiving is often rooted in fear• The difference between love and self-loss• How healing teaches you to choose yourself without guiltIf you’ve ever felt like you were losing yourself in love, this conversation will help you recognize your patterns and begin choosing alignment over attachment.💍 The relationship is not the reward.Emotional security is.

🎙 Healing Taught Me to Trust Myself Again 20.03.2026 12min

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband & Wife Podcast, we’re talking about something healing restores that many women don’t realize they’ve lost, self-trust.When you’ve loved from anxiety, it’s easy to second-guess your feelings, ignore your intuition, and react quickly to uncertainty. But healing teaches you how to slow down, recognize peace, and trust your discernment again.In this episode, you’ll learn:• The difference between anxiety and discernment• How anxious attachment affects your decisions• Why peace is often the clearest answer• How healing helps you trust yourself againIf you’ve ever felt unsure in love or struggled to trust your own emotions, this conversation will help you reconnect with clarity and confidence.💍 The relationship is not the reward.Emotional security is.

Peace Over Panic: Learning to Respond Instead of React 11.03.2026 17min

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband & Wife Podcast, Simone J shares one of the most important lessons from her healing journey: learning the difference between reacting emotionally and responding from security.For many women, emotional reactions in relationships aren’t about being “too sensitive” they’re often rooted in anxious attachment patterns and a nervous system that has learned to associate love with urgency.Simone reflects on the past few weeks of the new DFHW era and explains how awareness of triggers, attachment styles, and emotional safety has helped her shift from panic to peace in her relationship.This episode explores: Why emotional reactions often come from unhealed wounds How anxious attachment shows up in relationships The difference between panic and discernment Why secure women pause instead of reacting How healing your nervous system changes how you loveIf you’ve ever felt confused in love, overextended yourself emotionally, or struggled with reacting when you feel uncertain in relationships, this conversation is for you.💍 Because the relationship is not the reward.Emotional security is.Resources MentionedDownload the free guide:“Are You Loving From Anxiety or Security?”Join the Dear Future Husband & Wife Collective for deeper conversations about healing, relationships, and emotional growth.

"I Thought I Was Ready for Marriage… Until God Showed Me Me" 04.03.2026 19min

I thought I was ready for marriage.I thought I had done the work.I thought I understood love, commitment, and what it meant to be a wife.But then God showed me… me.In this deeply transparent episode, we talk about the moment when God begins to reveal the parts of us that still need healing before the promise can manifest. Sometimes the delay isn’t punishment, it’s preparation.If you’ve ever questioned your readiness for marriage, struggled with emotional triggers, attachment wounds, boundaries, or the difference between love and trauma bonds, this episode will speak directly to your heart.God doesn’t just prepare your spouse, He prepares you.In this conversation we discuss:• The difference between wanting marriage and being prepared for it• How God exposes emotional patterns, triggers, and past wounds• Why self-awareness is a key part of kingdom relationships• The uncomfortable but necessary process of personal transformation• How healing yourself changes the way you show up in loveThis episode is a reminder that the journey to “I Do” always begins with “I surrender.”If you’re currently in your healing season, your preparation season, or your “God is showing me me” season… this conversation is for you.🎙️ Dear Future Husband & Wife: The Journey 2 “I Do” Podcast

Dear Future Husband & Wife: The Journey to “I Do” – Episode 1 25.02.2026 16min

Why I Can’t Teach Love the Same Way AnymoreI’m back, and things are different. After years of guiding women through faith-led love and relationships, I’ve realized that the way I taught love before no longer fits the depth, healing, and kingdom perspective required today. In this first episode of our new era, I share why I can’t teach love the same way anymore and how this season is about real, secure, and intentional love. If you’re ready to love without fear, release what no longer serves you, and step into your God-given partnership, this episode is for you.💍 Tune in and start your journey to real love.

Dear Future Husband & Wife: The Journey to “I Do” – Episode 1 25.02.2026 16min

Why I Can’t Teach Love the Same Way AnymoreI’m back, and things are different. After years of guiding women through faith-led love and relationships, I’ve realized that the way I taught love before no longer fits the depth, healing, and kingdom perspective required today. In this first episode of our new era, I share why I can’t teach love the same way anymore and how this season is about real, secure, and intentional love. If you’re ready to love without fear, release what no longer serves you, and step into your God-given partnership, this episode is for you.💍 Tune in and start your journey to real love.We are not preparing for a wedding. We are preparing love in wholeness.

Seasons Of Love: Walking Into What You Prayed For 17.12.2025 16min

In this episode of Dear Future Husband and Wife: The Journey to "I do", SJ talks about the part of faith nobody prepares you for, walking into what you prayed for. This conversation is for believers navigating new seasons, answered prayers, and God-promises that require daily trust, obedience, and emotional maturity.If you’ve ever wondered why fear shows up after God says yes, this episode will help you walk confidently without panic, doubt, or self-sabotage.🎧 Listen, reflect, and share with someone stepping into their next season.

Seasons of Love: Positioned for Promise 10.12.2025 22min

This week on Dear Future Husband & Wife: The Journey to “I Do,” we step into a transformative new theme: Positioned for Promise.After preparing in purpose, God shifts you into alignment. This episode dives into what it truly means to be positioned spiritually, emotionally, and practically for the love, partnership, and future God has spoken over your life.We explore the signs God is positioning you, what delays alignment, and the habits, boundaries, and heart posture that prepare you to receive what you’ve been praying for. If you’ve been sensing a shift, this episode will confirm it.Listen on: Spotify • Apple Podcasts • Amazon Music • YouTubeWant to be a guest? Send a DM to @dearfuturehusbandandwife.

Seasons of Love: Preparing In Purpose 03.12.2025 21min

This week on Dear Future Husband & Wife - The Journey to “I Do”, Simone guides you into the next phase of the Seasons of Love series: Preparing in Purpose.Last week was about inner belief.This week is about intentional alignment.In this episode, we explore what it truly means to prepare your life, habits, heart, and spiritual walk for the love and partnership you’ve been praying for. This is the season where you don’t wait passively, you prepare with purpose, maturity, and expectation.You’ll learn:✨ How to align your lifestyle with God’s timing✨ The difference between becoming vs. preparing✨ What heart preparation really looks like✨ Practical steps to get your life ready for partnership✨ How God uses preparation to position you for covenant✨ Signs that you’re shifting into a divine preparation season✨ Declarations + a powerful closing prayerIf you’re in a waiting, healing, rebuilding, or alignment season, this episode will meet you where you are and pull you into where God is taking you next.Your preparation is prophetic. Your obedience is positioning you. And love is aligning with your readiness.

Seasons of Love...Becoming While Believing 26.11.2025 10min

This week on Dear Future Husband & Wife: The Journey to “I Do”, Simone dives into the heart of the fall/winter theme Seasons of Love: Becoming While Believing.This episode is a soulful, spirit-led guide for anyone in a season of waiting, healing, transition, or preparation. Whether you’re standing on a promise from God, rebuilding after heartbreak, or growing into the future spouse you’re called to be, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.You’ll hear:Why seasons matter in love and spiritual alignmentThe deep inner work of becomingHow to keep believing when your reality contradicts your prophecyHeart-healing declarations for your journeyA powerful prayer over your seasonIf you’re navigating your own journey to “I Do,” this episode will strengthen your faith, steady your heart, and remind you that God is preparing you just as much as He’s preparing your promise.Listen, take notes, and let this season work for your good.

Overcoming Heart Break: How to Heal And Move Forward 19.11.2025 17min

🎙️ Episode 2 - Overcoming Past Heartbreak: How to Heal and Move ForwardHave you ever loved deeply… and been deeply wounded? In this powerful episode of Dear Future Husband & Wife: The Journey to "I Do", SJ dives into the emotional, spiritual, and practical journey of overcoming past heartbreak. Whether you're healing from a breakup, betrayal, divorce, or disappointment, this episode offers clarity, comfort, and hope.Discover how God uses heartbreak as redirection, not rejection and how your pain can become the foundation for your purpose, healing, and future marriage.In this episode, we explore:💔 Why heartbreak affects us so deeply🕊️ How God meets us in broken places📖 Biblical promises for emotional restoration🌱 Practical steps to release the past and move forward💖 How to prepare your heart for real, healthy loveIf you’re ready to stop replaying old wounds and start stepping into a healed, whole version of yourself, this episode will speak directly to your heart.Perfect for anyone on a healing journey, preparing for kingdom marriage, or rebuilding their identity after loss.New episodes every Wednesday!Follow the podcast for inspiration, healing, and faith-filled conversations on love, purpose, and preparation for God’s best.

Patience in the Waiting: Trusting God for Your Future Spouse 09.11.2025 17min

In this episode, SJ dives into the beauty of waiting wisely on God’s timing for love. Through her personal story and biblical insights from Psalm 27:14 and Isaiah 40:31, she reminds listeners that waiting isn’t passive, it’s preparation. Discover how to strengthen your faith, serve others, and trust that God’s delay is not His denial.Includes a heartfelt prayer to help you stay grounded in hope while waiting for your future spouse.

Not Your Average Minister: Vincent A. Casey Sr. on Finding 'The One’ 19.07.2024 41min

Join us for an inspiring episode of "Dear Future Husband & Wife" featuring Vincent A. Casey Sr., a minister who defies the norm. In this heartfelt conversation, Vincent delves into his personal journey, sharing how he recognized his wife as 'The One' and the faith-driven path that led him to her. Discover the wisdom and insights he offers on love, commitment, and the divine timing of relationships. Whether you're single, engaged, or married, this episode is packed with valuable lessons on patience, trust, and the beauty of God's matchmaking. Tune in for a story that will touch your heart and encourage you on your own journey to finding true love.

When Kings Speak: Mental Health & Dating 28.06.2024 49min

Tune in for an engaging and eye-opening conversation that promises to inspire and educate with Yusha Assad. This episode is proudly sponsored by Elea J’s Southern Table, where you can enjoy delicious Southern cuisine while supporting great conversations.

When Kings Speak: Divorce, Dating, and Mental health." 25.06.2024 45min

Join Anthony and I as discussed divorce, dating and mental health.

When Kings Speak: Mental Health & Relationship 13.06.2024 37min

Join us as we delve into the complexities of love, relationships, and mental health. With June being Mental Health Month, Kelvin shares invaluable advice on maintaining a healthy mental state while navigating the journey of love and commitment. This episode is proudly sponsored by the Journey 2 “I Do”Magazine.