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  How to Say No Without Guilt Using NLP Meta Model Questions 30.09.2026 17min

  How do you say no when you know it’s the right answer for you—without treating the guilt afterwards as proof that you’ve done something wrong? I dive into that question this week on NLP in Real Life. We’ll look at why guilt can feel so persuasive, even when all you’ve done is disappoint someone (which is not the same as wrongdoing), and how our language—particularly those little words like “should,” “must,” “have to,” “need to,” and “can’t”—can turn routine decisions into emotional high-stakes moments.Together, we’ll explore how to use the NLP meta-model to spot the hidden rules that drive guilt and obligation, separate facts from predictions, and recover the freedom of genuine choice. Plus, I’ll share a simple experiment you can try in the next 24 hours to transform a “should” into a choice—so you can respond with honesty, kindness, and clarity, rather than getting trapped in guilt. This is NLP in Real Life, and we’re getting practical about saying no, challenging guilt, and making more deliberate decisions.
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  Resolving Internal Conflict with the Visual Squash NLP Technique 23.09.2026 19min

  Finding yourself saying yes to requests before you've had a chance to consider your true feelings. One concept discussed was the internal struggle between the part that wants to be helpful and accommodating, and the part that seeks to protect time, energy, and commitments. A key theme that emerged was that both sides of this internal conflict often have important, positive intentions—one aiming for connection and support, the other for boundaries and self-respect.Labeling one side as “bad” or “weak” isn’t useful, and introduced the NLP “visual squash” technique as a way to recognise and negotiate between these competing parts. Several points were raised, including how to identify the higher intentions behind each side, how to move from automatic reactivity to conscious choice, and how integrating both sides can lead to more satisfying, flexible responses in everyday situations. This episode invites listeners to experiment with these ideas, offering practical steps and language shifts that transform internal conflicts into opportunities for meaningful change.
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  How to Approach Difficult Conversations and Make Them Easier With NLP 16.09.2026 34min

  We've all faced those tough conversations—the ones we rehearse over and over in our heads, yet find ourselves avoiding in real life. Maybe it's feedback for a colleague, a boundary with a friend, or a candid talk with a loved one. Despite our best intentions, we end up postponing the moment, searching for the perfect opening, or feeling overwhelmed by the imagined responses of others.In this episode of NLP Courses, I'm diving into the surprising reason why difficult conversations feel so hard and sharing a practical NLP approach to make them easier. We'll explore what happens when we stop trying to control every possible reaction and instead focus on the one piece we can truly own: our part. You'll learn how to clarify your intention, sharpen your language, and use a 5-minute outcome plan to finally have that hard conversation—with clarity, confidence, and compassion. Whether it's about work, family, or friendship, join me to discover simple steps that can turn dreaded talks into more productive and honest moments.
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  How to Stop Obsessing Over Past Conversations 06.09.2026 29min

  Have you ever found yourself rehashing a perfectly normal conversation in your head, only for it to turn into a disaster hours later? In this episode of NLP in Real Life, I explore the all-too-common habit of obsessing over what we said, how we said it, and what others must have thought. I’ll guide you through the subtle difference between useful reflection and unhelpful rumination, show you how to step out of the emotional replay loop, and introduce simple NLP techniques to help you extract value from your experiences—without turning every conversation into a courtroom drama. Whether it’s the awkward pause in a meeting or that one joke in a group chat, you’ll discover practical ways to stop the cycle, learn what matters, and move forward with more choice and less self-punishment. Let’s get started.
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  What is Neuro-Linguistic Programming? 02.09.2026 35min

  What actually is NLP — and why should you care?Neuro-linguistic programming is often introduced through techniques, terminology and acronyms. In this episode, we take a different approach.We explore NLP as a way of understanding how people create their experience: how we think, use language, develop patterns, respond emotionally and make sense of the world around us.You’ll discover why two people can experience the same situation completely differently, what “the map is not the territory” really means, why NLP is so interested in the question “How?”, and how modelling, language and state all fit together.Whether you’re completely new to NLP or you’ve been studying it for years, this episode brings the subject back to its foundations — curiosity, patterns, communication and greater choice.And by the end, you’ll have a simple experiment you can use to start noticing your own patterns differently.
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  Milton Language part four: Transderivational Searches, and Nominalisations Can Change Your Life 27.03.2023 13min

  Welcome back to our podcast series on Milton Language patterns. Today, we're diving into the fascinating world of Deletions and how they can impact your brain and your communication skills. Great communicators know how to use Deletions to their advantage. They know that sometimes, leaving out certain information can actually make their message more powerful. We'll explore how this works and give you some tips on how to use Deletions to make your own communication more impactful. But that's not all! We'll also dive into the concept of Transderivational Searches and how they relate to Deletions. Trust me, it's not as complicated as it sounds - and understanding this concept can be a game-changer in your communication skills. Last but not least, we'll introduce you to Nominalisations - these are like the secret weapon of great communicators. They're powerful words that can transform the way you think and communicate. We'll give you examples of how to use Nominalisations in your everyday life and show you how they can help you achieve your goals. So, if you're ready to take your communication skills to the next level, join us for this episode. It's going to be a blast, and you'll come out the other side with some seriously impressive skills. Let's do this! If you found inspiration in this episode, share it with your followers on Instagram by posting a screenshot of yourself listening and tagging us @johncassidyrice.  If you haven't left a review yet, we'd really appreciate it if you could visit https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/nlp-courses/id1072472565 and leave a review to show your support for the show. or you can leave us a review here: https://socialjuice.io/nlp Additionally, we invite you to contribute to the podcast by submitting a question for a #Q&A edition of NLP Courses Podcast.  Simply record a question (under 4 minutes) at https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-podcast/ and it may be featured on a future episode. Find out more about our NLP training by visiting https://www.nlpcourses.com
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  Milton Language Part Three: Cause-and-Effect 13.03.2023 11min

  In this podcast, host John Cassidy-Rice explores the power of cause-and-effect language patterns and how they can transform beliefs and create success in life.  He explains how cause and effect form the foundation of belief and how understanding this language pattern can help listeners connect information and create new beliefs.  John gives examples of cause-and-effect language patterns in different contexts, including with young children, teenagers, managers, teachers, and students. He also introduces the concept of complex equivalents and invites listeners to experiment with creating their own cause-and-effect patterns.  Through playing with language and having fun with it, John believes listeners can become more successful in life. If you found inspiration in this episode, share it with your followers on Instagram by posting a screenshot of yourself listening and tagging us @johncassidyrice. If you haven't left a review yet, we'd really appreciate it if you could visit https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/nlp-courses/id1072472565 and leave a review to show your support for the show. or you can leave us a review here: https://socialjuice.io/nlp We invite you to contribute to the podcast by submitting a question for a #Q&A edition of the NLP Courses Podcast. Simply record a question (under 4 minutes) at https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-podcast/ and it may be featured on a future episode. Find out more about our NLP training by visiting https://www.nlpcourses.com
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  Part Two Milton Language maps of the world 27.02.2023 15min

  Welcome to the second session in Milton's language! In this week’s episode, we will explore maps. Today, we will delve further into the idea that human beings create maps of the world through language, and explore the two major language patterns within Neuro-Linguistic Programming - the Milton Model and the Meta-Model. The Milton model is about being artfully vague, whereas the Meta-model is about being precise with language. Through language, we can create maps that are clear, easy to navigate, accurate and up-to-date, relevant, appropriate for its intended use, and provide context and orientation. The language we use in NLP is powerful in changing people’s thinking and helps them to operate from a map that is useful for their lives and goals. We also discuss the importance of prioritising clarity and simplicity over geographic accuracy, just like Harry Beck did in 1931 when he created the London Underground map. Join us as we explore this metaphor of maps and learn how to create brand new maps that can revolutionise the world around you. If you found inspiration in this episode, share it with your followers on Instagram by posting a screenshot of yourself listening and tagging us @johncassidyrice. If you haven't left a review yet, we'd really appreciate it if you could, Click here  and leave a review to show your support for the show. or you can leave us a review here: https://socialjuice.io/nlp Additionally, we invite you to contribute to the podcast by submitting a question for a #Q&A edition of NLP Courses Podcast. Simply record a question (under 4 minutes) at https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-podcast/ and it may be featured on a future episode. Find out more about our NLP training by visiting https://www.nlpcourses.com
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  The Power of Language: Unpacking Milton's Masterful Patterns - Part 1 13.02.2023 15min

  Are you curious about the power of language and how it can transform someone's life? Then you're in for a treat! Join host John Cassidy-Rice as he dives into the world of NLP language patterns and the works of Milton H. Erickson, the man who brought hypnosis out of the stage and into the medical arena. In this podcast, you'll discover how to communicate at multiple levels and get the right mindset to tap into the potential of language. From conversational hypnosis to influence and persuasion, we'll explore how language can speak not only to the conscious mind but also the unconscious mind. And who better to learn from than the master himself, Milton Erickson? His creative use of language was always tailored to the individual, making transformation playful yet effective. We'll also take inspiration from great artists like Claude Monet to see how their work applies to Milton's language patterns. So, don't miss out on this exciting journey through the world of language and its transformative powers. Download this podcast today and get ready to be amazed! If you found inspiration in this episode, share it with your followers on Instagram by posting a screenshot of yourself listening and tagging us @johncassidyrice. If you haven't left a review yet, we'd really appreciate it if you could visit https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/nlp-courses/id1072472565 and leave a review to show your support for the show. or you can leave us a review here: https://socialjuice.io/nlp Additionally, we invite you to contribute to the podcast by submitting a question for a #Q&A edition of NLP Courses Podcast. Simply record a question (under 4 minutes) at https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-podcast/ and it may be featured on a future episode. Find out more about our NLP training by visiting https://www.nlpcourses.com
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  A little bit of showmanship goes a long way - be careful not to go to far 06.02.2023 16min

  Are you ready to take a dive into the mesmerizing world of hypnosis and NLP? Well buckle up, because we've got a show for you!  This week, we're talking all about showmanship in hypnosis and how a dash of it can make a big impact. But, as always, too much of a good thing can have consequences. Join me on my journey as I recall the time I tried a rapid induction for the first time and the powerful results that came from it. I bet you'll be amazed to hear about the "Visual Squash" technique and how it can help someone enter a deep trance. Just remember, we want to keep the person's personality intact and have a conversation about what's important to them. So, let's get hypno-tized and discover the art of showmanship in hypnosis and NLP. Join me and let's make positive changes in people's lives! If you found inspiration in this episode, share it with your followers on Instagram by posting a screenshot of yourself listening and tagging us @johncassidyrice. If you haven't left a review yet, we'd really appreciate it if you could visit https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/nlp-courses/id1072472565 and leave a review to show your support for the show. or you can leave us a review here: https://socialjuice.io/nlp Additionally, we invite you to contribute to the podcast by submitting a question for a #Q&A edition of NLP Courses Podcast. Simply record a question (under 4 minutes) at https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-podcast/ and it may be featured on a future episode. Find out more about our NLP training by visiting https://www.nlpcourses.com
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  Questions about unlocking passion today 30.01.2023 12min

  We explore the idea of passion and share tips on finding it, pursuing it, and using it to live a meaningful life.  So why passion? Well, it's more than just a feeling – it's a powerful force that can drive your life to new places, but it doesn't have to lead to a career or making money. Passion can provide an outlet for creativity and fill your life with joy and energy.  So how do you find your own passion? Try out different activities, explore new hobbies, and practice commitment. Committing to something for a period of time allows us to glean an understanding of the depths and complexities of what it means to be passionate.  And not everyone needs passion to live a happy life. Some people are content to simply enjoy their lives as is, free from the constraints of passion. But for those seeking something deeper, passion can be that inner driving force that helps you move forward in life.  So if you want to know more about passion and how you can use it in your life, tune in to Passionate Pursuits. You've taken the first step in the process already – so let's get started! If you found inspiration in this episode, share it with your followers on Instagram by posting a screenshot of yourself listening and tagging us @johncassidyrice. If you haven't left a review yet, we'd really appreciate it if you could visit https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/nlp-courses/id1072472565 and leave a review to show your support for the show. or you can leave us a review here: https://socialjuice.io/nlp Additionally, we invite you to contribute to the podcast by submitting a question for a #Q&A edition of NLP Courses Podcast. Simply record a question (under 4 minutes) at https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-podcast/ and it may be featured on a future episode. Find out more about our Business Coaching Course by visiting https://www.nlpcourses.com
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  Unlock your motivation and achieve success through a growth mindset. 23.01.2023 11min

  Unlocking your motivation and achieving success through a growth mindset is the focus of this session led by host John Cassidy-Rice.  He begins by debunking the myth of the "big break" that keeps many people from reaching their full potential. Waiting for something to happen in their lives can lead to disappointment and a lack of fulfillment. Successful individuals come closer to realizing their goals by taking action and committing to something. Finding one's passion is not always easy, but committing to something can trigger passion and lead to growth over time. One of the keys to unlocking your true potential is having a growth mindset, which is the belief that one's abilities and intelligence can be developed through taking action. This is in contrast to a fixed mindset, which holds that one's abilities and intelligence are set in stone and cannot be changed. The importance of having a growth mindset is highlighted by Dr. Carol Dweck in her book "Mindset" and will be discussed in this session. One of the key takeaways is that embracing challenges and setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning can lead to greater success in the long run. In addition to exploring the growth mindset, this session will also delve into the topic of there is no failure, only feedback, and that by embracing challenges and learning from them, one can achieve success. Plus the skill of Reframing. Furthermore, the host John Cassidy-Rice emphasizes on the importance of dreaming big, having a vision, and committing to something that is positive, engaging, and makes a difference in the world or to oneself. He encourages the listener to commit to something and let the passion develop over time. He believes that having a big dream and staying committed to it is easier because you will face setbacks and challenges along the way. This motivational session has all you need to become a success - no big break required. Take the challenge, pledge to yourself, and dare to dream big and you'll easily unlock your motivation and reach your goals. Come learn the empowering tools needed to take control of your life and watch your true potential shine. Don't miss this opportunity to be inspired and transform how you approach life. If you found inspiration in this episode, share it with your followers on Instagram by posting a screenshot of yourself listening and tagging us @johncassidyrice. If you haven't left a review yet, we'd really appreciate it if you could visit https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/nlp-courses/id1072472565 and leave a review  to show your support for the show.  or you can leave us a review here: https://socialjuice.io/nlp Additionally, we invite you to contribute to the podcast by submitting a question for a #Q&A edition of NLP Courses Podcast. Simply record a question (under 4 minutes) at https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-podcast/ and it may be featured on a future episode. Find out more about our NLP training by visiting https://www.nlpcourses.com
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  Discover the Untapped Power of Your Passions — Take the Adventure Within! 16.01.2023 17min

  Are you looking for adventure? Are you feeling stuck and unfulfilled in life?  Tune into this podcast and join us on the journey to unlock your passions and discover the value of adventure on your life's journey.  Learn how to overcome fears, break out of routines, and explore exciting experiences while still making time for the things that matter most. Together we'll take a look at how to make more time for the things that bring you joy, and how to pursue activities that help you reach your goals.  Join us and learn something new - embark on an adventure and find fulfilment today! If you found inspiration in this episode, share it with your followers on Instagram by posting a screenshot of yourself listening and tagging us @johncassidyrice. If you haven't left a review yet, we'd really appreciate it if you could visit https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/nlp-courses/id1072472565 and leave a review to show your support for the show.  Or you can leave us a review here: https://socialjuice.io/nlp Find out more about our NLP Practitioner: https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-practitioner-course-online-live/ Additionally, we invite you to contribute to the podcast by submitting a question for a #Q&A edition of NLP Courses Podcast. Simply record a question (under 4 minutes) at https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-podcast/ and it may be featured on a future episode. Research quoted on podcast:  Cite: https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/aeef92db2dd3f24d31909013300aeb0489af2e83 Authors: Fanzhu Kong, Lily Zhao, Cheng‐hung Tsai Year: 2020
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  Let the Passion Flow: Uncovering your Lost Motivation 09.01.2023 16min

  In this weeks podcast we cover the concept of passion and its role in motivation. We will be discussing the idea that our outer circumstances are a reflection of our inner world and that the key to discovering and reclaiming lost passion is to examine our thoughts, values, and beliefs. They will also delve into the importance of understanding motivation and utilising the power of the unconscious mind to gain insight into our own thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. They believe that change starts with changing our thoughts and suggest exploring the concept of the inner world as a way to understand and reclaim lost passion and motivation. Join us as we delve into this fascinating topic. If you found inspiration in this episode, share it with your followers on Instagram by posting a screenshot of yourself listening and tagging us @johncassidyrice. If you haven't left a review yet, we'd really appreciate it if you could visit iTunes and leave a review to show your support for the show. Additionally, we invite you to contribute to the podcast by submitting a question for a Q&A edition of NLP Courses Podcast. Simply record a question (under 4 minutes) at http://nlpcourses.com/podcast and it may be featured on a future episode. Research quoted in this week's podcast Barbara L. Fredrickson, Department of Psychology and Research Center for Group Dynamics at the Institute for Social Research, University of Michigan. One study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that individuals who experienced more positive emotions had better physical health, greater success in their careers, and stronger social relationships. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3122271/
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  You have the answer within you. 01.01.2022 16min

  You are at a crossroads in your life, people are giving you advice. Some of it was good, even great. Yet you don't act on it  And then somebody goes all mystical on you and says, You have the answers inside you and you go well, that's all well and good, but how do I get to them? In this podcast, we explore how we access deep inner wisdom to pull our answers? This is a simple and profound method.  We explore a little known NLP technique that helps you uncover limitations and connects you with motivation.  What would your life be like when you can access your own answers? 
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  Interview with Dave Marshall 15.07.2021 17min

  Reissue of missing podcasts: This podcast was discovered motivating children to eat vegetables. Our first interview: The INLPTA Master Trainer in the UK Dave Marshall. Dave shares what it was like in the early days of NLP. We cover: Motivation for learning NLP Techniques that work Where you could find NLP in the early days of NLP I recommend paying attention to Dave’s language patterns and how he uses tempo to change the mood.
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  Words Words Words 12.07.2021 20min

  Reissue of the missing podcasts: This podcast was found in a deep conversation with Leonardo DiCaprio about the film Inception. How do we create maps of the world that we then operate through? And what do we mean by “The map is not the territory” The difference between 10-year-olds and adults when it comes to words How you can change your life through language What to read to transform your communication skills How a rocket engineer become a top consultant How did Malcolm X the activist transform his life The secret life of words to change your worldview Discover NLP Training by clicking here
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  NLP and Children 05.07.2021 20min

  Reissue of missing podcasts: This podcast was found in a playground in New York playing hopscotch NLP and Kids This is a topic I have been asked to cover most often. In this session, we explore a range of NLP techniques you can use for happy children. And for happy parents or caregivers, important. What drives children behaviour? The effect of language on children Emotions How to build self-esteem How to build emotional rapport The positive side of tantrums Play as a teaching tool The fun of bedtime (what to do if it is not) Monsters under the bed Why your voice tone is important and what tone to take https://www.nlpcourses.com/importance-goal-setting-allowing-flourish/
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  Questions, questions and questions 01.07.2021 19min

  Reissue of the missing podcast: This podcast was found signing in a boy band. Questions, questions and questions We have collected a few of the questions we get asked about NLP and created a podcast for you. We are thinking of making this a regular event where we answer your questions. We cover: Do embedded commands work? How to do embedded commands Examples of embedded commands When not to use embedded commands When not get into rapport with a new manager Spiral Dynamics introduction How Spiral Dynamic helps you understand mangers NLP Courses 
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  Frame of mind 25.06.2021 16min

  Reissue of missing podcasts: This podcast was found on the frame of the Portrait of Lisa Gherardini, wife of Francesco del Giocondo, Italian La Gioconda. Why he would not say. Framing the mind Have you ever wondered about how you think? What if how you think is holding you back in life and in your career. What about in your communication? In this podcast we explore frames: How the meaning of communication can be changed What we learn from Virginia Satir about how we think about time A simple frame to use with children when going to the shops We discover the core frames used within NLP Ecology frame Outcome frame As if frame Beliefs that make NLP work https://www.nlpcourses.com/nlp-practitioner-course-online-live/