The Self Love Podcast

How fear of vulnerability in relationships may be holding you back 16.06.2026 29min

In this episode we explore the power and truth about vulnerability, and how fear of it may be holding you back in relationships; causing unnecessary stress, struggle and conflict whilst trying to protect yourself and how this fear will get in the way of empathy, intimacy and deeper connection. You can watch the Brene Brown ted talk hereIf you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠thetrueselftherapist⁠At the start of the episode, I mention vulnerability within abusive dynamics, you can get more advice here:https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

How to say goodbye to your inner good girl- 3/3 08.06.2026 21min

In this third episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about how we can create REAL and LASTING change to the 'good girl' childhood blueprint that once kept us safe, through reframing shame, removing self blame and reparenting the inner child to create compassion, courage and the confidence to be YOU. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠thetrueselftherapistHere are some charities that offer help:⁠https://www.mind.org.uk/⁠⁠https://www.thecalmzone.net/international-mental-health-charities⁠You can also consult a registered mental health organisation in your local area if you need further help. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

When being 'good' was used to silence others' abusive behaviours in childhood 2/3 31.05.2026 27min

TW: This episode contains reference to childhood trauma and abuse. In this second episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about the darker side of being the ‘good girl' or good child when it’s related to intentional manipulation and abuse. I don’t go into detail, but we explore the different types of trauma and hopefully enough for you to feel seen and heard if this was your experience. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠⁠⁠Here are some charities that also offer help:https://www.mind.org.uk/https://www.thecalmzone.net/international-mental-health-charitiesYou can also consult a registered mental health organisation in your local area if you need further help. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

Being the 'good girl' and childhood conditioning- part 1/3 26.05.2026 30min

Being a 'good girl' was never meant to be your adult identityIn this first episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about the concept of 'good girl' childhood conditioning- where it comes from, how it happens and how it affects childhood and adulthood.If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

The power of reparenting your inner child 17.05.2026 26min

Being your own best friend is great advice, but this doesn't get to the vulnerable parts that really need it. In this episode, I talk about the concept of 'reparenting' your inner child, which really works to help you with your relationship to you and helps with the many patterns that are holding you back from self love. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

How being an underparented Gen X/millenial shaped your self love 09.05.2026 29min

In this episode talk more about the generation we (and our parents before us) grew up in affected yours esne of self and ability to love yourself, and how anxious ir avoidant attachment might be shaping your life. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠ ⁠⁠click here⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

WTF is psychospirituality? The mind, the soul and the connection between 28.04.2026 25min

In this episode and kickstarting a new season, I explain psychospirituality and why it is now pivotal to my role as a 'psychospiritual' therapist, and helping you connect to your ‘true self’. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can click here to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me!You can also find me on instagram as the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

90's 'nostalgia' and the harsh reality of growing up in as a gen x/late millennial 08.04.2026 28min

In this episode, I explore the romanticising of the 90's, and some of the harsh realities we had to face (and probably why you listen to this podcast). It's an exploration and I hope it resonates (and might explain a few things). If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes reflections prompts for you to follow.You can read the blog ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ and see more of my musings and content on my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , or find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

People pleasing, how being 'likeable' is really impacting your life (and how to change it) 19.03.2026 26min

In this episode, I explore the impact of people pleasing , the true effects of being 'likeable' and steps you can take to create changes. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes reflections prompts for you to follow.You can read the blog ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ and see more of my musings and content on my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , or find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

Hyper-independence, self trust and me... 05.03.2026 22min

In this episode, I share how hyper-independence is often seen in only trusting yourself is actually still related to lacking self trust and how it impacted my own life before my journey into self love. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes reflections prompts for you to follow.You can read the blog ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ and see more of my musings and content on my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , or find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

Is the Fire Horse more powerful than YOU? 24.02.2026 28min

In this episode, I explore the codepency we may have on external 'forces' when we lack trust within ourselves, and how social media might be leading us further away from ourselves and our inner wisdom.You can now join my FREE 'self love unlocked' private community here with weekly posts, reflections and a live check in meditation. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes reflections prompts for you to follow.You can read the blog ⁠here⁠ and see more of my musings and content on my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , or find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

What is your inner critic telling you? 18.01.2026 30min

If you were to answer this question, you'd likely reflect on the harsh words that your critical inner voice says, but in this episode, I share 'the 7 types of inner critic' as theorised by Psychologist Jay Earley and Psychotherapist Bonnie Weiss, who are within the Internal Family Systems experts (you can find out more about IFS here) to give you some further understanding on the things that hold you back in your inner world. I will explore this and more in my FREE online workshop 'how to do YOU' ⁠here⁠ which will go further than this podcast, and give you some tools to help you build a better relationship with your inner parts. I alluded to perfectionism and OCD- you can find out more here. If you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes a 'check in' opportunity and reflections prompts for you to follow.You can see more of my musings and content on my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , or find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

What's holding you back from being or ‘doing’ you? 14.01.2026 30min

In this episode, I share my perspective on why you can't 'do you'; you can discover the origins of where your lack of self trust, belief, worth and confidence have come from and you’ll be delighted to know these patterns can change! You can find out more about my FREE online workshop 'how to do YOU' hereI included some information on Eriksons 'Stages of Development' which you can find out more about here https://www.simplypsychology.org/erik-erikson.htmlIf you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes a 'check in' opportunity and reflections prompts for you to follow.You can see more of my musings and content on my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram page⁠⁠⁠⁠ and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , and you can also find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

New Year BS and how 'you do you' will be the greatest thing you learn to do 05.01.2026 18min

In this episode, I share my perspective on the BS behind new year and how 'you do you' will be the greatest thing you will ever learn to do. If you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes a 'check in' opportunity and reflections prompts for you to follow.You can see more of my musings and content on my ⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram page⁠⁠⁠ and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , and you can also find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

A moment to pause, find new perspective and self compassion 12.12.2025 13min

In this mindfulness episode, I invite you to pause, breathe, find a new perspective and some self compassion in the moments you need it the most, and when you don't. You can join me for a deeper dive into this 'live' on zoom (or to receive the replay) to explore this and more on Sunday 14th Dec at 7pm GMT....⁠sign up now!⁠If you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes a 'check in' opportunity and reflections prompts for you to follow.You can see more of my musings and content on my ⁠⁠⁠instagram page⁠⁠ and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , and you can also find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

What’s your window of tolerance? And could this be why you feel life is ‘too much’? 10.12.2025 26min

In this episode, we explore the 'window of tolerance' coined by Dr Dan Siegel as a way to relate our nervous system responses and behavioural reactions to our life experiences, and how we relate to our own zones of safety and sense of self. You can join me 'live' on zoom to explore this and more on Sunday 14th Dec at 7pm GMT....sign up now!If you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love Sunday' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes a 'check in' opportunity and reflections prompts for you to follow.You can see more of my musings and content on my ⁠⁠instagram page⁠ and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , and you can also find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

'tis the season to be overwhelmed? 28.11.2025 18min

In this episode, we explore the seasons of both winter and Christmas, and the battle between doing 'more' at a time when nature says 'hibernate' and how you can come back to 'you' at a time when the pressure is high. You can view the email and reflection prompts that connect with this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠and if you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love Sunday' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes a 'check in' opportunity and reflections prompts for you to follow.You can see more of my musings and content on my ⁠instagram page and as always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , and you can also find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

Boundaries, and the theory of 'cold tea' 14.11.2025 15min

In this episode, we explore my 'cold tea' theory, and how it can help you connect the dots on boundaries, your inner world and your relationship to you.You can view the email and journal prompts that connect with this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and if you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠click here⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love Sunday' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes a 'check in' opportunity and journaling prompts for you to follow.You can see and comment on the 'cold tea theory' post on my instagram page here As always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , and you can also find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

Why calm isn't the 'self love' fix you hoped for... 02.11.2025 23min

In this episode, we explore how 'calm' might not be the quick fix you've been promised.. but instead is an amazing portal for connecting to Self energy (aligned to IFS theory). You can view the email and journal prompts that connect with this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and if you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can click here to be part the weekly 'Self Love Sunday' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes a 'check in' opportunity and journaling prompts for you to follow.As always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , and you can also find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.

Why are self trust and self connection SO hard to find... 24.10.2025 31min

In this episode, I talk about the 'why' you may find it so hard to cultivate self trust and find self connection... and essentially try to gain certainty outside of the Self. I will reference adverse childhood experiences and trauma; please skip this episode if that's not for you today. You can view the email and journal prompts that connect with this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ and if you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can be part the weekly 'check in' by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠joining my email community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes journaling prompts for you to follow.As always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find out more and contact me here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , and you can also find out more about me and my work at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠and for more information on PTSD, cPTSD and for help if you are affected by abuse, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.mind.org.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.