The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast

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  Tuesday Talks: Are We the Drama? 18.08.2026 20min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Are We the Drama? | Episode 122 In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a couple writes in with a complicated play situation and one big question: “Are we the drama?” After a night of playing with friends didn’t unfold the way they expected, they’re left wondering whether there was a major misunderstanding—or whether they were intentionally misled. They believed another couple was interested in a full swap with both of them, but when the night played out, only the wi...
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  Hedo Part 1: Lacy's Unexpected Solo Adventure 13.08.2026 1h 2min

  Send us Fan Mail Hedo Part 1: Lacy's Unexpected Solo Adventure | Episode 258 This trip to Hedonism II definitely didn’t start the way Lacy imagined. After a family emergency meant Dan had to stay home, Lacy suddenly found herself facing a Hedo trip without her usual partner-in-crime. Thankfully, friends Mike and Daphne were able to jump in at the last minute and join her for the adventure. In Part I of this Hedo recap, Lacy sits down with Mike and Daphne to talk about those first few days in...
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  Tuesday Talks: How Single Guys Can Make Real Connections 11.08.2026 19min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How Single Guys Can Make Real Connections| Episode 121 This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering their very first video question! A good-looking single guy videos in with a question a lot of single men in the lifestyle probably have: How do you actually break into a friend group at events—and what’s the best way to approach couples without coming across as creepy? Dan and Lacy share practical advice for navigating lifestyle events as a single...
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  Expanding the Fantasy: Inside Secrets 2 with James Callahan 06.08.2026 1h 2min

  Send us Fan Mail Expanding the Fantasy: Inside Secrets 2 with James Callahan | Episode 257 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy sit down with James Callahan, the founder and owner of Secrets Hideaway Resort, to hear the inspiring story behind one of the lifestyle’s most well-known destinations. James takes listeners back to the humble beginnings of Secrets and shares what it took to turn an ambitious dream into a thriving resort. From navigating setbacks and adversity to...
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  Tuesday Talks: Can We Be Honest without Hurting the Lifestyle? 04.08.2026 17min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Can We Be Honest without Hurting the Lifestyle? | Episode 120 In this episode of Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy hear from another couple in the podcasting world who asks an important question: Do they ever feel pressure to hold back the negative or complicated parts of the lifestyle? When you are working to challenge the stigma surrounding consensual non-monogamy, it can sometimes feel like every story has to portray the lifestyle in a positive light. But does bei...
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  Our First Full Swap 30.07.2026 1h 2min

  Send us Fan Mail Our First Full Swap | Episode 256 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take listeners back to the very beginning of their story and share how they first met—not through a dating app, mutual friends, or a traditional first date, but as two singles already exploring the lifestyle. Unlike many couples who discover non-monogamy years into their relationship, Dan and Lacy entered their relationship with an understanding of the lifestyle from day one. Bu...
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  Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Vibe 28.07.2026 16min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Vibe | Episode 119 Not every lifestyle couple enjoys packed venues, booming music, and crowded dance floors—and that’s perfectly okay! In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a listener shares that he and his wife are struggling to find lifestyle events that match their more relaxed personality. They want to connect with others and enjoy new experiences, but the traditional party atmosphere just isn’t their vibe. Dan and Lacy offer practical su...
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  Naughty N'awlins Part 2: Parades, Parties & Pure Chaos 23.07.2026 1h 21min

  Send us Fan Mail Naughty N'awlins Part 2: Parades, Parties & Pure Chaos | Episode 255 Naughty N’awlins Part 2 is here—and Dan and Lacy are wrapping up their unforgettable trip to New Orleans with even more wild stories, meaningful moments, and nonstop partying. They begin with the Sexual Freedom Parade, sharing why the experience is about so much more than costumes and celebration. Surrounded by a community proudly embracing freedom, acceptance, and authenticity, the parade becomes one o...
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  Tuesday Talks: How to Know if They Want You 21.07.2026 17min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How to Know if They Want You | Episode 118 How do you know when another couple is actually interested—or if they’re just being friendly? In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a listener asks Dan and Lacy how to recognize the signs that another couple may want to take things beyond casual conversation. Dan and Lacy share practical advice for reading the room, noticing mutual effort, and recognizing when flirting and connection seem to be reciprocated. They also expl...
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  Naughty N'awlins Party 1: Drinking, Dancing, and DJing 16.07.2026 1h 11min

  Send us Fan Mail Naughty N'awlins Part 1: Drinking, Dancing and DJing | Episode 254 Dan and Lacy are back from Naughty N’awlins—and they have plenty of stories to tell! In Part 1 of their New Orleans recap, they take listeners along for the beginning of their wild weekend filled with old friends, unforgettable parties, plenty of drinks, and a little bit of trouble. The trip kicks off with a visit to Colette’s New Orleans, where Dan and Lacy reconnect with friends they have missed and settle ...
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  Tuesday Talks: Cruise Together, Play Apart? 14.07.2026 21min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Cruise Together, Play Apart? | Episode 117 A newer lifestyle couple is preparing to set sail on a Bliss Cruise with another couple they have played with before—but so far, their experiences have only involved parallel play. Since the other couple is comfortable with full swap, the listeners are wondering whether everyone has the same expectations for the trip or if their friends may be hoping for something more. Dan and Lacy explain why this is a conversation t...
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  Hedo 101: Everything You Need to Know Before You Go 09.07.2026 59min

  Send us Fan Mail Hedo 101: Everything You Need to Know Before You Go | Episode 253 Thinking about a trip to Hedo but not sure what to expect? In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are giving listeners the full Hedo 101. From the legendary pool parties and nightlife to the rooms, food, beach, and overall resort vibe, they break down what a first-time trip to Hedonism II in Jamaica can really look like. They also share why getting off the resort for an excursion can be one ...
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  Tuesday Talks: When It's Time to Move On 07.07.2026 16min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: When It's Time to Move On| Episode 116 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy respond to a listener question from a couple who thought they had found a great match for a full swap—until their first attempt took an uncomfortable turn. When the male half of the other couple was unable to perform, it led to an argument between him and his wife, leaving the listeners feeling like they had seen a major red flag and decided to step away. Since then, they have con...
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  What’s Actually Hard in the Lifestyle—and What Isn’t 02.07.2026 1h 13min

  Send us Fan Mail What’s Actually Hard in the Lifestyle—and What Isn’t | Episode 252 What do people think will be the hardest part of the lifestyle… and what actually is? In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy break down some of the biggest assumptions people make before entering the lifestyle. Is it really difficult to watch your partner with someone else? How much jealousy actually comes up? And do boundaries and rules make everything easier—or can they sometimes create n...
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  Tuesday Talks: What to Wear for Splash Atlanta 30.06.2026 24min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: What to Wear for Splash Atlanta| Episode 115 On this week’s Tuesday Talks, a listener writes in with a question many Splash Atlanta attendees are probably asking: what exactly are we supposed to wear for Eroticon? With each themed night described a little differently, Dan and Lacy break down the dress codes in a way that makes them easier to understand—and a lot less intimidating. Lacy shares her interpretation of each theme, ideas for putting together an outfi...
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  Too Much of a Good Thing? Avoiding Lifestyle Burnout 25.06.2026 1h

  Send us Fan Mail Too Much of a Good Thing? Avoiding Lifestyle Burnout | Episode 251 In this full episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy get real about something that can happen to anyone in the lifestyle: burnout. Between traveling, attending events, socializing, keeping up with messages, and trying to make the most of every opportunity, the lifestyle can sometimes start to feel more like an obligation than an escape. Dan and Lacy share their own experiences with feeling burned ou...
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  Tuesday Talks: Exploring without Being Exposed 23.06.2026 18min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Exploring without Being Exposed| Episode 114 On this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question from a couple who are curious about exploring the lifestyle but need to keep things private because of their careers. How do you dip your toes in without putting your personal life on display? They share practical, real-world advice for protecting your privacy while still finding community, making connections, and deciding whether the lifestyle is ...
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  Electric Pleasures: Chattanooga After Dark 18.06.2026 1h 19min

  Send us Fan Mail Electric Pleasures: Chattanooga After Dark| Episode 250 In this episode, Dan and Lacy recap their unforgettable weekend at Chattanooga Electric Pleasures! From learning the hard way what it takes to set up their own stage, to appreciating just how much work Dan puts into making the event experience come together, they share the behind-the-scenes moments that made the weekend even more memorable. They rave about the pool parties both days, complete with DJs spinning beside th...
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  Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Full Swap Couple 16.06.2026 17min

  Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Full Swap Couple | Episode 113 In this Tuesday Talks episode, Dan and Lacy answer a listener who says he and his wife have yet to experience a full swap because they struggle to find couples where everyone feels equally matched and attracted to both partners. They thought they may have found the right couple, but after getting to know the woman more, he realized he wasn’t attracted to her personality — while his wife is still very interested ...
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  The Ultimate Guide to Naughty N'awlins 11.06.2026 53min

  Send us Fan Mail The Ultimate Guide to Naughty N'awlins | Episode 249 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are giving listeners the ultimate Naughty N’awlins 101 guide! Whether you’re attending for the very first time or you’re a returning guest looking to make the most of the experience, this episode is packed with helpful tips, personal advice, and insider insight. Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before heading to New Orleans in July, including what...