Cheaters IRL Podcast

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  Episode 20 Part 2: Kyle & Raquel Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating 12.08.2026 49min

  Episode 20 Part 2: Kyle & Raquel Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating The isolation tactics of abusers.
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  Episode 20 Part 1: Why Do People Believe That Their Partner Would Never Cheat on Them? 23.07.2026 45min

  Episode 20 Part 1: Why Do People Believe That Their Partner Would Never Cheat on Them?   What factors lead people to believe that their partner would NEVER cheat on them? Is this a reasonable belief or an unreasonable belief? Should a person, by default, trust their partner blindly?  Or is it prudent to always be open to potential signs of your partner cheating? Does trust require blind faith?  
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  Episode 19 Part 2: Danny and Michelle, Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating 18.07.2026 37min

  Episode 19 Part 2: Danny and Michelle, Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
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  Episode 19 Part 1: Reasons Why People Wait to Confront their Partner with Evidence of Cheating 13.07.2026 40min

  Episode 19 Part 1: Reasons Why People Wait to Confront their Partner with Evidence of Cheating, Impact of this on the Cheater and on the Relationship as a Whole   We are going to discuss the reasons why a person may withhold evidence discovered regarding a spouse’s infidelity, either for a period of time or permanently. How does that impact the cheating partner and what is the potential impacts on the relationship as a whole?
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  Episode 18 Part 2 Tanya and Jeff, the Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating 07.07.2026 26min

  Episode 18 Part 2 Tanya and Jeff, the Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
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  Episode 18 Part 1: Surviving Cheating, The Temptation to Bend to Survive, Children's Protection Needs to be Primary 03.07.2026 21min

  Episode 18 Part 1: Surviving Cheating, The Temptation to Bend to Survive, Children's Protection Needs to be Primary
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  Episode 17 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Fallout From Confirmation of Cheating 08.05.2026 45min

  Episode 17 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Fallout From Confirmation of Cheating
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  Episode 17 Part 1: Life as it SHOULD be vs Life as it IS; The Impact of Infidelity on Religious Beliefs; The Impact of Others’ Reactions to the Infidelity on the Couple’s Decisions 26.04.2026 33min

  Episode 17 Part 1: Life as it SHOULD be versus Life as it IS; How these sometimes-conflicting views impact marriage, and the response to infidelity The Impact of Infidelity on Religious Beliefs Infidelity often has a significant impact on religious views and behaviors The Impact of Others’ Reactions to the Infidelity on the Couple’s Decisions
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  Episode 16 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating 18.04.2026 55min

  Episode 16 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating   How cheating impacts how the cheated-on partner feels about the marriage, not just in the present but how it makes them feel about the past and the marriage itself overall The cheating partner, Monica's side of the story from her perspective. The issues Stacy faces in trying to get past Todd's infidelity and how they handle an unexpected issue that arises between them
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  Episode 16 Part 1: Why people stay after cheating; How to get a cheating spouse back home; Conflict Avoiders Create Conflict 01.04.2026 22min

  Episode 16 Part 1: Why people stay after cheating is discovered. We discuss the most common reason people stay in a marriage after discovering their spouse has cheated. If a cheating spouse has left to be with someone else, how does a spouse go about getting them to come home? What difficulties does this create? How does a cheated-on spouse handle this scenario? Conflict Avoiders Create Conflict. Conflict Avoiders are not peacemakers. They actually have a tendency to create a lot of conflict, they avoid the consequence of dealing with the problems they create. But they, not only tend to create a lot of problems, they tend to take actions that make those problems as bad as possible before the spouse inevitably finds out. They then blame their spouse for their avoidance but it's actually a quirk of their personality. It's not the spouse's fault that they hid problems or information until a critical point was reached.
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  Episode 15 Part 2: Gaslighting versus Lying; Chad and Amy the Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating 25.03.2026 1h 7min

  Episode 15 Part 2: Gaslighting versus Lying; Chad and Amy the Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating   The Intro describes the difference between gaslighting and just ordinary lying Amy's response to learning for certain that Chad has been cheating. The effects of gaslighting highly drive how Amy responds.
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  Episode 15 Part 1: Trading One Set of Problems for Another, Outgrowing a Marriage, Impressions of Harm 23.02.2026 34min

  Discussing Amy's mother's claim that if Amy left Chad, she would just be “trading one set of problems for another.”  Is divorce essentially trading one set of problems for another? Michelle’s attitude toward Danny, specifically her attitude that #1) She didn’t have to be faithful to him because he didn’t satisfy her in bed and #2) That they had “grown apart.” These are insincere excuses and we’ll discuss why in this episode. Raquel’s impression that something bad was going to happen, finally leading her to want to end her marriage - instead of the abundance of evidence of cheating being her impetus for leaving. 
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  Episode 14 Part 2: Summary of All 6 Stories Up to Now 12.02.2026 54min

  Episode 14 Part 2: Summary of All 6 Stories Up to Now    Summary of All 6 Stories up to the point of the cheated-on partner accepting and confirming that they have, in fact, been cheated on.  Patterns of Cheating are common in most cases, these 6 stories represent common patterns.
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  Episode 14 Part 1: Evidence of Cheating: How do you know if your partner is cheating? 03.02.2026 39min

  Episode 14 Part 1: Evidence of Cheating: How do you know if your partner is cheating?
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  Episode 13 Part 2: Raquel & Kyle Confirmation of Cheating 22.01.2026 24min

  Episode 13 Part 2: Raquel & Kyle Confirmation of Cheating
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  Episode 13 Part 1: Listen to your Head, Your Heart is an idiot 06.01.2026 22min

  Episode 13 Part 1: Listen to your Head, Your Heart is an idiot
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  Episode 12 Part 2: Danny & Michelle Confirmations of Cheating 15.12.2025 35min

  Episode 12 Part 2: Danny & Michelle Confirmations of Cheating
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  Episode 12 Part 1: Motivations for Lying, Effect of Images Popping into the Cheated-On Spouse's Mind 08.12.2025 35min

  Episode 12 Part 1: Motivations for Lying, Effect of Images Popping into the Cheated-On Spouse's Mind
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  Episode 11 Part 2: Jeff & Tanya Confirmation of Cheating 02.12.2025 27min

  Episode 11 Part 2: Jeff & Tanya Confirmation of Cheating
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  Episode 11 Part 1: Lying About the "Whys" behind Cheating Behavior 25.11.2025 41min

  Episode 11 Part 1: Lying About the "Whys" behind Cheating Behavior