Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

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• The Great Divide - Can You Grow Apart In The Lifestyle? 19.01.2026 1j 10mnt

  Join hosts Mickey and Mallory as they kick off Season 7 with a deep dive into one of the most challenging aspects of lifestyle relationships: when partners have different play styles, needs, and desires. In this candid episode, they explore "The Great Divide" - what happens when couples grow in different directions within the lifestyle, and how to navigate these differences without letting them destroy your relationship. Topics Covered: Understanding why couples grow apart (lifestyle and vanilla) The difference between DTF and connection-based play styles Navigating polyamory vs. swinging dynamics within one relationship Solo travel and independent play in committed relationships Finding four-way connections when you have different needs Communication strategies for bridging lifestyle divides Why keeping score destroys relationships The importance of "pebbling" and giving each other flowers Plus: Whiskey of the Month returns with Wild Turkey Rare Breed - the bourbon that changed barrel-proof whiskey forever! Upcoming Events Mentioned: Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026) Groove Cruise 2027 Cap d'Agde, France adventure This podcast contains adult content and is intended for mature audiences. The Casual Swinger is a variety show covering lifestyle topics, travel, events, and real talk about non-monogamy. Show Notes: [00:00] - Introduction & Season 7 Reboot New music, new episode art, fresh start Why Season 6 didn't go as planned Getting back to their roots [03:30] - Recent Adventures X Club Toronto: New Year's Eve & Jake's birthday celebration Mickey's DJing journey ("the new midlife crisis") Mallory's solo trip to Be Better at Being Bad (Naughty Gym's event) The transformative power of solo travel in the lifestyle [15:00] - Upcoming Events Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026) - casualswingerweek.com Cate's Miami event (Memorial Day weekend) Cate's Scottsdale event (October, Mickey's birthday) Groove Cruise 2026 & 2027 Cap d'Agde, France Toronto X Club return [20:00] - THE GREAT DIVIDE: Main Topic What is The Great Divide? How people grow apart in relationships (55% of divorces over 50 are due to "irreconcilable differences") The lifestyle version: when play styles, desires, and needs diverge Why this isn't about divorce - it's about navigation Common Lifestyle Divides: DTF vs. connection-based players Polyamory-aligned vs. swinging-focused partners Different levels of sexual adventurousness Kink/fetish compatibility issues The "real unicorn": finding genuine four-way connections Healthy vs. Unhealthy Backfilling: ✅ Good: Replacing flaky vanilla friends with lifestyle friends who value your time ✅ Good: Choosing workouts and self-care over passive activities ❌ Bad: Seeking physical touch from lifestyle friends because you don't get it at home ❌ Bad: Complaining about your partner to others for validation ❌ Bad: Using drugs, alcohol, or attention-seeking to fill emotional voids How to Navigate The Divide: Find mutual ground Focus on what you agree on, not just differences Don't keep score Quid pro quo thinking destroys relationships Practice "pebbling" Give each other flowers and little wins to stay connected Communicate honestly Even when it's uncomfortable Allow for parallel roads You don't always need to be on the same path, just alongside each other Take time and space Sometimes you need to pause and process before continuing the conversation Seek outside resources Therapy, podcasts, books, community support Key Insights: "Do I need to follow you there, or can I be on a parallel road alongside you?" The hardest person to say "no" to is someone you care about If you're keeping score, you're already at a deficit Solo experiences can strengthen your primary relationship Different doesn't mean doomed - it means you need to communicate more [55:00] - Clarification on "DTF" Addressing feedback from previous episode DTF isn't dispa
• A Racoon Named Desire - Mickey & Mallory's Romantic Wildlife Expedition 20.10.2025 1j 19mnt

  Welcome to another wild ride with Mallory and Mickey on the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this episode, "A Raccoon Named Desire," your favorite hosts take you on their first-ever trip to Desire Riviera Maya, sharing honest, hilarious, and insightful stories from their lifestyle vacation in Mexico. Episode Highlights: Desire Riviera Maya Review: Get the inside scoop on the newly renovated resort, from the stunning Eden building to the not-so-stunning beach. Mallory and Mickey break down the vibe, amenities, and what makes Desire unique compared to their beloved Hedonism II in Jamaica. Lifestyle Travel Tips: Hear about the differences between resort stays, hotel takeovers, and house parties. The duo discusses how Desire caters to both newbies and seasoned swingers, and why it might be the perfect fit for your next adventure. Wildlife Encounters: You won’t want to miss the infamous raccoon story that inspired this episode’s title! Find out how a cheeky raccoon (and some other local critters) made their mark on the trip—literally. Community & Events: Learn about upcoming events like Casual Swinger Week (March 14–21, 2026), how to join the Connect Casual community, and why staying connected year-round is so important. Real Talk: Honest reflections on swinging, making connections, and why sometimes you just need a vacation from your vacation. Key Takeaways: Desire RM offers a more relaxed, boutique experience compared to the high-energy, week-long party at Hedo. The resort is ideal for couples new to the lifestyle, with approachable staff, beautiful grounds, and a variety of room options. Not everything goes as planned—sometimes, the most memorable moments involve wildlife and waffles! Community is everything: connect with like-minded friends before, during, and after your trip. Links & Resources: Book your spot for Casual Swinger Week: casualweek.com Join the Connect Casual community: connectcasual.com Follow Casual Swinger on social: Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube Desire Riviera Maya review, lifestyle resort, swingers vacation, Hedonism II vs Desire, travel tips, swinging podcast, Connect Casual, Casual Swinger Week, Mexico lifestyle travel, resort comparison, raccoon story, adult travel, lifestyle community But wait...there's more!If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! Got questions or want to join the conversation? Visit casualswinger.com or connectcasual.com for the community, or you can with us on social media. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and all the sexy, silly, and surprising moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. You’ve been listening to Casual Swinger!
• One Size Fits All? 03.09.2025 1j 32mnt

  One Size Fits All? Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate! Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events. We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round. Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel Episode Highlights: [00:00] Intro & Warnings: Mickey and Mallory welcome listeners and introduce special guest Wanderlust Cate. [03:00] House Party Recap: Behind-the-scenes of their epic three-day house party, including hilarious mishaps and lessons learned. [10:00] Community & Connection: The value of year-round lifestyle communities like Casual Connect and Libertine Connect. [15:00] Booking Casual Swinger Week: Updates, booking tips, and why it’s not sold out! [20:00] Meet & Greets: What to expect, etiquette, and how to spot red flags. [30:00] House Parties: The difference between social and DTF (down to fun) parties, setting boundaries, and the importance of clear communication. [40:00] Swingers Clubs: Club culture in the US vs. Europe, pros and cons, and how to find your fit. [55:00] Hotel & Resort Takeovers: Investment, expectations, and how to choose the right event for you. [1:10:00] Age, Vibe & Finding Your People: Why “average age” questions matter, and how to connect with like-minded folks. [1:20:00] Final Thoughts & Resources: How to research events, ask the right questions, and set yourself up for success. Special Guest: Wanderlust Cate – Host of Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and founder of Libertine Events. Find her at wanderlustswingers.com and libertineevents.com. Resources & Links: Casual Swinger Community: casualswinger.com Casual Swinger Week: casualswingerweek.com Libertine Events: libertineevents.com Connect with Us: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SLS, SDC, Kasidie Contact: Email: podcast@casualswinger.com Support the Show: Join the Casual Connect community for exclusive events and resources. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!
• Adults Only - The AVS Legislation You Should Care About! 01.08.2025 1j 2mnt

  Podcast Title:Casual Swinger Season 6 Episode 4 – Adults Only: The AVS Legislation You Should Care About SEO-Optimized Description:Join hosts Mallory and Mickey Gordon for a candid, entertaining, and insightful episode of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this adults-only show, the duo dives deep into the controversial Age Verification Service (AVS) legislation sweeping across the United States and beyond. Discover how these new laws impact not just the adult industry, but your personal freedoms, privacy, and access to online content. With over 18 years in the lifestyle community, Mallory and Mickey blend humor, real-life stories, and expert commentary to break down what AVS means for content creators, sex workers, and everyday adults. Plus, get the latest updates on Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II, hilarious dating misadventures, and the much-anticipated Whiskey of the Month! Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran, sex-positive advocate, or just curious about the latest in adult legislation, this episode is packed with must-know information, laughs, and resources to keep you informed and empowered. Keywords:AVS legislation, age verification, adult content laws, lifestyle podcast, sex-positive, privacy, online freedom, content creators, sex work, Hedonism II, Casual Swinger Week, whiskey of the month, podcast show notes, adult industry news Show Notes: 00:00 – Intro & DisclaimerMallory and Mickey welcome listeners, share a quick disclaimer, and set the tone for an adults-only, fun, and informative episode. 03:00 – Life Updates & Dating in the LifestyleThe hosts catch up on recent adventures, the challenges of dating as busy event hosts, and the realities of chemistry and connection in the lifestyle. 12:00 – Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism IIAnnouncing the next Casual Swinger Week in Jamaica! Details on dates, booking, and what makes this event unique. 20:00 – Main Topic: AVS Legislation ExplainedDeep dive into Age Verification Service laws, how they’re affecting the adult industry, content creators, and your access to online content. What is AVS?Which states are affected?The impact on privacy, free speech, and sex workInternational implications (UK, EU, etc.) 40:00 – The Real-World ImpactDiscussion on VPN usage, piracy, and how restrictive laws often backfire. Parallels to Prohibition and the War on DrugsThe rise of non-compliant and pirated sites 55:00 – Sex Education, Parenting, and Personal ResponsibilityWhy open conversations and device-level controls matter more than legislation. Tips for parentsThe importance of sex-positive education 1:10:00 – Whiskey of the MonthSpotlight on Evan Williams Single Barrel bourbon: tasting notes, history, and why it’s a favorite. 1:20:00 – Resources & How to Get InvolvedLinks and organizations mentioned: Free Speech Coalition: https://freespeechcoalition.com/Age Verification Policy: https://ageverificationpolicy.org/Contact your representatives 1:25:00 – Connect with Casual Swinger Website: casualswinger.comEmail: podcast@casualswinger.comSocial: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SDC, SLS, CassidyEvent info: casualswingerweek.com Support the Show:If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! For questions, feedback, or to join us at Hedonism II, reach out via email or social media. Links & Resources Mentioned: Free Speech CoalitionAge Verification PolicyHedonism IIThe Hot Wife Next Door Podcast Disclaimer:This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The hosts are not licensed professionals. Listener discretion is advised.
• Hotwife Homerun - Casual vs Curated 14.06.2025 55mnt

  In this episode of Casual Swinger, Mickey and Mallory Gordon are joined by Cate Wanderlust Swingers for an exciting and candid discussion.Broadcasting from Toronto, the trio dives into an impromptu encounter in Cancun, exploring themes around the spontaneity versus the structured approach in the hot wife lifestyle. They share amusing anecdotes, insights on the dynamics of E&M (ethically non-monogamous) relationships, and how a spontaneous adventure reignited confidence and passion. They also navigate topics like safety, vetting processes, performance anxiety, and the evolving rules of swinging. With humor and raw honesty, the conversation offers both entertainment and thought-provoking content for listeners looking to understand or relate to the hot wife and swinging experiences.www.casualswingerweek.com www.wanderlustswingers.com www.thexclub.net www.hedonism.com www.libertineevents.com  
• Striking Out - It's Not Just For Boys 01.06.2025 1j 2mnt

  In this episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey reconnect with listeners from their mobile studio, the 'Rolling Couch.' This episode is filled with comedy and candid recounting of frequently thwarted encounters while out of town. The discussion starts with a chaotic attempt to record the previous episode at an airport bar surrounded by kids. They delve into the challenges faced organizing hotwifing dates and dealing with flakey and untrustworthy candidates. Mallory highlights her personal struggles with the intricate process in the post-breakup environment while Mickey shares valuable tips on identifying and avoiding red flags in lifestyle dating. Infused with plenty of humor and honesty, they reflect on balancing rejection, expectations, and the complex emotions involved. Listen in for a blend of fun tales from the field and real insight into navigating the lifestyle's singles scene.LinksCasual Swinger Week Libertine Events The X Club
• Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Casual Swinger 2.0 13.05.2025 1j 1mnt

  Well, it's been a while!Casual Swinger took a MUCH longer than intended hiatus, and even WE didn't exactly know why.  We dig into some of the reasons why we spent 9 months off the air & talk about some of our challenges with a REALLY tough subject...breaking up.Not with each other!  With "our couple," and all of the emotional challenges that came along with it.Hear all about it and more during our road trip down to Miami for Libertine Events Garden of Hedon!Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week Libertine Events DarkMatter69 - BDSM Gear
• SE05E07 - Hurricane Hedo - Onsite w/ Hedonism II GM David Graham post Hurricane Beryl 18.07.2024 1j 21mnt

  In this episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey return after a travel hiatus to recount their vibrant experiences at Casual Swinger Week and their adventures at Hedonism 2 in Jamaica. They discuss the aftermath of Hurricane Beryl, highlighting the dedicated efforts of the Hedo staff in recovery and restoration. An interview with David Graham, General Manager of Hedonism 2, covers post-hurricane renovations, the impact of global inflation on resort costs, and the unwavering spirit of the resort community. The episode emphasizes the importance of teamwork, leadership, and community support, including a GoFundMe campaign for employees’ families. Promoting future events, Mallory and Mickey reflect on the resilience and support within their community.
• The Unicorn Swap - Is it the SECRET to adding a third to your bedroom? 24.03.2024 1j 24mnt

  People find themselves entering a consensually non-monogamous relationship (aka "The swinging lifestyle") in SO many different ways and for different reasons.  One thing is almost universal though, at some point...the boys want a threesome.  Finding a single, willing girl who wants nothing more than to join a married (or attached) couple simply for their pleasure is SO rare she might as well be a mythical creature...aka, a "Unicorn."In tonight's Casual Swinger we break down a way that everyone can get what they want, and no Unicorns were harmed in the creation of this episode!Also, more on Podcast-A-Palooza, Revive Parties, Casual Swinger Week, and of course...WHISKEY of the MONTH!Links:Casual Toys Casual Swinger Week Vedo Toys Wicked Sensual Care Uberlube XR Brands/Creature Cocks Coochy Shave Cream NS Novelties Podcast-A-Palooza Revive Parties Hedonism II *
• Blurred Lines - The Land Between Swinging & Polyamory 01.03.2024 1j 29mnt

  The swinging lifestyle is fraught with pitfalls and challenges for the strongest of relationships, but one of the biggest challenges (and fears) couples face is the emotional connection that can occur as these relationships deepen.  We were joined by Scott & April from Naughty Gym to wade into these dangerous waters for relationships and some of the specific challenges they present...if it's not "lifestyle," and it's not "Poly..." what is it?LinksCasual ToysNaughty Gym Be Better @ Being Bad Week Casual Swinger Week Hedonism II Resort *
• Surprise! - It's my D!CK! - Exploring the d!ck pic culture w/ Expansive Connections 15.02.2024 1j 33mnt

  Almost nothing is more shocking than opening an email or text message and seeing the stunning visage of someone's glorious phallus throbbing in all of it's majesty...especially when you didn't ask for it.What's the origin of the d!ck pic?  Why do guys keep sending them?Is it easier or harder on people who actually get paid to look at them?  (Pardon the pun) Whatever the case, we were lucky enough to be joined by two of the amazing staff from Expansive Connections (www.expansiveconnection.com) to discuss not only the pictures themselves, but the motivations, the responses, and the outcomes of sending pictures of your family jewels to unsuspecting recipients.Dig in and learn more about the almighty d!ck p!c on this week's Casual Swinger!Bonus!The whiskey of the month is BACK!Check out the whiskey of the month this month, I.W. Harper Cabernet Cask Finish!Links:Expansive Connection Casual Toys Casual Swinger Week Dirty Perv Week Fluffernutters Hedonism II IW Harper Cabernet Cask Finish @ Total Wine *
• Contents Under Pressure - Are Content Creators Ruining The Lifestyle? 31.01.2024 1j 7mnt

  "Content Creators" are absolutely everywhere these days.  The onset of personal content platforms has changed everything from the workplace to social media, right down to subcultures like the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle.In this return to form, Mickey & Mallory dig into the idea that content creators have irreparably and permanently changed the landscape of the lifestyle from a few different angles:1) As content creators ourselves2) As event promoters3) And finally, as a lifestyle coupleSpoiler alert...we don't agree!  Get in on this debate and hear a bit about what's been going on in our world!Links:Be Better @ Being Bad Week @ Hedonism II Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Casual Toys*
• A Family is Born - Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Changes Everything 08.05.2023 1j 9mnt

  Casual Swinger Week 2023 was over SIX years in the making...and even we couldn't have predicted what would happen when we brought 130 souls to our favorite place on earth, Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica! Hear our feelings on the events of the week and some of the amazing experiences from our perspectives before listening to PART TWO, the trip from the attendees perspectives.     Casual Toys Hedonism II World Exotic Travel  Topless Travel *
• A Tale of Two Tails - Whiskey Business Part 2 w/ Limavady CEO Darryl McNally 30.04.2023 1j 27mnt

  Back in the saddle!Limavady CEO Darryl McNally & Whistle Pig Brand Educator Ingrid Rodriguez joined us live in the Casual Bar for a conversation about one of the oldest art forms in the world, making whiskey.Learn how to make great cocktails with Irish Whiskey & some facts about whiskey you've never heard before on this NEW episode of Casual Swinger! Make sure to use code CASUALSWINGER for a discount on these great brands! Limavady Irish Whiskey Whistle Pig Whiskey *
• The ”NO” Paradox 21.11.2022 1j 13mnt

  Ever wondered why such a little word is SO hard to say?   The Season 5 Premiere of Casual Swinger digs into the word we fear so much that we're afraid to say it...the Voldemort of the lifestyle..."NO."Also, catch up with us on our goings on, our trip to Hedo with amazing friends, and some of the Christmas specials coming your way at Casual Toys!   Casual Swinger Week Casual Toys Liberator Hedonism Resorts Whiskey of the Month Mrs. Milford *
• We are Casual Swinger - Faces Out & Talking Mental Health w/ The Things We All Carry 28.08.2022 1j 16mnt

  It's the Season Finale of Season 4 and we're going all in folks! Faces out for Season 5 & we're talking about it with the host of another podcast we love that has absolutely NOTHING to do with the lifestyle, "The Things We All Carry."  His podcast focuses on the mental health struggles of first responders carrying the traumas from their various rescues over time and how they come to terms with that part of their lives.  We also dig into our experiences at Hedonism II, including our games and our upcoming CASUAL SWINGER WEEK!  That's right, in April 2023 we'll be headed to Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica for a week of fun & laughs with our sexy friends you will NOT want to miss!  Current sponsors include: Shameless Care YoungCouplesParties.com Neva Nude Oxballs Uberlube Casual Toys Playhouse LV More to come! Check out our website for more information including room availability & rates! Last up, this month's Whiskey of The Month is:  George Dickel Barrel Select!   Notes: Dickel Barrel Select on Total Wine The Things We All Carry Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Casual Toys   *
• I Regret Nothing! - Exploring Regret In Lifestyle Relationships w/ The CornFed Swingers 31.07.2022 1j 8mnt

  Regret is a funny thing.  So often it's better to regret something we HAVE done instead of something we haven't done.  However, in the lifestyle, does that still apply?  How do we express regret even if it means we're not sorry?   We dig in from the beautiful corn fields of Iowa with the amazing CornFed Swingers to have an honest & open conversation about our experiences...and our hearts on this second-to-last episode of Season 4 on Casual Swinger! PS - We've launched our Hedonism II trip for April 2023!  Join Casual Swinger on the sunny beaches of Negril, Jamaica for an epic vacation you'll never forget! Casual Toys Cornfed Swingers on Twitter Casual Swinger at Hedonism II Hedonism II WET Travel   *
• The Size of the Matter - Talking Size w/ Wanderlust Swingers & SoloSwingin 10.07.2022 1j 8mnt

  Is size everything?  Is it all about male genitalia?   We talk size & all things being self conscious about it on this week's Casual Swinger!   Wanderlust Swingers Casual Toys Podcast-A-Palooza *
• You can take a WHAT but not a compliment? - Examining affirmation in the Lifestyle 27.06.2022 1j 56mnt

  Why is it so damned hard to accept a compliment.  It's not a gender thing, a professional thing, or even a LIFESTYLE thing.  Taking a compliment is WAY harder than it is to give one...but we have to ask? Why don't we believe the people in our tribe when they tell us the things we HOPE others believe about us?  What's it gonna take? We examine this and more with our friend "The Alabaster Scrotum" in this latest episode of Casual Swinger! Also: Podcast-A-Palooza and the Casual Cocktail, along with Whiskey of the Month! Whiskey of the Month on Total Wine Old Forester Whiskey Podcast A Palooza Casual Toys The Casual Cocktail *
• The ”Breast” Episode Ever w/ Dr. David Plank 22.05.2022 1j 29mnt

  Upgrading the twins is a tough decision that we agonized over for months, meeting with doctor after doctor...we told you all about it in our episode, "Thanks for the Mammaries."  It was a tough go until we met Dr. David Plank from Mid-Florida Plastic Surgery, then everything changed. Find out in his own words why his approach is different from many other surgeons in the area and why we enjoyed him so much.  Also, why don't doctors have more personality?  What happened to Michael Jackson's nose? When should you say when its too much plastic surgery? Also, The Casual Cocktail, Podcast-A-Palooza, Naughty in Nawlins, and more in this week's Casual Swinger!   Casual Toys The Casual Cocktail - Join us for a mixology party like no other! Mid Florida Plastic Surgery Dr. David Plank - Guess Mallory's hoots! Whiskey of the Month - Michter's US1 Rye Podcast-A-Palooza Naughty in Nawlins   *