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  LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483 06.08.2026 1j 22mnt

  It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum!Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, their first kiss, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a Newlyweds Game that proves these two go waaaay back! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off!- Go to https://skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!More Monica:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/monicapayneeTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@monicapayneeMore Luke:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lukaswesselhoffTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lukeboxxxTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome Monica & Luke!1:30 - What We Didn’t See On The Show6:56 - Luke’s Journey13:36 - Monica’s Journey19:33 - Would They Be Engaged Today Without ‘The Ultimatum’23:37 - Why They Went On The Show32:00 - The Intimidation Of David/Luke’s Confidence42:16 - High School/First Kiss51:53 - Monica’s “Professionalism”57:19 - Conflict Resolution1:06:06 - The Newlyweds GameIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482 30.07.2026 1j 20mnt

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becoming YOUR future problem? If he ends it because of his father's diagnosis, is that a sign you should wait, or is the illness a red herring? And what to do if you love your guy but hate his vegetarianism? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your night guard!- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:08 - My Friend Keeps Making Digs About My Childfree Lifestyle—Do I Confront Her?13:15 - My Husband’s Parents Are Likely To Become Our Financial Burden One Day—Any Advice?30:25 - After 2 Months Of “Bliss”, He Ended It Due To His Father’s Illness—Do I Wait For Him?57:05 - I Love My Guy But Not His Vegetarianism—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481 24.07.2026 1j 34mnt

  Content note: This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or texting START to 88788. Please listen with care and skip this episode if needed.This week, we're joined by Blake Robertson, whom many viewers know from The Ultimatum. Since his time on the show, Blake has also been the subject of public allegations of domestic violence—a topic that understandably evokes strong emotions and one we strived to approach with care in this conversation.Our goal with this interview is not to tell listeners what conclusions to draw, nor to minimize the seriousness of domestic violence. Rather, we believe difficult conversations are best approached thoughtfully, with honesty, attention to detail, and room for nuance. In this episode, we ask Blake the questions many viewers have had since the allegations became public. He also discusses public scrutiny, accountability, personal growth, and what life has looked like after the cameras stopped rolling.More Blake:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblakerobertson- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theblakerobertsonTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome Blake Robertson1:35 - What Terms He’s On With Hayley Currently2:13 - Why Did He Propose?7:31 - The TMZ Article10:28 - After Filming The Show19:30 - Charleston40:49 - Scene 255:51 - Night Of The Arrest1:14:25 - The Affidavit1:17:24 - Finances1:22:40 - Did The Show Accurately Represent Their Relationship?1:26:06 - Beliefs1:28:43 - Regrets1:31:44 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  The Ultimatum S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 480 23.07.2026 1j 2mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down the Finale and Reunion for Season 4!*** This episode discusses domestic assault. Please listen with care. ***Thanks to our lovely sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:51 - Episode 9/Finale13:43 - Episode 10/Reunion59:43 - Reviewing Predictions 1:00:18 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 479 20.07.2026 1j 39mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 5-8 of Season 4!*** Note: This episode was recorded before news dropped about one contestant getting arrested for assault **Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and free daily greens per box!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:26 - Episode 536:46 - Episode 649:33 - Episode 71:11:13 - Episode 81:34:09 - Predictions1:38:13 - Who We Would Go ForReferenced NYT article: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/07/17/well/couples-therapists-fight-advice.htmlIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 478 16.07.2026 1j 39mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 1-4 of Season 4! Stay tuned for your recap of episodes 5-8 dropping later.Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:06 - Episode 127:49 - Episode 243:19 - Episode 31:13:45 - Episode 41:36:09 - Predictions1:37:01 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Love Island S8: Week 6 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 477 14.07.2026 1j 13mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 6 & the FINALE of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs!- Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor!- Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping6:10 - Episode 3228:23 - Episode 3332:31 - Episode 34 (AfterSun)35:39 - Episode 351:05:46 - Predictions1:10:09 - Shandy Word Watch1:11:28 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Love Island S8: Week 5 Recap & Review - Ep 476 09.07.2026 1j 33mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 5 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen's favorite Bras and Underwear!- Go to https://zazzle.com to get 25% off your first order!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:20 - Episode 2624:02 - Episode 2736:24 - Episode 2951:18 - Episode 301:13:55 - Episode 311:28:29 - Predictions1:29:10 - Shandy Word Watch1:31:41 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Let Myself Get Excited & He Promptly Dumped Me—What Happened & WHERE IS HE?!" - Ep 475 03.07.2026 1j 4mnt

  It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers! Our first caller, Emily, has just been dumped by the first guy in ages she's thought could be The One. After years of dating and actively putting herself out there, she's downright defeated. What happened? And more importantly, WHERE IS HE?! Our second caller, Ryan, has an unpopular choice for her bridal party. Should she overcome her family's judgment, or is it simply better to keep the peace? Listen on for the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions!Thanks to our sponsors....- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily!36:40 - Shandy Debrief41:30 - Welcome To Caller Ryan!1:00:15 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Love Island S8: Week 4 Recap & Review - Ep 474 02.07.2026 1j 26mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 4 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://lolablankets.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off!Referenced reel: https://www.instagram.com/reels/DaF_-BWgjsZ/Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:16 - Episode 2015:36 - Episode 2130:20 - Episode 2348:24 - Episode 241:03:42 - Episode 251:22:11 - Predictions1:22:30 - Shandy Word Watch1:25:22 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Love Island S8: Week 3 Recap & Review - Ep 473 25.06.2026 1j 28mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 3 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://lolablankets.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:57 - Episode 1424:00 - Episode 1531:49 - Episode 1753:10 - Episode 181:04:50 - Episode 191:21:38 - Predictions1:23:11 - Shandy Word Watch1:26:38 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472 19.06.2026 1j 3mnt

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The guy you like *seems* interested but never makes a move—does Shandy still stand by the old adage "If He Wanted To, He Would"? And if you love your fiancé but his flatulence is a damper on the romance, what to do?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:24 - Q1: Our Texts To Friends Are Going Unanswered—Is This Normal? 21:34 - Q2: I Put My Foot In My Mouth On The Second Date—Can I Recover From This?26:05 - Q3: I Like The Guy But Nothing’s Happening—Do You Still Believe “If He Wanted To, He Would”?46:06 - Q4: His Bathroom Issues Give Me the Ick—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Love Island S8: Week 2 Recap & Review - Ep 471 18.06.2026 1j 38mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:49 - Episode 811:54 - Episode 935:25 - Episode 1153:57 - Episode 121:09:56 - Episode 131:21:14 - Predictions1:22:29 - Shandy Word Watch1:25:45 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Love Island S8: Week 1 Recap & Review - Ep 470 11.06.2026 1j 37mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://zazzle.com for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:51 - Episode 122:35 - Episode 231:32 - Episode 339:55 - Episode 458:27 - Episode 51:09:37 - Episode 61:18:22 - Episode 71:29:20 - Predictions1:31:29 - Shandy Word Watch1:35:09 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469 05.06.2026 1j 13mnt

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping6:20 - Q1: My Brother Is Dating A Superficial Influencer Wannabe—Help!24:25 - Q2: My Friend Is Having A Difficult Time Financially—Should I Lend Her The Funds?36:46 - Q3: I Found My Husband’s Secret Stash Of Deepfakes He Created Of Me—Help!52:20 - Q4: I Have A Loyal Boyfriend But A Secret Fantasy—Do I Take The Leap?If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468 04.06.2026 41mnt

  Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatchThanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Dave:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dth_9- TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@davethomas9Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dave Hand!3:20 - What Happened With Sophie9:08 - Who From Perfect Match Is Most Misunderstood?15:36 - Did He Feel A Cultural Difference On The Show?21:09 - Life After TV24:46 - What Is The Thought Process That Goes Into Getting A Neck Tattoo?29:37 - Ranking Cast Members30:04 - Is His Favorite Movie Really ‘The Notebook’?31:16 - Rapid Fire38:00 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Perfect Match S4: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 467 27.05.2026 54mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE!Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Finale Kick Off25:00 - “Perfect Match” Crowning Ceremony44:19 - Surprise Couple47:15 - Final Thoughts & Predictions49:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466 21.05.2026 1j 8mnt

  It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our lovely sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shsandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://dupe.com and tell it what you’re looking to buy!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:14 - Q1: My Longtime Friend And I Are Secretly Crushing But Timing Isn’t Our Friend—Help!16:54 - Q2: My “Friend” Has Assumed I’ll Help Her Move Homes—Can I Get Out Of This?26:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend & I Are Finally Moving In Together But I Fear Compromising On This One Thing—Help!34:12 - Q4: I’m An Adult But These Former Colleagues Make Me Feel Like I’m In Junior High—Help!44:58 - Q5: My Husband Is Moody And It’s Driving Me Nuts!If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465 20.05.2026 1j 16mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:06 - Episode 633:53 - Episode 71:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions1:14:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464 14.05.2026 1j 22mnt

  Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:16 - Episode 126:10 - Episode 235:32 - Episode 356:14 - Episode 41:07:53 - Episode 51:19:11 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.