The Whore's Bedroom

Episode

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  36. Experiencing a Male Escort for the first time with Rhys Phillips 30.07.2026 2j 1mnt

  I met Rhys Phillips in London to dive into his work: being a male escort who services women and couples. Our jobs are technically the same, but there are so many interesting differences that I was so excited to ask him about. I absolutely loved this conversation and hope you guys do too!Follow Rhys on socials:https://www.instagram.com/rhysensual/https://www.tiktok.com/@rhyssential
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  35. How to Become an Escort 101 09.07.2026 46mnt

  You have been asking me - how do I become an escort? What tips do you have for beginners in the industry? I'm finally answering that, and giving my advice for anyone who is interested in entering the world of full service sex work. This advice will also be helpful for those who are already established in the industry in other locations, but are looking for logistical information about specifically working in Europe.To be clear, this episode is NOT a comprehensive guide that tells you everything you need to know about escorting successfully and safely. This is meant to be a starting point, and it is meant to encourage you to do your own research. Safety information specifically varies so much depending on your location - I touch briefly on safety in this work, but it is imperative that you do your own research and have multiple ways to keep yourself safe while working. Elise's article that I read out: https://open.substack.com/pub/nineseedyelk/p/agony-elise-how-do-i-become-a-sexElise's article on boundaries, do give this one a read: https://open.substack.com/pub/nineseedyelk/p/companionship-the-question-of-enduranceIf you are located in Berlin, Hydra is a fantastic resource that offers information, counseling, and even specific open office hours for information on how to start escorting in Berlin: https://www.hydra-berlin.de/
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  34. Two years of being a whore has made me change my mind on some things... 23.06.2026 38mnt

  It's been a while since I sat down alone to share my opinions - and those opinions have changed. I'm taking back what I said in some of my previous episodes, and sharing some new things I've learned. Let's talk about spirituality, dating, and north american vs european men when they cheat.
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  33. Disabled men need escorts - with Sonia von Sacher 05.06.2026 1j 33mnt

  Disabled men are rarely able to get their sexual needs filled. That's where Sonia comes in - she not only offers specific services as an escort to accommodate disabled clients, but also gives them a discount. They make up much of her clientele, and have shaped her outlook on both work and life. We chatted about her experiences in sex work - not just with disabled clients, but with pro submission, 6 week trips with clients, her female clientele and so much more. Follow Sonia on socials:https://www.instagram.com/sonia.von.sacherhttps://www.tiktok.com/⁨@sonia.von.sacher⁩ 
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  32. How the FIFA world cup will harm sex workers in Vancouver and beyond with SWAN Vancouver 22.05.2026 56mnt

  As one of the host cities for the FIFA world cup, Vancouver is already prepping for the alleged sex trafficking that comes with the event. But there's a catch - there is absolutely no proof to back up the claim that such sporting events cause an increase in sex trafficking, nor even an increase in demand for consensual sex work. Crystal from SWAN Vancouver joined me to discuss the tangible negative effects these trafficking myths have on sex workers, as well as current political changes in Vancouver that are making vulnerable worker's situations more dire than ever. SWAN is a non-profit organization that promotes the rights, health, and safety of im/migrant women engaged in indoor sex work through frontline service and systemic advocacy. They offer low-barrier, culturally-specialized, and non-stigmatizing services through both inreach and outreach programs.Donate to SWAN:https://swanvancouver.ca/donate/Follow SWAN on IG:https://www.instagram.com/swan_vancouver/Volunteer in Vancouver to help SWAN organizer safer sex supplies:https://swanvancouver.ca/volunteer/
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  31. The (actual) sex work situation in Germany - with Anne Bonny 01.05.2026 1j 21mnt

  Germany has been called "the brothel of Europe" due to it's thriving sex trade and relatively lax laws. But are those laws really all that lax? Anne Bonny, an activist and member of Hydra e.V. joined me to discuss the current and future realities of sex workers in Germany. We discussed the current "Prostitution Protection Act", the push to bring the Nordic Model to Germany, and the laws that sex workers in Germany want for themselves. Donate to Hydra: https://www.hydra-berlin.de/en/donationsLearn more about Hydra: https://www.hydra-berlin.de/en/Follow Anne: https://www.instagram.com/anne.bonny.berlin
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  30. Racism in sex work with Mistress Vera 11.04.2026 1j

  Mistress Vera Von F is no stranger to racism in the sex industry, and she joined me in London to discuss both her own experiences as well as pervasive racism throughout the industry. We dove into race play, online harassment, beauty standards, and how sexual desires reflect subconscious prejudices. Follow Mistress Vera:https://www.instagram.com/von.floozy/
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  29. Lenina Crowne on why she loves plastic surgery and how she became good at sex 27.03.2026 1j 7mnt

  Lenina Crowne, a high class companion in London, joined me while I visited her city to discuss social media visibility as a sex worker, how plastic surgery has affected her life, how autism makes her a better escort, and how we feel about OnlyFans vs escorting.Follow Lenina on socials:https://www.instagram.com/leninacrownex/https://x.com/RequiemLenina
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  28. Whorebaiting, the female gaze, and working through a recession with Edie Montana 06.03.2026 56mnt

  What is whorebaiting? Why do people pretend to be sex workers when they're not? Edie and I discussed this, along with the "female gaze" in sex work, working through recessions, my criticisms of Kayla Jade, and starting a business as a sex worker.Edie Montana is a stripper, performer, show director, and writer. She is the co-founder and director of Slut Riot, a growing platform that combines art and activism, aimed at de-stigmatising sex work through performances and art. Born and raised in the Italian countryside, she completed a master’s in Cultural Studies in New Zealand with her thesis on sex work representation, and now lives in Berlin. Her writing has been published in The New York Times and Huffpost, among other publications.Follow Edie on Socials:https://www.instagram.com/edie.montana/Check out Slut Riot:https://www.instagram.com/slvtriothttps://linktr.ee/slvtriot
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  27. What it takes to run a queer indie porn company with Mahx Capacity of Aorta Films 20.02.2026 1j 20mnt

  Mahx Capacity joined me to discuss being a porn doula, keeping an indie queer porn company financially afloat, consent on porn sets, creators as a non-renewable resource, and finding community in the queer porn world.Mahx Capacity is a Brooklyn based performance maker, entrepreneur and postmodern pornographer. They are the co-founder and creative director of Aorta Films as well as a performer and consultant.Check out Aorta Films:https://www.instagram.com/aorta_studiohttps://bsky.app/profile/aortafilms.bsky.socialhttps://x.com/aorta_filmsFollow Mahx:https://www.instagram.com/mahxcapacity666
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  26. Queer Porn Icon Jiz Lee on sex trends, falling in love on set, and queer porn archives 06.02.2026 1j 11mnt

  Trailblazer of queer porn Jiz Lee joined me on the pod to discuss their favorite sex trends, burnout in art vs porn, how the porn landscape has change for creators, fears surrounding AI in porn, and their advice for queer people who want to enter the industry.Find more of Jiz:https://www.instagram.com/jizlee/https://bsky.app/profile/jizlee.bsky.socialBuy their book, "Coming Out Like a Porn Star"https://jizlee.bigcartel.com/
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  25. Dungeon owner Miss May on why she loves being so mean to her subs 23.01.2026 1j 2mnt

  Professional mean girl Miss May joined me in London for a chat about her passion for pissing on people, the dream BDSM furniture she wants to add to her dungeon, dealing with the comedown from sessions, and male vs female subs. Miss May is a professional dominatrix and dungeon owner based between London and Berlin.Follow Miss May on socials:https://www.instagram.com/missmayberlin/https://x.com/missmayberlinhttps://www.tiktok.com/@worshipmissmay
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  24. Belonging on Social Media with Dr. Carolina Are 09.01.2026 1j 21mnt

  Dr. Carolina Are joined me to discuss her research on social media censorship, sex work in academia, how AI impacts influencers, shadowbanning, and of course, Taylor Swift.Carolina is a pole dancing academic, blogger, author, speaker, pole dance instructor and performer, and activist. She published some of the first ever studies on shadowbanning, and is currently a digital criminologist at the London School of Economics and Political Science. Follow Carolina on socials:https://www.instagram.com/bloggeronpole/https://bsky.app/profile/bloggeronpole.bsky.socialhttps://www.tiktok.com/@bloggeronpole
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  23. Eva Oh on women in power, the lust of greed, and keeping men in her personal prison 12.12.2025 1j 33mnt

  Eva Oh joined me in London for a titillating conversation on her life as a dominatrix, hesitance in dating, the meaning she finds in mentoring, and what's wrong with men.Eva Oh is an award winning dominatrix, advocate, mentor, and podcast host, who has been wielding her power as a sex worker since 2011 to be come one of the most famous dominatrixes in the world.Follow Eva on socials:https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me/https://x.com/youwillpleaseMEhttps://www.tiktok.com/@youwillpleaseme
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  I'm Back! 29.11.2025 4mnt

  A quick little update to let you know where I've been, and tell you about upcoming episodes!
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  22. Your burning questions 14.04.2025 36mnt

  What was my favorite booking? What do I think about Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue? What are my go-to icebreakers with clients? I'm answering these questions and many more!Some other sex workers on TikTok you should follow, as mentioned in the episode:https://www.tiktok.com/@juicypomma4.0https://www.tiktok.com/@shakingsheetshttps://www.tiktok.com/@pursenuggets5.0https://www.tiktok.com/@inaralordehttps://www.tiktok.com/@jadeblairxoxhttps://www.tiktok.com/@tigressthe304.personal
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  21. One year of being a whore - lessons and reflections 31.03.2025 37mnt

  It's officially been one year since I started escorting full time! Today I'm diving into all the lessons I've learned, and my personal reflections on this year for me.
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  20. The truth about dating 17.03.2025 35mnt

  A bit of a different topic today, but one I'm incredibly passionate about - my opinions on dating men, as a straight cis woman. This is purely about dating in personal life (not about my clients), and it's such an important facet of many women's lives. This isn't a comprehensive totality of my views - I would have to talk for a few hours to get everything out! I'd love to hear your opinion in the comments and start a conversation. TikTok accounts mentioned:https://www.tiktok.com/@texasgardenfairyhttps://www.tiktok.com/@the_yv_edithttps://www.tiktok.com/@observationswithmyeyes(tip: if you don't have the TikTok app, you can watch all videos without having to download it or log in by viewing the links on desktop!)Books mentioned:Why Men Love Bitches, Sherry ArgovCalling in The One, Katherine Woodward Thomas
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  19. Living in Berlin - my experiences 03.03.2025 40mnt

  I've been living in Berlin for almost a decade (!) and often get asked online what it's like to live here - so here's a deep dive! I talk about the pros and cons from my personal perspective (warning: there's a lot of cons) as well has how much the city has changed since I moved here.
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  18. Porn Historian Noelle Perdue on banning porn, AI, and the future of content 16.02.2025 45mnt

  Today's conversation is full of not just juicy bits about porn, but important lessons for anyone who is even slightly interested in the industry. We discuss what a porn ban would actually look like, how AI effect the adult industry, the role of porn in sex education, and how porn is used as a political pawn. Noelle Perdue is a writer, producer and porn historian with nearly 10 years of experience working platform side for multiple mainstream and independent adult industry companies. Having written everything from Food Network porn parodies to legally binding terms and conditions, much of her current work explores the blurry borders of obscenity and how pornography's history can influence our digital and political futures.Follow Noelle on socials:https://www.instagram.com/all_day_breakfast_/