Menisms

Episode

• What Men Want In The “Perfect” Girlfriend | Ep. 130 28.05.2026 1j 3mnt

  What does it really take to be the “perfect” girlfriend? And more importantly… does she even exist?In the final episode of the season, the guys dive into the expectations men place on women, the pressure to “perform” perfectly in relationships, and the age-old conversation that starts it all: men and women are different. From communication styles to emotional needs, this episode unpacks the tension, misunderstandings, and standards that shape modern relationships.It’s honest, debatable, slightly chaotic, and the perfect way to close out the season.Menisms will be back very soon with more conversations, more hot takes, and more moments that’ll have you arguing with your headphones.Feel free to leave us a comment.Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0
• Finding Purpose in Fashion and Events to producing GTCo Fashion Week ft. Sola Oyebade Ep. 129 21.05.2026 54mnt

  Feel free to leave us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• The Best Rizz Game That Every Woman Falls For But Pretend They Don't | Ep. 128 14.05.2026 1j 12mnt

  We’ve all heard the loud, flashy pickup lines that usually end in a drink being thrown or a very awkward "read" receipt. But what about the subtle moves? The ones that actually work so well that women won't even admit they’re falling for them?In this episode of Menisms, we’re pulling back the curtain on the "Best Rizz" that bypasses the radar. We’re talking about the low-key psychological wins—from the "selective' attention" to the power of the "unbothered" energy—that have women intrigued even when they claim they hate the game.Feel free to leave us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• 10 Non-Sexual Things Men Find Attractive in Women (But They'd Never Say Out Loud or Admit) | Ep. 127 07.05.2026 1j 2mnt

  What actually keeps a man thinking about you when you aren't in the room?In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the male psyche to reveal the 10 subtle, non-sexual traits that men find absolutely magnetic—but almost never talk about.  They'd shock you. Feel free to leave us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• Dealing With Sexual Performance Anxiety as Men (The TRUTH No One Really Talks About) | Ep. 126 30.04.2026 1j 32mnt

  The pressure to perform is real — and most men suffer in silence.In this episode of Menisms, we're going deep on one of the most common yet least talked about experiences in men's sexual health. Whether it's the frustration of not being able to get or maintain an erection, or the embarrassment of ejaculating far sooner than you'd like, these are experiences that have affected more men than will ever admit it.Your hosts, Mure and Isioma, get personal in this one. No filters. No sugarcoating. Just two men sitting down and telling the truth about moments that shook their confidence, tested their relationships, and made them question themselves in ways they weren't prepared for.Feel free to leave us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• Life After Big Brother to Nollywood & Becoming DAVIDO's Music Video Director ft. Dammy Twitch & Beverly Osu | Menisms 125 23.04.2026 1j 41mnt

  In this episode, Dammy Twitch and Beverly Osu open up about their unconventional journeys from unexpected career pivots to navigating fame, pressure, and purpose. They unpack the realities of Nollywood, life after Big Brother, working with top-tier artists, and the personal philosophies shaping their paths. It’s honest, layered, and deeply reflective.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• 8 Things Men Do That Make ZERO Sense (But They’ll Argue It Does) | Ep 124 16.04.2026 1j 6mnt

  A brutally honest (and hilarious) breakdown of the things men do that make absolutely no sense, yet they will defend with their chest. From ego to conditioning to pure vibes, this episode unpacks the why behind the behaviour.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• “I Want to Be More Than Friends” Ft. Binti Talks | Menisms Ep. 123 09.04.2026 1j 32mnt

  In this episode of Menisms, the guys sit down with the ladies from Binti Talks to unpack one of the most debated questions ever: can men and women really just be friends?From blurred boundaries to hidden feelings, they get into real-life scenarios, uncomfortable truths, and the moments when “just friends” starts to mean something more. Is it possible, or are we all just pretending?Expect honest takes, a little chaos, and perspectives from both sides you might not agree with… but definitely need to hear. Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0SFollow our guests:Binti Talks: https://www.instagram.com/bintitalkstz?igsh=dXh3cGN4ejBuaTYy
• "I Was Losing My Mind": The Dark Side of Entrepreneurship Nobody Talks About | Menisms Ep. 122 02.04.2026 1j 14mnt

  "Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life" is the ultimate career lie.In this episode, we discuss the moment a creative dream becomes a logistical nightmare and why monetising your hobbies can actually kill the joy that made them special in the first place. Enjoy.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• Is It Just Privilege? Or Are Men Still Out Here Proving Themselves? Feat. Tobi Bakre & Demi Banwo | Menisms 121 26.03.2026 1j 47mnt

  We're joined by two of Nollywood's finest – Tobi Bakre and Demi Banwo, and we unpack deep conversations on the deep and most times unsaid struggles that men face.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• 15 Things Women Do That Instantly Turn Men Off (Without Them Knowing It) 19.03.2026 1j 21mnt

  There are some silent, unspoken things that turn us off the moment we spot them in a situationship or even a potential partner. The guys share personal experiences on this and more in this new episode of your favourite podcast. The conversations are real, funny and lowkey relatable at the same time.Enjoy.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• Are Nigerian Men Getting Married Too Late? Best Age To Marry in Your 20s or 30s? | Ep. 119 12.03.2026 1j 31mnt

  In this episode, the Menisms guys dive into the idea of a “marriage window” and whether it actually exists. From turning 30 and feeling societal pressure, to family constantly asking when you’ll bring someone home, the conversation explores why many men delay marriage today. The guys also share personal experiences about women they almost married in their 20s and discuss whether finances and modern expectations are reshaping when people settle down.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• Tattoos, Respect & African Parenting | Ep. 118 05.03.2026 1j 21mnt

  The dilemmas in this episode are wild! 😂Why is it that even as grown adults, we still hear our parents' voices in our heads before making a personal choice?We’re sharing the raw, hilarious, and sometimes painful stories of getting our first tattoos—from hiding them under long sleeves for years and so much more. You're in for a great ride.Enjoy.Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• Can Nigerian Men Be Soft & Vulnerable Without Losing Respect? | Ep. 117 26.02.2026 1j 12mnt

  Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=0S
• Can Men Really Handle Rejection? | Ep. 116 19.02.2026 55mnt

  Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=09
• Valentine Is Coming… But Who’s Gifting The Guys? | Ep. 115 12.02.2026 1j 12mnt

  In this episode, we unpack our real experiences with Valentine’s Day — from secondary school teddy bears to uni heartbreaks… and even the infamous Prado moment.We talk about the pressure men feel to always be the giver, whether Valentine’s is just capitalism in disguise, and what actually makes a gift meaningful.Is Valentine’s about love… or performance?Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=09
• Dating in Your 20s vs 30s... Have our taste changed? Crazy Experiences! | Ep. 114 05.02.2026 1j 57mnt

  In this episode, we step into a time machine to a world before high-speed Wi-Fi, Tinder, and the "talking stage"—the era of analogue love as we knew it.From the high-stakes pressure of scratching a ₦200 Econet recharge card to the sheer audacity of taking a bike to a movie date at The Palms, we break down why dating in 2009 felt more "real" than the digital chaos of 2026. We explore the transition from boarding school "socials" and Yahoo Messenger pings to the hyper-expensive, option-paralysed dating scene of today.Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=09
• How Social Media is Shaping The Idea of the 21st Century Man | Ep. 113 29.01.2026 1j 6mnt

  The guys talk IShowSpeed and the whole drama that surrounded his Nigerian leg of his Africa tour, sex before marriage, sexual compatibility and the how social media is somewhat defining who or what the 21st century men should be like and more in this episode. EnjoySubscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow the guys:Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/Murewa: https://x.com/olumurewa?t=OYgAtjTrJQLWUWG5YmyvLA&s=09
• Everybody go chop Breakfast? How do men Deal with Heartbreak? 💔 | Ep. 112 22.01.2026 1j 32mnt

  In this episode, we unpack a controversial question many couples avoid: does being the sole financial provider excuse someone from daily house chores? The Lads also share stories of Heartbreak, and how they recovered, If ever? 😔 Enjoy.Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow Menisms on social media @menismspod: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/menismspod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/menismspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/menismspod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
• New Co-Host Reveal + Detty December Recap & 2026 Expectations | Menisms Ep. 111 15.01.2026 1j 6mnt

  Menisms in back... We meet our new co-host Isioma Okey-Nwosu and our OG co-host Murewa. Talk about Detty December, marriage pressure and 2026 expectations. Ladies and gentlemen. Strap in, Menisms season is upon us!!!For those who missed our earlier post. Menisms and Michael have mutually decided to part ways.The decision was made on friendly terms, and we’re grateful for everything he brought to the podcast. We wish him nothing but success in his next chapter. We’ve got a new co-host and a bigger season lined up for y’all! Stay tuned…Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow Menisms on social media @menismspod: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/menismspod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@menismspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/menismspod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠