How to Be Him Podcast

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  How to follow God while still Suffering- Taylor Washington 01.09.2026 44分

  In this episode of How To Be Him, we sit down with Taylor Washington, and ex professional soccer player to talk about something every one of us will face: suffering Trials can leave us questioning God, searching for answers and wondering how we’re supposed to keep moving forward. Taylor shares what it looks like to suffer well - not by pretending everything is OK, but by turning to the Word of God, leaning on the Lord, trusting his character when life doesn’t make sense. If you’re walking through a difficult season, feeling discouraged, or struggling to understand what God is doing, this conversation is a reminder that you don’t have to suffer alone. God is still present, still faithful, and still worthy of your trust - even in the trouble.
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  The Importance of Authenticity- Danny Fernandez 18.08.2026 48分

  In this episode, we sit down with Danny Fernandez to talk about the importance of authenticity and what it really looks like to be yourself in a world constantly telling you who you should be. We unpack the importance of being genuine , the fear of what others think, and how embracing who God created you to be can lead to greater freedom, confidence, and purpose.
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  Why Every Man Needs a Mentor (most don’t have one)- Grant Skeldon and Chichi Onyekanne 28.07.2026 45分

  About 82% of men believe mentorship is important, yet only around 52% actually have a mentor. On this episode of How To Be Him, Garth and Za sit down with Grant Skeldon and Chichi Onyekanne to unpack why mentorship matters. From the challenges of finding someone to learn from to knowing when it's time to invest in someone else, this conversation offers practical wisdom for navigating mentorship in every season of life.
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  Lies About God You May Believe 14.07.2026 34分

  In this episode of How To Be Him, we're talking about one of the biggest reasons so many Christians struggle with fear, anxiety, shame, and performance: believing lies about who God actually is. For years, we both had an incomplete picture of the Father's heart. It affected our relationships, our anxiety, and even the way we approached our faith. In this conversation, we unpack the difference between knowing about God and truly knowing His character. If you've ever wondered: "Does God actually love me?" "Why do I keep feeling anxious even though I trust Him?" "Is God disappointed in me?" "How do I love people the way Jesus did?" ...this episode is for you. We pray this conversation helps you see Jesus more clearly and reminds you just how deeply you're loved.
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  Shoot Your Shot Without Losing Yourself- J.C. Shire and Sara Laine McNew 30.06.2026 45分

  A conversation about how to date in a way that honors God but still shows genuine interest. We’re joined by J.C. Shire and Sara Laine McNew to talk about what it looks like to take risks with integrity, how faith shapes the way you chase things, and why conviction and confidence aren't opposites.
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  Hookups, Dating, or Marriage? What Gen Z Men actually want- Gabe Conte 16.06.2026 50分

  Nobody's saying what they actually think — so we did. In this episode, Gabe Conte joins HTBH to talk about what Gen Z men are really looking for when it comes to relationships, sex, and commitment. Is marriage still the goal? Are hookups filling a void? And what does any of this have to do with faith? Unfiltered and real.
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  This is what real community looks like 02.06.2026 53分

  We pulled up, brought the snacks, and let the conversation breathe. This episode is less interview, more real life — a roundtable with guests you recognize, who are actually trying to live out Godly community. No perfect answers. Just honest conversation about what it looks like when faith gets lived out in a living room with people you trust.
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  Ambitious or Obedient? Why Faith-Driven Men Have to Choose 19.05.2026 39分

  You've got goals. Plans. A vision for your life. But what happens when God's call and your ambition don't line up? We get into the real tension between chasing what you want and submitting to what you're called to — and whether those two things can actually coexist for the modern Christian man.
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  God Humbled Me- Grant Troutt 05.05.2026 45分

  Most of us say we want to be humble — but we don't actually want to be humbled. In this episode, we sit down with Grant Troutt and talk about why God doesn't wait for your permission to bring you low, what that process could actually look like, and why the humbling isn't punishment — it's preparation. If you've ever felt like things were falling apart right when they were supposed to come together, this one's for you.
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  SHAME: God Isn’t Disgusted With You 21.04.2026 32分

  How can you be forgiven for the things you’ve done? Why does the past haunt us so much? How can I not be afraid of what others will think of me because of my past? If you’re anything like us, you’ve had similar questions pop into your head, and if we can give you some advice, they’re lies. In this episode of HTBH, Za and Garth tackle the hard topic of shame, and how much of an effect it can have on our generation. If you stick around, you’ll walk away with a truth you may have never heard before that will help you combat the lies that flood into your mind. We’re excited to tackle this topic together
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  Culture’s Version Of Man Is BROKEN- Bailey Jamieson 07.04.2026 38分

  Why can it be so difficult to identify what a man is these days? On this episode of HTBH, Garth and Za sit down with Bailey Jamieson to discuss masculinity, economic anxieties, and the truth of what it actually means to be a biblical man. If you’re curious about biblical masculinity, or what goes on inside the head of young Gen Z guys, you won’t want to miss this episode of How To Be Him!
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  Identity: It’s Not What You Think- Landon Hurlbut 24.03.2026 38分

  Why are you here? What is your purpose here on Earth? Why should you continue to live the life you have? These are all questions that can go through the head of our generation, and they can be extremely intimidating. In this episode of HTBH, Landon Hurlbut makes his first appearance to talk about the identity crisis going on with Gen-Z. After watching this episode, you’ll walk away with a clear understanding of where you should be finding your identity, the purpose you have in life, and hopefully a new excitement for the future!
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  Battle Plan Against Porn- Dani Valentine 10.03.2026 38分

  Garth, Za, and special guest Dani Valentine talk about the battle a lot of people fight but almost nobody admits — porn. With the added perspective of a woman who’s struggled with it too, this episode mixes real stories, real laughs, and real biblical truth on how to keep fighting. Episode two sets the tone for what How To Be Him is all about.
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  How To Be Him - Pilot 24.02.2026 25分

  Garth and Za officially say hello to the world — and to every fellow "Himothy" out there — sharing personal stories, asking the questions that matter, and laying the foundation for what this show is all about. If you’ve been looking for real conversation, real growth, and real brothers pursuing Jesus together, this isn’t just an intro — it’s an invitation.
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  How To Be Him - Trailer 22.02.2026 1分

  How To Be Him is a Christ-centered space where Garth and Za have honest conversations about faith, masculinity, doubt, lust, identity, and real life in our generation. If you’re ready to stop conforming and start being transformed—welcome to How To Be Him.