The Female Dating Strategy

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• Manosphere & Online Dating: FDS Queens Don't Sweat It! 13.06.2026 1val 5min

  What does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground! Are you interested in participating in a documentary series about being a woman in the world of the internet? Please reach out with an email to us and we will forward it along to the documentary crew!  contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com Also email if you want a PDF of the FDS Handbook! 
• The Four F's: FDS Strategies to Survive and Thrive 30.05.2026 1val

  What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest. "Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link [https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08862605261432630] from the Journal of Interpersonal Violence Thich Nhat Hanh youtube video [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3-aJON5780] on helping hungry ghosts
• The Not-Dating Female Strategy 12.05.2026 51min

  Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you. We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyone Let us know what you think via Spotify comments or email as at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com Love you queens!  Scrotes die mad
• A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About? 01.05.2026 2min

  Let us know! contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com love u, see you next week
• The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah 21.04.2026 54min

  FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain. If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com Scrotes be mad and take it out on pretty ladies
• Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes' 04.04.2026 57min

  Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries! Want your dating lessons to be featured on the show? Submit your Roast-a-Scrote to: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com 
• My Kink is Shaming 21.03.2026 59min

  In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should  FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
• Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle Their Feelings 14.03.2026 59min

  Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof. Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic Join the conversation by commenting on Spotify Also, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡
• Let's Talk About Sex! 20.02.2026 52min

  Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of social media, the influence of porn, and the importance of sexual education in advocating for one's own pleasure.
• A Sobering Tale: Rose's Journey to Sobriety 09.02.2026 54min

  In this episode, the Queens discuss how Rose's commitment to sobriety dovetailed with her discovery of FDS.  Correction: Rose is coming up on 3 YEARS of sobriety in March/April 2026 🎙️ Episode Resources & Links 📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook. 👉 Download here 💖 Support the Podcast Like what you hear? Help us keep the message going: 👉 Donate via PayPal 🌐 Explore More FDS Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: @femdatstrat Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy
• Should You Play Games? Taking FDS Principles to Heart 25.01.2026 52min

  Rose and Patricia delve into the timeless question: should you play games? In the ensuing discussion, they find answers that underline how important FDS principles are in ensuring a healthy approach to dating and life. Would you like to share a Queen Level-Up Story? Or a roast-a-scrote tale? Write us at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com
• What Is FDS: Rekindling The Communal Flame 10.01.2026 44min

  Welcome back, queens! We are hyped and honored to kick-start the new era of FDS, and we hope to bring back the liveliness and zest of the OG days. We shall do our best Buckle up for the first episode of the year. We are going to publish every other week and make sure we are consistent before getting back to weekly episodes, and ultimately open the subscriber-only content back up.  As we shared on Savanna's Swan Song (last pod), If you are still subscribed to the Patreon, we very much value your contribution that goes solely towards production and maintenance costs at the moment. FOR YOUR REFLECTION: pillars of FDS, or layers of the cake, or stories of the pyramid 1. Leveling up - "who do I want to be?" 2. Standards and boundaries  3. Date with intention - continuous vetting that reflects (2) SEND US YOUR * Level-up stories * Roast-a-scrote tales * Advice (tough love) * Guest suggestions  at: contact@femaledatingstrategy.com We love you all and are super excited to restart the conversation and to keep the flame alive 👑
• Savanna's Swan Song 03.01.2026 17min

  Join the FDS hosts as they fete and say a bittersweet goodbye to the GOAT: Savannah, OG FDS Queen! We discuss her plans, the State of the Pod, and the goals for FDS in 2026!
• Logical Fallacies Part 2 16.07.2025 44min

  Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon queens, the Bonus Queens dive deeper into the manipulative tactics commonly used in debates about dating, relationships, and gender dynamics.  🎙️ Episode Resources & Links 📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook. 👉 Download here [https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html] 💖 Support the Podcast Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon! 👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon [https://patreon.com/TheLevelUpLoungeFDS?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] 🌐 Explore More FDS Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com [https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com]Twitter: @femdatstrat [https://twitter.com/femdatstrat]Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy [https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/]
• How To Have A Hot Girl Summer 09.07.2025 25min

  Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon baddies, we're bringing this one out of the vault just in time for summer. In this episode, the Queens break down what it really means to have a Hot Girl Summer FDS style.   🎙️ Episode Resources & Links 📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook. 👉 Download here [https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html] 💖 Support the Podcast Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon! 👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon [https://patreon.com/TheLevelUpLoungeFDS?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] 🌐 Explore More FDS Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com [https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com]Twitter: @femdatstrat [https://twitter.com/femdatstrat]Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy [https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/]
• Emotional Maturity: The Foundation of a Secure Partner 02.07.2025 1val 5min

  The Queens unpack emotional maturity, why it's the core of any functional relationship and how to recognise it (or the lack of it).   🎙️ Episode Resources & Links 📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook. 👉 Download here [https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html] 💖 Support the Podcast Want more FDS content? Join us on our NEW and IMPROVED Patreon! 👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon [https://patreon.com/TheLevelUpLoungeFDS?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] 🌐 Explore More FDS Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com [https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com]Twitter: @femdatstrat [https://twitter.com/femdatstrat]Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy [https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/]
• Framed and Filtered: Exposing Inequality in Film with Sarah from Lainey Gossip 25.06.2025 1val 10min

  Rose is joined by Sarah from Lainey Gossip to dissect the deeply embedded inequalities in the filmmaking and film criticism industries. 🎙️ Episode Resources & Links 📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook. 👉 Download here [https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html] 🌐 Explore More FDS Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com [https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com]Twitter: @femdatstrat [https://twitter.com/femdatstrat]Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy [https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/]
• Momsplaining Love: A Mother's Day Special 18.06.2025 47min

  The Queens dissect the romantic, cultural and generational norms associated with Mother's Day and what this means for dating. 📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook. 🌐 Explore More FDS Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com [https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com]Twitter: @femdatstrat [https://twitter.com/femdatstrat]Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy [https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/]
• Inside the Mind of Misogyny: A Conversation with Lundy Bancroft on Toxic Masculinity 11.06.2025 41min

  The Queens are once again joined by renowned author and domestic abuse expert, Lundy Bancroft, whose groundbreaking work Why Does He Do That? has helped millions of women recognize the patterns of coercive control and emotional abuse in intimate relationships, to discuss toxic masculinity.    Lundy Bancroft's first FDS appearance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IH7Y0rJ8Kkw  🎙️ Episode Resources & Links 📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook. 👉 Download here [https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html] 💖 Support the Podcast Like what you hear? Help us keep the message going: 👉 Donate via PayPal [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat] 🌐 Explore More FDS Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com [https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com] Twitter: @femdatstrat [https://twitter.com/femdatstrat] Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy [https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/]
• The Tragedy of Heterosexuality: In Conversation with Dr Jane Ward 04.06.2025 40min

  The Queens sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jane Ward, author of The Tragedy of Heterosexuality to discuss why modern day heterosexual relationships often leave women feeling shortchanged.  Check out Dr Jane's book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tragedy-Heterosexuality-56-Sexual-Cultures/dp/1479851558    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html   Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content on Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy   Website: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com     Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat   @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/