You Don’t Know Anything About Women: Dating Stories and Advice

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  "She's Seeing 4 Other Guys and Told Me This Is Just How Dating Works! Is She Right?" 12.09.2026 27min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who is sharing a girl with 4 other guys and thinks that might be fine.- An insecure guy who doesn't like his girlfriend going out to clubs with her "guy friends."- A guy whose relationship has fundamental issues but he's worried about the girl moving to another city.- An overweight guy who says most couples meet on dating apps, so it's okay that he doesn't cold approach even though he gets no matches.- A guy who drove an hour to a girl's house and then got told she's having a crisis and can't go out.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating questions answered this episode:Is it normal to date multiple people at the same time? Dating multiple people before exclusivity is established is possible, but that does not mean you have to be comfortable with it. If someone tells you she is actively dating several other men and that behavior is a major turnoff, you are allowed to decide that she is not the right person for you.Should you date someone who is seeing several other people? You do not have to continue dating someone whose approach to dating conflicts with your own values. Even though neither person has technically broken an exclusivity agreement, you can still decide that dating someone who is seeing multiple other people is not something you want.How can dating multiple people reduce anxiety in dating? Having several women in your dating life can make rejection or disappointment easier to handle because one person does not become your only option. When you have other opportunities, you are less likely to become overly invested in one woman before you really know her.Is dating multiple people at once a normal part of modern dating? Multiple first dates may be common, but continuing to date several people after progressing to a third date is presented as much less typical. Dating several people can be useful for maintaining options, but it does not necessarily mean every woman is simultaneously pursuing several men.How should you handle a girlfriend who goes out drinking with single friends and other men? You should distinguish between feeling jealous and deciding that someone's behavior is incompatible with what you want in a relationship. Rather than trying to control where she goes or what she wears, you can decide that you do not want to remain with someone whose lifestyle creates that level of concern.How often should couples see each other when they are dating? Seeing each other once a week for roughly half a day can be enough, particularly early in a relationship. Spending less time together can preserve some excitement and give each person more experiences to talk about when they meet again.What should you do when a long-term relationship is ending because of distance? If a relationship has been going well for around ten months and both people are serious about it, moving to the same city may be worth considering before simply accepting a breakup. Finding work in the same city can be one option to explore when distance threatens an otherwise successful relationship.How can you improve your chances of getting dates if dating apps are not working? Put yourself in better physical shape and expand the ways you meet women instead of relying entirely on dating apps. Cold approaching can create more opportunities than apps, while dating apps can remain another option rather than your only strategy.Does physical appearance affect dating app success? Yes. Some aspects of appearance cannot easily be changed, while others can. Getting in shape is presented as something within your control that can...
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  "I Want to Be Friends With Girls That Won't Sleep With Me...Why Do They Keep Ghosting!?" 29.08.2026 32min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who got ghosted after the third date by a girl he says is uglier than him.- A guy wondering if bowling is a good first date idea or not (it is NOT).- A guy who's been ghosted three times recently and is perplexed (to me, two of them had obvious reasons).- A guy dating a doctor who demands that he call her "Doctor."- A guy who has been to clubs all over the world and thinks they're a terrible place to meet girls.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating questions answered this episode:Why do women sometimes lose interest after a few dates? There may not be a clear explanation for why a woman stops responding after several good dates. Instead of obsessing over every detail and trying to identify one mistake, accept that interest can change and move on when the communication stops.How long should a date last? Longer is not always better. A three- or four-hour date can drain the energy between two people, especially when much of the time is spent traveling, waiting, or doing an activity. Shorter dates can leave more momentum for seeing each other again.How often should you text someone you are dating? Texting should not become a substitute for actually seeing each other. If texting starts slowing down, do not compensate by sending increasingly long messages. Keep communication relatively light and use texting primarily to make plans for the next date.What are good ideas for a second date? Activity dates can work well once you have already established some connection. Something like bowling gives you something to do together while still allowing conversation, whereas a first date generally benefits from having more opportunity to talk and get to know each other.How should you make plans for a date? Take the lead by suggesting a specific place and time rather than giving someone a list of options and asking them to plan the date. A clear invitation makes it easier to determine whether she actually wants to meet.What should you do when someone says they only want to be friends? Treat it as a rejection if you are looking for a romantic or sexual relationship. Do not continue pursuing her while hoping that friendship will eventually change her mind.Can friendship turn into a relationship if one person is not interested? It can happen, but staying friends solely because you hope the other person eventually changes her mind is a bad strategy. If you genuinely enjoy the friendship, that is different; otherwise, continuing the connection can keep you stuck on someone who already rejected you.What should you do when someone says they are not looking for a relationship? Take the answer seriously and move on rather than trying to persuade her to give you a chance. Continuing to push for contact after someone has made her lack of interest clear is unlikely to create genuine attraction.What are common dating red flags to look for early in a relationship? Unusual demands, rigid expectations, or disproportionate reactions to harmless behavior can be warning signs. The episode specifically treats insisting on being addressed by a professional title and becoming genuinely upset when that boundary is challenged as a potential red flag.Are clubs a good place to meet women? Clubs can be difficult places to meet women because people often arrive in groups and are focused on their friends, dancing, drinking, or taking photos. Approaching women in quieter public settings can make it easier to have a direct one-on-one conversation.
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  "A Girl Who Rejected Me 8 Years Ago is Now Divorced With 2 Kids and Finally Wants to Date Me!" 15.08.2026 35min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A 26-year-old who started dating 8 months ago and has gotten his heart rekt already (the girl told him she wanted to take things slow).- A guy who had a girl with a long-distance boyfriend flirting with him HARD, but he blew it.- A guy who has been contacted by a girl that rejected him before she had 2 kids and is now looking for a life raft.- A guy who recently started cold approaching and is worried about being seen by people he knows (the comments had it all wrong).- A 36-year-old, bald, short guy who has had absolutely no success in dating.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating questions answered this episode:Why did she lose romantic interest after three months of dating? Waiting until the fifth date to kiss and failing to create opportunities for intimacy may have contributed to the loss of attraction. The advice is to escalate earlier, try for a kiss on the first or second date, and create practical opportunities to spend time alone together.How often should you see someone when you are newly dating? Eight dates over three months is not necessarily too slow. Dating once or twice a week is not a requirement, and a pace of roughly eight dates in three months can be perfectly reasonable when both people are busy.What should you do if you live with your parents and have nowhere private for a date? You still need to figure out the logistics of spending time alone. That could mean using a separate living space, planning an activity that naturally leads somewhere private, or arranging another practical solution rather than repeatedly going on dates with no path toward intimacy.What should you do if a female friend acts romantic but says you are just friends? Do not keep asking her to define the relationship. Her words should be taken seriously, but if you are interested, make your intentions clear through your actions and ask her to spend time with you one-on-one rather than trying to get verbal confirmation of what the relationship means.How can you tell if a woman is flirting or just naturally affectionate? Look at how she behaves around other men before assuming that physical affection means romantic interest. Someone who is naturally touchy with many friends may behave intimately without intending to flirt, so the surrounding context matters.Should you stay friends with a woman you actually want to date? If you are attracted to her, pretending you only want friendship can keep you stuck in a situation that is not what you actually want. Make a move, accept the possibility of rejection, and then decide whether continuing the friendship makes sense.Should you date a woman who rejected you years ago and now wants a relationship? Past rejection alone does not have to determine the decision, because people and circumstances change. In this case, however, the major issue is that she now has two children, which the advice treats as a reason to walk away rather than overlooking the situation simply because she is interested now.Is it normal for a man to go out alone to meet women? Yes. Going out specifically to meet women is presented as a deliberate dating strategy rather than something embarrassing. If meeting women is not happening naturally through your hobbies or daily routine, you may need to intentionally create opportunities to talk to them.Does “just do your hobbies and you will meet women” actually work? Not necessarily. If spending years playing video games, going to the gym, or doing hobbies has not resulted in meeting women, continuing to wait for dating opportunities to appear naturally may not...
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  "I Smell Like Garbage and Plan to Live on $15K a Year...Why Can't a Find a Girlfriend!?" 01.08.2026 36min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who is worrying about offending girls when he talks to them after he approaches other girls.- A guy accusing girls of "giving up" on the relationship when he hasn't even asked them out.- A former video game addict who now cares about his appearance and healthy hobbies because of a girl.- An extremely frugal guy who makes a living dumpster diving but can't find a girl who wants to be part of that (he's a serial Reddit complainer).- A guy who played it safe...and the girl he was dating ghosted him (a tale as old as time).Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Approaching women after rejection is not as embarrassing as it feels. Most people are not watching your every move at a bar, on the street, or in public. If one woman turns you down, you can still talk to another woman instead of assuming everyone noticed.Do not worry about making a woman feel like a second choice. If she did not see the first rejection, it does not matter, and if she did see it, she can still choose whether she wants to talk to you. Approaching gives you a chance; doing nothing gives you zero.If the energy feels stale after a few rejections, change locations. You do not need to quit for the night, but moving to a different bar, street, or area can reset your mood. Sometimes a fresh environment helps you keep approaching without carrying the weight of the last rejection.Dating app conversations should not drag on for weeks before a real invitation. If you are texting every day and building momentum, ask her out by day two or three. Waiting too long gives the connection time to fade before anything real happens.A vague “we should go out sometime” is not a real date invitation. Give her a specific plan or at least specific days you are free. If you leave the timing up to her, you are making her lead, and most women will not do that for you.Nothing from a dating app matters until you meet in person. Long texts, jokes, and apparent chemistry can vanish overnight. Until she actually comes out with you, the connection is not real enough to treat like a relationship.A crush can motivate self-improvement, but do not let one girl become the whole reason. If liking a woman pushes you to dress better, create art, play music, or improve your life, use that momentum. Just make sure the new habits become yours, not something you only do hoping she notices.Do not decide a woman’s answer for her before you ask her out. If you still want to give it a shot, send the message and invite her properly. Assuming her silence means no may be correct, but you only know for sure if you actually ask.If your lifestyle makes dating nearly impossible, you may need to change the lifestyle. Extreme frugality, low income, no car, and plans to live on very little money will shrink your dating pool. If you want a wife, kids, or a normal family life, your money and lifestyle need to match that goal.Playing it safe on dates can kill romantic momentum. If you only hug after two strong dates, avoid physical escalation, and never invite her home, you may come across too passive. Women can say they want to take things slow, but you still need to lead, escalate, and create progression.
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  "I Sent Her Nudes and She Sent Me Fakes...I Can Still Trust Her, Right?" 18.07.2026 18min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who talks to girls on apps but never asks them out and wonders why they lose interest.- A guy who thinks his uncle goes and picks up random girls in his cool car at will.- An immigrant in a brand new country who doesn't know how to meet girls (they're all around him).- A guy who feels like he gets too anxious unless he's dating multiple women (this is a GOOD thing).- A clueless guy who sent nudes to a girl on a dating site but really it was probably a guy in Nigeria.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Dating app conversations should turn into dates quickly. If you talk to women online for weeks or months without asking them out, you are creating the reason they lose interest. Ask for the date within a couple of days instead of trying to build a fake relationship through messages.Do not wait for women to ask you out. If you are the man, you need to move things forward. A woman may match with you, text you, and seem interested, but that does not mean she will be the one to suggest meeting.Stop swiping on women you are not willing to meet. If a woman lives two or three hours away and you know you will not make the trip, do not waste time matching with her. Dating apps only matter when they lead to real-life dates.Nothing on a dating app is real until you meet in person. Texting can feel like progress, but it is not a relationship, and it is barely even real dating. Until you meet face-to-face, you should treat the conversation as temporary and fragile.If you know a man who is good with women, ask him how he does it. Do not sit around feeling jealous of someone who seems to pick up women easily. If your uncle, friend, or someone close to you has success with girls, use that access and learn from him.Dating as an immigrant is easier when you approach women directly. You do not need a friend circle before you start dating. Street approach, malls, grocery stores, and everyday public places can help you meet women and learn the city at the same time.Do not rely on Meetup groups or friend circles to create your dating life. Hobbies, events, and friendship groups can be useful for life, but they are not a consistent dating strategy. If you want women, go meet women directly.Dating multiple women can help reduce anxious attachment. If one woman is your only option, you are more likely to overthink texts, get clingy, and panic when she pulls away. Having multiple options keeps you calmer and helps you choose better.You do not need to tell women about every other woman you are dating. Until exclusivity is clearly established, you can date multiple women without giving a full report. Most women do not actually want to know every detail about who else you are seeing.Do not send sexual photos to strangers from dating sites. If someone online asks for nude photos before you have met, assume something is wrong. It may be a scam, a fake profile, or someone trying to use the photo against you.
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  "I Asked for Permission To Touch Her Chest, She Said Yes, Then She Freaked Out!" 04.07.2026 29min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who had a trip booked with his parents before he met his girlfriend, and she says he needs to cancel.- A guy who keeps getting interrupted by his girlfriend trying to show him Instagram garbage when he just wants to relax and play video games.- A guy wondering if he got scammed when the girl he was on a date with suddenly invited a friend (some commenters thinks he missed out on a threesome).- A guy who feels like he has to constantly be searching for girls.- An autistic guy who asked for permission to touch a girl's "chest" while they were in his car.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Relationship boundaries matter more than keeping your girlfriend happy every second. If your girlfriend wants you to cancel a family vacation that was planned before the relationship got serious, you should not rearrange your life around her anxiety. A strong relationship should be able to survive a short trip.Separation anxiety in relationships is not always your problem to fix. If a woman detaches after only three or four days apart, that is something she needs to manage. You can be understanding, but you should not spend your life trying to prevent her from feeling alone.Texting while on vacation should not become emotional babysitting. You can message your girlfriend while you travel, but do not turn the trip into a full-time job of reassuring her. Go enjoy the vacation and deal with relationship problems when you get back.How often you see your girlfriend sets the tone for the whole relationship. If you train a woman to expect constant access to you, time apart will feel like a crisis. Keep enough independence early on so a week or two away does not become a major relationship problem.Alone time in a relationship needs to be clearly protected. If your girlfriend keeps interrupting you while you are gaming, working, or relaxing, tell her calmly that you need uninterrupted time. Do it outside the heat of the moment so it does not become a fight.A girlfriend who interrupts you constantly needs a clear boundary, not endless patience. Tell her when you are about to be busy, ask if she needs anything first, and then expect her to wait. She can send videos, photos, or reels for later instead of demanding your attention every minute.Bringing a friend on a date is a first-date red flag. If a girl invites a friend 20 minutes into the date or says she needs emotional support, leave. A date is supposed to be one-on-one, not a setup where you entertain her friend too.Who pays on a date should not include paying for her friend. If a woman brings another girl and expects you to cover both of them, do not play along. Paying for extra drinks or meals will not make her like you more, and it can turn you into the night’s free tab.Dating anxiety can be useful if it pushes you to take action. Feeling pressure to meet women is not automatically bad. Use that energy to approach, date, and create options instead of sitting around watching dating videos and hoping confidence appears.Physical escalation on a date should happen in steps. Do not jump straight to sexual touching, and do not make every move a stiff verbal permission request. Start with smaller touches, read her reaction, go for the kiss, and let the interaction build naturally.
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  "She F'd Her Co-Worker While I Was Dating Her and Another Girl. How Could She Do This!?" 20.06.2026 30min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who is worried that he's going to be able to see the girl he's dating "only" 3 times in the next 6 weeks.- A virgin who can't believe that two people would ever want to have a one night stand (it's not as simple as he thinks).- A guy whose pride is keeping him from going on a second date (I tell a story about a time when I made the same mistake).- A self-sabotager who doesn't want to meet a girl again because he thinks he can't improve her life.- A hypocrite who can't believe the girl he was dating (now his girlfriend) hooked up with her co-worker just a few weeks after meeting, even though he did the same thing with her (he was also juggling multiple women).Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Do not overthink dating momentum after a great first date. If the first date went well and the next date is already planned, you do not need to panic about losing momentum. Early dating works best when you stay interested without becoming overly eager.Two weeks between dates is not too long in the early stages of dating. A busy schedule does not automatically mean low interest. Seeing someone every few weeks can still build attraction, especially when the connection is strong and both people have real-life obligations.Texting after a first date should be light, confident, and purposeful. You do not need to text all day or force constant communication. A couple of thoughtful messages between dates can keep the connection alive without putting pressure on the situation.Video calls are usually unnecessary in early dating. If you are only waiting a week or two for the next date, you do not need to rely on video calls to maintain attraction. In-person chemistry matters more than trying to build a relationship over the phone.Casual dating and one-night stands are often less planned than people think. Many one-night stands happen because one person later decides not to continue, not because both people clearly agreed in advance that the encounter would be casual and temporary.Someone who rejected you once is not always treating you like a backup option. People can change their minds for many reasons, including timing, mood, uncertainty, or personal circumstances. Rejecting someone purely out of pride can cause you to miss a real dating opportunity.Do not let pride ruin a second chance in dating. If someone reaches back out and you are still interested, it may be worth setting up another date instead of assuming the worst. Staying calm and direct is often better than acting from resentment.Do not decide you are not good enough for someone you like. If a woman agrees to go on a date with you, let her decide whether she enjoys your company. Self-rejection, anxiety, and insecurity can sabotage a connection before it has a chance to grow.Most women will not initiate the second date, even if they are interested. Waiting for her to ask you out again is not a reliable way to measure attraction. If you want a second date, take the lead and make a clear plan.Exclusivity in dating doesn't need to be clearly discussed early on. If two people have not clearly agreed to be exclusive, conflict can happen when one person dates or sleeps with someone else. Clear expectations matter more than vague assumptions about loyalty.
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  "My Girlfriend Says She's Too Insecure to Do Arts & Crafts Together...Should I Finally Dump Her?" 06.06.2026 24min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- An autistic guy who wants to apologize to the girl he's dating over and over when he makes mistakes.- A university student who asked a girl out, got a NO, and is wondering how to deal with still regularly seeing her (it's time to be cool).- A guy who is worried about competing against other guys and offending girls.- A serially friendzoned guy who thinks girls like him.- A guy who has been complaining about his insufferable girlfriend online for over a year but still hasn't broken up with her.(Also, I somehow managed to say the F word literally 50 times in this episode. More than twice a minute. Enjoy that.)Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Over-apologizing in a relationship can create more pressure than the original mistake. If you already apologized and your girlfriend has moved on, bringing up the same small mistake again can make the situation feel worse. A sincere apology is usually enough.Relationship anxiety can lead to rumination, reassurance-seeking, and self-sabotage. When you replay small mistakes for days or weeks, the real issue may be anxiety rather than the mistake itself. Constantly asking for reassurance can put unnecessary strain on the relationship.Learning how to stop apologizing repeatedly is important for relationship confidence. After you apologize once, the best move is often to stay calm, stop revisiting the issue, and return to normal behavior. Repeated apologies can make you seem less secure.Rejection feels worse when you have limited dating experience. Being rejected by someone you like can feel devastating, especially if you spent months building up your feelings. The key is to accept the answer, stay composed, and keep meeting new women.Seeing someone after they rejected you does not have to be awkward. If you share classes, hobbies, or mutual friends with someone who turned you down, the situation is only as awkward as you make it. Be polite, relaxed, and avoid acting bitter.Do not build your hobbies around impressing a girl. Sports, fitness, and hobbies should be things you enjoy for yourself. If your motivation depends on one woman’s approval, rejection can make you lose interest in something that could still benefit you.Dating success is a numbers game, and a few rejections do not define your attractiveness. A small number of failed attempts does not mean you are undesirable. One yes can change your entire outlook, so focus on increasing your opportunities instead of obsessing over a temporary losing streak.Sliding into DMs is not the only way to meet women. If Instagram, dating apps, or online messaging feel too competitive, meeting women in real life can help you stand out. A real conversation gives you more context than a random message.Unwanted attention often depends on whether attraction is mutual. You cannot always know in advance whether a woman will welcome your attention. Make a respectful move, accept rejection if it happens, and do not assume every approach is automatically unwanted.Staying in an unhappy relationship in your early twenties can waste valuable dating years. If a relationship is emotionally draining, one-sided, or full of repeated complaints, it may be better to end it than keep hoping things will change. Your early twenties are an important time to gain dating experience and learn what you actually want.
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  "She Has Kids From 2 Other Men and Demands the 'Princess Treatment,' So I Pay For Everything!" 23.05.2026 34min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who doesn't want to have sex with his new girl because he's starting a new job in a month (even though he hasn't gotten laid in a year).- A 25-year-old guy who thinks that the guys getting girls are "complete trash."- An insanely jealous guy who is worried that his older girlfriend with kids is gonna find someone else (they just started dating and are already having huge fights).- A guy who is paying for everything for his girlfriend (she demands a "princess treatment") who has two kids from two different men.- A guy who let a girl slip through his fingers all because he didn't want to meet one hour later than originally planned.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Do not self-sabotage when a woman clearly wants to have sex with you. If you like her, find her attractive, and she is willing, turning down the opportunity for vague or overly cautious reasons can ruin the momentum. Men should take advantage of good dating opportunities when they appear.Dating a coworker is risky, but the situation changes if you are already leaving the job. It is usually smart not to date where you work, but if the connection has already started and you are leaving soon, the risk may be less serious than it feels in the moment.Do not put words in a woman’s mouth and then react as if she said them directly. In the first post, the man claimed the woman called him a “pussy,” but he was the one who introduced that word. Men should avoid escalating a situation based on their own framing.Self-improvement alone will not fix your dating life. Going to the gym, earning money, eating clean, and having your life together are useful, but they will not automatically make women appear. Men still have to actively talk to women and create opportunities.Dating apps often do not work well for average men, so real-life approaching can be more effective. If dating apps are giving you few matches, no replies, or no dates, cold approaching women in real life may be more effective than relying only on apps.Cold approach is a numbers game, and a few rejections mean almost nothing. Approaching only a few women is not enough to judge whether cold approach works. Increase your number of approaches before deciding that women are not interested.Asking for exclusivity too early can make you look anxious and desperate. Men should not beg for exclusivity or repeatedly ask whether a woman might meet someone else. Stay calm, avoid needy conversations, and accept that a woman could always choose someone new.Major arguments early in dating are a serious warning sign. If a relationship is already filled with conflict, emotional repair, and pressure to prove yourself, it may not be worth saving. Early dating should not feel like constant damage control.Do not pay for constant “princess treatment” without reciprocity. Paying for dates, flowers, gifts, beauty expenses, and emotional support while receiving little in return creates a one-sided relationship. Set the tone from the beginning and avoid becoming a provider for someone who does not appreciate it.When a woman gives you a chance to meet, make the date happen. If she asks to move the date by one hour and you want to see her, be reasonable and make it work. Losing a date over a small scheduling issue can cause the connection to fade before it starts.
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  "I Hired A Dating Therapist, But She Gave Up After 5 Sessions Because I'm Hopeless!" 09.05.2026 26min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who says he can easily talk to girls...but is too scared to actually start the conversation.- An autistic guy who was seeing a dating therapist (she wanted him to lie to girls) but she cut things off.- A guy who is traumatized from his breakup so he doesn't want to continue the hobbies he did with his ex.- A guy who jumped to the conclusion that a girl didn't want a second date because she didn't reply to his message (he's so wrong).- A guy who was on a date where the girl was just scrolling on her phone as if he wasn't even there (he actually handled it pretty well).Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:How to overcome approach anxiety: practice talking to women more often. Freezing up when a woman responds positively is common when you do not have much experience approaching. The best way to get better is to practice more, assume she will respond well, and stop treating silence like failure.What to say after approaching a woman: keep the conversation moving. If she smiles, turns toward you, and says something friendly, anything is better than giving up and walking away. Even a simple or imperfect follow-up keeps the interaction alive.Assume women will want to talk to you when you approach them. A positive mindset helps you stay prepared instead of freezing. Approaching with the assumption that she may enjoy the conversation makes it easier to respond naturally.Use simple conversation starters when talking to women in bars or social settings. You do not need a scripted routine, but it helps to have easy topics ready. Commenting on the venue, the music, the dance floor, or something she is wearing can keep the conversation moving.Dating therapists and dating coaches may not fix your dating life, especially female ones. Spending money on dating therapy does not guarantee results, especially if the advice does not help men create attraction. Men should be cautious about paying for advice that does not lead to real dating improvement.Being liked by women is not the same as creating sexual attraction. A man can be friendly, hygienic, and easy to talk to while still failing to create romantic or sexual interest. To change that, he needs to approach women directly, ask them out, and stop relying only on being liked.If your dating mindset is not working, you need to change your approach. If the same beliefs and behaviors keep producing the same results, refusing to consider a different strategy will keep you stuck. Being open-minded about dating advice is necessary when your current approach is failing.How to enjoy hobbies after a breakup: create new memories with new people. If a hobby reminds you of an ex, avoiding it forever can make the breakup control more of your life. Going with friends and creating new memories can help separate the hobby from the old relationship.How to ask for a second date: send a clear invitation, not a vague text. Saying “we should do this again sometime” is not the same as asking for a second date. If you want to see her again, suggest a specific day or plan instead of waiting for her to take the lead.Phone use during a first date is disrespectful, but call it out smoothly. If a woman keeps scrolling while you are talking, it is fair to stop and address it. A calmer line like “I’m waiting until you’re finished on your phone” may give the date a better chance of continuing than a harsher confrontation.
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  "Can You Send an Emoji When You've Seen My Message? I Get Anxious When You Don't Reply Quickly!" 25.04.2026 30min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who gets super anxious whenever his girlfriend doesn't reply to his texts within an hour (a commenter gives TERRIBLE advice).- A guy who got rekt in the comments because he mentioned he makes six figures and thinks girls are basic.- A 20-year-old guy who gets no attention from women (they even make fun of how he looks).- A guy whose girlfriend told him she loves him, and now he feels the pressure.- A guy who got unmatched on a dating app immediately after what he thought was a great first date.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Anxious attachment and texting can ruin the relationship dynamic. Getting anxious when your girlfriend takes an hour to reply creates unnecessary pressure. Even if you feel uneasy, do not act on it, do not demand reassurance, and do not ask why she has not texted back yet.Stop texting your girlfriend constantly if you want a healthier dating life. Constant texting makes every delay feel bigger than it is. Taking an hour or more to reply should be normal, and a man should not apologize or explain himself every time he takes time to respond.If girls lose interest after one to three dates, the dates may not be exciting enough. Repeating dinner, coffee, or sit-down conversation dates can kill momentum. After the first date, plan something more active or interesting so the connection does not feel stagnant.Go for sex on the first date if the opportunity is there. If you want better dating results, you need to create romantic and sexual momentum early. Trying to bring her home on the first date, or at least by the second date, keeps the interaction from becoming dull or overly platonic.Women do not need to share your hobbies to be worth dating. A woman’s hobbies do not have to match yours. What matters more is whether she has a good attitude and is willing to join you for activities you enjoy.Do not expect money, height, or self-improvement alone to keep women interested. Being six feet tall, earning six figures, working out, or having your life together can help, but those traits do not automatically create attraction or keep a woman around.If dating apps are not working, focus on approaching women in real life. Dating apps are often a bad fit for men who are not getting matches or replies. Public approach gives you a better chance to show personality, confidence, and presence beyond a profile photo.Being short or below average looking does not mean you should give up on dating. Height and looks can create disadvantages, but they are not automatic dealbreakers. A man who is 5'7" can still date successfully, especially by approaching women in public and improving his style, body, and confidence.Do not feel pressured to say “I love you” after only one month of dating. If a woman says “I love you” quickly, you do not need to force yourself to say it back before you mean it. Keep dating at your own pace and let her decide whether the timeline works for her.If she unmatched you after a good first date, text her instead of overthinking it. Unmatching after exchanging numbers does not automatically mean rejection. If the date went well and you have her phone number, send a clear message to set up the next date and get your answer.
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  "It's So Unfair That Women Expect Me to Have Confidence. And Therapy Didn't Help!" 11.04.2026 27min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who thinks all the new girls he meets are downgrades compared to his ex (the Reddit comments on this one are really dumb).- A guy who's convinced himself that he's not afraid of rejection, he just doesn't want to inconvenience girls.- An overly-anxious guy who thinks it's a bad thing that a girl is texting less after the first date (even though the next date is already scheduled).- A pessimistic guy that I was going to give advice to, but I gave up.- A regular customer of a cute girl, so he gave a napkin with his phone number on it to her but didn't receive any texts.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Everyone feels like a downgrade after a breakup when you are not over your ex. Comparing every new woman to your ex is normal after a painful breakup, especially when she was your first girlfriend. The solution is not to stop dating, but to keep meeting women while staying open to the possibility that another great one will come along.Your ex may not be as special as she feels right now. When you are young and inexperienced, a first serious girlfriend can feel impossible to replace. More dating experience often reveals that the relationship was not as unique as it seemed in the moment.Dating after heartbreak requires going on dates instead of romanticizing the past. If you are getting matches and opportunities, use them. Sitting around comparing every woman to your ex keeps you stuck, while going on more dates gives you the experience needed to move forward.Approaching women in public does not mean you are ruining their day. Worrying that you are inconveniencing a woman by flirting can stop you from ever taking action. If you approach respectfully and accept rejection, you are not doing anything wrong.A woman feeling uncomfortable after a respectful approach is not your responsibility. If you politely shoot your shot and she is not interested, that is the end of it. You do not need to leave the venue, apologize for existing, or manage her feelings after a normal interaction.Stop waiting for women to text first after a date. Most men cannot rely on women to pursue them, even if the date went well. If you want to see her again, take the lead, set up the next date, and do not play passive texting games.Less texting between dates usually creates less anxiety and better momentum. After a date is planned, you do not need constant conversation to keep her interested. Save your conversations for the date and send a simple confirmation message the day before.Do not ask a woman if she is losing interest because her texting changed. Sending a needy message about her texting patterns can create the very loss of interest you are afraid of. Stay calm, avoid insecure check-ins, and focus on whether she agrees to meet again.Confidence and humor matter in dating because women value how a man makes them feel. Resenting the importance of confidence or a sense of humor will not help your dating life. If your current mindset is bitter, negative, or self-hating, it will be much harder to attract women.Do not give a coffee shop girl your number on a napkin and wait passively. Passing a note can feel bold, but it is usually not the best move. If you like a woman who works somewhere you visit regularly, talk to her directly when she has a moment and ask for her number with words.
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  "We've Been Dating for a Year and She Just Gave Me Herpes! Should I Be Mad?" 28.03.2026 22min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who has been on 5 dates with a girl who has now told him she's going on a date with another guy.- A guy who got kicked to the curb after hooking up with an older woman (he brought wine to her house).- A post removed by Reddit mods from a guy who got herpes from his girlfriend.- An overthinking guy who doesn't like that his girlfriend told him he can "do whatever he wants" physically.- A guy wondering if he should keep seeing a girl he's really into or cut it off (isn't it obvious?).Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If the woman you are dating says she is going on a date with another guy, move on. Even without an exclusivity talk, most men will not feel good hearing that a woman they have slept with and dated multiple times is seeing someone else. If she openly tells you this, it may be a sign to find a better woman instead of trying to rationalize it.Do not ask for exclusivity just because you feel threatened. Asking for the boyfriend-girlfriend talk or exclusivity talk can make things feel forced and needy. It is better to keep the dynamic natural, let actions speak, and avoid turning dating into a negotiation.Living far away can make dating harder if you are not available when she wants to see you. When you live two hours away and cannot meet, another man who is more convenient may win her attention. If you like a woman and want to keep things moving, you may need to make the trip, get a hotel, or find a way to see her.Stop overanalyzing whether a woman is scared of intimacy if she is already sleeping with you. If she is having sex with you, do not get stuck worrying about whether she avoids kissing, cuddling, or emotional closeness. Focus on what is actually happening instead of creating a story about her past.A one-night stand can feel brutal when you wanted more, but the decision may already be made. If a woman tells you it was only a one-night thing and removes you from social media, do not keep chasing her. Accept that it is over, forget about her, and understand that women can be just as harsh after sex as men are accused of being.When a woman invites you to her apartment early, understand that it may only be a one-night stand. Showing up at her place with wine, having sex, staying overnight, and then expecting a relationship can set you up for disappointment. Pay attention to the signals she gave before and after the date.If your girlfriend had herpes and did not tell you, find out what she actually knew before deciding what to do. It is fair to feel shocked, angry, or turned off, but the key question is whether she knowingly put you at risk or genuinely did not understand it could still be passed on. A one-year relationship should not automatically be thrown away without understanding the full picture.Do not ask a woman for permission before every physical move. Asking about physical affection and boundaries can kill the mood when the woman already likes you and tells you to do what you want. In most dating situations, the man should lead physically and trust that she will stop him if she does not want something.If she says “do whatever you want,” stop overthinking and make a move. A woman who is spending time with you, enjoying your company, and telling you to do what you want is giving you a good signal. Do not wait for her to initiate hugs, cuddling, kissing, or other physical affection.If she is not ready for a relationship but wants to keep seeing you, keep it casual. If you like her and the dates are going well, do not throw the situation away just because...
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  "I'm 28. An 18-Year-Old Wanted to Go on a Date With Me. I Said No. Am I Weird?" 14.03.2026 28min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy with no prospects and no sex in the past 7 years who quickly cut things off with a girl after one date.- A guy whose photo got posted on Facebook by a girl he was dating because she wanted dirt on him.- An ugly, boring guy with no personality wondering how he could ever attract a woman (me and him actually aren't so different). - A guy living in a huge city (Phoenix) but still can't find any women to date.- A guy who has so many women in his life that he rejected an 18-year-old who wanted to go on a date.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this epiosde:Do not cut things off after one date because of a texting argument. Texting can create misunderstandings, especially when personal topics come up too early. If the woman was good in person and you do not have other options, it is usually better to meet again before throwing the situation away.Texting should mainly be used to make plans, not to argue about personal issues. Long emotional conversations over text can damage a dating situation before it has a chance to develop. Save serious topics for in-person conversations and use texting mostly to set up the next date.If you regret ending things with a woman, send the message and get your answer. Worrying about seeming needy is less important than finding out whether there is still a chance. If you want to see her again, be straightforward, accept the outcome, and avoid sitting in regret.Women-only Facebook dating groups are creepy and invasive when they post about men before a date. Being posted in a private group with your name, location, and dating details can feel like a privacy violation. If a woman posts about you before even meeting, it is reasonable to feel creeped out and cancel the date.“If you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to worry about” is a bad dating privacy argument. Being a decent guy does not mean strangers should be able to discuss your personal life in private groups. Men should not have to give up privacy because other men behave badly.Do not rely on women randomly showing interest in you if you want a dating life. Most men will not have women approaching them, complimenting them, or openly flirting with them. If you want results, you need to pursue women directly instead of waiting to be chosen.If you think you are ugly or boring, you still need real data from approaching women. Feeling unattractive does not prove that women will reject you. You need to actually approach women, ask for numbers, and create a large enough sample size before deciding what is or is not working.Dating apps are not enough for most men, especially if the top of the funnel is weak. If online dating gives you few matches or no dates, you need to create opportunities in real life. Cold approach, malls, Target, parks, and other public places can work if you actively talk to women instead of waiting for perfect openings.Ditch the business card when cold approaching women. Handing a woman your business card can make the interaction feel like networking instead of dating. If you meet a woman in public, talk to her normally, get her phone number, and follow up like a man who wants a date.Do not reject an attractive 18-year-old just because of an age gap if she is legally an adult. If she wants to go on a date and she is attractive, do not decide for her that the age difference is wrong or that you have nothing in common. Go on the date first, then decide based on the actual interaction.
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  "I Want to Play Tennis With One Girl and Date Another...This is Cheating, Right!?" 28.02.2026 30min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who was taking it "slow" with a girl (AKA they weren't even dating) and now she hooked up with someone.- A guy who knows that he needs to approach women, but freeze up when he tries.- A guy who desperately wants to forget about a girl that he loves (HE broke up with HER so wtf?) + a story about a girl who was banging me while her boyfriend wasn't in the country.- A worried guy wondering if his girlfriend who moved 4 hours away should be instantly replying to his texts (and my advice for when girls you hang out with go travel somewhere).- A guy who feels guilty just because he hangs out with more than one women throughout his week.- An ugly-duckling (self-proclaimed) who is suddenly getting TONS of female attention (what happened?).Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this epiosde:If your crush sleeps with another guy, forget about her and pursue other women. Even if you thought she liked you, sleeping with another guy shows she is not acting like a woman who is seriously interested. Do not pedestalize her, do not wait around, and do not chase one girl when you should be pursuing several.Taking it slow with a woman can make you lose the opportunity. If you like a woman, you need to act on your intentions instead of slowly hoping something develops. Going too slow out of “respect” can leave you hurt when she chooses a man who moves faster.How to start a conversation with a girl: give yourself permission to fail. Most men do not approach women at all, so taking action already puts you ahead. You may freeze, stumble, or say something awkward at first, but practicing cold approach is how you build confidence.Cold approach gets easier when you stop judging success by the phone number. The first win is making yourself approach, not whether she gives you her number. Some days will be bad, some days will be good, and failure is temporary if you keep talking to women.The best way to get someone out of your head is to meet more girls. If you are stuck replaying a woman in your mind, dating and sleeping with new women is the most effective way to detach. Even temporary distraction with another girl is better than sitting alone in mental replay.Do not always end things just because a woman is thinking about another man. If she is still seeing you, sleeping with you, and not actively dating someone else, it may be better to keep the situation going instead of cutting it off too quickly. Take advantage of what is in front of you while it lasts.If a woman moves away temporarily, keep expectations low and stay lightly in touch. A woman being four hours away for an internship does not have to end the connection, but you should not get needy about slow replies. Check in occasionally, consider visiting, and accept that the situation may fade.Slow texting does not automatically mean a woman is losing interest. If she still apologizes, replies, and has shown affection in person, do not assume every delayed message is rejection. Texting every day may be unnecessary, especially when the better move is to set up the next time you see her.You can date multiple women at once when nothing is official. After one date, you do not owe exclusivity to anyone. You can keep meeting new women, keep seeing the girl you have chemistry with, and even play tennis with another woman if there is no official relationship.If women suddenly show interest in you, stop self-sabotaging and escalate. Getting more attention means you need to practice turning interest into dates, kissing, sex, and real experience. You may...
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  "I Broke Up With 2 Girls Because They Texted Too Much! What Should I Tell My Therapist?" 14.02.2026 32min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who broke up with his last two girlfriends because they wouldn't stop texting him.- A guy wanting to know what women find attractive and how he can change his personality/appearance.- A 33-year-old guy who thinks he's running out of time to find a girl to have kids with (he might be right).- A guy who needs help dealing with a girl who told him "I'll have to check my schedule."- A 39-year-old virgin who wants to know if he should tell girls about that fact before dating.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you do not like texting, set the tone from the beginning of dating. You do not need to text women all day to keep them interested, but you do need to establish that dynamic early. If you start a relationship by texting constantly and then suddenly pull back, it can create suspicion, pressure, and unnecessary conflict.Texting less does not mean ignoring women completely. If a woman sends something worth replying to, answer it, but do not treat every message like an obligation to start a long conversation. Taking a few hours to reply is normal and can reduce the feeling that texting is a part-time job.Use texting mostly to make plans, not to maintain constant connection. Daily texting is not required for dating success. A better approach is to use texts to set up dates, confirm plans, and occasionally send something relevant, while saving most conversations for in-person meetings.What women find attractive starts with looks, but confidence can overcome a lot. A good face, height, and a fit body make dating easier, but they are not the whole game. Confidence, experience, and the ability to approach women can help a man succeed even if he is not naturally extremely attractive.Going to the gym gets you to the minimum acceptable level for many women. Being fit is not some magic advantage; it is often the baseline. If you are fat, too skinny, or physically out of shape, improving your body should be treated as a basic requirement for better dating results.Do not approach women pretending you only want friendship. If you are attracted to a woman, let that intention guide the interaction instead of hiding behind “let’s be friends and see what happens.” Women usually understand when a man is talking to them because he finds them attractive.Dating in your thirties means you should take time pressure seriously. At 33, you are not out of options, but you are also not getting younger. If you want a girlfriend, marriage, or kids someday, you need to be honest about that pressure and start dating with more clarity.If a woman says she has to check her schedule, follow up instead of spiraling. “I’ll check my schedule” does not automatically mean she has low interest. Give her a little time, then send a direct follow-up asking whether she can meet, so you get an answer instead of sitting in uncertainty.Keep dating other women instead of over-prioritizing one who barely sees you. If you only see a woman twice a month or she is hard to schedule, do not make her your only option. Keep meeting new women so one uncertain situation does not control your dating life.If you are a 39-year-old virgin, do not put that information on your dating profile. You do not need to announce your inexperience early or make it the center of your dating identity. Let women assume you are normal, avoid oversharing, and only address the topic if it somehow becomes necessary.
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  "I Told Her That I'm On Antidepressants and She Got Upset...Should I Quit Taking Them?" 31.01.2026 22min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who thinks he got ghosted after a 6 weeks of dating (but I'm not so sure).- A guy who is thinking about ending it with the girl he's been dating because she doesn't meet up frequently enough (he should take a lesson from her approach to dating).- A guy who received the ol' "let's just be friends" text message and wants to know the best response.- A guy who handed a note to a girl who was working that asked her to hang out sometime (what did he expect her to do?)-  A depressed guy that is considering quitting his meds because the girl he's dating was shocked when he told her.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Getting ghosted after six dates can happen when the connection moves too fast. If a woman goes from constant “I miss you” texts and affection to complete silence, the early intensity may have been unsustainable. Set the tone from the beginning so the relationship does not peak too hard too early and collapse.Do not match a woman’s love-bombing energy too quickly. When a woman sends constant affectionate texts early on, replying instantly with the same intensity can create unrealistic expectations. Keeping your replies slower and steadier can help prevent the dynamic from burning out.If she stops replying after saying she is busy, send one more clear invite. “Let me know when you’re free” is often too passive because most people are bad at making plans. If you like her, follow up with a specific message asking when she is free instead of assuming the situation is dead.Sleeping together on the first date does not explain why she ghosted. Having sex on the first date does not automatically mean a woman is playing the field or that the connection was doomed. First-date sex can still lead to strong dating momentum, so do not blame the timing of sex for every ghosting situation.If a woman only wants to meet every two weeks, stop trying to force more time together. Seeing someone every two weeks can be enough early on, especially if she is still willing to meet. Pushing for more frequent dates, texting every day, or calling to ask where things are going can make you look too eager.Asking for permission to kiss can make the moment awkward. Instead of asking directly, it is better to read the situation and make a move naturally. A small physical step, like kissing her cheek, can help you gauge interest without turning the moment into a verbal negotiation.If a woman gets quiet after making out, she may be waiting for you to escalate. Quietness after kissing does not always mean discomfort or rejection. In some situations, especially after several dates, it may mean she is mentally preparing for sex and waiting for you to lead.The best response to “let’s just be friends” is no response. If a woman sends a “just friends” text after a date, she is usually not actually trying to start a friendship. Do not argue, teach her a lesson, or send a reactive goodbye message; stay silent and go date someone else.Do not give a woman your number on a note if you could talk to her normally. Handing a note to a woman who works somewhere you visit can feel awkward and usually gives her very little reason to respond. Build small conversations first, learn something about her, and ask directly when the timing is better.Do not reveal antidepressant use early in dating unless it is necessary. Bringing up antidepressants on the fifth date can create doubts before the relationship is established. Do not stop medication for a woman, but in future dating situations, avoid oversharing medical or...
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  "I Have 87 Posters of a Korean Idol in My Apartment. Will Girls Think That's Weird?" 17.01.2026 15min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who had a girl tell him she can't meet for 3 months (but don't worry, she's not gonna talk to any other guys before then).- A guy whose girlfriend is having long text conversations with the new guy at work.- A spineless guy that paid everyone's bill when the girl he's been dating brought her friends to their meetup (he needs to grow a pair).- A guy who wants to be eXcLuSiVe with the girl he's seeing and wants to know how to broach the topic.- An obsessive guy that has 87 posters of a Korean idol on his walls and wants to know if girls will think that's a red flag.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Waiting three and a half months for a first date is usually a bad use of your time. If a woman says she cannot meet for months, do not text her every day trying to keep the momentum alive. Ask her on a real date, put the ball in her court, and only check in occasionally if you still want to keep the option open.Do not confuse asking about her “first date policy” with asking her on a date. If you want to meet a woman, ask directly whether she is free on a specific day. Vague conversations about dating expectations are not the same as making a concrete plan.The longer it takes to get a woman on a first date, the lower your chances usually become. A match or phone number loses value the longer it sits without an in-person meeting. If you cannot meet quickly, keep your investment low and do not act like you are committed to someone you have never dated.If your girlfriend is messaging a male coworker too much, you are right to be concerned. Work conversations are one thing, but full conversations about weekends, personal life, and getting to know each other are a problem. A girlfriend should keep it short with men who clearly have non-work intentions.A girlfriend who entertains male attention is creating a problem she will eventually have to deal with. If she keeps engaging a man who is interested in her, the situation can escalate until he asks her out or crosses a line. Cutting it off early is cleaner than letting another man build momentum.If a woman brings three friends on a date and you pay for everyone, you got taken advantage of. A date should not turn into a group outing where you are expected to cover her friends. Do not let a woman put you on the spot financially, and do not pay for people you did not invite.Do not try to teach a woman a lesson by making her jealous. If she brings friends on a date or behaves badly, handle your own situation directly instead of playing games. Ask whether she is bringing friends again, say you want to meet one-on-one, and only pay your own bill if needed.Do not bring up exclusivity with a woman you are dating. If a woman likes you enough, she may naturally stop seeing other men without a formal conversation. Trying to lock her down too directly can make you look needy and may lower her attraction.If she wants exclusivity, let her bring up the conversation. Men should avoid confessing, negotiating, or asking whether she will stop talking to other guys. Keep dating, keep the dynamic vague, and let her raise the relationship label if she wants it.An apartment covered in 87 posters of one celebrity is a dating red flag. A few decorations are one thing, but an obsessive celebrity shrine looks childish, feminine, and strange to women. If you want a better dating life, take the posters down and make your apartment look like an adult man lives there.
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  "Girls Cheat on Me All the Time. Is It Time to Accept That It's All My Fault?" 03.01.2026 26min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who keeps getting cheated on and thinks it's all his fault (he might have a point).- A guy whose girlfriend told him she used to sext with a guy who was in a relationship.- A guy who wants to know if it's a good idea to date a girl who is mentally ill and hates him.- An overreactive guy who left a girl he was literally in bed with because she started saying they should just be friends.- A guy searching for a nerdy girl and not finding any where he thought they'd be (unsurprisingly to me).Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you keep getting cheated on, look for warning signs instead of becoming controlling. Being cheated on is not your fault, but repeated bad experiences may mean you are missing red flags or choosing low-quality women. Do not turn into a jealous, overbearing boyfriend; learn to read women better and detach more early on.Do not tell a woman that cheating would completely break you. Saying “if you cheat on me, I’ll be broken” gives her too much power and makes you look weak. Even if that is honestly how you feel, keep it to yourself and avoid making cheating paranoia the center of the relationship.A two-month relationship is too new to let cheating destroy your whole mindset. Cheating still sucks, but after only two months, the woman is basically still a stranger. Do not let a short dating situation convince you that every future relationship will end the same way.Use cheating experiences to become less reactive, not more paranoid. Instead of checking phones, acting jealous, or assuming every woman will betray you, use the experience to stay calmer and less overinvested. Trust women until they give you a real reason not to, and enjoy the relationship while it is good.A woman sexting a man who was in a relationship is not automatically your problem. The person in the relationship is the one responsible for protecting it. Her past behavior may show questionable judgment, but the bigger issue is whether she gives you confidence that she would not do something similar again.“I’m human and flawed” is a bad answer when you ask if she would repeat shady behavior. If a woman says she would not want to do something again but cannot clearly say she would never do it, that can feel like a red flag. Listen to whether her answer makes you more or less attracted to her.Do not date a woman with major mental health problems if she is already showing chaos. Bipolar disorder, anxiety, depression, random hate, and anger over slow replies are a bad combination early in dating. If the warning signs are already there after two months, the relationship is likely to get worse.If a woman gives mixed signals in bed, do not panic and leave too quickly. Some women create back-and-forth before sex because they want more comfort, effort, or reassurance. If she says “maybe we should just be friends” while already in bed with you, stay calm and lead instead of overreacting.Do not confuse normal sexual hesitation with rejection. Pulling back, asking questions, or saying uncertain things before sex does not always mean she wants everything to stop. Take a breath, respond confidently, and understand that some back-and-forth is part of the process.To find girls your type, stop over-filtering and start approaching more women. Nerdy girls are not always hiding in bookstores or gaming shops, and your ideal type may show up anywhere. Approach women who are cute enough, warm up socially, and stop using “she is not my type” as an excuse to avoid talking to women.
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  "We Barely Bang and I Caught Her Sexting Another Guy, But Our Relationship is Good!" 20.12.2025 25min

  Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy that's been practically paralyzed by getting rejected from girls he's approached (featuring the advice I was given when I first started approaching girls).- A guy who is wondering what to do about his girlfriend of 5 years that he caught cheating through text. Oh, also they've barely banged in the past 2 years.- A guy dating an identical twin and wondering how to handle the fact that they fight like crazy.- A nerdy guy who is looking for a nerdy girl (his intentions are good but his mindset is totally wrong).- A guy who is, for some reason, hiding the fact that he got laid off from his girlfriend.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you freeze around women in real life, the answer is more practice. Being good at talking to girls online does not automatically translate to confidence face to face. You need to approach more women, get rejected more, and give yourself permission to fail until real-life conversations stop feeling so intimidating.Rejection hurts less when you stop treating every approach as pass or fail. The real win is making yourself walk up and talk to the girl, not whether she gives you her number. If you make the effort, you are already doing more than most men, and every rejection gives you more experience.Bad experiences with women do not mean you missed your chance at dating. Even if college did not go how you wanted, you are still young enough to build confidence and get results. Do not let a few failed approaches convince you that your dating life is already ruined.If your girlfriend says she loves another man online, the relationship is over. Emotional cheating, sexual messages, hidden chats, and sending another man details about your life are not harmless. If she is telling another guy she loves him and wants him sexually, there is nothing left to discuss.A dead bedroom is already enough reason to end a relationship. If you have barely had sex for two years, the relationship is not as good as you think it is. Regular sex is a basic part of having a girlfriend, and living together does not make up for the lack of it.Do not ignore incompatibility just because breaking up is inconvenient. Moving houses, signing a lease, or being together for years can make a breakup complicated, but that does not mean the relationship should continue. If she wants something you are not and the attraction is gone, staying only delays the inevitable.When dating an identical twin, do not get involved in sibling fights. Twins may be unusually close, competitive, and intense with each other, but their fights are not your job to solve. Let them argue, let them move on, and avoid taking sides in family dynamics.To meet nerdy girls, stop only looking in stereotypically nerdy places. Anime bars, gaming shops, conventions, and board-game meetups can be full of men or too competitive. A better strategy is to approach women anywhere, then find out whether they are open to your interests.A woman does not need to share your hobbies to enjoy dating you. If you like video games, mini golf, batting cages, or other activities, invite her to do those things with you. Many women will join you even if the hobby is not already part of their identity.Losing your job does not automatically mean the woman you are dating will leave. If you get laid off, do not panic or hide it for weeks. Tell her plainly, keep applying for jobs, and understand that if she leaves immediately because you lost work, she was not worth keeping.