Talk Sex with Annette

Epizodes

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  How to Get Her Wet Again: A Gynecologist's Fix for Midlife Sex 21.07.2026 47min

  Send us Fan Mail She starts avoiding sex. He takes it personally. Nobody says a word. That silence has a name — the Bedroom Gap — and the gynecologist who coined the term is here with the fix. Dr. Maria Sophocles — board-certified gynecologist with 30 years in menopause and female sexual health, author of The Bedroom Gap, and TED speaker with 1.3M+ views — breaks down exactly what's happening in her body, why his fix (the pill) made her problem worse, and how to bring pleasure back at any age...
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  What To Do After You Come — She's Hoping You Know This 20.07.2026 18min

  Send us Fan Mail Round two isn't just possible — it might be the best sex she's ever had. Even if you already finished, even if you finished before she did, the night isn't over. This episode is the full playbook for the second half: the real science of the recovery window, why it's more in your control than you think, what to do the moment you soften, and the one thing to do in round one that makes going again effortless. What you'll learn: ✔ Why you naturally last longer in round two ...
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  Why Powerful Men Pay a Dominatrix to Take Control (Most Men Will Never Admit This) 14.07.2026 50min

  Send us Fan Mail Mistress Marley — professional dominatrix, financial domination specialist, and founder of Haus of Dominance, where she's taught over 10,000 students — breaks down what men are actually paying for, what submission really means, and how to explore giving up control in your own bedroom. In this episode: What a dominatrix actually does — and what a real session looks likeWhy the loudest "alpha males" online are her biggest clientsThe difference between submission and weaknessHow...
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  5 Steps to Anal She'll Actually Love (Most Couples Rush #1) 13.07.2026 20min

  Send us Fan Mail Anal is one of the most searched sex topics on the internet — and one of the least talked about in actual bedrooms. Everyone's curious. Almost nobody's saying it out loud. This episode is for both of you: the woman who's curious and never said it, and the partner who wants to ask without making it weird. The conversation (including the ten seconds that decide everything), the safety rules nobody explains properly, why her body is genuinely wired to love this, and the five ste...
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  She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back 07.07.2026 46min

  Send us Fan Mail You've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent. Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actually happening and how to bring her back. And this one took a turn I didn't expect: men dissociate too. It just looks completely different. ...
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  The 5-Step Mouth & Hands Technique for Blended Orgasms 06.07.2026 18min

  Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms—a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense. Most people switch between techniques instead of combining them. But when you learn how to coordinate your mouth and hands, everything changes in how her arousal builds and how her body responds. I walk you through: Why switching between techni...
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  Bi Girls Guide To Better Sex: Inside Secrets That Blow Her Mind 30.06.2026 1h 2min

  Send us Fan Mail Two bi women. One podcast. A real guide to better sex built from the inside out. Bi women know something about pleasuring women that most people never figure out. Because they've been on both sides — they know what it feels like to receive, and they know what it takes to give it well. That combination is a cheat code. And today we're handing it over. Samia Mounts — queer, non-binary writer, actor, and host of Happy Slut podcast — joins me to share what bi and pan ...
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  5 Spanking Fantasies She Has — And Exactly How to Give Her Each One 29.06.2026 18min

  Send us Fan Mail Up to 60% of women have fantasized about being dominated — and almost none of them have said it out loud. This one's for the men who want to deliver what she's been replaying in her head and never asked for. Five spanking fantasies, the psychology behind each, and exactly how to make them land sexy instead of awkward — including how to talk about it first, how to keep it safe, and the aftercare most men skip. What you'll learn: ✔ How to bring it up so she actually says ...
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  Pegging Is Up 200% Among Straight Men Here's Why & How to Do It 24.06.2026 51min

  Send us Fan Mail He's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open. Interest in pegging among straight men is up 200% according to Feeld's 2025 annual report. Not in some dark corner of the internet — on mainstream dating apps. Men are putting it on their sexual bucket lists, bringing it up on second dates, and still going silent when it matters most. ...
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  How to Make Her Come From Penetration — Maybe for the First Time in Her Life 22.06.2026 19min

  Send us Fan Mail 82% of women don't reliably come from penetration alone. Here's what's actually missing — and the five moves that fix it. If she's never finished while you're inside her, it's not her body and it's not yours. It's anatomy. And once you understand it, everything changes. What you'll learn: ✔ Why the clitoris has to be fully aroused before penetration even starts ✔ How to change your angle so her clitoris gets contact on every stroke ✔ Why you keep losing her ...
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  She's Reading Smut Instead of Having Sex with You — Here's Why 16.06.2026 49min

  Send us Fan Mail She's not hiding her book because she's embarrassed. She's hiding it because what she's reading is giving her something her sex life isn't — and nobody's asking what that means for your relationship. Romance is the fastest-growing category in print. 51 million units sold in the last year. One in four NYT hardcover fiction bestsellers was romantasy. Women aren't casually reading this stuff. They're consuming it. Today I sat down with Carolyn Hood — certified sex therapist, lic...
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  Perimenopause Killed Her Orgasm — 5 Moves to Get It Back 15.06.2026 16min

  Send us Fan Mail A listener wrote in: "I'm 47 years old and going through perimenopause. Previously I would orgasm with my husband 90-95% of the time. Now I only orgasm 5-10% of the time." She's not alone. Roughly half of all women experience orgasm changes during perimenopause — and almost none are told why or what to do about it. This episode covers the physiology behind the shift, the medical options most women don't know exist (including why the FDA just reversed 20 years of warnings abou...
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  Role Play 101: From Cringe to Craving 10.06.2026 49min

  Send us Fan Mail 97% of adults have sexual fantasies. Less than a third ever act on them. The fear is almost never accurate — and in this episode, we're closing the gap between what you want and what you actually do. I'll be honest: role play has always given me the ick. So I brought in Emma Velicski — romance author and founder of Saturday Box, the company turning kink and role play into a game you can actually play with your partner — to figure out why so many of us freeze, and how to final...
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  Squirting: 5 Moves That Get Her There! 09.06.2026 22min

  Send us Fan Mail Most men have tried to make this happen. Most have done it wrong. And almost none of them understand what's actually going on in her body when it does. This episode covers the real anatomy behind this response, why the technique most men learned from the internet actually works against them, the one thing she's going to say in the moment that most men completely misread, and why relaxation — not force — is what makes this possible. What you'll learn: ✔ The anatomy behin...
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  Good Men, Bad Sex: Why Purity Culture Is Still in Your Bedroom (Even If You Left the Church) 04.06.2026 1h 1min

  Send us Fan Mail You never signed a purity pledge. Maybe you never set foot in a church. But the rules got in anyway — through locker rooms, movies, the way women around you were talked about, the bodies that got shamed. And now they're in your bedroom, quietly wrecking everything. Today I'm talking with Erika Smith — award-winning sexuality educator, 25 years in the field, and creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program — about the specific ways purity culture shows up in men who consider ...
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  How to Edge Her Until She Begs: My 5 Move System 01.06.2026 18min

  Send us Fan Mail You can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference. In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her finish. The four signs that tell you she's at the edge. How to pull her back without losing her. Why each climb gets faster. How many edges actually work. And how to let her finish in a way that triggers a rolling orgasm she's never had with an...
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  How Porn Ruined Men's Foreplay — And the 3-Word Cheat Sheet That Fixes It 27.05.2026 58min

  Send us Fan Mail Most men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeling it. It's not her. It's the script. Today's guest has spent 17 years collecting real-world data on exactly what porn got wrong — and what women actually need. Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, the world's first r...
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  5 Hand Techniques That Finish Her Every Time 25.05.2026 20min

  Send us Fan Mail Most partners use one move with their hands. There are dozens. And most men have never heard of the deeper spot that changes everything. This episode is a complete guide — how to prep your hands so she actually wants them on her body, the five named techniques that produce completely different sensations, the two internal spots most partners don't know exist, and the combination move that gives her something she literally cannot give herself. What you'll learn: ✔ Why pr...
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  The Alpha Male Script Is Killing Your Sex Life — This Is What She Actually Wants 20.05.2026 52min

  Send us Fan Mail Alpha male culture is teaching men to dominate, never ask, never show need — and it is quietly destroying their sex lives. Today I'm joined by James Harris, licensed mental health therapist, US Army veteran, and founder of Men to Heal, who has spent a decade watching this play out in real relationships. He's not here to shame men — he's here to give them what the alpha podcasters never do: the actual truth about what makes women want you. What you'll learn: What alpha culture...
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  Lost Your Erection? 5 Moves That Save the Whole Night 18.05.2026 19min

  Send us Fan Mail You went soft during sex. She felt it. And the next thing you did probably made it worse. Every man loses his erection. Most panic, apologize, or shut down — and that reaction does more damage than the erection loss ever did. This episode gives you the five exact moves that keep the moment going, keep her turned on, and get your body back without the shame spiral. Plus: why your erection is one of the earliest warning signs of heart disease, diabetes, and hormonal imbalance —...