Talk Sex with Annette

Epizodes

• How to Edge Her Until She Begs: My 5 Move System 01.06.2026 17min

  Send us Fan Mail You can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference. In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her finish. The four signs that tell you she's at the edge. How to pull her back without losing her. Why each climb gets faster. How many edges actually work. And how to let her finish in a way that triggers a rolling orgasm she's never had with an...
• How Porn Ruined Men's Foreplay — And the 3-Word Cheat Sheet That Fixes It 27.05.2026 58min

  Send us Fan Mail Most men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeling it. It's not her. It's the script. Today's guest has spent 17 years collecting real-world data on exactly what porn got wrong — and what women actually need. Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, the world's first r...
• 5 Hand Techniques That Finish Her Every Time 25.05.2026 20min

  Send us Fan Mail Most partners use one move with their hands. There are dozens. And most men have never heard of the deeper spot that changes everything. This episode is a complete guide — how to prep your hands so she actually wants them on her body, the five named techniques that produce completely different sensations, the two internal spots most partners don't know exist, and the combination move that gives her something she literally cannot give herself. What you'll learn: ✔ Why pr...
• The Alpha Male Script Is Killing Your Sex Life — This Is What She Actually Wants 20.05.2026 52min

  Send us Fan Mail Alpha male culture is teaching men to dominate, never ask, never show need — and it is quietly destroying their sex lives. Today I'm joined by James Harris, licensed mental health therapist, US Army veteran, and founder of Men to Heal, who has spent a decade watching this play out in real relationships. He's not here to shame men — he's here to give them what the alpha podcasters never do: the actual truth about what makes women want you. What you'll learn: What alpha culture...
• Lost Your Erection? 5 Moves That Save the Whole Night 18.05.2026 19min

  Send us Fan Mail You went soft during sex. She felt it. And the next thing you did probably made it worse. Every man loses his erection. Most panic, apologize, or shut down — and that reaction does more damage than the erection loss ever did. This episode gives you the five exact moves that keep the moment going, keep her turned on, and get your body back without the shame spiral. Plus: why your erection is one of the earliest warning signs of heart disease, diabetes, and hormonal imbalance —...
• What Women Really Think About Your Balls — Men Take Note! 12.05.2026 56min

  Send us Fan Mail Nobody told us what to do with them. Sex ed skipped them entirely. And somewhere along the way, women just... stopped thinking about them. Until now. Three women sit down and go fully, honestly, hilariously there — what we actually find attractive, what we've been getting wrong, and the moves that will genuinely change what happens in your bedroom tonight. We're getting into: Why so many women are low-key intimidated by them (and how to fix that)The grooming conversation nobo...
• Praise Kink (Part2) 5 Questions Everyone Keeps Asking (Answered) 11.05.2026 25min

  Send us Fan Mail The Praise Kink episode was one of my biggest videos ever — and your comment section proved you're ready to go deeper. I pulled five questions I kept seeing and I'm giving you the real answers. Research, specifics, and the stuff I didn't have room for the first time around. ✔ What to call her when "good girl" doesn't fit — honorifics, worship titles, and why they work ✔ Can you flip the praise kink and use it on men — and what does that look like inside the kink ✔...
• She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!) 06.05.2026 55min

  Send us Fan Mail She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!) She didn't lose interest in sex. She lost interest in sex that never worked for her. Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons — award-winning psychologist, Emory University professor, and author of Good Sex — breaks down the real data behind the orgasm gap, why it slowly kills a woman's desire, and exactly what closes it. Why 75% of women have faked it (and what that's really costing you)The script both men AND women buy...
• 7 Ways To Masturbate Together That Upgrade Your Sex Life Instantly! 04.05.2026 18min

  Send us Fan Mail It's Masturbation May — and I'm giving you the practice that will upgrade your sex life more than any new position, any new toy, any new technique. Mutual masturbation. Touching yourselves at the same time, in the same bed, watching each other. It removes the pressure to deliver an orgasm. It builds the connection most couples are missing. It shows you exactly what works on each other's bodies. And it lets you both discover new pleasure together. What you'll learn: ✔ Wh...
• Please Stop F*cking Us Hard: The Truth About Sex and Dating After 60 29.04.2026 53min

  Send us Fan Mail Please stop fucking us hard. Seriously. That's the message — and if you heard it in Suzanne Noble's voice during this episode, you already know why it hit so hard. Suzanne is the host of Sex Advice for Seniors — nearly 200K followers, 180+ episodes, and the most unfiltered voice on intimacy and aging out there. She and I got into everything: why your arousal pattern changes after 50 and what to do about it, what men in their sixties are getting wrong in bed (and the one thing...
• 7 Hot Ways to Go Down On Her That Make You Unforgettable 27.04.2026 20min

  Send us Fan Mail Does she grab your hair like she forgot her own name? Does she text you at 2 AM the next day because her body won't stop replaying it? If not, the gap between what you're doing and what would make her lose her mind is just 7 moves nobody ever taught you. This episode gives you 7 moves she's never felt before. Not because they're complicated — because nobody teaches past the basics. What you'll learn: ✔ You're only hitting 20% of her nerve endings — the tongue fix that changes...
• How To Have an Unforgettable one night Stand: From Pickup to Aftercare 21.04.2026 59min

  Send us Fan Mail There are one night stands you forget before you've brushed your teeth — and there are one night stands you're still thinking about years later. Today we're breaking down the difference. Zachary Zane — author of Boy Slut, Men's Health sex columnist, and Grindr's official sex and relationship expert — joins me to map out exactly how to have a one night stand that actually lives up to the fantasy. From the mental prep most people skip, to where to find the right person, to what...
• How to Stay Hard When You F*ck Slower 20.04.2026 19min

  Send us Fan Mail You watched How to F*ck Slower. You tried it. Then you lost your erection and panicked. This is the fix. Slowing down is the single best thing you can do for her pleasure — but nobody talks about what happens to you when you do it. Your brain speeds up, your body gets nervous, and you lose the one thing you need to stay in the game. This episode breaks down exactly how to stay hard, stay present, and become the man who can go slow without flinching. What you'll learn: ✔...
• Who's Really in Charge in Your Bedroom? (And Why It Matters) 15.04.2026 52min

  Send us Fan Mail Most couples stumble into bed hoping their bodies will figure it out. They don't. Because nobody's talking about who's leading, who's surrendering — or whether you're both fighting for the same role. Today's guest is Sarah Perry — certified somatic sex educator, sexological body worker, and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She holds a master's in psychology and a background in women, gender, and sexuality studies. Sarah works with people through the body to help them understa...
• 5 Sounds She Makes During Sex and What to Do When You Hear Them 13.04.2026 20min

  Send us Fan Mail You've been misreading her in bed. The loudest sounds she makes? Those aren't for her. Research shows the majority of women vocalize to speed up his finish — not because they're in pleasure. Meanwhile, the sounds that actually mean she's deep in it? Most men miss them completely. In this episode, I break down the five real sounds she makes during sex — what each one actually means and the exact move to make when you hear it. This isn't theory. This is a playbook. 🔥 What you'l...
• Bimboification: The Fetish He's Hiding & How to Make It Work in Your Relationship 08.04.2026 54min

  Send us Fan Mail What is bimboification — and why are so many people hiding it? Sex and relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom breaks down one of the most misunderstood fetishes out there, where it comes from, and how to explore it in your relationship without the shame spiral. Because the fetish isn't the problem. The shame is. What bimboification and cross-dressing fetishes actually areThe real link between bimboification and dragHow shame drives desire underground — and the damage it does...
• 5 Moves That Make Her Want to Initiate Sex 06.04.2026 18min

  Send us Fan Mail She's not withholding. She's not checked out. And it has nothing to do with how long you've been together. Here's what's actually happening: every time you touch her, kiss her, pull her close — she can feel that it has a destination. And when desire always has a destination, she stops being in the moment and starts managing the arc. So she waits. Every time. What she's craving is a partner who is just as hungry for the moments between sex as he is for sex itself. That shift —...
• 10 Fetishes You've Never Heard Of — But You Might Have One 01.04.2026 1h

  Send us Fan Mail You think you know what a fetish is — leather, feet, something you scroll past. But the cultural conversation leads with the weird and skips the why. Today we're flipping that. Jessica Renard — licensed professional counselor, sex therapist at StorieBrook Associates, and a therapist who works directly within the kink communities in Georgia — breaks down the fetishes that actually show up in relationships and the therapist's office. What's happening in the brain, the body, and...
• 5 Praise Kink Moves: That will Make Her Initiate Next Time! 30.03.2026 20min

  Send us Fan Mail Most men are completely silent during sex. And that silence is costing you more than you realize. Surveys suggest that roughly 3 out of 4 women say verbal affirmation during sex increases their arousal and orgasm intensity. But it's not just about saying nice things — it's about pairing specific words with specific physical moves at exactly the right moment. That combination does something to her body that neither one can do alone. In this episode, I'm giving you 5 praise kin...
• Is He A Sex Addict : Or Does He Just Want It More Than You? 25.03.2026 58min

  Send us Fan Mail Is he a sex addict — or does he just want it more than you? The term gets thrown around constantly, but most people have no idea what it actually means. In this episode, I sit down with marriage and family therapist Kate Logan — who specializes in compulsive sexual behavior at the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles — to finally draw the line between high libido, kink, and genuine sexual compulsivity. We get into: What separates a sex addict from someone who just really lov...