We Were Fighting Before This

Epizodes

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  Is this cheating or just being too nice? | EP 58 | We Were Fighting Before This 13.08.2026 58min

  Give a man a break sometimes or maybe not... 👀  Timestamps:  00:00 - Intro01:00 - The competitive card game grind02:51 - Yvonne's sushi date10:04 - Dating seriously for marriage12:42 - Trying to set up Yvonne13:45 - Stop trying to train your boyfriend14:46 - The perilla leaf debate19:52 - Giving your company prize to another girl25:33 - Would you take a free trip to Hawaii?26:18 - Driving your coworker home29:20 - Building furniture for a random girl35:29 - Buying personalized souvenirs for coworkers40:38 - What would your death row meal be?46:08 - Would you want to know when you’re going to die?47:19 - Using fame to skip the line51:33 - Why celebrities get special treatment52:26 - The fake acting career prank54:16 - Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Testing our dating standards | EP 57 | We Were Fighting Before This 06.08.2026 56min

  Yvonne and Toast are back and this week they're finding out how high and low some of their dating standards are 👀 Turns out you don’t need a real job. Build your own business with a free trial at shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 Intro00:23 Recap of previous episode (Scarra & Chelsea)03:23 Yvonne's Collective Con experience07:37 Scarra’s raffle and booth10:28 Selling cards and cash management12:13 Fan interactions and giving back14:41 Yvonne's dating update16:32 "He's a 10 But..."40:48 Getting scammed on MapleStory and Neopets42:28 The tea scam43:49 Street scams, CDs, and mascots44:33 Valorant tournament recap47:22 League of Legends Classic tournament51:57 Discussing League ranks52:37 Wrap-up and tea for next week Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Chelsea helps find Scarra love | EP 56 | We Were Fighting Before This 30.07.2026 1h 28min

  Yvonne and Toast are away this week but Chelsea continues to fight to find Scarra love!  00:00 Intro  1:28 Are Scarra and Chelsea friends?  2:30 Scarra’s podcast  4:30 Did Chelsea sabotage Scarra?  6:31 Scarra’s belief and plan for dating 10:48 Chelsea wants to set Scarra up  14:45 Hypothetical first date  20:35 The “perfect” date  23:17 Dating a fan?  26:51 Deal breakers for Scarra 28:15 She’s a 10 BUT…. 45:14 Is living in LA actually worth it?  46:20 Introvert vs extrovert  50:42 Life is short  52:50 Scarra wants a crazy ex  53:10 We want love for Yvonne 55:21 Meeting a girl at the club?  56:30 Do we believe in love at first sight? 57:56 Learning how to set boundaries 1:04:20 How do you stay hopeful? 1:07:00 Dealing with hate online 1:11:10 The truth about creator burnout 1:17:23 Toast’s content strategy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Would we survive Streamer University? | EP 55 | We Were Fighting Before This 23.07.2026 58min

  Should we join Stream U next year? 👀 Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:45 Toast plays pickleball  7:20 Yvonne’s Pokémon passion  10:05 Toast is triggered by someone…  11:20 Womens intuition  12:55 Toast didn’t want to be on the same team as this person 14:45 Valorant tournament thoughts   19:10 Yvonne is killing at Valorant  20:38 Yvonne kills s0m 23:31 Toast isn’t doing as hot  25:30 Streamer university thoughts  33:04 Toast become a professor at Streamer U 35:01 Would we apply to Streamer U 41:03 Is Toast chopped?  42:20 What makes someone “chopped”  49:51 Hi from Faker Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Our friends were betting we'd date... | EP 54 | We Were Fighting Before This 16.07.2026 55min

  We've heard crazy rumors and even crazier ones from our own friends... Start your free trial at https://SHOPIFY.COM/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:23 Yvonne rates her own trip 2:45 Thoughts on the Calgary trip 3:03 Yvonne forced Toast to go raving 6:28 Toast takes over Yvonne’s hometown 8:44 Meeting Yvonne’s mom 9:53 Yvonne’s friends defend her from Toast 12:40 The craziest things they saw in Calgary 15:17 Who has more pull? 18:36 Toast gets iced for the first time 20:58 Meeting Yvonne’s childhood friends 23:04 Peak Asian Canadian childhood 28:05 The craziest rumors about Toast and Yvonne 28:49 Lily thought Toast would date Yvonne 30:22 How rich is Toast actually? 31:14 The truth about the podcast’s money 32:30 Did Yvonne and Brodin date? 32:52 Would Yvonne date someone in the friend group?  33:33 Chelsea went to an all girls college 34:44 Love and Deepspace 42:28 What race would you choose to be? 50:31 Would they ever move back home? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Do women ACTUALLY understand men? | EP 53 | We Were Fighting Before This 09.07.2026 1h 1min

  This week we're asking if men actually know what women want? Do women know what women want?  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:40 Toast is into Love Island  3:25 Testing men  5:18 Big SO fight  7:30 Complimenting another’s partner 12:24 Badminton Open  14:15 Yvonne has PULL 19:12 LIVE PODCAST SHOW!  21:32 Toast is Ryan Higa... 22:54 Toast doesn’t want Yvonne on his team 26:38 PRO VS JOE  31:20 Toast breaks it down for Chelsea 34:25 Marvel Rivals drama  36:00 Tournament dynamics 39:18 Recovering from losing  45:35 Is “NORMIE” derogatory  47:06 When did we realize we were straight  50:02 Would you love me if I was a worm  52:45 Experience with he opposite gender  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Yvonne's dad reaches out | EP 52 | We Were Fighting Before This 02.07.2026 58min

  Yvonne finds messages from her dad 🥺 Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:30 Pickleball movie… 3:10 Yvonne Dad reaches out 9:02 Yvonne’s thoughts on her dad :(  17:50 Reconnecting and getting clarity  26:11 Abg and abb event  30:34 Toast’s is insecure about his hair 33:55 Yvonne’s hairdresser  36:30 Meccha Chameleon 40:31 Toast doesn’t want to give up 45:00 How long Mecca Chameleon will last  47:23 Taking bets  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The time OTV and 100 Thieves wanted the same creator | EP 51 | We Were Fighting Before This 25.06.2026 1h

  TGC Cafes, Disney Adults, and finding Scarra true love?  Timestamps: 00:00 Fighting Before This.... 2:15 Toast vs Yvonne's 50/50 Debate5:18 Chelsea Gets Dragged Into It8:12 Who Actually Owns the Podcast?11:50 Brodin Interrupts Another Argument12:42 The Creator OTV Couldn't Get16:25 OTV vs 100 Thieves19:08 The Robert Downey Jr. Incident21:35 Being Known as "OTV" Instead of Yourself24:55 Yvonne's Imposter Syndrome28:45 Yvonne Finds Her Footing31:30 The New OTV Camping Video34:20 Toast's Worst Camping Experience36:55 Doomscrolling Has Gone Too Far39:30 Toast's ChatGPT Sessions42:10 Yvonne's Dream TCG Cafe45:25 Adult Hobbies After 3048:30 Would Yvonne Go Camping With Her Future Boyfriend?50:15 Red Flag or Green Flag?55:10 Chelsea Tries Setting Up Scarra Again55:36 Will We Get A Scarra Date Update?56:17 Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The worst brand we’ve ever worked with | EP 50 | We Were Fighting Before This 18.06.2026 1h 5min

  To celebrate 50 episodes of WWFBT, we're eating the spiciest chip in the world while answering the spicy questionable questions Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:22 Yvonne’s million dollar idea 2:21 is “nerd” derogatory?  4:18 Chelsea plays League…  5:37 Present for Toast!  7:16 Knicks in 5! 12:43 Spending for sports teams  14:30 Sports betting and morals…  16:22 Toast at the Richmond night market  18:56 Toast really wants to be mayor  23:10 Online vs Offline filming  29:05 SPICY CHIP CHALLENGE QUESTION GAME  51:31 the FAKER QUESTION…  54:55 Chelsea crashes out again  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Responding to our haters... | EP 49 | We Were Fighting Before This 11.06.2026 1h 5min

  We're mad and we all have something to say!  Timestamps:00:00:00 Intro00:00:30 The Pickleball Problem00:04:15 Why Pickleball Took Over00:05:18 Is Pickleball Actually Hard?00:06:43 When the New Thing Replaces the Old Thing00:09:30 Chelsea Tries Pickleball00:12:04 Men vs. Women: Who Has It Worse?00:13:00 Is It Easier to Be a Woman Content Creator?00:14:40 The DEI Conversation00:16:15 The Reality of Being a Woman00:17:35 How Do You Support Your Partner on Their Period?00:19:15 Why Couples Rage Bait Each Other00:21:30 Do Women Start Arguments on Purpose?00:24:13 How Much Fighting Is Normal?00:26:00 Is Checking Your Partner's Instagram Toxic?00:28:08 50 Episodes Later...00:29:16 Why Everyone Thinks We're Fence Sitters00:32:48 People Pleaser or Just Nice?00:37:32 Toast Explains His Face Reveal00:40:16 The Insecurity Toast Can't Shake00:43:18 Learning Confidence the Hard Way00:44:59 We Need to Leave Our Comfort Zone00:46:15 Toast's 100-Day Streaming Challenge00:47:38 Why Being Real Beats Being Negative00:49:15 Why Outdoor Boys Wins Every Time00:52:42 We Wouldn't Last a Week in Alaska Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  we made our producer CRASH OUT 👀 | EP 48 | We Were Fighting Before This 04.06.2026 1h 25min

  Toast gets 2v1'd again? Chelsea's back and she breaks down.  timestamps:  00:00 Chelsea's Return & The "2v1" Dynamic 03:05 Reflecting on the past episodes  04:28 Chelsea breaks down  11:43 Asian Canadian Identity 12:55 Thoughts on FOB’s  16:40 Toast and Yvonne road trip  22:06 Empathy & Podcast Dynamics 34:08 The Reality TV "Male vs. Female Gaze" 38:16 The "Club Comment" Incident 40:48 Flight Reimbursement 45:21 Road trip to vancouver 46:27 Vegas trip 51:23 OTV "PR Training" Tier List 54:49 Gambling Sponsorship Ethics 1:05:00 Online Thirst Traps 1:09:20 Ethics of Leaking Information 1:12:03 Yvonne's Gaming Performance 1:18:23 Forced Compliments & Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Being annoying is an art, and we've mastered it | EP 47 | We Were Fighting Before This 28.05.2026 1h 27min

  Are war movies sexy? And how did Toast trick Yvonne to be her sidekick...?  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:51 Nate’s last thoughts on Yvonne  3:03 Toast questions Yvonne  4:41 Yvonne’s behavior gets her into trouble  7:02 Bid for attention?  9:05 War movies  12:50 Doing it during war movies…  13:35 Toast blames Yvonne on deflecting  17:38 “I’m Ugly”  22:24 Yvonne believed she was ugly  28:01 Toast’s POV on being unattractive  29:55 When Toast locks in  36:02 Dream physique  38:38 Pivoting lifestyles  42:44 Is Yvonne a supporting character?  44:42 Thoughts on OTV  50:25 Being consistent  54:04 How willing are you to clip farm  56:24 How do you have a friendship with an EX  1:00:42 Who’s the better league player  1:10:00 Still fighting over league….  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The Perfect Relationship Doesn't Exist | EP 46 | We Were Fighting Before This 21.05.2026 59min

  Dating is HARD. It's even harder when you're oldge Start your business today with the industry’s best business partner, Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at https://SHOPIFY.COM/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:00:34 Toast is late..? 00:02:03 Coconut 00:02:27 We read the incel comments 00:05:14 Reading comments as a streamer 00:08:39 Toast looked for these comments 00:09:59 Unbiased Nate pt 2 00:10:48 Clocking each other’s tea 00:12:26 Nate does the intro jingle 00:13:35 Yvonne’s dating update 00:15:29 Would Yvonne date any of her peers? 00:17:33 Should Yvonne lower her standards? 00:18:49 When ur partner isn’t that self-aware 00:22:00 The 90/10 rule 00:23:04 What have we learned from each other? 00:24:42 What we thought when starting this pod 00:27:24 Toast strat of finding topics 00:28:24 Perfect relationships don’t exist 00:32:05 Yvonne’s vibecheck 00:34:02 Nate’s dating life 00:35:57 Dating when you’re getting older 00:39:09 James Charles tea 00:41:22 Fans asking for money 00:42:35 Celebrities not getting cancelled 00:44:06 Kick streamers going to jail 00:46:47 Prank era of YouTube 00:47:44 How to get attention on social media 00:49:47 Streamer fatigue 00:53:05 Unlimited guests on the pod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  This Podcast Broke our Friendship | EP45 | We Were Fighting Before This 14.05.2026 1h 32min

  What are actual good compliments, why you should lie to your friends, and did this podcast actually make or break Toast and Yvonne's friendship? Timestamps:00:00:00 We Were Really Fighting Before This00:00:24 NATE IS HERE00:04:05 Yvonne is a Labubu00:06:14 Chelsea’s projecting questions00:07:39 Receiving compliments00:09:32 Totally unbiased moderator00:11:23 S Tier compliments00:15:17 Repeating Questions to a Stranger00:16:40 Lucky Girl Syndrome00:20:08 How Guys Become Friends00:23:40 Describing their relationship to an outsider00:25:26 Did the pod improve their relationship 00:30:22 Acknowledging feelings00:32:01 Liking other girls’ photos..00:34:57 What even is a good guy00:37:36 How to tank your attractiveness00:41:15 The Male Heroic Fantasy00:43:22 Giving your life for someone else00:45:48 Raising a child is hard00:47:08 Toast’s existential hospital encounter00:49:30 The Amazing traits of Disguised Toast00:52:00 Receiving Compliments & Self-sabotage00:55:19 Reading Comments as a Streamer00:56:59 Food Vloggers are FAKE00:58:32 Lie to your friends 01:01:13 People think Toast is mean01:03:46 What is Misandry?01:08:59 Toast’s Deleted Sykkuno Tweet01:13:05 Things clipped out of context01:14:26 Taking the Centrist POV01:18:12 The incels are not gonna like this one01:19:28 How Internet Drama evolves01:21:50 Hello Millenials01:23:00 Creator Labels01:25:00 Toast is scaring away the Patreon members Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Nice guys finish last, and Toast is here to prove it | EP 44 | We Were Fighting Before This 07.05.2026 1h

  Toast reveals his ultimate revenge plan against his friend group while Yvonne and Chelsea are tricked into Toast's mind games. 00:00 Intro  1:05 Tomodachi Life 2:25 Is being nice an advantage or disadvantage?  6:50 Toast is a hater of the word NICE  8:51 Guys don’t want to be called nice  11:45 Would you rather be nice or funny  13:05 Respecting mean individuals?  15:20 Showing your mean side to your SO  17:00 Yvonne’s patience in a relationship  18:55 Yvonne pisses Toast off…  21:20 Toast wants Yvonne to admit when she was mean  24:32 Do we forgive easily or HOLD ON to things 26:07 Seeking revenge  28:00 Toast’s evil plan of vengeance  30:02 Toast’s plays mind games with us… 34:28 Is Toast a feminist?  37:44 Tost’s confession  38:48 Rapid fire questions  42:36 What we do before we sleep  45:00 Toast loses sponsorships  48:50 America’s Next Top Model and documentaries  53:32 50cent a #1 hater  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Let's talk about Sykkuno | EP 43 | We Were Fighting Before This 30.04.2026 1h 1min

  We found out the same way you did…  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:50 Toast wants updates on Yvonne  1:07 Sykkuno drama  31:52 Growing together  38:02 Reflection  41:17 Life / Dating / Work Advice  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Lilypichu PROMISED Yvonne she wouldn't do this... | EP 42 | We Were Fighting Before This 23.04.2026 1h 4min

  Our girl Lilypichu is back on the pod and this time she is making Yvonne uncomfortable for an hour straight.... Timestamps:  00:00 Lilypichu Intro  1:01 What Lily would do for Yvonne 2:23 Self sabotage  6:00 Love languages  8:38 Michael Reeves learning Chinese 11:22 Learning another language  13:20 Lily wants to IMPROV…  19:20 Lily and Yvonne FIGHT 21:43 Lily continues to make Yvonne uncomfortable… 23:55 Lily reflects on her fight with Toast…. 23:41 How Lily feels about OTV  27:30 Lily got her drivers license  31:54 Lily’s perspective on improv  32:57 Picking our Mt. Rushmore  38:20 How Lily become friends with Toast 39:55 Writing letters to our future self  42:20 Lilys present vocaloids in college  43:50 Lily makes Yvonne uncomfy again  46:30 Memories in the old OTV house 47:40 Mi fan the cat  49:45 KISS MARRY KILL YVONNE EDITION 59:17 Coachella FOMO  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  We got SWATTED and it didn't end well... | EP 41 | We Were Fighting Before This 16.04.2026 58min

  Today we're revealing our secret reddit accounts and sharing the times OTV got swatted...  Timestamps:  00:00 intro  00:30 Chappell Roan drama…  5:09 Production on P**N shoots  6:44 Choosing a career of fame  9:01 Feeling bad about fan interactions 12:21 Genz phrases  15:50 Yvonnes stays over at Toast’s place 18:28 Do we have an ALT account  19:51 The dark side of clip farming  21:38 Toast and car accidents  23:45 Yvonne’s car accident  25:30 If you get hit by a WAYMO  28:18 Chelsea’s car accident  32:03 Do women have it easier on the road 33:55 Toast’s sisters accident  35:28 Is pretty privilege real?  36:37 We got SWATTED  39:52 Do guys get “pretty privilege”?  43:57 Is EVERYONE pretty?  45:47 Age of attraction  48:43 Toast has advice from his relationship 51:46 Are we settling?  54:33 Yvonne will give us updates!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Why Toast Left LA | EP 40 | We Were Fighting Before This 09.04.2026 1h 7min

  Toast opens up about leaving his friendships in LA, Yvonne reconnects with an ex, and we tackle the hard question of if we could actually be sugar babies or OnlyFans creators? Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:30 Saddest time in Yvonne’s life  5:15 Toast breaks down  9:18 Toast on leaving his friends  12:06 Yvonne on reconnecting with her ex 15:05 Putting in effort in friendships  16:20 Does Chelsea understand Toast  17:05 Toast’s shows effort for others 21:41 Does Yvonne honored?  23:10 People think Toast hates them   26:21 AMOG of OTV 30:24 How females perceived online 34:17 Switching genders  36:00 Upsides of being a woman  38:15 Toast’s niece  39:20 Trad wives & girl boss  46:00 Could Toast be a “trad wife”  49:38 When your SO doesn't help you 51:21 Could we be sugar babies  56:45 If your SO is on OF  1:01:36 How much would you pay for our OF Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Setting up Scarra with his DREAM girl | EP 39 | We Were Fighting Before This 02.04.2026 1h 12min

  The Don returns! Scarra is back on the pod and this time we're on a mission to find his DREAM girl ✨ Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:45 Scarra started this podcast 5:53 Toast doesn’t consume Asian media  6:28 Internal racism  7:25 Hard love on kids  11:30 Spoiled kids  13:45 When does Scarra want kids  15:55 Chelsea’s friends for Scarra  20:10 Tennis date for Scarra  21:45 Rejection therapy  22:23 Yvonne and Leslie’s double date  23:18 Apps are a humiliation ritual  24:48 Breaking norms  27:05 Polycules / 3 sums  29:58 Kiss, Mary, Kill !!!  47:00 Scarra on being judged 49:32 First dates and ending it  54:02 Cannot stay friends  54:55 Scarra’s price as a Sugar baby  59:03 More expensive to have a GF or a sugar baby? 1:00:02 Sugar baby experiences  1:02:27 Sexy clubs  1:05:27 Falling in love with a stripper  1:06:42 The setup…  1:07:40 Helping Yvonne out  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices