Self Love Chats: Money Mindset & Personal Growth for Ambitious Women

Epizodes

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  The Real Reason You Self Sabotage Right When Life Gets Good 18.08.2026 42min

  Why do you self sabotage right when life finally starts to get good? That is exactly what we are getting into in this episode of Self Love Chats.Have you ever noticed that the second things start going your way, a healthy relationship, your business finally growing, a little bit of peace, you somehow find a way to pull back from it? You procrastinate, you overthink, you pick a fight, or you quietly convince yourself it is too good to be true. That is self sabotage, and in this episode Teresa and Shakeisha get honest about why it loves to show up right when you start to succeed.We talk about why self sabotage is not laziness and not a discipline problem, it is protection. If you have spent years in survival mode, your nervous system learned that unpredictable was normal, so peace, success, and even healthy love can start to feel unfamiliar, and your brain does not know the difference between unfamiliar and dangerous. We get into the fear that hides behind your intuition, why a big number can feel so scary, and the real reason you self sabotage, which is that part of you is not yet convinced you get to keep the good thing.Shakeisha also walks you through a simple embodiment practice to teach your body that it is safe to receive, and we leave you with one small Becoming Her challenge for the week.If you are ready to break this pattern, we dropped the free Dream Life Framework in the description. Tap the link and grab it, and it will walk you through the first steps so you stop pulling back right when things start working: https://shemanifestsmoney.com/dream-lifeSend this episode to a friend who needs to hear that the good in her life is safe to keep. And if this helped you even a little, like it, subscribe, and rate us five stars, because it helps us reach new women who need these conversations too.Ways to Connect with us: Instagram: @TheTeresaBoyce | @Fit_With_KeishBecoming Her Community
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  Why Does Becoming Better Feel Like Losing Something? (The Grief No One Warns You About) 11.08.2026 32min

  Nobody warns you that becoming a new woman means grieving the old one. When you hear the word grief you think somebody died or a relationship ended. But there is a quieter grief almost nobody talks about, and that is grieving the version of yourself you have outgrown.In this episode, Teresa and Shakeisha get honest about the part of personal growth no one prepares you for. The people pleaser who kept you safe. The woman who overworked so she never got let down. The one who carried everything alone so she never had to need anybody. Those women got you here, and letting them go, even when you chose it, does not always feel good on the way through.We talk about why so many women start growing and then quietly pull themselves back, why growth feels lonely before it feels freeing, and how to thank the old you without asking her to run your life anymore.This week's Becoming Her challenge is to write a letter to the version of yourself you are leaving behind. Thank her for what she carried, forgive her for what she did not know yet, and celebrate her for getting you this far. Then write one line at the bottom welcoming the woman you are becoming.Today's truth: you do not have to become someone else to become her. She was under there the whole time, waiting for you to put down everything that was covering her.Grab the free 5 Minute Her Activation Ritual. It is a simple daily practice to help you reconnect with yourself and start moving through your day as the woman you are becoming: https://shemanifestsmoney.com/5-minuteNext week we get into why you self-sabotage right when life finally gets good.
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  You'll Never Feel Ready (And Why That's Not the Problem) 04.08.2026 41min

  You'll never feel ready. And in this episode we're telling you why that is actually good news.If you're the woman who has the idea, maybe even bought the course or the domain, and you're still waiting to start, waiting to launch, waiting to post the thing, this one is for you. We were her too.Teresa opens up about her start and stop cycle, launching thing after thing, making a little money on each one, and never letting a single thing grow up because going all in felt too scary. Shakeisha shares how she kept saying "I can't" when what she really meant was "I'm scared." And together we get into the truth nobody told us. Confidence does not come first. It comes after you take the action. You do not wait to feel ready. You become her by doing the scared thing over and over until your body finally believes it.We talk about perfectionism and how it usually sounds responsible but is really just fear, why self trust gets built by keeping tiny promises to yourself, and the one small action you can take this week to start feeling like her.If you have been waiting to feel ready, let this be your sign. Take the free Roadmap quiz and find the one thing keeping you stuck: https://shemanifestsmoney.com/roadmapNext week we're going somewhere tender. Becoming her means grieving the old you.
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  What Being the Strong Friend Is Costing You 28.07.2026 11min

  Being the strong friend feels like a compliment until you realize you're the one who never gets held. In this episode we're talking about the woman everybody leans on. The one who always has it handled, who never asks for anything, who carries it all and calls it strength. We've both been her, and we're saying the quiet part out loud: being strong doesn't mean carrying everything alone. Receiving support doesn't make you weak, it makes you human. And self love isn't only what you pour out, it's what you let yourself receive.We get honest about what being the strong friend is actually costing you, whether that's your peace, your rest, or the connection you're secretly craving. We even get into our own struggle with staying consistent in our business, and how having one person who checks in on you changes everything. Then we leave you with one small challenge: ask for help one time this week. Just once.If you don't have that person in your corner, that's exactly why we built the free Becoming Her community. We'll be the friend who reaches out and asks if you're okay. Come join us: https://lupv8jnutsxjntrqxlpe.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/becoming-her-commmuiny/home?invite=6a68d333a673e93ce90fe22fThis week's reflection: what is being the strong friend costing you?
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  The Poverty Mindset Isn't About Money 21.07.2026 28min

  When you hear poverty mindset you probably think broke. It is not that.This week we get into the poverty mindset, and it has almost nothing to do with your bank account. It is scarcity. And once you see it, you see it everywhere. In your relationships. In your confidence. In your dreams. In whether you actually let the people around you support you.Teresa is still learning this one in real time too. She was driving home from a custody pickup studying it the whole way there and back. So this is not us preaching from a stage. It is two friends working it out out loud.We get into the scarcity statements women say without even noticing (I can't afford that, I don't have enough time, that's not for people like me), why fear is really just false evidence appearing real, and the thing almost nobody admits: we are not scared of failing. We are scared of becoming the woman we have been praying to be.Sit with this one after you listen. Where in your life are you settling because you believe there is not enough?Come go deeper with us inside the Becoming Her community: https://lupv8jnutsxjntrqxlpe.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/becoming-her-commmuiny/home?invite=6a5f9120df25cbea3af3c950
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  You're Not Lazy, You're Exhausted 14.07.2026 15min

  You keep calling yourself lazy. But what if you're not lazy at all? What if you're just tired in a way sleep can't fix?In this episode, Teresa and Shakeisha get honest about the lie so many women were handed: that your worth is tied to how much you produce. So you keep going. And going. Until your body finally makes the decision your mind refused to.Shakeisha shares the surgery that forced her to stop, and how she realized she'd been confusing discipline with abandoning herself. Teresa talks about the moment everything starts feeling like an emergency, and what that's really telling her.They get into the signs you're burned out and not lazy, the guilt that shows up the second you sit down, and why rest is not a reward you earn after the list is done. Rest is part of becoming her.If you've been running on fumes and calling it commitment, this one is for you.Make sure to follow and leave a review if this conversation was helpful for you.
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  What Survival Mode Actually Is (And Why You're Stuck In It) 07.07.2026 18min

  You're not lazy. You're not behind. You've been in survival mode so long you forgot there was another way to live.In the first real episode of Self Love Chats, Teresa and Shakeisha break down what survival mode actually is, why it keeps you stuck, and what it looks like to start walking out of it. Not the bubble bath version. The honest one.We talk about why you can't stay consistent when you're just trying to get through the day, why rest feels impossible, and the small shifts that helped us stop surviving and start actually living.This is a self love, money mindset, and personal growth podcast for women who are tired of running on empty and ready to choose themselves. We're two friends who clawed our way out of survival mode, and we're still becoming her, right alongside you.If you've been feeling stuck, exhausted, and meant for more, this one is for you.New episodes every Tuesday. Follow so you never miss one.Take the free Dream Life Roadmap quiz: https://shemanifestsmoney.com/roadmap
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  Self Love Chats: The Show for Women Ready to Get Out of Survival Mode 30.06.2026 12min

  Welcome to Self Love Chats. This is the podcast where choosing yourself stops being a someday and becomes a today.We are Teresa and Shakeisha, two friends who clawed our way out of survival mode and are still becoming her, right alongside you. We have been having these conversations since 2021. On the phone, on the couch, voice notes back and forth, talking through the real stuff. One day we realized other women needed to be in this conversation too. So here we are.We are not therapists. We are not gurus on a mountaintop who have it all figured out. Teresa brings the mindset and identity side, the work of getting out of survival mode and building a life on purpose. Shakeisha brings the body and energy side, the breath work, mirror work, tapping, and movement that make the shift real instead of just an idea you understood for a day.This is not the bubble bath version of self love. We love a bubble bath. But real self love is bigger than that. It is being honest about where you are. It is choosing yourself even when it is uncomfortable. It is learning to stop abandoning yourself in your relationships, in your work, in your own head.Every week we take one real life challenge, the stuff you are actually dealing with, and we answer one question. What does self love look like right here. People pleasing, self sabotage, money, body changes, motherhood, burnout, starting over. And not just talking about it. The actual practices to shift it.This show is for the ambitious woman who knows she wants more, or just wants something different than what she has right now, and does not know where to start. If you are tired of surviving and ready to start becoming, pull up a seat. You are one of us now.New episodes drop every Tuesday. Follow or subscribe right now so you never miss one.Grab the 5-Minute Her Activation Ritual: https://shemanifestsmoney.com/5-minute