Jillian on Love

Epizodes

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  How To Break The Cycle Of Anxious Attachment 27.07.2026 29min

  If you constantly find yourself chasing emotionally unavailable people or bringing overwhelming anxiety into your relationships, this episode is for you. Jillian breaks down why we stay stuck in painful patterns, how fear disguises itself as chemistry, and why true security starts with learning to meet your own emotional needs. She also shares practical ways to self-soothe, communicate from a grounded place, and finally stop abandoning yourself in the pursuit of love. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The #1 Mistake You Can Make On A First Date 20.07.2026 39min

  Why do some first dates never turn into second dates? And why do so many people shut down when relationships get hard? Jillian answers two listener questions that reveal what actually creates attraction, why chemistry is often misunderstood, and how to stop letting fear sabotage the relationships you want most. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  People Can Only Meet You Where They Are 13.07.2026 47min

  Why do we spend so much time trying to explain someone else's behavior? In this episode, Jillian shares the mindset shift that can instantly change the way you experience dating and relationships: people can only meet you where they are mentally and emotionally. She explores why rejection isn't always personal, why trying to rescue someone's potential only leads to heartbreak, and how accepting people as they are—not as you hope they'll become—is one of the greatest acts of self-respect. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Can A Relationship Survive Bad Sex? 06.07.2026 31min

  What do you do when you meet someone who seems perfect… but the sex is terrible? It's one of the hardest dating questions to admit out loud: Can a relationship survive without physical chemistry, or is attraction something you can't force? In this episode, I answer a listener's question about disappointing intimacy with an otherwise incredible partner, and why you never have to choose between emotional compatibility and physical connection. We also talk about what it means when someone suddenly changes their mind about marriage and children after years together, why those breakups rarely happen "out of nowhere," and whether a major financial imbalance should be a dealbreaker later in life. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  5 Habits That Quietly Destroy Every Relationship 29.06.2026 44min

  Most relationships don't end because of one big mistake—they slowly fall apart through small habits we rarely notice. In this episode, Jillian reveals the behaviors that quietly destroy trust, the qualities that matter most in a partner, the biggest misconceptions about finding "the one," and the mindset shifts that create healthy, lasting love. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Dating an Avoidant 22.06.2026 39min

  You sent in the questions, and Jillian hand-picked three conversations that uncover what so many people struggle with in love. Is your jealousy really insecurity—or are your needs simply not being met? How do you stop blaming yourself after a breakup? And what happens when the person you love doesn't want the same future you do? Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Are We Doomed to Lose Attraction to Our Partner? 15.06.2026 32min

  Ready to go deeper? Join the Conscious Woman membership for exclusive content, coaching, and community to help you get the love you want. Link in shownotes. https://jillianturecki.com/membership?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=conscious-woman  Why do so many couples end up feeling like roommates instead of lovers? In this episode, Jillian explains why passion naturally changes in long-term relationships—and what you can do to bring it back. From stress and routine to losing your individuality, she shares the simple shifts that help keep attraction, desire, and connection alive for years to come. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The Sign It's Time To Let Them Go 08.06.2026 41min

  We're trying something new. We asked you to send in your relationship questions—and you delivered. In these listener call-in episodes, Jillian personally listens to your submissions and hand-picks a few to answer on the show. In this episode, she tackles questions about attachment styles, trusting your intuition while dating, letting go of someone who won't fully choose you, and what it really means when someone says, "my feelings changed." These may not be your questions, but there's a good chance you'll see yourself in the answers. Ready to go deeper? Join the Conscious Woman membership for exclusive content, coaching, and community to help you get the love you want. Link in shownotes. https://jillianturecki.com/membership?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=conscious-woman  Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Stop Abandoning Yourself for Unavailable People 01.06.2026 40min

  Why do so many people ignore what they already know deep down in their relationships? In this episode, Jillian explores the difference between anxiety and intuition, the red flags people rationalize away, and the green flags that actually matter when building healthy love. She breaks down the questions you need to ask before ending a relationship, why feeling unwanted or emotionally unsafe changes your nervous system, and how chemistry alone can keep you trapped in painful cycles. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The 5 Red and Green Flags You Can’t Ignore 25.05.2026 44min

  Everyone talks about red flags. But what about the green flags that actually matter? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the difference between anxiety, chemistry, emotional safety, and real compatibility—and why so many people stay stuck chasing people who are unsure about them. She shares the relationship patterns that keep people attached to emotionally unavailable partners, the signs you should never ignore, and the 5 green flags that healthy relationships are built on. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Why You Stay Attached To Someone Unavailable 18.05.2026 30min

  Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  This episode is for anyone stuck in the painful in-between of a situationship, mixed signals, or feeling emotionally invested in someone who won’t fully choose them. Jillian breaks down why so many people settle for uncertainty, over-function to keep a connection alive, and mistake anxiety for chemistry. She explains how fear of rejection can lead people to abandon their own needs, silence themselves, and stay attached to the fantasy of who someone could be instead of facing the reality of who they are. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Why Dating Feels Emotionally Exhausting 11.05.2026 35min

  If you've ever felt completely fine when you're single—confident, healed, grounded—and then watched all of that fall apart the moment you actually liked someone, this episode is for you. Relationship anxiety isn't just anxious attachment. It's the fear of not being good enough, the fear of being left, and the weight of expecting one person to meet every need your life is missing. Jillian breaks down the real symptoms (the obsessing, the catastrophizing, the midnight doubt spirals), why your nervous system is doing it on purpose, and the belief systems that are quietly running your love life from underneath. Most importantly, she shares the shift that changes everything: when your life is already meaningful, a partner becomes someone you want—not someone you desperately need. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  5 Reasons You Feel “Chemistry” With the Wrong Person 04.05.2026 33min

  Why do you keep falling for the wrong person—even when you know better? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five real reasons we choose partners who can’t meet us, from unresolved childhood patterns to moving too fast when chemistry hits. She challenges the idea of “soulmates” and explains why love isn’t something you find—it’s something you consciously build. If you’ve ever questioned your patterns in dating, this episode will help you understand them—and finally change them. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  Should You Stay or Leave? The Truth About When NOT to Break Up 27.04.2026 42min

  Thinking about leaving your relationship? Before you do, Jillian challenges the idea that walking away is always the strongest move. She breaks down when staying—and doing the deeper work—is actually the more courageous choice, and how to tell the difference between a relationship that’s truly wrong and one that’s asking you to grow. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  You Can’t Make Someone Love You 20.04.2026 39min

  You can’t convince someone to love you—and the more you try, the more you lose yourself. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the painful truth about chasing someone who won’t choose you, and why holding on hurts more than letting go. She shares how to recognize when a relationship has run its course, how to stop overgiving in situationships, and what it really means to choose yourself. If you’ve been stuck hoping someone will change their mind, this is the shift you need to finally move forward. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  From Avoidant to Secure: How to Overcome Your Fear of Conflict with Dean Graziosi 13.04.2026 1h 8min

  What if the reason your relationships aren’t working… has more to do with you than you think? In this conversation, I sit down with Dean Graziosi for a deeply honest look at the patterns we carry into love—often without realizing it. We talk about what it actually means to take 100% responsibility for your past, how childhood experiences quietly shape the way you show up in conflict, and why avoiding hard conversations will always cost you connection. Dean shares the moment that changed everything for him—the shift from asking “what do I want in a partner?” to “who do I need to become to attract that?” Join Dean and Tony’s free AI Advantage Summit, April 23-25: https://aiadvantagesummit.com/rsvp-now  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  How To Heal Your Inner Child with Dr. Nicole LePera 06.04.2026 55min

  Jillian sits down with Dr. Nicole LePera to talk about her new book Reparenting the Inner Child and the powerful ways our past shapes how we think, feel, and relate to others. They explore how childhood experiences live in the nervous system, why so many people feel stuck in patterns they don’t understand, and what it really means to heal instead of just coping. Dr. Nicole explains functional freeze, emotional regulation, boundaries, and how reparenting yourself can change the way you show up in relationships, work, and everyday life. Buy Dr. Nicole’s new book, Reparenting the Inner Child: The New Science of Our Oldest Wounds and How to Heal Them Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  No One Gets Away With Betrayal 31.03.2026 22min

  When someone betrays you, it’s easy to believe they get to move on with their life while you’re left carrying the pain. In this episode, Jillian challenges that belief and explains why no one truly “gets away” with the harm they cause—because the psyche always remembers. She explores how unresolved guilt, shame, and avoidance show up in our bodies, relationships, and mental health, and why letting go of the story about someone else is one of the most powerful steps toward your own healing. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The Difference Between Pursuing and Chasing 23.03.2026 57min

  In this coaching session, Jillian helps a listener untangle what he thought was anxious attachment and reveals what may actually be happening instead: he’s getting emotionally invested before a real relationship has even begun. She breaks down the difference between pursuing and chasing, why texting can create a false sense of intimacy, and how to stop wasting energy on people who aren’t truly showing up. This episode is also a powerful reminder that the more alive, engaged, and fulfilled you feel in your own life, the less likely you are to confuse attention with connection. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  The 7 Habits of Happy Couples 16.03.2026 33min

  What actually makes a relationship healthy—and why do so many couples miss the basics? In this episode, Jillian shares the seven principles that keep love alive, from the way you talk about your partner to the small daily habits that build connection, intimacy, and trust. Inspired by a viral post that criticized a spouse online, she breaks down why respect, praise, physical touch, honest conversations about sex, and protecting your relationship from outside distractions matter more than grand romantic gestures. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices