Because We Said So

Epizodes

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  Can You Have It All? 09.09.2026 1h 24min

  In this episode, we talk about what “having it all” really means. Can we have a successful career, a happy relationship, a family, money, peace and everything else we want in life? And if we can, does it all have to happen at the same time?We also catch up on what’s happening in pop culture, including the recent drama of AirLink flyover, MAFS, Love Island USA reunion and more!Because We Said So has been nominated for a South African Social Media Award! Please vote for us using the link below.https://sasma.co.za/podcast-of-the-year/
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  Dating For Love or Dating For Money? 02.09.2026 1h 17min

  On this week’s episode, we’re asking the big questions. Do we date for love, money, stability, lifestyle, or maybe a bit of everything?We also catch up on what’s happening in pop culture, including MAFS,  Joey Bada$$, Dolly Parton and of course BWSS being nominated for podcast of the year.Thank you to every single bwsstie who has been voting for us. We really appreciate every vote and all your support.If you haven’t voted yet, you can vote for Because We Said So using the link below:https://sasma.co.za/podcast-of-the-year/
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  Holding Space While Holding You Accountable 26.08.2026 1h 26min

  This week on Because We Said So, we’re talking all things friendship, giving grace, setting boundaries, having difficult conversations and knowing when to hold your friends accountable. We also chat about how our friendships change as we get older, what we will and won’t tolerate anymore.We also get into our Pop Culture Rewind, from the latest MAFS drama and the 32nd SAMA Awards with some of our favourite looks. Plus, we’re celebrating 100K subscribers with an exciting giveaway!  To enter, comment below on this episode with your Instagram handle, the hashtag #BWSS100KGiveaway, and let us know what you think about the episode. Lastly, make sure you’re following BWSS on our Instagram and TikTok account. Winners will be announced on 2 September. Good luck bwsstie! 
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  Answering Your Dilemmas 19.08.2026 1h 13min

  On this week’s episode of Because We Said So, we’re getting into another round of dilemmas, and our bwssties definitely gave us a lot to unpack!We also have another Pop Culture Rewind, where we chat about the latest season of Married at First Sight South Africa, Plus, we’re talking all things Basadi in Music Awards 5th Edition, celebrating women in the entertainment industry, from the awards and categories to some of our favourite looks.  
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  The Pressure To Be Excellent ft. Amanda Du-Pont 12.08.2026 1h 1min

  In this episode of Because We Said So, we sit down with actress, presenter, entrepreneur and one of Africa’s most influential digital creators, Amanda Du-Pont, for an honest conversation about the pressure to be excellent as Black women.From building a career in entertainment to pivoting into business and entrepreneurship, we unpack the pressures that come with success, reinvention, and redefining what excellence looks like for ourselves.
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  The Journey To Womanhood 05.08.2026 1h 25min

  As we step into Women’s Month, we’re unpacking what it really means to be a woman. From the expectations we grew up with to redefining strength, softness, success, and self-worth on our own terms, we’re reflecting on the lessons that have shaped us, while also partnering with Kotex to continue an important conversation around periods and breaking the stigma through the “Say It Out”movement. Because womanhood includes every part of the journey, and no conversation should be off limits. We also kick off the episode with our Pop Culture Rewind, where we share our thoughts on Tyla’s new album, Nonhle’s viral 947 interview and reflect on this year’s Glamour’s Most Glamorous Awards. 
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  Are Men Female Centered? Ft. Dj pH 29.07.2026 1h 18min

  This week on Because We Said So, we’re joined by one of South Africa’s biggest hip-hop DJs, 5FM radio host, content creator, and the founder of PHOLA, DJ PH. We unpack one of the internet’s most talked-about conversations: Are men female centered?Do men build their lives around attracting women? Does success, status, and money influence dating more than we’d like to admit?With DJ PH joining us as our honorary male bwsstie for the episode, we finally get to hear the male perspective on these conversations while sharing our own thoughts too. 
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  Should We Be Posting Kids Online? 22.07.2026 1h 13min

  This week on Because We Said So, we’re unpacking one of the internet’s biggest parenting debates. Should parents post their children online? We’re also getting into all the pop culture moments from Jay-Z taking over the Yankee Stadium to Brandy coming to South Africa, plus all the latest Love Island USA and MAFS SA recap. Plus, we're bringing you another round of our Sip Happens segment in partnership with L’Orange Rossa Brutal Fruit Spritzer. Not for persons under the age of 18. Enjoy responsibly. 
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  100K Special! The Truth About Working With Friends 15.07.2026 1h 20min

  Because We Said So has officially hit 100K subscribers! To celebrate, we're hosting 18 bwssties for an exclusive dinner at Ce La Vi, Sandton, on 24 July, and we'd love for you to join us!To enter:-Subscribe to our YouTube channel.-Follow us on all of our BWSS social media platforms.-Find your favourite BWSS Instagram Reel, repost it to your Instagram Story, tag us, and use the hashtag #BWSS100K. In this week's special episode, we kick things off with our Pop Culture Rewind, where we chat all things Durban July, our favourite looks, and the latest reality TV from Married at First Sight Mzansi to Love Island USA. We also dive into a conversation we've touched on at GRYND — which is the reality of working with your friend. From boundaries and business to money, conflict, and what it really takes to build something meaningful together. 
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  The "Pick Me" Problem 08.07.2026 1h 26min

  On this week’s episode of Because We Said So, we’re unpacking all things pick-me culture, internalized misogyny and explore where these behaviours come from. We also catch up on the latest in pop culture, including our first live show at YFM GRYND 2026, Bafana Bafana’s loss, the latest Love Island USA couples and more! The financial segment is brought to you by Metropolitan, whose No-Lapse Funeral Growth Plan is made with freelancers and gig workers in mind. To find out more or sign up, WhatsApp “NoLapse” to 0860 724 724. #nolapse Disclaimer: The information shared during this financial segment is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered financial advice. Please consult a qualified financial adviser. Don’t forget to join us and our bwssties in Bali trip — click the link below: Link: https://luxetribes.com/trips/bwssties-in-  
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  Choosing You Without Losing Them 01.07.2026 1h 21min

  In this week’s episode, we unpack living for your family’s approval in your 20s. We talk about what it means to try meet family expectations, and what it can actually cost you.We also get into a quick pop culture recap, from Love Island USA, Aaliyah’s face pregnancy announcement to Andile the calculator.Of course we once again have a fun edition to our episode called Sip Happens, in partnership with L’Orange Rossa by Brutal Fruit Spritzer. If you haven’t yet, here is the link to register for the 2026 local government elections: https://registertovote.elections.org.za/voter/registration/zaDon’t forget to join us on our bwssties in Bali trip—click the link below to find out more:Link: https://luxetribes.com/trips/bwssties-in-bali/This episode is proudly sponsored by L’Orange Rossa by Brutal Fruit Spritzer. Not for persons under the age of 18. Enjoy responsibly.
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  The Polygamist, Love Island & Everything In Between 24.06.2026 1h 15min

  This week’s episode is all about pop culture. We’re getting into everything from South Africa’s trending series named The Polygamist to Love Island USA to the FIFA World Cup. We also unpack and some of the upcoming concerts heading to South Africa such as Kehlani and Neyo. And of course, we have our Sip Happens segment, in partnership with L’Orange Rossa by Brutal Fruit where we also share an exciting opportunity for you to win a paid trip to Milan. To enter - click the link below to find out more details. https://tr.ee/0gLgDKcQ7yDon’t forget to join us and our bwssties in Bali trip — click the link below:  https://luxetribes.com/trips/bwssties-in-  
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  Is "Good on Paper" Good Enough? 17.06.2026 1h 3min

  In this week’s episode of Because We Said So, we’re talking about what happens when someone checks all the boxes on paper, but you’re still not sure if they’re the right person for you. To spice things up, we’ve also decided to play a game of This or That: Jolaring Edition Don’t forget to join us and our bwssties in Bali trip — using the link below: Link: https://luxetribes.com/trips/bwssties-in-
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  Dilemma Diaries 10.06.2026 54min

  In this week’s episode of Because We Said So, we dive into the dilemmas our bwssties have been facing. From advice about family to work and relationships, there’s nothing that’s off the table.  Want to join us and our bwssties in Bali? Click on the link in our bio.
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  How to Survive The Girl's Trip 03.06.2026 1h 17min

  We’re talking all things group travel—from chaotic group chats and money talks to personalities and unspoken expectations. And if you’ve been dreaming of your next girls’ trip, Bwssties in Bali is calling!  Bring your bestie or come make new ones and join us. Sip Happens is back, in partnership with L’Orange Rossa by Brutal Fruit. Not for persons under 18. Please enjoy responsibly.
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  Should Friends Match Your Aesthetic? 27.05.2026 1h 15min

  From navigating whether female friendships are performative to unpacking influencer friendships and whether they are transactional, this episode explores friendships as the main conversation. Our Sip Happens segment is back again in partnership with L’Orange by Brutal Fruit, alongside our pop culture rewind covering everything from Top Billing auditions, Drake’s latest album, and the viral Kevin Hart roast. This episode is proudly sponsored by L’Orange by Brutal Fruit. Not for persons under the age of 18. Enjoy responsibly.
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  Made by Africa, Loved by The World ft. Linda Mtoba 22.05.2026 1h 2min

  In celebration of Africa Day and as part of Facebook’s Made by Africa, Loved by the World campaign, we sit down with award-winning actress, influencer, and entrepreneur Linda Mtoba. From Isibaya and The River to Queendom, Linda reflects on her journey in the entertainment industry, building authentic community online, and the power of African storytelling in the digital age. Sit back and enjoy bwssties!
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  Made by Africa, Loved by The World ft. Nomzamo Mbatha 20.05.2026 1h 27min

  In this Africa Day special in collaboration with Facebook, we sit down with Nomzamo Mbatha to talk about what it means to be Made by Africa, Loved by the World. From her early journey in entertainment to starring in global productions like Coming 2 America and reconnecting with her roots through Shaka iLembe, Nomzamo opens up about identity, ambition, community, and the realities of building an international career as an African creative.
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  365 days of BWSS. 13.05.2026 1h 25min

  Because We Said So turns ONE! In this special anniversary episode, we reflect on the highs and lows of building the podcast from scratch, introduce our new Sip Happens segment with L’Orange by Brutal Fruit, and get into some pop culture moments including the Met Gala, The Devil Wears Prada SA premiere, and the Michael Jackson movie review. Not for persons under the age of 18. Enjoy responsibly.
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  Is Closure A Scam? 06.05.2026 1h 22min

  This week on Because We Said So, we’re asking: is closure a scam or do we actually need it to move on? We talk relationships, ghosting, and why unanswered questions hit so hard. Plus, The Trials of Winnie Mandela, Metro FM Awards highlights, and Megan Thee Stallion’s breakup