The Affair Recovery Podcast

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• Ep. 016 | How to Heal the Anger That Won’t Let Go After Infidelity 08.06.2026 50мин

  The rage that comes after infidelity can make you feel like you've become someone you don't recognize, capable of words, actions, and emotional spirals you never thought possible. In Episode 16, our expert therapists, joined by EMS Weekend Clinical Contributor Brett Hart, LPC, open up with their own deeply personal stories of breaking down in anger and what they learned in the journey through it. If you're feeling stuck in anger you can't seem to shake, or watching it come out sideways in pla...
• Ep. 015 | Therapy, Groups, and Intensives: What Actually Works After an Affair? 25.05.2026 1ч 2мин

  Not all therapy is created equal – and after an affair, finding the right kind of help can feel like searching in the dark. In Episode 15, our expert therapists are joined by special guest, Candace, to talk about what quality care actually looks like and what to think about the rising trend of AI therapy. We live in a world overflowing with content — but discover why community is what actually heals. Learn what to look for in a therapist trained specifically for infidelity recovery and betray...
• Bonus Episode | The Hidden Cause of Affairs: Finding Answers with Jay Stringer 20.05.2026 50мин

  Whether your desires led you to regret, or you're grieving desires that have gone unmet because of someone else's choices — your relationship with desire is closer to the center of your recovery than you might think. In this bonus episode, therapist and author Jay Stringer unpacks his new book Desire and why curiosity, not condemnation, is the path through. Discover what our desires are actually trying to tell us about our story, our wounds, and our path to healingHear about the hidden cause ...
• Ep. 014 | Top Barriers to Recovery: When Pain Doesn't Fade, Trickle Truth, and Healing Without the Full Story 11.05.2026 50мин

  Recovery after infidelity rarely follows a clean path and sometimes the very things meant to bring healing become the barriers to it. In Episode 14, our expert therapists answer real listener questions on the most painful obstacles to healing – including trauma, trust, trickle truth and affair partners. Hear why pain that should be fading still feels fresh — and what severe trauma actually requires to healLearn how to navigate trickle truth, affair partners who are family members, and the whi...
• Ep. 013 | Being Stuck In the Pain, Grief and Loss of the Betrayal 27.04.2026 1ч 2мин

  The pain of infidelity is like no other — and what you do with it shapes the rest of your life. In Episode 13, our expert therapists unpack why time alone doesn't heal this kind of wound and reveal the step most people miss on the path to true healing. Discover why "time heals all wounds" is a myth when it comes to the pain of infidelityLearn about the unique, lonely grief of betrayal — the kind there's no Hallmark card forFind the difference between grieving the loss and actually mourning it...
• Ep. 012 | Does Porn Count As Cheating? Rediscovering True Intimacy 13.04.2026 58мин

  If you’ve discovered your spouse is using porn, you might be asking if your pain is valid or if it’s "really" infidelity. You’re not alone. In episode 12, our expert therapists dive into this painful tension. Whether you are struggling with a long-term addiction, a different type of infidelity altogether, or wondering if recovery looks different for porn than a physical affair, we offer a path for you to find true intimacy—perhaps even for the very first time. Hear how porn is a "sanitized" y...
• Ep. 011 | Is My Spouse Being Honest? Truth, Lies & Polygraphs 30.03.2026 1ч 4мин

  Reaching "ground zero" is the only way to build a new relationship after the old one has crumbled—but how do you know if your spouse is finally telling the whole truth? In Episode 11, Peter F Daniels III (MSEE, LCSW-S, CSAT) joins our experts to navigate the complex world of disclosure and discovery, helping both the betrayed and the unfaithful reach a solid foundation and begin rebuilding something new. We explore: The trauma of “trickle truth” and the clinical role of polygraphs in disclosu...
• Ep. 010 | The #1 Question: WHY Did the Affair Happen? 16.03.2026 50мин

  The question of "WHY" is often the greatest source of anguish for couples reeling from infidelity, yet it can also be the very path toward lasting healing. While you may never fully comprehend every detail, discovering the "why" is a critical step to getting your life and marriage back. In episode 10, we feature a long time friend and fellow Affair Recovery Clinical Contributor, Jessica McDaniel, LPC-S as she and our other therapists unpack: Understanding the root causes of an affair, a...
• Ep. 009 | You Asked, We Answered: Trauma, Forgiveness & Anxiety 02.03.2026 50мин

  How do you move forward when your marriage feels permanently tainted? Learn to navigate the grief of a shattered past while building a relationship worth staying for. In Episode 9, our experts answer a diverse set of questions: How to forgive, even when your spouse isn’t willing to do the workThe trap and anxiety of comparing yourself to the affair partnerEstablishing relational safety necessary for recoveryPursuing your own healing even when your spouse refuses to do the work👀 WATCH th...
• Bonus Episode: When You Feel Too Far Gone & Finding a Way Back After Multiple D-Days 25.02.2026 58мин

  In this honest interview, you get to hear from the other half of Candace. Her and her husband’s story is a raw, heart-wrenching journey through years of recovery. From the pain of multiple D-Days and a "fraudulent recovery" to the miraculous rebuilding of their marriage, they are a powerful testament to the possibility of healing even from the basement of rock bottom. Candace and her husband are a testament to the power of healing in the community. It wasn’t just the information that ch...
• Ep. 008 | Shame vs. Guilt: Why One Heals and the Other Destroys 16.02.2026 58мин

  In Episode 8, we confront one of the most destructive forces in post-infidelity healing: shame. Our expert therapists break down the critical difference between guilt (“I did something bad”) and shame (“I am bad”). No matter what drives your intrusive "I'm not enough" thoughts, this episode provides handles to begin bringing shame into the light. We tackle raw listener questions about how to move past the dishonor betrayed spouses experience after discoveryWe discern what to do when shame lea...
• Ep. 007 | Six Types of Infidelity: Why the "Type" Changes Everything 02.02.2026 58мин

  Is an emotional affair really "cheating"? Why does "limerence" feel so impossible to break compared to a one-night stand? Does porn count as infidelity? While all of our situations are different, the devastation of betrayal is universal and our experts explain why correctly identifying the type of affair is critical for creating an effective recovery roadmap. Learn about the distinct differences between Emotional Affairs, One-Night Stands, Love Addiction, Sexual Addiction and the often misund...
• Bonus Episode: Dear Unfaithful Spouse 28.01.2026 33мин

  What do you do when the road to recovery takes a tragic, irreversible turn? In this raw and deeply moving interview, Tara shares a personal journey that defies the typical narrative of reconciliation. Her story is not just about the trauma of infidelity but is also a testament to the resilience of the human spirit in the face of absolute darkness. Whether you are approaching a storm, standing in the midst of it, or beginning to see light on the other side, we believe her story will bring hope...
• Ep. 006 | Is Trust Ever Possible After An Affair? 19.01.2026 57мин

  In Episode 6, we explore a question that rattles in the hearts of so many reeling from the pain of infidelity: Is it truly possible to rebuild trust that has been shattered? Whether you are a betrayed partner struggling with the fear of being hurt again or an unfaithful spouse trying to create a sense of safety, this conversation provides a practical roadmap for discovering what trust looks like moving forward. Learn about the three essential rebuilding blocks when trust feels out of reach—ho...
• Ep. 005 | Rediscovering Sex and Intimacy After an Affair 05.01.2026 51мин

  Having sex again after an affair – a vulnerable yet critical topic to explore in what it means to genuinely heal. Whether you are unsure of reengaging sexually, experiencing what is called "hysterical bonding" or feeling stuck after a failed attempt at reconnection, this conversation offers wise counsel to help you move forward without shame. We discuss how to "rewrite the sexual script" We explore how couples can move past intrusive thoughts in the bedroomWe redefine the true goal of in...
• Ep. 004 | Why Did God Let the Affair Happen? 22.12.2025 1ч 8мин

  In this episode, we dive into the muddy waters of faith and infidelity, addressing the profound spiritual crisis that occurs when you feel let down and betrayed by God or burdened by your own unfaithfulness. Whether you’re unsure about spirituality as a whole, wrestling with anger toward the divine, or seeking a path to redemption, this conversation explores the deepest questions we face on our journeys toward restoration. Hear our experts share their own struggles with faith amidst an affair...
• Ep. 003 | Should You Tell? Why The Affair Feels Like A Toxic Secret 10.12.2025 47мин

  It's one of the biggest regrets people have in recovery: how they handled telling their kids, family and friends about the affair. Carrying the secret and shame can feel like a toxic weight, but telling the wrong person can create more trauma for all parties involved. In Episode 3, our expert therapists guide you through this complex question: Who should I talk to about the affair? Find help discerning what to do with that toxic weight.Discover a pre-planned strategy to get the support ...
• Ep. 002 | “Should I Stay?” How to Know If The Marriage is Worth Saving 10.12.2025 53мин

  When infidelity strikes, the question becomes: Can my marriage survive? And if so, how do we save it? In Episode 2, our experts discuss the incredible strength and resilience it takes to fight for a marriage after betrayal. We tackle cultural assumptions like, "once a cheater, always a cheater?" and "If you stay, are you just weak?" Are kids enough of a motivator to stay? Is this marriage worth keeping when one party refuses to change? Can a marriage truly be better after...
• Ep. 001 | Am I Crazy? Signs you are suffering from Betrayal Trauma 10.12.2025 56мин

  Are you hurting, confused, and angry after infidelity, feeling like your world has flipped upside down? You are not crazy—you may be suffering from betrayal trauma, a very real and excruciating pain. In the very first episode of The Affair Recovery Podcast, our expert therapists help you finally understand what betrayal trauma is and isn't. Hear real stories from listeners asking if recovery is truly possibleLearn how to deal with the pain of a "trickle truth"Discover what signs and sym...
• Welcome to The Affair Recovery Podcast 21.11.2025 2мин

  The Affair Recovery Podcast asks listener-submitted questions to our expert therapists who provide the help you need to get unstuck and move forward. While infidelity can be life-shattering, you can get your life back. 📞 +1 (737) 227-5014 Share a question for future episodes ‼️ Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: Understand your situation 🥾 Sign up for the FREE First Steps Bootcamp: Take the first step to heal 👥 Explore Our Courses: Get the support you need to recover ⚠️Disclaimer: Our resources a...